Greglak:
I did some very bad things back in the university and i was expelled.

I met this lady few years ago, we started dating and now we engaged (introduction). The thing is, i didn't have the courage to tell her that i didn't complete my university degree untill now that she's starting to have some suspicions.

I have been running some professional courses without her consent bfr i tell her about my expulsion but i might not finish those programs before we get married. Also I'm kinda scared of telling her as her reaction may negatively influence the marriage decision or mayb worse.

I honestly don't know how to go about it. I'm confused

bigpicture001:
Bro..I understand u very well...some ladies wouldn't just take any less than a varsity graduate..and will leave the relationship,seems this particular lady is precious to you hence the gittery ....

But in all, it appears ur now doing well, and that should be your pride...just sit her down one day and tell her, heaven will not fall...

You can d it through an SMS if you are too gittery. And ask her to pack out if she can't cope before you return..and give her two days whilst you will be away from home,so she processes it.

Truly some ladies with worth will simply leave, but that's life, if she lives you beyond just papars she will stay..but if not still not bad if she leaves...

PrimeWatermark:
You should have told her before the engagement.
Now, it's gonna be hard on her if you open up. Nonetheless, you still have to tell her, that's the price you pay for your past actions.

As for the professional course, take it seriously please. And whatever happens after you tell her, face it.
After your professional course, you can also start a part-time degree course and try to achieve more important things as well. Do all these before you start having kids ooo...or else, you won't finish nada.

Back to your fiancé, I pray she doesn't mess things up. OP, I hope your folks are aware of this situation, if not... Ah!!
You should be more bothered when your family and other people finds out.

If I remember any other thing, I go add am.
Good morning!

FalseProphet1:
Don't tell her anything until you eventually marry her, telling her now will only make you a laughing stock to her most especially if things don't work out. Just remain silent for now.

This I have seen.

Volkswagen90:
E be like say the lady get money more than op,that's why op dey shake, if to say na ordinary lady op no go even care.

iPrevail:
You are making it sound like she's going to sponsor the wedding or take care of the family

Omor, stop making a mountain out of a molehill. It's your life! You made a mistake, you are trying to fix it... And most importantly, you are doing it for you!

How is it important to her if you completed university degree or not? Pffft!

Greglak:


Thank you

Crunchyg2:

Did you lie to her before now that you graduated?

Greglak:


I did not lie.. I was just not straight. I told her i went to school but i didn't tell her anything about finishing or not.