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Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 8:03am On Sep 26, 2016
I am not saying ladies raised by single parents are all bad, you may get lucky finding some exceptional ladies raised by single mums. Evidently you seldom find single men raising a child but it's quite prevalent with the opposite sex.

A relation of mine was dating this lady and when the time came for the union to be made official, his parents advised him to discontinue becos after they had made enquiries and investigation they discovered the lady's mother left her husband many years ago over some frivolous reasons. Then I asked my uncle why did he side with family and not allow his son take the bold step then he said:

1. Women raised by single parent (mother) are usually strong willed hence may end up like their mother.

2. A lady who has seen no need for a father will be swift to end a union because she will have the courage to train her children alone afterall she was raised by a mum.

3. How will she get marital advice from her mum when things are tough and you know ladies often run to their mum when they need advice (remember the mother took the easy way out)

4. Sooner or later my son may become a bachelor again...the odd is high and is glaring..

5. A lady who have spent 21 years of her life without a father cannot be psychologically stable even if she appears to be.

6. Ladies raised by single parents did not experience the beautiful and ugly part of the union called marriage from her parents hence they don't have their parents as their role model.

7. Amin (as he fondly calls me) when the baton gets to you, look at the mother of your fiancèe closely because with time she will display those traits you observed in the mother......

Then I asked him what if the lady's father is dead and the mum decided to train her alone?...my uncle said we may also enquire about the untimely death of the father but "Amin that is a topic for another day"......

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Arthurwinner(m): 8:06am On Sep 26, 2016
impaired perception

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by niggi4life(m): 8:07am On Sep 26, 2016
90% of my Ex GFs and female friends who were raised by sinlge parent are not yet married and some are over 30yrs.
The 10% who are into relationships or married are usually rude and they are too quick to judge the guys easily.

I am not blaming anyone here, it's just what i have observed.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 8:14am On Sep 26, 2016
Arthurwinner:
impaired perception
your opinion though...but what an elder statesman see while seating...even if you stand at the peak of everest you may not see...

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by mecussey(m): 8:16am On Sep 26, 2016
True to an extent, however some of the girls are super willing to prove to there mum that she does not have enough reason to leave there father hence, will manage there marriage by all means

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 8:16am On Sep 26, 2016
niggi4life:
90% of my Ex GF and female friends who were raised by sinlge parent are not yet married and some are over 30
Arthurwinner come see another revelation...well it is not 100% certain...but the odd is high
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by possibilita(m): 8:18am On Sep 26, 2016
niggi4life:
90% of my Ex GF and female friends who were raised by sinlge parent are not yet married and some are over 30
and how did you come about this statistics?

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 8:19am On Sep 26, 2016
mecussey:
True to an extent, however some of the girls are super willing to prove to there mum that she does not have enough reason to leave there father hence, will manage there marriage by all means
that's true but as human when things are tough you need someone to encourage you but when your mentor took the easy way out...it may take more than ordinary for you to remain steadfast

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Flickzvill(m): 8:19am On Sep 26, 2016
My present gf (single mom,dad died wen she was young, step dad left dem) nd if I tell my parents dis its a no go area for me. Don't even know wat to do she's lovely very homely,kind gentle and knows how to cook well but the family background tho

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 8:19am On Sep 26, 2016
Middlefinger

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by mecussey(m): 8:25am On Sep 26, 2016
CuteMorriz:
that's true but as human when things are tough you need someone to encourage you but when your mentor took the easy way out...it may take more than ordinary for you to remain steadfast

Thats when they didnt miss there dad one bit...if they did, they will think twice before taking the easy way out.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by UndisputedBosom: 8:28am On Sep 26, 2016
CuteMorriz:
your opinion though...but what an elder statesman see while seating...even if you stand at the peak of everest you may not see...




WORD wink

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by niggi4life(m): 8:28am On Sep 26, 2016
possibilita:
and how did you come about this statistics?
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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by niggi4life(m): 8:29am On Sep 26, 2016
possibilita:
and how did you come about this statistics?
When you have 10 Exes who were raised by single parent and only one is married, How many percent is that?

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by goingape1: 8:30am On Sep 26, 2016
if you find out that there are raise by single parent pls abort that mission.
those women are wayward and would put that same cursed on you.

she will later leave and repeat the same process again.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 8:47am On Sep 26, 2016
rubbish.
Ain't they better than people raised by two abusive parents?

It's actually a good quality to be able to carry on without most men of this generation.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 9:22am On Sep 26, 2016
PaperLace:
rubbish.
Ain't they better than people raised by two abusive parents?

It's actually a good quality to be able to carry on without most men of this generation.
The problem I often have with people (ladies especially) is they don't know how to argue logically...can't you see you are already changing the subject...learn to stay within context...

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 9:24am On Sep 26, 2016
goingape1:
if you find out that there are raise by single parent pls abort that mission.

those women are wayward and would put that same cursed on you.


she will later leave and repeat the same process again.
hmmmmmmmmm.....may be true

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 9:25am On Sep 26, 2016
niggi4life:
When you have 10 Exes who were raised by single parent and only one is married, How many percent is that?
10 exes lol...you funny die...
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Acidosis(m): 9:41am On Sep 26, 2016
This thread is going to make my day


**just sitting and watching**
grin

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by nnamdibig(m): 9:41am On Sep 26, 2016
True to an extent.
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 9:44am On Sep 26, 2016
What about ladies raised by a single father angry

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 9:56am On Sep 26, 2016
Acidosis:
This thread is going to make my day



**just sitting and watching**

grin
lalasticlala...oya come come carry this thing go FP...
Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 9:56am On Sep 26, 2016
ItsQuinn:
What about ladies raised by a single father angry
you hardly see a single father...

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 10:00am On Sep 26, 2016
CuteMorriz:
The problem I often have with people (ladies especially) is they don't know how to argue logically...can't you see you are already changing the subject...learn to stay within context...

oh...hush it and don't play that gender card with me.
I asked you a simple question Mr Logic, ain't they better than people brought up by abusive parents?
Yes or No?
What of men brought up by single mothers?
Women brought up by single dads?
The ones brought up by two abusive parents?

I think you're the one that lacks logical reasoning, you expect everyone to come in and agree with you?
So much for a logical man.

Maybe the single mothers should have thrown away the child. Do you guys even remember Nigeria's population before churning out these preposterous and facile assertions? ?

What is even your definition of single mum?
A widow?
Divorcee?
Never been married mother?

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Creamish(f): 10:02am On Sep 26, 2016
CuteMorriz:
you hardly see a single father...

Single fathers are there. What is your opinion on them or are u simply biased towards women alone?

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Creamish(f): 10:03am On Sep 26, 2016
PaperLace:


oh...hush it and don't play that gender card with me.
I asked you a simple question Mr Logic, ain't they better than people brought up by abusive parents?
Yes or No?
What of men brought up by single mothers?
Women brought up by single dads?
The ones brought up by two abusive parents?

I think you're the one that lacks logical reasoning, you expect everyone to come in and agree with you?
So much for a logical man.

Maybe the single mothers should have thrown away the child. Do you guys even remember Nigeria's population before churning out these preposterous and facile assertions? ?

What is even your definition of single mum?
A widow?
Divorcee?
Never been married mother?

Thank you.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 10:05am On Sep 26, 2016
CuteMorriz:
you hardly see a single father...
well I'm an example angry

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by CuteMorriz: 10:06am On Sep 26, 2016
Creamish:


Single fathers are there. What is your opinion on them or are u simply biased towards women alone?
Far from it!...far from it young lady!...the percentage is quite small and negligible....a single man of 70yrs is still pressurised to get married let alone a young able bodied man...so let's us not argue futility

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Creamish(f): 10:07am On Sep 26, 2016
CuteMorriz:
Far from it!...far from it young lady!...the percentage is quite small and negligible....a single man of 70yrs is still pressurised to get married let alone a young able bodied man...so let's us not argue futility

...and this applies to ALL single fathers? smh. I rest my case with u.

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Re: Why You Shouldn't Marry A Lady Raised By A Single Parent by Nobody: 10:08am On Sep 26, 2016
Creamish:


Single fathers are there. What is your opinion on them or are u simply biased towards women alone?
Exactly! He's just being biased undecided

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