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Please find out of she loves you too. You can forgive her but review the relationship if it can mature to marriage. If she cheated on you while you are still dating, nothing stops her from frolicking with her Ex after marriage. Think well bro and don't let your emotions overcome your sense of reasoning.

Afonjashapmouth:
Let all these girls explore when they want to. She's at that age when she want to explore. Don't cage a woman to end up with a full breed inexperience woman wanting to explore with other men at any chance. The University might just be her first true opportunity out of the house and out of parents supervision, let her enjoy it which ever way she chose. Focus on making money and exploring too. If yall are meant to be, you two shall meet, overlook the past and focus on the future with pure mind and understanding

Yeah and he will bring a fat bank account and Dora the explorer will bring her saggy breast and critically explored puzzy!

She cheating is one thing but you not even having the balls to confront her and threaten her not to ever try it again or else you leave is something I can't even begin to wrap my head around.

Oneitis is abysmal. Niggar learn in a hardway by taking the RED pill

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

When motor dey go, if you press brake, e go move small before e finally stop, abi?

Na so love be sometimes.

Bros, as na cheating matter, you press brake, abi you still wan dey cruize?

.. ❌❌❌


Mumu☹️☹️

Cerebellum:
Low self esteem dey worry this one

OP, Are you ugly ni ?

Lmao...if na that one, I fine die

Contact me
I need to tell you something very important.
I have experienced this. I mean exactly.
Let's talk.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 KJV
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: NEITHER FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, [10] Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

NO MATTER HOW NLERS WANT TO NORMALIZE IT, THE WORD OF GOD IS PERFECTLY CLEAR NOOOOO FORNICATOR WILL INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD, NLERS MAY GOD SAVE ALL OF US FROM FORNICATION, MASTURBATION AND PORNOGRAPHY, BECAUSE OF THESE THE WRATH OF GOD IS COMING TO THIS WORLD, BE YOU A GUY OR GIRL.


REPENT TODAY LET YOUR SINS BE WASHED
JESUS THAT SAVED ME FROM MASTURBATION IN 2008 CAN SAVE U TODAY.

Afonjashapmouth:
Let all these girls explore when they want to. She's at that age when she want to explore. Don't cage a woman to end up with a full breed inexperience woman wanting to explore with other men at any chance. The University might just be her first true opportunity out of the house and out of parents supervision, let her enjoy it which ever way she chose. Focus on making money and exploring too. If yall are meant to be, you two shall meet, overlook the past and focus on the future with pure mind and understanding

Aswear I am one of those guys who don't mind letting my girl Bleep other guys. As long as they are sure that's what they want. Fuk anybody you want; and that give me the freedom to fuk others too. I am an extremely open person. I know that's abnormal in our society, but I enjoy seeing my girls enjoying themselves. Besides, most girls are hos anyways. I feel like I will be caging them since I am not ready to ready any of them yet.

I can feel your confused state of mind but I tell you bro, %99.9 of women are naturally unfaithful. Put your mind to find something in a woman trust me u will find one that will kill you.


If you wan marry marry if you no wan get baby mama but I tell you my friend, even that matured one will still cheat if she feels the need...

Good for you bro.

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

99.9% of Nigerian girls are cheats.

But na who dem Catch, na em people dey call thief.

If you leave a girl for cheating on you, the next one would still cheat. The only difference is that you may not get to catch her the way you catched your previous girl.

If I count girls wey I parted ways with because of cheating eeh.
I broke up sotey I tire.

I repeat 9 out every 10 Nigerian girl is either a cheat, or a potential cheat waiting for the best opportunity to cheat.

As I'm right now, I don't care if a woman is cheating or not, even if I catch her, i wouldn't let her know...

I just stay with girls wey like me genuinely, and we vibe Wella. You cheat or you no cheat that one no concern me. I can't die before my time.

jbreezy:
Forgot to add this...I once cheated sometime ago and she forgave me am d from the chat, I got to know she still really loves me.

out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

To you it appears that all these is like a chess game to do whatever you like and be forgiven while your partner if you are tired of them you look for an excuse valid or not to let go or to make them feel guilty to allow you free to continue cheating. My advice for you is what is the most urgent need in your life currently, focus on that need and work towards achieving it and if it is marriage then start preparations for your family visiting the girls family and for cheating you cannot expect to be a cheater and demand 100% from a lady that knows you have cheated on her in the past and also the new lady even if she will cheat on you will hide it for now probably because you are in a more financially comfortable setting currently. So seek guidance from God and your parents /trusted guidians and try your best to be a better person that you were before daily.

Kaybae:
I am not supporting cheating on any side oooo, be it from the man side or the woman side but why is it that when you guys cheat, lady or woman in question will forgive easily and let go but once the case is other way round, guys or men will want to live the relationship, to tell you that the pain u feel when you find out your woman cheats on you is the same the woman also feels. Ask yourself if you haven't cheated on her before if the answer is Yes, u haven't then you can go ahead with the other lady but if you have, let your conscience work on that. Just my own piece of advice though

Even you urself, if ur brother wife cheats ur reaction will spontainous and hostile but calm if ur brother cheats. Can you sweat it won't?

Mtcheewww!

Nonsense story and post

Since you still love het after cheated why bringing it up here? Wetin concern us with your foolishness



Some people with there stupidity sha, it's inborn

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

If you marry her and she later cheat on you in marriage don't come to Nairaland and complain make Thunder no fire you, since you're confident she will beg you.

A cheat will always be a cheat, she has given you a sign of the kind of person she is; after all the love both of you shared together she went ahead to cheat on you.
Your marriage with her will end in premium tears my guy.

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

so what is d story all about nw

It will end in tears

Simp Chairman spotted

Guy forget about cheating , is difficult to see girl fucking one dick , is va vasa if u really love her as ur claim ask why she cheats

jbreezy:
Lmao...if na that one, I fine die

So why you dey do like mumu

Fine ad cute guys like us suppose dey make ladies suffer ni not the other way round

No make me knack you koboko o

Mr Simpson is that you..
Simps everywhere

All these useless simps ehn

A cheater must be cheated

No one is perfect forget! I wouldn't leave my man if I find out "first time" he cheated - there may be reasons - distance, lack of communication and so on.

My dear it's ya choice sha, but if I know say I love my man wella and how far we have come and invested in the relationship,one time runs or hoeing is not enough to let him go.

Here, communication for me comes into play and we discuss how we can both do better to avoid such occurrence again.

The one wey you just jam, you know her own story

Una good morning

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

E b like say death dey call u with special number

Ponytail22:
Please love her even more. So that she won't have any other reason to cheat.
Most of all, spoil her with gifts.

U just made a mistake by saying spoil her with gift,I do bought my girl a lots of gift still she has another boy friend but the guy never sleep with her bcs he do Dubai,what if the guy they nija nko,he for don wos am

jbreezy:
So the story goes like, my gf and I have been dating for 2 years now. I really love her cos she's so interesting, extremely caring and so good to me. She's a pretty one too. So I finished school ahead of her (We were in same school).

But we couldn't let each other go because we already love each other, so we continued the romance. I loved her after and I really gat plans to marry her even though I'm like 5 years older than her. I was going to wait till she finishes school (She was in 200 level when I left). So I went to visit her in school and out of curiosity, I checked her whatsapp chat...I read her chat with her very close friend (the best place to find the truth) Well well well...There was this gist about her having sex with a friend. Then another was about her trying to date a guy..It really broke me, but till today, I haven't challenged her...

Actually, I would have broken up if I dont love her up to this level cos I hate it when I'm being cheated on... But I don't think I'm ready to lose the girl..

So I met a very pretty lady lately... We've been talking and she's really been giving me all the greenlight a normal guy needs to see... This one is more mature (I felt like my gf is still probably at what y'all call the hoeing stage cos she's 21)... So I've been contemplating on leaving her for this one, by bringing up the cheating part (something like a chess game)...

Seriously, I still think I love her, and would have married her if she didn't do that... So I'm lost between challenging her and giving her another chance (cos she's going to obviously beg) or challenge her to leave her...Thanks and sorry for the long essay

simp located and confirmed. Good luck in your simping career.

Fiscus105:
Even you urself, if ur brother wife cheats ur reaction will spontainous and hostile but calm if ur brother cheats. Can you sweat it won't?

, honestly u are right, that was why I said I don't support cheating, its better to be heard on the side of man than woman, you can't say because your man cheat you will also roll into that, but am only trying to let him know the pain on the both sides is always same. So why did we do it to our partners?

Oga . You are dating a student .. lol . Let me tell you .. you’re on a long thing

vibre:
Na now you talk the koko, you both are two of a kind, promiscuous m'fuckers. You fit each other very well

You know right mahn!