Hello nairalandlanders,

Na my first post be this o�
So, the grammar, punctuation, length fit no normal make na manage am abeg..I'll do better next time

Please I need your advices on this small issue

The thing is, I lost my job as an assistant at a firm in Lagos due to covid-19, though I have my side hustle that been sustaining me since then.

I didn't want to apply for any casual job so I opted to upgrade my programming, web development skills

I have unlimited data and a laptop that I think is "OK" for that but the electricity(NEPA) part is a major problem at my area in Lagos.

So, I decided to use the opportunity to go and stay with my parents in a town in Ondo where I learnt they have stable electricity.

It was like a celebrity visited the neighborhood at first.

Days later I noticed a decent girl I got attracted to...I started the process of ..you know what...the eye contact part went well and after a week I made the approach.

To my utmost surprise, I met a different person from the one that's been eyeing me.

Aside the big frown, the tone of the "I'm a little busy now, maybe later" got me shocked sha..I mean, she doesn't even know what I wanted to say.

Ok, I promised I won't do that again but then, some part of me thinks there's nothing wrong with her reaction...so I went again, this time, just throwing some normal jokes o..but instead of smile or laughs, na rude replies like I was a normal yeye person she knows.

So I boned her side..

Alot of things changed afterward, the respect level dropped totally, her siblings doesn't greet anymore, same with her apprentices..

I regret approaching this lady every day of my living here and it's affecting my purpose here

I think about it alot and wished I never made that move

My mind get drifted to her whenever I try to concentrate..yea, really affecting me..I don't even know if I'm normal like this

So guys please, how do I let go of her?? Or what should I do?

Idiot

omo me I no understand dis Kain problem o.

OP your case no be here

ford101:
Idiot

Just advice this amateur guy.. you don't have to make him feel less better na..haba

Henrydonland:
omo me I no understand dis Kain problem o.

OP your case no be here

Thank you for trying sha

Timigeofrey:


Thank you for trying sha

You are welcome

Forget about her

Bro weytin u do no bad at all..
But u can still gain ur respect back , just ignore her and let her be ... Just remember wat will be will be.. na normal shakara

Don't attach emotions when u wanna approach woman, infact is like a gamble

Majority of guys experience dsame issue expecially if are an amateur,

Simply forget women and face ur career

Move on.

captainjerry:
Bro weytin u do no bad at all..
But u can still gain ur respect back , just ignore her and let her be ... Just remember wat will be will be.. na normal shakara

Copy that Captain.

Thank you