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After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Samfigo1(m): 9:44pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Hi Nlanderz, I am in a serious dilemma now, I wouldn't know the next step to take. If you remember I created a topic towards the tail of last year, if you missed the topic this is the link below: https://www.nairaland.com/2825210/see-question-asked-made-angry#41372122 I shouldn't have brought this up but I am painstakingly seeking the idea to use in coming out of this dilemma of mine. To be frank, she came back on the 8th day of this month which happened to be Friday, before this time we had some discussions which led to her leaving my place angrily and since then no "intimacy" what do I mean? no calls, no text not even flashing! I was on Friday sitting at the veranda of my house, fumbling with my phone, when I looked from afar off and saw a lady coming towards the direction of house. When she drew close, lo and behold she was my girl, we exchanged pleasantries before I took her to my room and then she started her story thus: I am sorry to have left your room angrily the other day( I just nodded my head), the question was shocking I was not expecting it. Truly I had been pregnant which led to the only abortion I had in the past(she busted into tears, I tried to pet her before she continued).I was 17 when armed robbers came to our house on a fateful day and I was raped, I never knew it would lead to pregnancy until after a month plus that I started noticing some changes which led to me seeing a doctor and it was confirmed that I was pregnant. I had no choice that to abort it(sobbing). I was dumbfounded, I was looking like someone who just missed a flight. The point is this, I have no problem accepting her back but why did she wait for two weeks before narrating this? Was she taught of what to say? Could this be a cooked up story? Can I ask any of her family members about the incident? These and many more questions left me dumbfounded. Should I go on with the questions or bury the hatchet? I need mature pieces of advice! 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by ayindepremier: 9:47pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Which kind of relationships be this self... but that girl's cooked up story fit boil stone soft!! anyway, find a fried up story that can melt mountain too!! #LeaveStoriesForNovels #LeaveCookedUpStoriesForConfusedCouples Just woke up to see myself on NL FP as FTC on sunny afternoon!!! Guy, Transfer me your babe lemme be your counselor! seems like the girl below me is the victim here, sorry boo 67 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Monalisa185(f): 9:49pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
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Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Its a lie.. The next guy she was messing around with for 2 weeks after she left probably dumped her quickly Oh... the likes 107 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by obiorathesubtle: 9:53pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
cool story!
When the part 2 go comout? 26 Likes |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by yanabasee(m): 9:53pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Girls and rape gist... Nearly every girl have used a rape case for defence... Do they think, by tellin guys they got rape will make a man feel sorry? Telling you got raped is like telling him you're sexually active... Men don't regard rape victims no matter how much they pretend to be nice... Rape is a stigma and shouldn't be used to cover up when looking for lies to fend. 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Shuu! She went away for 2 wks to come and cry and tell u of a robbery rape. My dear if u believe her story na u mumu pass. U sef tell am say "1 girl find u come and u no fit hold body, u do jigijigi and d girl don get belle for you". Afterall anything can happen within 2weeks. If d story na true na him be say she fit no get womb again o becus armed robbers go handle pusssy like AK47. 36 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by IamLEGEND1: 10:01pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
i dey sense Wale Adenuga handwork for her story. 56 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Pennah(m): 10:08pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Op ask her the date she was raped.... even a mad woman wunt foget nor contemplat on that day b4 voicing 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by poshestmina(f): 10:12pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
You both are perfect for each other One mumu question deserves a mumu answer 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Bevy12(f): 10:15pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Oga, are you writing story? Its obvious that you are forming story for us. Chai all this people sef that want to do notice me. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by sayyid(m): 10:18pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
if u truly love her u can make some investigations abt it. aldough shes nt suppose to b annoyed in da first place bt if d rape story is true its a pain she will always rememba for d rest of her life and for u jst asking dat kind of question straight to her face mayb she was shock and u knw mayb she taut u already knw abt her story and stuffs like dat. 5 Likes |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
My fellow Romancelanders, pls join me in this special number :
"This is super story...... " 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by flokii: 10:22pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
Samfigo1: it's always armed robbers na... who else? that girl is a bloody liar.. she would have had at least 5 abortions accept her back if you want buh I wouldn't advise my enemy to 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by poshestmina(f): 10:35pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
sapiosexual1: 4 Likes |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by joliyp(f): 10:50pm On Jan 10, 2016 |
always have a reason to believe people but not to trust them!!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by angiography(m): 12:22am On Jan 11, 2016 |
I've actually seen a 14 years old girl raped b4 in her house. so, had an abortion. but op, you too dey ask 'mumu' question faa. obviously, ur relationship is having ricket already 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Nobody: 12:35am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Some people are terribly stupid! Does she have to lie upon her misbehavior when this question came up? Bia, OP, @coolsix have told you the koko. It doesn't take a week or more for one to realize one's wrong Stewpeed geh She ain't sorry 3 Likes |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Elchappo: 4:01am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Samfigo1: At this age of urs, u believed this heavy Lie that crane would see nd knock engine.. Nwanne hapu Otu ka Otu hapu gi.. 4 Likes |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by epistleNow(m): 5:40am On Jan 11, 2016 |
coolsix:Don't we all know that's' what's up !!! 2 Likes |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Csami(m): 6:49am On Jan 11, 2016 |
I smell a lie. She don over reckless come get belle and now she dey blame "innocent" armed robbers wey just collect only her phone. God dey watch her for 3D 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Oyiboman69: 6:59am On Jan 11, 2016 |
something must kill a man.... 1 Like |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Oyiboman69: 7:00am On Jan 11, 2016 |
something must kill a man... |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Nobody: 7:02am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Lies from her and d op |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Oahray: 7:06am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Hmmm... To think I once argued with a guy that claimed most ladies have a rape fantasy. It turns out it's about the most popular excuse ladies give their unsuspecting partners. I thought it would be too horrible an experience to make up tales about Op, if you consider your relationship serious, please make your research. Ladies in our part of the world would do ANYTHING to paint themselves innocent especially in sexual matters. Always has to be the fault of guys somehow. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by decode55(m): 7:10am On Jan 11, 2016 |
How old are you both? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by segebobo: 7:17am On Jan 11, 2016 |
For me, the 'anger' reaction she gave to the questn earlier has placed serious trust issues on the relationship as it makes it difficult for me to believe anything she'd av 2 say. The final decision is urs OP, if u truly love er, carryout investigations 3 Likes |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by SexyStrawberry(f): 7:17am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Samfigo1: Op, u remember my last comment? Hmmmm now lemme add this, that girl is not someone to keep, trust me on this and mark my words, u will regret it if u accept her back, it took her two whole weeks to answer a simple question she could've answered in just 10seconds! A word is enough for the wise. Thread carefully. 8 Likes |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Nobody: 7:32am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Some stories just ain't worth talking about. 1 Like |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Chanchit: 7:34am On Jan 11, 2016 |
If I hear say na true! Lie weh she suppose wait lie at once she come postpone am for 2wks. 1 Like |
Re: After Two Weeks Of No Intimacy See The Story She Came Up With by Davidovinci(m): 8:37am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Op,Avoid that girl like ebola... She lying AF!.. Girls bn using rape as excuse since time immemorial.. She just playing you bruh.. 1 Like |
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