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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by anigbajumo(m): 6:53pm On Jul 29, 2021
rosalieene:
Social media men actually.
Those ones at Alaba market, main market or those with very busy job schedules mostly own up to their responsibilities.
Infact, those who are not social media Enthusiasts.
Social media have corrupted this ones mind. cheesy
You could av made a valid point if only u counter the guy advice for we single guys that are beaming the searchlight everywhere to look for good lady to marry. The guy has played his card well and kudos to him.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Segfaultt(m): 6:55pm On Jul 29, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Yes it is
just realized I can't send a mail cos the mail attached to this account is inaccessible.
Mind dropping your number or should I drop mine you'd call so we could communicate?
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by AutoChick4U(f): 6:57pm On Jul 29, 2021
Segfaultt:
just realized I can't send a mail cos the mail attached to this account is inaccessible.
Mind dropping your number or should I drop mine you'd call so we could communicate?
OK. I'll call. Kindly drop in a dead thread
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Segfaultt(m): 6:58pm On Jul 29, 2021
AutoChick4U:
OK. I'll call. Kindly drop in a dead thread
.
Kindly notify me when you receive it so I can obliterate it.
Thanks
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by DarkCaesar(m): 6:59pm On Jul 29, 2021
OP is just a fucking Sissy……girls from single homes only understand the ‘iron hand’ and she will submit, even her mother that raised her will submit to you. The only reason I can divorce my wife is Cheating. The lady is clearly the one handling the relationship
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by AutoChick4U(f): 6:59pm On Jul 29, 2021
benji93:
No need calling anyone irresponsible? A lot is contained in not saying anything as much as saying something? You didn't quite answer the other question. Do you plan to introduce your kid to his father? And if his father knows, do they have any relationship of any form?
Nope I don't plan on introducing anyone. None and he knows but cares less but its OK. You can't force a horse to drink
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by EmperorTolson: 6:59pm On Jul 29, 2021
Lollittaa:
[color=pink]don't ask me stvpid questions. What's Google there for? angry[/color]
U see say you be idiot calling yourself a virgin when you constantly finger yourself watching porn.
SMH
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by AutoChick4U(f): 7:02pm On Jul 29, 2021
Segfaultt:
ks
aii
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Segfaultt(m): 7:03pm On Jul 29, 2021
AutoChick4U:
aii
anticipating.
WhatsApp preferably.
Thanks
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by IamGreen1(f): 7:04pm On Jul 29, 2021
Belafonte:
Are you a good woman
Instead of you to answer my question first, do you deserve a virtuous woman, yes or no?
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by AutoChick4U(f): 7:05pm On Jul 29, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:
cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
I can only weep
Again, Your write up speaks volume.
MEN have become endangered specie.
MEN should stop getting married at this rate.
Some saved up millions just to have a leech beside them. It's not worth it.

Again, the LADIES should start delisting marriage from their plans too especially when you are not ready to live with a man yet.
I'm appealing to Ladies to remain in their parent's houses or better still marry themselves especially when you have vowed never to come under the tutelage of any man.

MARRIAGE is not warfare.
If our mothers could do such when our fathers married 3, 4 ,or 5 wives, why can't you do it now that men have been brainwashed to marry one.
Thats why d bible Said the Wife should "Respect" the Husband. I've come to realize there are so many qualities attached to that word "Respect" as well. Then men are charged with Love which includes care
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by AutoChick4U(f): 7:09pm On Jul 29, 2021
Segfaultt:
I have a fetish for single moms cool
Lolz, just seeing this. I don't have strength biko, no vex.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 7:13pm On Jul 29, 2021
Fountainofyouth:
Say hello to them for me.....
Pained generation of bleeding holes cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ikwerelastborn: 7:16pm On Jul 29, 2021
Schprobs:
My current gf is also raise by single mother her anger toward men was too aggressive

We were aurging the other days before i knew it she hit hammer on my knee i could not walks for days i just pray i shld find another women before these one kills me,but before then keep praying for me

But the idiots thinks she don turn me to bomboy not knowing nah because of free pussy i just dey look am
Same way u be free dickk, there is nothing like free pvssy,stay there until she kills u
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Moborlarh(f): 7:33pm On Jul 29, 2021
Pecoleee345:
Get well soon.....i will have a conversation with you when you get married.

It is a simple 2+2=4 to you....when you get married then you will understand.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by adedayourt(m): 7:36pm On Jul 29, 2021
Ishilove:
How is she handling it?
She acting non challant about it
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ishilove: 7:44pm On Jul 29, 2021
adedayourt:
She acting non challant about it
In time she will come begging and please don't accept her back, unless you are ready to endure a toxic marriage. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by zomoears(m): 7:49pm On Jul 29, 2021
Rozcol:
She's your responsibility as wife and her primary duty is to give care and not provide, be a masculine man and not a man who feels relaxed watching his wife toil to help him share responsibility.
Would be cool doing this if she treated me like a king and a provider.

But today’s woman wants it all and give little or nothing in return
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by zomoears(m): 7:59pm On Jul 29, 2021
Rozcol:
She's your responsibility as wife and her primary duty is to give care and not provide, be a masculine man and not a man who feels relaxed watching his wife toil to help him share responsibility.
Masculine man kee you there.

Are you a “feminine female”? Submissive. Stoop to conquer. Respect. Takes Pride in her man. Non confrontational?

These are some of the attributes of a “feminine female”. Are you one?

You want to eat your cake and have it.

What you are looking for is a donkey that you will work to death.

Masculine man kee you there.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Belafonte(m): 8:06pm On Jul 29, 2021
IamGreen1:
Instead of you to answer my question first, do you deserve a virtuous woman, yes or no?
Ladies first tongue
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by IamGreen1(f): 8:13pm On Jul 29, 2021
Belafonte:
Ladies first tongue
Alright, I'm not
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by rosalieene(f): 8:13pm On Jul 29, 2021
MrColdsweat:
You are crazy!

You attend the same school with men, eat the same food, drink the same water, fight for the same jobs, treat the same malaria and typhoid, and you want a man to provide for you while you do nothing? Of what use is your education?

What if your husband dies while working extra hard to provide for you?


You need sense and you need it urgently.
Sense is very far from you obviously.
You are trying to speak with emotions, sorry it failed.
Own up to your responsibilities if you are a man.
Same school, same food blablabla.
But when you're told to cook, take care of kids and the home you will get offended saying that it's not your responsibility. You scream Redpillar! Yet you want equal financial responsibilities in the home.
In reality, how many women actually just sit at home doing nothing? Very few Except for those whose husbands told them to seat at home.
You people just come to social media to yarn nonsense all because you want equal financial responsibilities.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Belafonte(m): 8:15pm On Jul 29, 2021
IamGreen1:
Alright, I'm not
Well, I'm a gentleman and I insist bro grin
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by IamGreen1(f): 8:58pm On Jul 29, 2021
Belafonte:
Well, I'm a gentleman and I insist bro grin
Alright, virtuous lady fall on you.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Moneywirer: 9:16pm On Jul 29, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Definitely. I won't b alone, omo I can't thrive alone o so she go get stepdad
That's good.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by takimsipho(m): 9:46pm On Jul 29, 2021
So much has been said on this thread already. My take is this, op personal experience and his list of advice have their merits and demerits and as usual everybody will interpret them to a tune of their own beliefs and standards. Some people are blaming the op for the crash, saying he is not man enough, but the thing is this everybody is not the same. Some people can tolerate all manner of nuisance in the name of marriage or love, but some people can't. Of course there are men who are irresponsible, but people don't do things nowadays because it's expected of them. No man wants to spend his money anymore on someone who takes him for granted in the name of marriage or love. Which girl wants to keep being with a man who beats her to coma all the time in the name of marriage or love. The more freedom we have acquired has made us less tolerant of the things that doesn't suit us. If you want to make your marriage or relationship work you have to give your partner enough reasons to keep being with you, you don't treat someone the way you like and think they won't cut you of. Work on yourself cos people has zero chills these days. People are no longer bounded strongly by religion and traditional thinking anymore that use to make people accept some things as fate or be suffering in silence. People are learning to choose their own happiness regardless of what other people might think.
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Belafonte(m): 9:51pm On Jul 29, 2021
IamGreen1:
Alright, virtuous lady fall on you.
Amen and thank you.
Good man land on you too
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Marpol2021(m): 10:09pm On Jul 29, 2021
OP,MARRIAGE IS FOR BETTER AND FOR WORST. MY GOD HATE PUTTING AWAY
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by AutoChick4U(f): 10:31pm On Jul 29, 2021
Moneywirer:
That's good.
Check ur mail
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Mirror97: 10:33pm On Jul 29, 2021
NoToPile:
The vibes I am getting from posts on this thread is that men no longer want to be providers.
Day by day it's getting hard to be a sole provider especially in a country like Nigeria..
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by IamGreen1(f): 10:43pm On Jul 29, 2021
Belafonte:
Amen and thank you.

Good man land on you too
Amen
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by lordally(m): 10:59pm On Jul 29, 2021
BiggyB242:
I have 3 close relations married to medical doctors while the fourth one to a pharmacist, these women are so lovely and down to earth. There is one who is a professor in medicine, she cooks for the whole family(including the gateman) before leaving the house for work in the morning while she goes straight to the kitchen after work to prepare dinner she does it every damn day till date, though she has a girl who assists her.

I have stayed amongst medical doctors. Their kids are brilliant, well co-coordinated, they got no time for social media attention or parties, etc, when there are lots of exams to write no time. When it comes to morals I give them a pass mark. It doesn't apply to all female doctors but It applies to a higher percentage.
My Comments was directed to someone who said he wants to marry a doctor and I was just trying to let him know it's not all about the profession but about the individual!
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