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I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Stupidquestions: 10:15pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general? I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone. . ..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me. . And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private) I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest.. . Is this possible or is this feeling normal? 24 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by sam564: 10:19pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
have u heard of the saying that ' loneliness is next to suicide? its very scaring wen u become very quiet, calm and avoid people.... naso one guy for area dey avoid people all the time, he no dey comout for room, alwys stays alone...... boooooommmm... one morning dem see him dead body hanging... 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Ever8090: 10:20pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
You spoiled the settings when you decided that you will still want to meet a woman in the process...why not avoid women too as they are humans that you wish to stay away from...if I may ask, what do you still need a woman for.? 8 Likes
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Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Stupidquestions: 10:24pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
sam564: I'm not lonely perse....cos when I feel lonely or bored I know where to go and wat to do..But, aside those few occasion, I just want to avoid people getting close to me..I mean close pals or family or friends......Just wanna be private without close connection ... we can chichat out there on the street for limited time, but getting access to me, I feel it's intrusive and unnecessary, especially my personal space.... . 8 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Vinnie2000(m): 10:31pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
@the OP!! There is NOTHING wrong with you@all.. Either you are an Introvert or You have reached a stage in ur life When you are Trying to Get things right.. It's normal.. Suddenly, you will see yourself having a job, meeting new friends, doing sth new, etc.. 14 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by sam564: 10:31pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:don't u think u need deliverance Stupidquestions:don't u think u need deliverance lols... don't ever forget that people u are shying away from are thesame people that will help u at due times.... is very gud to take precautions and get self respect from people... there are issues u can't solve alone nomata what, so u will eventually need som1 |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Stupidquestions: 10:34pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:Thanks for this....I'm not actually your typical introvert. . I'm quite outspoken and can relate well with people.. but at same time, I'm very introspective and hate mundane shits...then human being to me are too superficial, selfish, fake and intrusive for my liking 6 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Bodyodour: 10:39pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Your own is better. I am becoming disinterested at life. I am not depressed but I think am tired. 10 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Stupidquestions: 10:43pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Bodyodour:. Life is such shit that we need to question its worth and value in a shit hole like Nigeria 7 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Do you masturbate? Wait don’t answer! You obviously do. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Stupidquestions: 10:52pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
iamadonis2:I don't actually. Im not a fan of masturbation. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by pregnantMan: 11:28pm On Jul 22, 2021 |
Op, this is exactly the same way am feeling at the moment.. I hate seeing calls coming from close friends or anybody..I just want to be far away from people physically..maybe scroll through social media jst looking at pics nd videos..I hate seeing chats frm people.. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Vinnie2000(m): 6:40am On Jul 23, 2021 |
pregnantMan: Dats also what I told the OP! You re just in a Phase of Life.. This is mainly due to Disappointment of how some things didn't turn out well, Missed opportunities you have had, some kind of betrayal from Friends, etc.. One Pastor told my Brother day he DOESN'T trust anybody in this life..Dat humans are Terrible.. Dat B4 he can trust a person, it has to be proved like 20x..Dat he rarely does anything serious with Human beings.. Pastor oo!! So It's like Dat.. But As I told the OP, this Phase will pass.. You will find urself associating with more pple soon.. Particularly If get married, get a new Job, travel to a new place,etc.. 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Robertgreene1(m): 9:30am On Jul 23, 2021 |
same here bro solitude is very dangerous... it's very addictive..once u realize how peaceful it is..then u wouldn't wanna deal with people any longer... As 4 me bro...if not that my bizness entails meeting people...I do just prefer 2 hole up in my room...read E-books...watch Aljazeera news nd listen 2 music all day... Human beings don tire me... na 2 js buy pet dog or cat sure pass.. 13 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by bepositive11: 9:41am On Jul 23, 2021 |
Stupidquestions: What happened to you before you got this way? As for me, quality people over quantity, anytime any day. I'd rather stay alone than waste time with people who lack depth. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Stupidquestions: 9:45am On Jul 23, 2021 |
Robertgreene1:Honestly...u geh my point. . Even my choice of house...I don't want it within noisy or bustle area....love to have it far away from the pry of ordinary people.. . I crave that solitude. 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Jossyfine(f): 10:20am On Jul 23, 2021 |
[quote author=Stupidquestions post=103988764] Thanks for this....I'm not actually your typical introvert. . I'm quite outspoken and can relate well with people.. but at same time, I'm very introspective and hate mundane shits...then human being to me are too superficial, selfish, fake and intrusive for my liking[/quote It’s because you have not met the right people 1 Like |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Stupidquestions: 1:13pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
[quote author=Jossyfine post=104000778][/quote] I don't get |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by luvmijeje(f): 1:30pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
I have experienced it. But for me, solitude is an opportunity to focus strictly on me. I use those moment to focus on things I love doing and mostly to process information that I didn't have time to process. I envy the fact that you can afford to do that. The only free time I have is when everybody is sleeping. My solitude is between 2:30am and 5:am. These are times I catched up with news, process information, write, respond to personal mails chat ....... Walai I envy you o. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Offpoint1: 1:40pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Yours is better... Mine, I need an entire planet where I can live alone, no single soul except trees and birds. 6 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Mazzatov: 1:54pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
This is exactly what is going on with me, I just want to be alone like I don’t wanna see anybody I just wanna be alone in my world... mine is mostly cos of the billing, sometimes I lodge alone for weeks.... 1 Like |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Sonnobax15(m): 2:08pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Once in a while,I choose to kill beer on my own... No friends,no wahala...... Success is truly the only thing created by God that has many friends.. While failure is just SELF-CONTAIN...... I'm an introvert...A proud one for that matter... 11 Likes
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Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by pansophist(m): 12:03pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Stupidquestions: That's the price you pay for being too smart. Expecially living in a country where the average IQ is less than 99. There is a level of enlightenment a man would reach, that will make him comparable to the gods. You'll detest fraternizing with people in general, and progressively become apathetic to the masses. You'll see most people as anchovies, who lack an independent mind of their own, can't formulate their own path in life, and just live according to the dictate of their nature and nurture. You're not alone. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Clickguy44: 12:06pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
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Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by seguno2: 5:47pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
pansophist: Is there a difference with your comment below? pansophist: |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by stanliwise(m): 5:49pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:What is your passion |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Mide3367: 8:02pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
Stupidquestions:surprisingly, I had that thought this morning.. I mean I wished I could erase everyone I know and get to know new people entirely in a far away country 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by pansophist(m): 6:56am On Jul 26, 2021 |
seguno2: I don't understand you bro |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Daniiel: 8:24am On Jul 26, 2021 |
Na thread for depressed n low self esteem people be this .... I dey like this before thank God sey I don begin chop life small. |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Stupidquestions: 8:26pm On Jul 27, 2021 |
Daniiel:Lol...look at this fool .... ...so tell us about your time in that mood and situation 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 27, 2021 |
Daniiel:it's a thread to vent, over meeting opportunists, meaningless people in this life, Some people are better forgotten in this life. You just have to make friends with people who has a vision in life, where ever you are. Stay focused and move on with your life. 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Lost Interest In People In General: Anyone Ever Experienced This? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jul 27, 2021 |
We are the same man.... Exactly how I always feel........For no reason, I always find solace in solitude. 1 Like |
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