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Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Truvelisback(m): 7:03pm On Jul 04
Why is it difficult 4 women to assist men financially? U can easily see Men assisting women financially but rarely see women assisting men financially. Why? Na tradition? Abi na swear? 4rm my experience, a Woman who genuinely loves u would want to assist u financially when the need comes, no matter how little she may be earning. However, these women exist but are very rare to find. Maybe it's because many women rely on men financially.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by WowSweetGuy(m): 7:05pm On Jul 04
1. Stingy
2. Receiving than giving mentality
3. Self centered species
4. E.t.c

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by vickydankal(f): 7:06pm On Jul 04
Don't you think it's too harsh to generalize. Some women still go extra mile for their men, at least I still do. There are factors that motivate ladies to help their men.

1. Does he have future plans and ​do you see yourself in his future
2. Does he have a track record of wasting resources
3. Will he be faithful when he hit big
4. What our instinct is telling us
5. What are his plans for the money etc
6. We may not know when they need help.

I believe most ladies will help their guys if the guys open up the more to us to show us the level they are. You can't be struggling and pretending and still us me to come and help you. Mbanu.

Guys it is not a shame to need help. Ask for it when you need it.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Lamasta(m): 7:08pm On Jul 04
Its due to their entitlement mentality but not all sha cos some of them do but its quite few

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Mustiboy(m): 7:10pm On Jul 04
Some do assist though.

My ex whom I just broke up with helped a lot of times in the little way that she could. Not necessarily 'help' though, just a show of care and appreciation from the little she got. Her financial status was nowhere near mine.

But, damn, an headache she was.


No girl will have a taste of love from me anytime soon, not even a relationship that could possibly lead to marriage, not in their wildest dreams.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by OlawaleBammie(m): 7:13pm On Jul 04
They would rather be praying for you grin grin


Their predominant unparalleled assistance is dat "i wil be praying for you" grin

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by general111: 7:14pm On Jul 04
My fiancee assist me

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Truvelisback(m): 7:17pm On Jul 04
OlawaleBammie:
They would rather be praying for you grin grin


Their predominant unparalleled assistance is dat "i wil be praying for you" grin
That one na prayer warrior gf/wife.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Isokoson1: 7:18pm On Jul 04
Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Some women just greedy oooo, e get one girl way I dey date. . I been test run the girl. ..I call her tell her say mehn baby I hook and I need money to buy something to complete the work... Make she borrow me... This baby say she no get, say she broke like hell... But when I go through her phone.. When I come. Back... Baby get like 100k plus for account..nah so I bring talk way no make sense we quarrel I discharge her...

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Cholls(m): 7:21pm On Jul 04
general111:
My fiancee assist me

Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Iceyjayzz(m): 7:26pm On Jul 04
If you have a woman that loves you and wish the best for you, she will definitely spend for you.

but if she's the greedy type you won't see one naira, those type of girls are after your money and once they get what they want you will be nothing to them.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by paulolee(m): 7:36pm On Jul 04
they prefare to gv u kpekus and letter ask "after all I have don for u?? like say na only u enjoy d kpekus or maybe dey believe say kpekus dey empower guys financially

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Savedday: 9:17pm On Jul 04
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by bigpicture001: 10:42pm On Jul 04
vickydankal:
Don't you think it's too harsh to generalize. Some women still go extra mile for their men, at least I still do. There are factors that motivate ladies to help their men.

1. Does he have future plans and ​do you see yourself in his future
2. Does he have a track record of wasting resources
3. Will he be faithful when he hit big
4. What our instinct is telling us
5. What are his plans for the money etc
6. We may not know when they need help.

I believe most ladies will help their guys if the guys open up the more to us to show us the level they are. You can't be struggling and pretending and still us me to come and help you. Mbanu.

Guys it is not a shame to need help. Ask for it when you need it.

Babe all this u listed are just mere talk...only age give ladies sense and make them to open their finances to asist their man...when they are younger, they believed a perfect man wouod soon arrive and marry them until they see twenty seven

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by GeneralPula: 10:54pm On Jul 04
A woman will only spend money in a relationship she’s interested in..

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Quality20(m): 11:10pm On Jul 04
That's a very valid observation. Many of these women have been conditioned to see men as ppl who shd always be squeezed for money. In fact, so many housewives who earn more than their husbands would always wait for d man bring out money for the slightest thing as a #50 sachet of salt.
Sometimes, one feels that its even better to marry a non career, non- educated, complete housewife than all these rich but stupidly stingy, wicked n greedy women

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by SmellySperm(m): 11:15pm On Jul 04
They only assist if they see a future in you...
Ogun go strike my ex where ever she is for making me exhaust my love lifeline
Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Theboy21(m): 11:16pm On Jul 04
Blah blah blah blah blah, she will still use that against you one day cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by vickydankal(f): 8:31am On Jul 05
bigpicture001:


Babe all this u listed are just mere talk...only age give ladies sense and make them to open their finances to asist their man...when they are younger, they believed a perfect man wouod soon arrive and marry them until they see twenty seven

Bros don't you think that you should give the few ladies that do some help their guys some credit.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Jesterinjay: 9:13am On Jul 05
vickydankal:
Don't you think it's too harsh to generalize. Some women still go extra mile for their men, at least I still do. There are factors that motivate ladies to help their men.

1. Does he have future plans and ​do you see yourself in his future
2. Does he have a track record of wasting resources
3. Will he be faithful when he hit big
4. What our instinct is telling us
5. What are his plans for the money etc
6. We may not know when they need help.

I believe most ladies will help their guys if the guys open up the more to us to show us the level they are. You can't be struggling and pretending and still us me to come and help you. Mbanu.

Guys it is not a shame to need help. Ask for it when you need it.
With reference to the 1st point,does it mean a lady's giving has a price ? How about men who help ladies without seeing themselves in her future

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by evil1: 9:20am On Jul 05
Their are two sides to this issue

I have had avfair share of this.
Now one of the sides to the issue of a lady or woman helping her man whether in marriage or normal relationship, to most men it might actually help to be a form of motivation to work hard.

But some do it to massage their mans ego and hence he becomes so lazy and used to the woman giving or providing. These ones are on a different level.

I had a relationship where the girl in fact up till today she doesn't give, especially after one of her relationship that her man took advantage and was using her ATM to withdraw cash at will.

Well for me I can't be with someone that is not open to giving whether with me or not.
Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Truvelisback(m): 9:57am On Jul 05
bigpicture001:


Babe all this u listed are just mere talk...only age give ladies sense and make them to open their finances to asist their man...when they are younger, they believed a perfect man wouod soon arrive and marry them until they see twenty seven
U av a valid point, i can relate to this.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Kaybae(f): 3:46pm On Jul 06
A situation where by a lady always give in previous relationships but still jilted, do you think such lady will want to help in any relationship she finds herself? I can only condemned that in Marriage.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Yusufisraelj(m): 4:27pm On Jul 06
vickydankal:
Don't you think it's too harsh to generalize. Some women still go extra mile for their men, at least I still do. There are factors that motivate ladies to help their men.

1. Does he have future plans and ​do you see yourself in his future
2. Does he have a track record of wasting resources
3. Will he be faithful when he hit big
4. What our instinct is telling us
5. What are his plans for the money etc
6. We may not know when they need help.

I believe most ladies will help their guys if the guys open up the more to us to show us the level they are. You can't be struggling and pretending and still us me to come and help you. Mbanu.

Guys it is not a shame to need help. Ask for it when you need it.



OP read this above post five times


Truvelisback:
Why is it difficult 4 women to assist men financially? U can easily see Men assisting women financially but rarely see women assisting men financially. Why? Na tradition? Abi na swear? 4rm my experience, a Woman who genuinely loves u would want to assist u financially when the need comes, no matter how little she may be earning. However, these women exist but are very rare to find. Maybe it's because many women rely on men financially.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by nokspos: 4:45pm On Jul 06
and if they eventually help you, either their love or respect for you will reduce.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by larryking540: 4:46pm On Jul 06
Quality20:
That's a very valid observation. Many of these women have been conditioned to see men as ppl who shd always be squeezed for money. In fact, so many housewives who earn more than their husbands would always wait for d man bring out money for the slightest thing as a #50 sachet of salt.
Sometimes, one feels that its even better to marry a non career, non- educated, complete housewife than all these rich but stupidly stingy, wicked n greedy women
bros calm down
Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by larryking540: 4:51pm On Jul 06
Kaybae:
A situation where by a lady always give in previous relationships but still jilted, do you think such lady will want to help in any relationship she finds herself? I can only condemned that in Marriage.
pretty lady,if the lady can't help out in relationship,do u think she will in marriage,let's not forget how ladies or females are been brain wired ,what she doesn't do for
u in relationship, doesn't expect it in marriage

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by dairykidd(m): 5:00pm On Jul 06
A lot of ladies are free with their money but i could care less. I think it depends on the ladies u meet tho

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by oodua1stson: 5:02pm On Jul 06
Lots of women have helped me financially. One thing I just noticed is that they want something I return and once they realise you're in a relationship they hold back
Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Edufurnitures(m): 5:23pm On Jul 06
vickydankal:
Don't you think it's too harsh to generalize. Some women still go extra mile for their men, at least I still do. There are factors that motivate ladies to help their men.

1. Does he have future plans and ​do you see yourself in his future
2. Does he have a track record of wasting resources
3. Will he be faithful when he hit big
4. What our instinct is telling us
5. What are his plans for the money etc
6. We may not know when they need help.

I believe most ladies will help their guys if the guys open up the more to us to show us the level they are. You can't be struggling and pretending and still us me to come and help you. Mbanu.

Guys it is not a shame to need help. Ask for it when you need it.
what would motivate you to help a guy that is not your boyfriend or your brother?

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Edufurnitures(m): 5:32pm On Jul 06
A woman would not help a man financially except she wants a long term relationship leading to marriage from him, and wants to use the "after all I've done for you " line to guilt trip him when her bad behaviour comes out.

another exception is if she wants a man for sex, like in the case of sugar mummies.

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Re: Why Is It Difficult 4 Women To Assist Men Financially? by Temmylee01(m): 5:43pm On Jul 06
Truvelisback:
However, these women exist but are very rare to find.
well you have answered yourself.

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