Temmylee01:
well you have answered yourself.

Kaybae:
A situation where by a lady always give in previous relationships but still jilted, do you think such lady will want to help in any relationship she finds herself? I can only condemned that in Marriage.

Truvelisback:
Very rare makes my ans different which suppose not to be so. Why? When only one party gives and the other Party only receives, then it's not balance.

Yusufisraelj:




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Temmylee01:
well my babe dey turn up for me well, just of recent my rent is due and the cash wimme isn't enough I had to borrow from her of wish I might not even give her back but like you said bro some girls won't give even if they have....me on the other hand don't like taking or collecting from my women.

pocohantas:
Go get the assistance from your mother or sisters, those are the women you’ll forever appreciate, not me.

Thanks

Edufurnitures:
what would motivate you to help a guy that is not your boyfriend or your brother?

Quality20:
That's a very valid observation. Many of these women have been conditioned to see men as ppl who shd always be squeezed for money. In fact, so many housewives who earn more than their husbands would always wait for d man bring out money for the slightest thing as a #50 sachet of salt.
Sometimes, one feels that its even better to marry a non career, non- educated, complete housewife than all these rich but stupidly stingy, wicked n greedy women

Truvelisback:
Do u know why many men don't want to open up their struggles? 1. When many ladies notices that u are struggling or what u are earning is lower than what they expect, many will dump u 4 another. Yes, u know 9ja babes na. Only very few ladies would want to do those things she wrote above. And these few people are very rare. And these few are people are likely 30,35 to 40 upwards are likely to or Who feels age or time is no longer on their side. But As 4 the 18,20,23to26 it's rare. I mean very rare.

Truvelisback:
Why is it difficult 4 women to assist men financially? U can easily see Men assisting women financially but rarely see women assisting men financially. Why? Na tradition? Abi na swear? 4rm my experience, a Woman who genuinely loves u would want to assist u financially when the need comes, no matter how little she may be earning. However, these women exist but are very rare to find. Maybe it's because many women rely on men financially.

aragonchuks:
I have a woman like this in my life , she never ask me for nothing and here I am cheating with a Nigerian girl that asks me for money , I like the girl (she squirts) and she is talking to me like she is doing me a favor ..it hurts that im Simping for this girl

Yusufisraelj:



Well you get point ooo but see ba, every guy should train himself to point where he cannot be intimidated by his babe's superior pay, but rather be challenged to see how he can improve on his finances.

Also the now doesn't define a guy, look at this stage of my life though single willing to mingle, I'll never be intimidated by any lady no matter what she earns, bkos I have plans and strategies that even Jeff bezos' daughter can fit into, it's not pride my brother. There's something you know you have. Every guy has something that stands him out. We should learn to find that out.

There's a way you'll work on yourself that your mind and plans is worth billions and your strategy for execution is solid, and even the temporary dislocation in your finances for the time being wouldn't matter to your babe, look ladies can spot potential and responsible men, to some degree you have to give your woman something to respect. It's either you demonstrate the ability to earn dangerously in the future to make your lives better or you love her in way that leaves her mesmerize. Equally I think every guy should do both if they can.

My 1 cent brother.

Truvelisback:
Women will only give u complete respect when they know u are earning better than them but if they are earning better than u, just 4get it.

Truvelisback:
Ur matter get as e bi. So, u prefer the money sucker than the girl in ur life.

aragonchuks:
bro even the matter tire me ,

Truvelisback:
Take the girl in ur life more serious than the girl. E get why.

aragonchuks:
I have a woman like this in my life , she never ask me for nothing and here I am cheating with a Nigerian girl that asks me for money , I like the girl (she squirts) and she is talking to me like she is doing me a favor ..it hurts that im Simping for this girl

vickydankal:
Don't you think it's too harsh to generalize. Some women still go extra mile for their men, at least I still do. There are factors that motivate ladies to help their men.

1. Does he have future plans and ​do you see yourself in his future
2. Does he have a track record of wasting resources
3. Will he be faithful when he hit big
4. What our instinct is telling us
5. What are his plans for the money etc
6. We may not know when they need help.

I believe most ladies will help their guys if the guys open up the more to us to show us the level they are. You can't be struggling and pretending and still us me to come and help you. Mbanu.

Guys it is not a shame to need help. Ask for it when you need it.

valentineuwakwe:
Most women have assisted alot of men in the past especially when they were dating....some will give all, finance and sacrifice to grow there man and waiting for them to come and marry, only for the men to disappoint. Though its vice versa but women still help men who are sincere and show they love them only and willing to keep eye on them only!

vickydankal:
Don't you think it's too harsh to generalize. Some women still go extra mile for their men, at least I still do. There are factors that motivate ladies to help their men.

1. Does he have future plans and ​do you see yourself in his future
2. Does he have a track record of wasting resources
3. Will he be faithful when he hit big
4. What our instinct is telling us
5. What are his plans for the money etc
6. We may not know when they need help.

I believe most ladies will help their guys if the guys open up the more to us to show us the level they are. You can't be struggling and pretending and still us me to come and help you. Mbanu.

Guys it is not a shame to need help. Ask for it when you need it.

Isokoson1:
Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Some women just greedy oooo, e get one girl way I dey date. . I been test run the girl. ..I call her tell her say mehn baby I hook and I need money to buy something to complete the work... Make she borrow me... This baby say she no get, say she broke like hell... But when I go through her phone.. When I come. Back... Baby get like 100k plus for account..nah so I bring talk way no make sense we quarrel I discharge her...