Pecoleee345:
[s]After going through people comments on my last thread....I felt I need to answer questions asked.

Why i decided to break my marriage..[/s]

DoggoneDogg:
Oga you are becoming stale & this is starting to look like a mod-sponsored saga.

You wan divorce, you announce am here.
You dey divorce, you announce am here.
You don divorce, you still wan announce am here.

Dem use attention-seeking swear for you sef?
You be pikin? I'm starting to think you are the problem in the marriage sef (if any).

Abeg geddifok outta here let's have peace of mind jare.
Never seen a man that's not ashamed to wash all his dirty linen so publicly.

Seems he's even enjoying it sef.
Rubbish.

he's an attention seeking boy
Jor

Lollittaa:
do I know you?

Pecoleee345:
After going through people comments on my last thread....I felt I need to answer questions asked.

Why i decided to break my marriage.
Honestly isn't easy.... only i no the pain am passing through....is not easy to let go of someone you wake up beside for like 3yrs.... sometimes I just go blank, depressed, I never wished for this but is a pain I have to bear for MY PEACE OF MIND.

I was told by a pastor to read proverbs 31:10-31 and after make a decision about my wife and marriage when things was going bad.....I was stalk on it for 2 weeks and my wife wasn't close to what the passage talked about.
Am not a perfect man....but one thing I never do is wish someone evil because he/she offended me, I never cheated and I provided all we needed in the house yet my best was never good enough.
We lived in 2 bedroom apartment, I have a small car and I make lil thousands.

My flaws is I keep malice and the main reason is because I prefer keeping my mouth closed when angry...it was something I had to learn to avoid saying bad words....I keep late night and I believe in doing what you do to me back.

I believe people abuse that word SORRY...... people will intentionally do terrible things to you and feel all they need to do is say sorry and that will be all..
I feel sorry is meant for things not done intentionally.

I don't have issues with the cervix imcompence neither do I blame her for doing an abortion....am not a saint either .....we were referred to a teaching hospital to see a doctor but she insisted it was a spiritual attack from her side... after series of argument I just left her because I cant tie a rope to her neck and drag her down there.
(She believes alot in this spiritual pastor things).

The major problem was I married someone who always wanted to show we are equal...she even joined this women human rights (NGO)..... She can't be submissive.

I say one she say 1 million.....is just who she is ..some men don't have issues with that but I have.
I have the way I want my home and life to be but obviously she wanted a house where talking crazy and insulting should be seen normal.......I can't take that.

Lastly: Some people picked an offence regarding my statement about ladies raised by single mother....I didn't just make that up it a research I had to make and cancelors submission we met.....Even she confessed to those things.

You can go do research and watch videos regarding this on YouTube..... (just type)
major problem most men who marry ladies raised by single mother face.

Not all them are like that but most hate men because of there father....Have never seen any single mother pray for the father of her kids or say good things about them.
Am not mocking them but just stating the fact.

Once again guys if you're a Christian go read proverbs 31:10-31......if she doesn't fit into the type of woman God talked about....the decision is yours.

(Even God is against women that has nothing doing) is in the BIBLE.

Boss13:
OP - don't allow anybody shame you or your decision. A woman must be submissive especially to a man who provides. If she isn't, then she is not a wife.

Perfectman91:


Don't listen to what peeps up there are saying, an unappreciative woman who doesn't give you peace of mind at home should be divorced, life is to short to endure such pains.

do you have a wife? Have you ever lived with a wife? Op, listen to people without experience, divorce her. Afterall you've told us her womb is malfunctioning. Your cup of tea

Lollittaa:

I guess you didn't read what he wrote. If you did, you'd realise he's a very toxic person himself. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work. OK, your wife is misbehaving but he himself has a PhD in keeping malice, in "do me I do you". I have a sibling like this man, and God knows, I pity his future wife everytime I realise he's going to get married.

Lollittaa:

do you have a wife? Have you ever lived with a wife? Op, listen to people without experience, divorce her. Afterall you've told us her womb is malfunctioning. Your cup of tea

Lollittaa:

I guess you didn't read what he wrote. If you did, you'd realise he's a very toxic person himself. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work. OK, your wife is misbehaving but he himself has a PhD in keeping malice, in "do me I do you". I have a sibling like this man, and God knows, I pity his future wife everytime I realise he's going to get married.

Perfectman91:


Yes, ive stayed with one for over 4 years

see life. This one is quietly enjoying his home will telling someone else to pull down his.
Some of you men claiming alpha male online chop sh!t from their wives.

Boss13:


A woman who doesn't submit to the authority of her husband is not a wife.

and a man who must repay every wrong done to him is that a husband? A man who goes days, even weeks without talking to his wife because she offended him, is that a husband? Anyway, birds of a feather, flock together. Y'all are no different from him, hence the support

Lollittaa:
you have divorced her, let's hear word. Immature boy like you. Keeping malice, extremely vengeful. No earthly woman can live with this, not even your own mother. Next time make sure you marry an angel living in heaven

Perfectman91:


Oga, it's better you keep malice than lay your hands on a woman or say bad words, I wonder how you would have handled such, life is to short abeg, let a feminist stay alone

why should you mention wife beating? Is it madness or what that will make a man beat a whole adult? And if you think emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse, there's so much you're yet to know. Emotional abuse is one of the reasons why people kill themselves

Pecoleee345:


Are you the one I divorce.... because I don't understand why you are paranoid.

If your submission was actually sensible she should have left me instead long time ago

I blame your wife for not seeing the red flags. Maybe na age make am marry such an unkind soul as you. Imagine coming to disgrace her talking about her womb. Had it been a woman who came to say her husband has erectile dysfunction, all these goons would have been up in arms.

Lollittaa:

I guess you didn't read what he wrote. If you did, you'd realise he's a very toxic person himself. It takes 2 people to make a relationship work. OK, your wife is misbehaving but he himself has a PhD in keeping malice, in "do me I do you". I have a sibling like this man, and God knows, I pity his future wife everytime I realise he's going to get married.

Lollittaa:

I blame your wife for not seeing the red flags. Maybe na age make am marry such an unkind soul as you. Imagine coming to disgrace her talking about her womb. Had it been a woman who came to say her husband has erectile dysfunction, all these goons would have been up in arms.

Pecoleee345:

My flaws is I keep malice and the main reason is because I prefer keeping my mouth closed when angry...it was something I had to learn to avoid saying bad words....

DoggoneDogg:


Oga you are becoming stale & this is starting to look like a mod-sponsored saga.

You wan divorce, you announce am here.
You dey divorce, you announce am here.
You don divorce, you still wan announce am here.

Dem use attention-seeking swear for you sef?
You be pikin? I'm starting to think you were the problem in the marriage sef (if any).

Abeg geddifok outta here let's have peace of mind jare. Never seen a man that's not ashamed to wash all his dirty linen so publicly. Just imagine Q&A session ontop crashed marriage. What a bitch!!

Seems he's even enjoying it sef.
Rubbish.

torqque7:


Abeg make we hear word..na him send am make she live reckless life come scatter her womb?when they tell u females to lead responsible lives when young because it will always come back to hunt u latter in the future if u don't,yal think its a joke..well she made her bed,let her lay in it. So stop trying to emotionally blackmail the op..Erectile dysfunction wasn't caused by the man who has it as a result of his irresponsible leaving,but a weak womb as a result of multiple abortions was deliberately caused as a result of the ladys irresponsible lifestyle so dnt compare the two at all.

now you see why some women take some secrets to the grave. Everyone makes mistakes and I'm very sure if men had wombs, less than 30% of Nigerian men would have theirs intact. HE KNEW THE CONDITION OF HER WOMB before marrying her. But anyway, no need explaining. A pig will always follow another pig.

torqque7:


Madam u can only put in ur best and can't force the other party to reciprocate,u must be a novice and very inexperienced in relationship matters because alot of relationships end because one of the two decided to frustrate every effort made by the other to make it work, so yes it takes two to make it work and the op tried all he could but maybe u didn't see where he kept saying it and saying all he did wasn't enough for her,instead u are just been overly emotional because ofcourse thats what u females do when its ur gender on the receiving end..

If u like thread the path of his stubborn unsubmisive wife and dnt take corrections and lessons from his story,it will only end in tears for u.