Sorry for my bad English

I'm going crazy right now, I meant this girl's February 2021, I ask her out, At first she was affriad to go out with me, because she didn't trust young guys, I managed to confused her, She later accepted..

Our first date was wonderful, She fall in love completely, One day She decided to open up to me, That she do stay with an old man, She was having accomodations problem years back, her ex young boyfriend betrayed her, She slept in the street for months, The old man seen to be her sugar daddy then, She contacted The old man about her situation, finally the old man decided to offer her accomodations, food n clothes.

Funny Part the old man is old enough to be her father, She's told me that she want to leave the man and countinue with me, because I'm different from other young guys she has meant, I should help her, I couldn't believe it, She beg me not to end the relationship, I promise her I will not betray her.

We started working towards her documentation, work and accomodations, I told her I will do my best, God finally bless her with 5 years document 3 weeks ago, few days later she got a good job, I was so happy for her for the rapid success, definitely she's going to the government project with free accomodation and Free education no need for me to stress myself.

3 days ago She called me that something happens, that she told the old man she's leaving for the government project, The man feel bad but accepted, to her biggest concern her father in Nigeria called her that the old man has send them money for traditional marriage.

She confronted the old man, Why will you send my family money to prepare for traditional marriage without my concern, Why do you want to marry me now that I have job and document? The man told her, he wanted to surprise her bla bla,

She told me that She want to run away, She later involved her Mother elder sister, because she lost her mother when she was age 4... The mother sister called me to confirm if I truly love her the way she does, and i told her I do, I also involved my mother, The mother sister told me, if I can refund the money to the man, rent a house for the girl within her work place, I gave them assurance.

Getting accomodations within her working place is a bit difficult, The old man house serve as a help to her, She cannot stay in my place and be going to the work because I leave far from the work place.. She need the work more than anything. Getting job here is like impossible.

I have been down since 3 days... Funny enough the old man fix the traditional marriage on August 1, The old man is trying to use the weeding to hold the girl down, I really feel bad because the girl told me few months ago to do the introduction for her, I told her to wait till September.

I feel I'm the one losing here, She's coming this weekend to visit me, Her father keep pushing her to marry the old man, I don't know what to do, these is the second girl I'm losing dis year... I don't wanna loose this girl. I also need her for a Permanent Stay in this country

I Seek an advised, Help a brother in Depression.

Eyan Regina Daniels.....

long story short... THAT WOMAN NEVER LOVED YOU....move on!

Abeg..
I have advised y'all to leave relationship and marriage alone.
Clearly those things ain't for men cos we always end up losing.

Have kids without getting married and enjoy your life.

A word is enough for the wise.

I pray that I and my hommies won't be unfortunate enough to fall victims to "love is blind". Amen.

Relationship is like betting. The chance of it working out is 50/50. That you were dating her doesn't mean that you must marry her. No, it doesn't work that way! There's no law that said that boyfriend & girlfriend relationship is one-way to marriage. So, it's all trial and error. When it becomes an error, you move on. Case closed.

Firstly OP, try and use paragraphs next time to ease reading.

To your post,

You're not the one in control of your relationship.

Her confessions about her relationship with that rich man shows she doesn't love you but you keep forcing/persuading her to trust you because of your obsession for her(red flag)

If you eventually marry that girl, probability is high that she will cheat on you or even dump you later so, Discontinue the relationship for your good.

Romanblackjezzy:
Sorry for my bad English

I'm going crazy right now, I meant this girl's February 2021, I ask her out, At first she was affriad to go out with me, because she didn't trust young guys, I managed to confused her, She later accepted.. our first date was wonderful, She fall in love completely, One day She decided to open up to me, That she do stay with an old man, She was having accomodations problem years back, her ex young boyfriend betrayed her, She slept in the street for months, The old man seen to be her sugar daddy then, She contacted The old man about her situation, finally the old man decided to offer her accomodations, food n clothes, Funny enough the old man is old enough to be her father, She's told me that she want to leave the man and countinue with me, because I'm different from other young guys she has meant, I should help her, I couldn't believe it, She beg me not to end the relationship, I promise her I will not betray her, We started working towards her documentation, work and accomodations, I told her I will do my best, God finally bless her with 5 years document 3 weeks ago, few days later she got a good job, I was so happy for her for the rapid success, definitely she's going to the government project with free accomodation and Free education no need for me to stress myself.. 3 days ago She called me that something happens, that she told the old man she's leaving for the government project, that man feel bad but accepted, to her biggest concern her father in Nigeria called her that the old man has send them money for traditional marriage, She confronted the old man, Why will you send my family money to prepare for traditional marriage without my concern, Why do you want to marry me now that I have job and document? The man told her, he wanted to surprise her bla bla, She told me that She want to run away, She later involved her Mother elder sister, because she lost her mother when she was age 4... The mother sister called to confirm if I truly love her the way she does, and i told her I do, I also involved my mother, The mother sister told me, if I can refund the money to the man, rent a house for the girl within her work place, I gave them assurance, getting accomodations within her working place is a bit difficult, The old man house
serve as a help to her, She cannot stay in my place and be going to the work because I leave far from the work place.. She need the work more than anything. Getting job here is like impossible.. I have been down since 3 days... Funny enough the old man fix the traditional marriage on August 1, The old man is trying to use the weeding to hold the girl down, I really feel bad because the girl told me few months ago to do the introduction for her, I told her to wait till September, I feel I'm the one losing here, She's coming this weekend to visit me, Her father keep pushing her to marry the old man, I don't know what to do, these is the second girl I'm losing dis year... I don't wanna loose this girl.

Why una dey suffer for woman like this...
Most relationships you stress yourself like this...no dey work... take a deep breath and move on

Your girlfriend or your public warehouse?

Na wo for some guys why following a girl doesn't love and she is friend old man for that mata

She belongs to the streets bro..

She can't be saved or kept.. Move on!

Fvck all of you

Romanblackjezzy:
Sorry for my bad English

I'm going crazy right now, I meant this girl's February 2021, I ask her out, At first she was affriad to go out with me, because she didn't trust young guys, I managed to confused her, She later accepted..

Our first date was wonderful, She fall in love completely, One day She decided to open up to me, That she do stay with an old man, She was having accomodations problem years back, her ex young boyfriend betrayed her, She slept in the street for months, The old man seen to be her sugar daddy then, She contacted The old man about her situation, finally the old man decided to offer her accomodations, food n clothes.

Funny Part the old man is old enough to be her father, She's told me that she want to leave the man and countinue with me, because I'm different from other young guys she has meant, I should help her, I couldn't believe it, She beg me not to end the relationship, I promise her I will not betray her.

We started working towards her documentation, work and accomodations, I told her I will do my best, God finally bless her with 5 years document 3 weeks ago, few days later she got a good job, I was so happy for her for the rapid success, definitely she's going to the government project with free accomodation and Free education no need for me to stress myself.

3 days ago She called me that something happens, that she told the old man she's leaving for the government project, The man feel bad but accepted, to her biggest concern her father in Nigeria called her that the old man has send them money for traditional marriage.

She confronted the old man, Why will you send my family money to prepare for traditional marriage without my concern, Why do you want to marry me now that I have job and document? The man told her, he wanted to surprise her bla bla,

She told me that She want to run away, She later involved her Mother elder sister, because she lost her mother when she was age 4... The mother sister called me to confirm if I truly love her the way she does, and i told her I do, I also involved my mother, The mother sister told me, if I can refund the money to the man, rent a house for the girl within her work place, I gave them assurance.

Getting accomodations within her working place is a bit difficult, The old man house serve as a help to her, She cannot stay in my place and be going to the work because I leave far from the work place.. She need the work more than anything. Getting job here is like impossible.

I have been down since 3 days... Funny enough the old man fix the traditional marriage on August 1, The old man is trying to use the weeding to hold the girl down, I really feel bad because the girl told me few months ago to do the introduction for her, I told her to wait till September.

I feel I'm the one losing here, She's coming this weekend to visit me, Her father keep pushing her to marry the old man, I don't know what to do, these is the second girl I'm losing dis year... I don't wanna loose this girl. I also need her for a Permanent Stay in this country

I Seek an advised, Help a brother in Depression.

What will happen if she doesnt make paper for you to stay in Europe?

Free the lady and wish her the best, then live on with your life.

There is a reason....

Guy no dull oh,just day knack her better knack before she go marry,anytime she come your house just knack her just day knack her,release inside just day release inside

They have left you behind
Sorry
You are a moomu man

You better free the girl,take note of this that thecold man send the family money for traditional marriage i dont think is true.Be wise and watchful.

A responsible man would never tie a lady down when it's very obvious to him that age is no longer by her side..
That's what I say to myself.....I no go fit hoard somebody pikin from marriage when I'm not yet ready....And when another guyman wey ready show up,and if she's equally ready,,I go just let her go.....I no go fit allow my love for her to destroy her destiny...

Sorry to say,... you lost her already, or else she can just japaa for you all till the introduction date will come and go.

Sharamuta Don put my guy for high jump
Wise girl, she dey run two matured men local.

Omooo no kilk ursef o, if that girl really love u as u said she will turn down the old man offer.
She should stand her ground on what she want n partner with u to fight the battle n nt leave it to u alone.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

Mtchewww!!

Happy married life to your girlfriend.

I don't even have energy to type these days, that's the major problem.

1. Are you so dumb to see that your babe and the "mother sister" wan collabo to chop your head? Which one is that you should refund the money the old man sent for marriage? Can't you see it's a format? Or will they give you receipt? You are very stùpid.

2. The second girl you have lost this year. Na Government work? Just look at how pained you are by something so inconsequential. I was thinking the other day, I've slept with over 5 girls this year and I'm not even trying. The problem is that you try to keep these girls like you will never get another one if you lose them, that's why you are so pained. Just fùck and go mehn, that's the code. Don't be selfish and try to colonise one pùssy to yourself.

3. You care too much.

4. You are too emotional

5. Look at the amount of effort you have invested in the girl's life. What have you done to improve your own miserable life?

6. I still think you're stùpid.

7. I hope this story is fake.

waywardpikin:
I don't even have energy to type these days, that's the major problem.

1. Are you so dumb to see that your babe and the "mother sister" wan collabo to chop your head? Which one is that you should refund the money the old man sent for marriage? Can't you see it's a format? Or will they give you receipt? You are very stùpid.

2. The second girl you have lost this year. Na Government work? Just look at how pained you are by something so inconsequential. I was thinking the other day, I've slept with over 5 girls this year and I'm not even trying. The problem is that you try to keep these girls like you will never get another one if you lose them, that's why you are so pained. Just fùck and go mehn, that's the code. Don't be selfish and try to colonise one pùssy to yourself.

3. You care too much.

4. You are too emotional

5. Look at the amount of effort you have invested in the girl's life. What have you done to improve your own miserable life?

6. I still think you're stùpid.

7. I hope this story is fake.

You don't need to insult me, I have done much in my life.. I have property worth Millons, I have well furnished apartment and a good job.. I'm too emotional, I agree with you.. I care too much you are right, second girl yes, I don't slept around..