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| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by TheSociopath(m): 3:22pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Whatever advice you'll get here, please STOP playing bet. That's all. God bless and keep you |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
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| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by duduade: 3:23pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
A 19 year old male who already has the mentality of entitlement to his parents wealth... Dont go and hustle too as you also go to school... Annooofiaaa 3 Likes |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Cashio(m): 3:23pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
When you stated you were 19, that's when I knew you were just being a child. Your parents are actually training you to be a better person. To me, you lack nothing. And I know some of the things you stated here are either lies or exaggerated just to paint them as stingy as your conscience permits. No worry, when you start making your own money, you go grab. My younger sister once told me I was being stingy and wicked towards her(that was after she saw the way I took care of our dad's burial). Her reason was that I only give her money, either when she is sick or she is in another serious trouble. To her, I have so much money, but she doesn't know that it took me over 6 months and moving in with a friend for 4 months plus as I couldn't renew my rent so as to cut expenses just to save to put those money together. Sometimes you think those up ahead have got so much money to spend, but they actually have businesses, other children, as well as other engagements to take care of. You should be grateful for having rich parents. some persons did manual labour to sustain theirselves through school. 2 Likes |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by ransomed: 3:25pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
An ungrateful child who calls his parents stingy is not different from a waster of resources. You a prodigal and gluttonous. How I wish your parents will allow you to work in a construction site for 2 weeks so that you can use the money to feed yourself for 1month without any support from them. An ingrate is never appreciative of well utilized. opportunity to reinvest or plow back into business. I salute your parents that can pay over 900k as school fee and other academics expenses. You will later be like them when you start taking responsibility . 1 Like |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
TOTOnigga: Story wey I don dey prepare advice, u come spoil am You’re on a long broad road to poverty if you no stop sports betting. For your other problem wey u don spoil, start now to show them you’re a man. Not by stubbornness, or violence but by visible manly achievements. |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Kaiser20: 3:26pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Post the pictures of the uncountable houses and landed properties, then I will advise you. |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by plainpleasant: 3:27pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
TOTOnigga:You're still young to indulge in gambling, pls stay away for it. Meanwhile, I advise you to read Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki then you will know why your Dad & Man look stingy to you |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Badbishop15(m): 3:27pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Haaa!!! 950k!!   E don reach me finish 4 sessions for my school  |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Kinikini: 3:28pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Your parents actually love you very much and want you to appreciate you are privilege and by so doing, learn to work hard to become successful. Children do have an entitlement mentality this day and it leads to failure. A parent only has to provide you the necessary things , not luxuries anyway. I know a man who became very appreciative of his parents years after the hard training. Upon graduation in UK the father ordered him out of the house. He had to go get his apartment and the bills made him work hard. In a matter of a short time, he bought his house and continued to prosper. He then realised that his friends whose parents continued to accommodate didn't have a house of theirs years after he had. Then he realised the father only pushed him to grow up and build his life. Your reaction to your parents is solely yours and it will determine if you learn the lesson expected or not Just like it will determine your outcome. uote author=TOTOnigga post=103791830]Hello guys.... I don't just know.. Is it just me or is there anything I don't understand......my parents are rich people especially my dad, I know that for sure... someone paying #950,000 naira per year as school fees for me aside other expenses, plus multiple houses and lands I can't even keep count of.... How come they are this stingy? There is no time I would ask them for money for my own personal well being or any of my personal needs that they would like to assist me. I once ask mum for #12,000 naira just to buy a fairly used android phone (when I know they can even afford me an iPhone x) but she told me I should wait till months end before she gives me saying there is no money on ground... it's five months now and still nothing (not waiting for it though)... Then I ask my dad, he told me I don't need an android phone... telling me that phone makes people unserious and other types of bulls*it( a 19 year old student for that matter) Any expenses that is not book or academic related is not important...my parents would rather buy clothes for me than give me money to buy clothes... sometimes I end up not wearing some of them.. The funniest part is that, anytime I take any urgent lie(Asin scam) about any payment in school...they wouldn't Waits a second to send it to me... This has got me telling all sorts of lies just to get what I know can be gotten honestly.. It has even gotten to the point that any money that enters my hand now, I use it to play sports betting to see if I can get enough money for what I need, but I end up loosing the money...I am just frustrated.. someone time I wish I didn't even have rich parents cos what's the point...[/quote] |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Ttorp(m): 3:28pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
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| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Amaechi2023(m): 3:29pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
TOTOnigga:give them a message. loot something from the house that's very important and hide not sell. make sure your the prime suspect. they'll ask you to bring it from where you sold it from that they'll pay the amount you got from it. after everything, return it in peace and send them a message telling them your pain. don't tell them verbally, SMS works better with such parents.. |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by JuanDeDios: 3:31pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Ishilove:As in, ehn! You gotta "bow" for them Gen-Z or whatever they're called. I hope he finds what he seeks. |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by NewDelhi(m): 3:34pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Kondomatic:That's no excuse, it's his obligation. If he doesn't do it , who will do it? You can be paying a million naira as school fees for your son but will squeeze face when he ask you for 10k for his own personal needs. That's what the kid is talking about. 2 Likes |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by holuwasheyiWGP(m): 3:35pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
From my perspective though, they're just trying not to give you enough funds to indulge in the vices youth engage in. Next time if you want something, send them images of it and ask them to buy it for you. |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by cluewebhost(m): 3:37pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Make your own money |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by rali123(f): 3:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
I know the feeling, I know my dad too well, I just tell him I need a book(divided a book name into 3) and i get the money, i dont even ask for cloth or other accessories money again, for ad long as its book ask and it shall be provided is my dad nickname... |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Prism:parents gat teach their children to build business, watin we for dey hear Na "my parents refused to fund my farming career" |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Blackdisciple(m): 3:39pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Hmmm...! Just try and get handwork even your dad will be surprise when the time come. While in school then we use lies to cashout from mom and dad with lie lie school matter so if you no lie to cashout while in school with school matter not just dad I need pocket my. I never asked my dad for pocket money before. While cashing on them with school matter use the money to go learn hand work after school, holidays, and other free times from school . E get why. 1 Like |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Kondomatic(m): 3:39pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
NewDelhi:Oh really? His parents pays a million annually for his school fees, takes care of his feeding, clothing and accommodation, obviously gave him the necessary gadgets but because they don't give him N10k for his own personal needs means they're stingy? 2 Likes |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Nobody: 3:41pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
TOTOnigga: something like this was mention in the book "millionaire next door" NB If I were your parents, i'd do the same minus the cloths and personal stuff part though 1 Like |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by arsetalks(m): 3:41pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
TOTOnigga:I hate cyber bullying but I have got to say this. You are a stupid idiota. Someone pays a million on your fee every year, feeds you, cloths you and you have the audacity to call them stingy you tw*t. I fetched firewoods, worked in people's farm, sold akara, moimoi, chicken legs and all manner of things to ensure myself and siblings could feed at a stay yet an idiota like you is yawning dust. At 19 I was already paying rents for my parents and you come here to yawn nonsense. Ungrateful idiota. Your dad should have used a condom. I wish I can see you one on one. 1 Like |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by harveyosho1(m): 3:41pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Kondomatic:It shock u too?  |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Aparche(f): 3:42pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Op...why not look for job during holidays and make your own money, even if it's peanut. At least it will help you appreciate the fact that it's not easy to make money. And it's also not easy to spend money you've suffered to make anyhow... |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Kondomatic(m): 3:43pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
harveyosho1:The thing weak me Chief |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by abbey621(m): 3:44pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
NewDelhi: There's no obligation anywhere to send your kids to private universities, it is a privilege these kids of nowadays abuse, we have people going to Unilag, UI, OAU etc and they still managed to graduate and have successful careers, no father owes his child a private university education certainly not 1 million per whatever! 2 Likes |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by sirscripture: 3:45pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
You will learn some of their dealings by the time you become a parent too. You might do better but they are not stingy, they just think you do not need some of these thing. You said it yourself, they provide everything, what else? Phone? And your dad said you do not need one. Calm down, when you start earning money you can buy yourself as many as possible. Boy, your parents are amazing. They are not stingy. TOTOnigga: 1 Like |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by captainbangz: 3:45pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Kondomatic:THE THING SHOCK ME O |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by lomprico(m): 3:45pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
TOTOnigga: withdraw from that your school without them knowing and enrol into a federal uni. school fees there is not more than 150k, u save 750k for your flexing. 1 Like |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by Tolani1122(m): 3:45pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
No do Yahoo ooo |
| Re: MY Experience With Very Stingy Parents.... Share Yours... by musadanjum(m): 3:46pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Just be guided. Don't fall into the hands of bad kids or else, you'll skid off your track. They are planing on making you a better person had it been they spend the way u are thinking they should be spending, they wouldn’t have had the money to pay for such expensive school for u. Be humble pls. 1 Like |
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