post=103821162:
Olosho no be work ooooo

Jigawa oloshos right now.....

szczescie:
Marrying off people is not and can never be the solution

Each person is a different case, each person is a new story, experiences are unique

For better understanding some are into it for money not because they can't find a man, some are beautiful and can find a man by themselves if they want, they earn a reasonable amount of money per day they can make as much as 30k easily in a day times that by 30 days and ask yourself the person you are marrying them to does he have half of that amount in his bank account?

Some do it for the fun of it, they are addicted to it, can the man you are marrying them to SATISFY them sexually?

Some of them don't know why they are doing it, they just feel like or something is just pushing them to do it, marrying them off will not stop it.

Some got into it because of an experience in life either rape, lose of spouse, family members, run away from home and other such circumstances

Some need to do it to fund their lifestyle either as drug addicts, alcohol addicts, big girl-ism addict, socialite addict etc

And many others I can't list here Believe me marrying them off will not bring back the list family, heal the mental health effects of rape or other such life incidents that pushed them into the trade.

We should stop treating people especially women today as cargo, cattle or something that can be fixed by archaic thought processes. They are individualistic complex beings just like everyone else, yes this includes Jigawa Muslim women.

Building a kitchen for someone who isn't interested in cooking does not guarantee the person will be interested in cooking. Many people today especially in the western world have kitchens in their homes some have 2 to 3 kitchens but they can't cook, they aren't interested in cooking they eat out or order in.

Solution: focus on psychology, focus on Human capital development.
Get psychologists to help them, evaluate them does who need rehab for sex addiction, alcohol addiction, drug addiction etc treat them. Then they will not need to sell their bodies to get money to fund that addiction

If it was due to a life occurrence treat them, rehabilitate them, you may not understand. Some people actually think after all this guy have raped me for free so what's the use abeg I will just allow any guy who wants after all they are giving me money, help them grow beyond that mindset.

Some of them it is lack of job provide jobs for them, ask them what can they do or what would they like to do, sponsor them for training and give them equipments or tools to start.

Marrying them off is not even an option until they are fully treated and rehabilitated.

Treat the root cause of the problem, not the symptoms of the problem, The root cause is poverty, the root cause is psychological, the root cause is materialism, the root cause is addiction, the root cause is NOT marriage.

Not getting Married is just the symptom, if they get married it will hinder them, slow them down but not stop them so they don't want to be bothered by marriage.

Marry them off and I GUARANTEE you 1. They will run away or 2. They will be doing short time from your house delivering home service.

Treat them first, provide jobs for them first, before we talk of marriage.

baralatie:

Even me sef.i am not understanding their priority.
Or is it that banditry /boko haram becoming extinct is considered abnormal to them

Maxymilliano:
No need of giving them 30 days ultimatum just tell your people to stop patronizing them.

szczescie:
Marrying off people is not and can never be the solution

Each person is a different case, each person is a new story, experiences are unique

For better understanding some are into it for money not because they can't find a man, some are beautiful and can find a man by themselves if they want, they earn a reasonable amount of money per day they can make as much as 30k easily in a day times that by 30 days and ask yourself the person you are marrying them to does he have half of that amount in his bank account?

Some do it for the fun of it, they are addicted to it, can the man you are marrying them to SATISFY them sexually?

Some of them don't know why they are doing it, they just feel like or something is just pushing them to do it, marrying them off will not stop it.

Some got into it because of an experience in life either rape, lose of spouse, family members, run away from home and other such circumstances

Some need to do it to fund their lifestyle either as drug addicts, alcohol addicts, big girl-ism addict, socialite addict etc

And many others I can't list here Believe me marrying them off will not bring back the list family, heal the mental health effects of rape or other such life incidents that pushed them into the trade.

We should stop treating people especially women today as cargo, cattle or something that can be fixed by archaic thought processes. They are individualistic complex beings just like everyone else, yes this includes Jigawa Muslim women.

Building a kitchen for someone who isn't interested in cooking does not guarantee the person will be interested in cooking. Many people today especially in the western world have kitchens in their homes some have 2 to 3 kitchens but they can't cook, they aren't interested in cooking they eat out or order in.

Solution: focus on psychology, focus on Human capital development.
Get psychologists to help them, evaluate them does who need rehab for sex addiction, alcohol addiction, drug addiction etc treat them. Then they will not need to sell their bodies to get money to fund that addiction

If it was due to a life occurrence treat them, rehabilitate them, you may not understand. Some people actually think after all this guy have raped me for free so what's the use abeg I will just allow any guy who wants after all they are giving me money, help them grow beyond that mindset.

Some of them it is lack of job provide jobs for them, ask them what can they do or what would they like to do, sponsor them for training and give them equipments or tools to start.

Marrying them off is not even an option until they are fully treated and rehabilitated.

Treat the root cause of the problem, not the symptoms of the problem, The root cause is poverty, the root cause is psychological, the root cause is materialism, the root cause is addiction, the root cause is NOT marriage.

Not getting Married is just the symptom, if they get married it will hinder them, slow them down but not stop them so they don't want to be bothered by marriage.

Marry them off and I GUARANTEE you 1. They will run away or 2. They will be doing short time from your house delivering home service.

Treat them first, provide jobs for them first, before we talk of marriage.

post=103821162:
Olosho no be work ooooo

Jigawa oloshos right now.....

nairalandankrah:
Khaleel Muhammad


https://dailytrust.com/jigawa-gives-sex-workers-30-days-to-leave-or-get-married

insidelife22:
Oga make Una close all Ashawo qauters and bear palours for the whole North,E no concern me until Una come try am for south.
Na Una self Una dey do.
Na Lugard coz am.
And make Una no forget to help me pursue my brothers upnorth.

DSC7:
I don't know wat the heck is wrong with all this headslammers up north ....

From the beginning of the world prostitution have been in existence.....

Live ur life and let others live.....

quentin06:
Prostittutes have become more dangerous than terrorists, bandits and kidnappers.

Shashasha government.

GeneralB:
This is the height of hyprocrisy

Maxymilliano:
No need of giving them 30 days ultimatum just tell your people to stop patronizing them.

Oksman:



They should tackle poverty which is the first cousin to prostitution. Immorality has no downside effect on economic prosperity. Our leaders keep chasing shadows.

Julianaa:
Rubbish and Northern government

Prostitute is their problem, not bandit/boko haram/kidnappers