Do thinks you never believe you could do. Try speaking out in public, gathering, or in a meeting.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

You confidence will sort itself out when it's ready.

Focus on something else

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Drink enough Lucozade booster it will help you to boost your confidence to maximum thank me later

M

Lift some heavy weight. That's the only drug that will stay with you.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

SK na !

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Before a typical Nairalander come on board to tell you to drink Lucozade boost, (they abound here) let us give you some good tips that works always........

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Eat a lot of beans . No say I no tell you oh

Drink Lucozade.

disconnect from friends who talk down on you or those that are
pessimist



connect with those who encourage you and people with positive energy i.e they have faith in positive possibilities

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Are you ugly ?

Take Lucozade Boost and Power Horse then you can thank me later

Please O.P, don't mind this moniker, MALLAMBBQ, ALL u need self respect and achievement of goals.

post=104346448:
Before a typical Nairalander come on board to tell you to drink Lucozade boost, (they abound here) let us give you some good tips that works always........

Lucozade Boost is the best confidence booster.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

do things you're afraid of and believe you'll succeed. Say it loud everyday to yourself, I AM THE BEST. Hang out more and spread happiness wherever you go. Smile and be happy with your wins no matter how little

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Start by believing in yourself.

2. Surround yourself with people that believe in you

3. Take up task and challenges, you can only win if you try

4. Assist others in achieving their dreams, we rise by helping others

5. Reject every negative opinion about you

I believe you Dont STAMMER. for me the best form of SELF CONFIDENCE is KNOWING WHAT TO SAY and WHEN TO SAY IT...
start from football house during MATCHES, Say something, someone must have a different OPINION, then take it up from there.... And then, Work on your OUTWARD APPEARANCE , it exudes CONFIDENCE...
And then join USHERING DEPARTMENT in LIVING FAITH CHURCH ...
CONFIDENCE MUST COMOT BY FORCE..
You must find yourself where PEOPLE MUST ENGAGE YOU. ... While I was GROWING UP, I was a SHY KID, But when I STARTED PLAYING INSTRUMENT, I grew my CONFIDENCE because MANY PEOPLE are DEPENDENT on what you PLAY during SERVICES...

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Just think of it this way, no one cares about you, so you shouldn't either. A lot of fake people not worth impressing so do your thing. betrayal is normal. You will be alright, just go out more, engage with more people and be open to more opportunities.

Try and do sport. Play football volleyball etc You get to mingle wit people and go clubbing at night relate to people

Kriss216:
One of the advantages of 4.20, it makes you retain your self esteem as a man.

It's rare to find a man with low esteem these days, all thanks to Buhari's breeze.

Everybody eyes dey chook now. Red eyes everywhere.

Not for long

Oraimo charger is the best for the boosting
Get 60ZR or 63D and thank me later

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Work on your communication skills, every other thing will work in your favour.

I've never seen a timid successful man.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Bro I understand you too well. This is what you should do. Don't take any alcohol or any drugs to do that, look for those Red Cross, join them and they will be taking you place to place to give lectures on first Aid so joining, you will be talking in public, nohow.. you will talk. Most especially when they know you are shying away from public talk. That's all you need or the only way I know and the sure one 100%

Drink � lot of it and smoke egbo

Sniff soakaway

Almighty GeneralKoko

Start dressing better, learn how to say No and then fake it(confidence) till u make it, everyone you see is going through one thing or the other they are just better at hiding it, know this and know peace

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Make friends with extrovert people, they'll influence you after a while with their various activities, it helped me out a lot as someone that suffered from extremely low self esteem and still suffers from it now but far far less than before.

I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a
product of my decisions. -- Stephen Covey

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GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

General are u not the one who said people disrespect too much on ur previous topic? Now it’s self esteem issues??

Ok let me help u abit. Everybody has self esteem issues or has fought with it and overcame it.

Overcoming It starts with personal self development. Knowing urself very well, ur strengths and weaknesses and working on them.

If u don’t know how to talk to people that means Ure antisocial or introverted? The 1st thing u must know in talking to people is never put urself under pressure to say Smtn. U can always choose to talk or shut up and nobody will beat u for it. Infact when u keep quiet people think Ure smart until u say rubbish then they know Ure stupid.

Always Let ur words be meaningful or applicable to the person or situation bt also learn how to say ur mind because u can’t please everybody and infact u don’t necessarily have to.

GeneralKoko:
Dear Nairalanders I come I peace .

I have been a victim of betrayal so many times and my upbringing is faulty hence I have a very lowwww esteem.
Talking to people is very difficult now and I really need confidence to achieve my goals for life.

Please how do I boost my confidence and overcome low self esteem

Make friends with extrovert people, they'll influence you after a while with their various activities, it helped me out a lot as someone that suffered from extremely low self esteem and i still suffer from it now but far far less than before.

I couldn't even talk to a girl without my voice shaking or looking eye to eye but now am almost where I want to be.