₦airaland Forum

EASYGURU:
Alot arr damaged not all.
Refer here
https://www.nairaland.com/6673069/wedding-finally-crashed...long-read

No 3 point made

EndNigeriaNoow:
Forget that nonsense that some foolish nairalnders often say. Ladies trained by a single mother is no different from those trained by those who are fortunate to have their dad alive while growing up. Everything depends on the lady u are marrying and not whether she grew up with her father and mother or only her mother. It is stupidity for people to even think such things about Ladies who grew up with their mum. Nigerians zoo people stupidity

yanabasee1:
Depends....


If the single mother got divorced or separated... Then don't marry such a girl...


But if her mother is a widow... and still speaks good about her husband .. You could marry her...

I've come to realize that, there's a huge difference from kids trained by both parents and kids trained by a single mother...

A girl trained by a single mother will lack some trainings from her father, especially on taking care of a man... since those weren't observed from how her mother handled her father...

E.g... My ex would ensure that the last food at home is kept for me... She'll rather not eat anything until I get home... And she never served my food without meat... Until the last scooping from the pot, there'd be meat to finish the last plate.... While my current girl doesn't understand that... She will eat equal meat with you... She ensures that you let her eat last since she's a girl...and believes as a man I am stronger than her and can stay hungry...She was trained by a single mother while my ex was trained by both parents...

tayewomi:
and why did you break up with your ex?

seanwilliam:
Honestly I feel a strong concern for this. Reading so many heartbreaking stories on nairaland and Twitter about the toxicity of girls raised by single mother made me to raise this question . Is it advisable to marry a woman raised by a single mother ? Especially if her mother is divorced or separated.

If no, What are your reasons??

Cc
Ubunja
Pansophist
Martinez39

seanwilliam:
Honestly I feel a strong concern for this. Reading so many heartbreaking stories on nairaland and Twitter about the toxicity of girls raised by single mother made me to raise this question . Is it advisable to marry a woman raised by a single mother ? Especially if her mother is divorced or separated.

If no, What are your reasons??

Na wetin fit you be that no wonder you're very scornful

Cc
Ubunja
Pansophist
Martinez39

yanabasee1:
Depends....


If the single mother got divorced or separated... Then don't marry such a girl...


But if her mother is a widow... and still speaks good about her husband .. You could marry her...

I've come to realize that, there's a huge difference from kids trained by both parents and kids trained by a single mother...

A girl trained by a single mother will lack some trainings from her father, especially on taking care of a man... since those weren't observed from how her mother handled her father...

E.g... My ex would ensure that the last food at home is kept for me... She'll rather not eat anything until I get home... And she never served my food without meat... Until the last scooping from the pot, there'd be meat to finish the last plate.... While my current girl doesn't understand that... She will eat equal meat with you... She ensures that you let her eat last since she's a girl...and believes as a man I am stronger than her and can stay hungry...She was trained by a single mother while my ex was trained by both parents...

zexy2030:
Marry a girl not raised in the house of a single mum but raised in her grandmother's house:

1. They are wiser
2. They are good cooks
3. They are respectful
4. They love generously.

Disadvantage
If her grandma is poor and not strict she will may be spoilt by neighbours
If her grandma is with her grandpa raised her she will be a good to go girl.

BuySomething:
All girls are not the same, if you wanna marry her go ahead

EndNigeriaNoow:
Forget that nonsense that some foolish nairalnders often say. Ladies trained by a single mother is no different from those trained by those who are fortunate to have their dad alive while growing up. Everything depends on the lady u are marrying and not whether she grew up with her father and mother or only her mother. It is stupidity for people to even think such things about Ladies who grew up with their mum. Nigerians zoo people stupidity

Bennysam:
You never see something, if you are not married please don't near a girl raise by single mother . I'm telling you out of experience