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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by kelmicheal: 11:46am On Jul 11, 2021
Your plight is exactly what is happening to my friend now He saw the Red light but ignore and went ahead to Mary his wife after every every problem started. He complained bitterly that the wife is not satisfied with any money he gave her for food.
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by chimeremodlyn: 12:08pm On Jul 11, 2021
Obrigardo:


You are just the problem. What stops you from DIRECTLY talking to her about your observations, goddammned if she gets angry or not? I don't get why people in relationships don't open up and be honest about breaks they see. There is lots of life, years and adventure ahead, so instead of talking to us, tell her what you have noticed about her and if she doesn't change or picks a fight then MOVE ON.
Didn't you read d lines? He has done that severally n it didn't work
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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jul 11, 2021
Abort mission! I repeat, abort mission!!
Marriage is for a lifetime.
Its obvious she doesn't love you as much as you love her.
If you were my brother, i wouldn't allow you marry such a woman.
Picture yourself going broke and you not being able to provide her needs. What do you think will become of you?
You get the answer now right!!!

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by fkgyapong: 12:36pm On Jul 11, 2021
People like that can kill.
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by tahiwopreety(f): 12:40pm On Jul 11, 2021
Romanoff:
So it took you 4 years to notice all of these?

You should have ended the relationship at least 2 years ago, not now that plans are on the way to marry her.

Sha tell her the real reason you're ending it if you decide to.
grin
Romanoff:
So it took you 4 years to notice all of these?

You should have ended the relationship at least 2 years ago, not now that plans are on the way to marry her.

Sha tell her the real reason you're ending it if you decide to.
oga....if you continue to be silent on it for her,that how she gonna treat you when you eventually married her...woman are not to be silent for now a days...couples to what is happenin in matrimonial life.speak up be for is too late oo.or continue ......
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by mamaput1: 12:52pm On Jul 11, 2021
read the writing on the wall.
better yet ask yourself what she has done for you and ask her what she i bringing to the table.

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by meobizy(f): 1:08pm On Jul 11, 2021
But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.
I’m surprised it took long for you to notice. Most men I know find out in a few months. Get rid of her and find a working female. Her traits will only get worse in the marriage so dive head first into it or save yourself future headaches by acting now.
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by pharmade: 1:41pm On Jul 11, 2021
Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?
Welcome to the club.
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jul 11, 2021
Guy give yourself brain. If I were in your shoes, I'd call it off especially if I have spoken to her about it. Unfortunately I am not in your shoes, so give yourself brain
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by passionberry(f): 1:53pm On Jul 11, 2021
Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

Red flag ,,she will do worst when you Marry her ,,she will be asking for money if you want to be intimate with her as her husband...she will be milk you dry if you don't have to give her sorry is your name

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Fayscent: 1:59pm On Jul 11, 2021
I support this person's school of thought, we all have our inadequacies. Now the question is, can you cope, if you can't just end it now to avoid unpalatable incidents in future.
izzou:
If everybody starts to type the cons of their partners, nobody go marry.

My point is: Can you carry this cross, or would you love her despite her selfishness?

If no, please end it and move on.

Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Tompee2: 2:01pm On Jul 11, 2021
Please DO NOT continue with the Relationship ohhh, talk less of marriage. You will be mentally drained. It seems you love her far more than she even care for you.
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by xenten: 2:02pm On Jul 11, 2021
Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

bro, the babe is hustling you. most likely, you are not the no. 1 on her priority list.

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by hardon1(m): 2:05pm On Jul 11, 2021
That video call own na I'm pain me. If you call a lady you girlfriend and she often demands for data recharge to engage video call with you, then I pity you. You have a shared girlfriend

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by izzou(m): 2:09pm On Jul 11, 2021
Fayscent:
I support this person's school of thought, we all have our inadequacies. Now the question is, can you cope, if you can't just end it now to avoid unpalatable incidents in future.

You need to go through my mentions and be amazed.

I think Nairalanders can't comprehend. A lot of them have problems with reading and comprehension.

Nowhere did I ask him to marry her or continue. I simply stated a fact: There's no perfect partner out there. Most people have one cross they are bearing.

And if he cannot cope, he should end it immediately.

I've been surprised with the kind of nonsense people have quoted me with.

Have a blessed week sir. At least I know there are people that actually read to understand
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Tundex911: 2:28pm On Jul 11, 2021
Your woman, your palava...


Awon weyrey gbogbo

Smh
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Candycrushy(f): 2:31pm On Jul 11, 2021
Some girls are just so stupid. Op i pray God blesses you with who your heart really desires. Good riddance to bad rubbish

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by jevic(m): 2:48pm On Jul 11, 2021
Leave her and go your way.

She can't change when you finally marry her.
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Eastcoastboy(m): 3:12pm On Jul 11, 2021
Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

Them don open shop for your head.

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Babitee1(f): 3:31pm On Jul 11, 2021
It will get worse in marriage. She has to develop a sense of independence before marriage if you really want to marry her

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Lifesucks4me: 3:33pm On Jul 11, 2021
Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

All I'll say is i pity you

I won't even advice my enemy to marry that entitled bitch much less my friend

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jul 11, 2021
Wahala for who wan date student.
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by chris51(f): 3:54pm On Jul 11, 2021
Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?


Forget about her. Too selfish and will become a liability to you

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by chris51(f): 3:54pm On Jul 11, 2021
chris51:



Forget about her. Too selfish and will become a liability to you
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Gfskw: 5:19pm On Jul 11, 2021
Think before you are trapped
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Ikwerelastborn: 5:29pm On Jul 11, 2021
kelmicheal:
Your plight is exactly what is happening to my friend now He saw the Red light but ignore and went ahead to Mary his wife after every every problem started. He complained bitterly that the wife is not satisfied with any money he gave her for food.

He should run from her
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Ekomatrix1(m): 5:42pm On Jul 11, 2021
Amen

quote author=Candycrushy post=103596926]Some girls are just so stupid. Op i pray God blesses you with who your heart really desires. Good riddance to bad rubbish[/quote]
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Funkybabee(f): 5:43pm On Jul 11, 2021
Fear those women eh

This are the kind of woman that will not give their children shi shi food unless their father is back to pay
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by Narnah(f): 5:50pm On Jul 11, 2021
She seems to be a leech.

If you are willing to entertain one for the rest of your life, go ahead and marry her.

If you'd rather prefer an asset to a liability, I'd advise you halt with getting married to her.
Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

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Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by ModelLook(m): 5:51pm On Jul 11, 2021
A kind somebody should ticket for me to come and visit them biko.

I never enter plane before
Re: Should I Go On With The Marriage Preparation? by abeniagbon(m): 5:55pm On Jul 11, 2021
Ekomatrix1:
So true. The mum had once asked her if I used to send money to her.. She studies business management

The only lucky thing you could be having having slept with her if you had been doing that... If she is claiming virgin for you... You got along way to go...I have seen situation where her mum will be advising you to wait for her daughter to finish her education before having all those sex thing with her.. well if not once again you have along way to go.. talking from experience

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