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Martinez39s:
When western feminists in the 60s and 70s were agitating for the divorce system, domestic violence laws and child support system you are seeing today, men paid no attention thinking it's nothing serious and it won't be allowed for whatever reason. Well, how did that go?

Despite that, western men are still marrying. Each thinks his case will be different; when you point out these laws to them to make them reconsider not getting married, they will tell you all sorts of nonsense like "My fiancee/gf will never do such to me, I trust her." Most men are just idiòts when it comes to women. Rather than western men coming together and rallying behind each other to change unfavourable legal and social situations, they keep pedestalizing pussý, playing the hope strategy of finding a nawalt and live the blue pill happily-ever-after dream, and looking to continue family names that no one cares about in the real world. This will be the same thing that will happen when gynocentrism grows in full force in Africa. Most men even think that gynocentrism cannot find its way into Africa.

Do you know that in the past in Europe and America, and all over the world, when a marriage crashes, children stayed with fathers and were recognized as the father's own. Men were the primary care takers and society recognized the influence and importance of fathers in children's lives; women were to feed and cook for the children, men were to raise them, install their morals in them, and discipline them. How did it change? A woman, Caroline Norton, after society became comfortable, started pushing what is now called Tender Years Doctrine. Women rallied behind her and they cunningly elicited sympathy from men by playing tricks in the book (victimhood and the like) and women gradually became seen as the primary caretakers of children and more important parent. The Diluth Model of domestic violence was accommodated into the legal system of many countries thanks to the persistent and collective efforts of feminists. If women can work so hard to change social situations to favour them, why can men control their diçks and do the same? Later they will think they are smart than women.

Martinez39s:
When western feminists in the 60s and 70s were agitating for the divorce system, domestic violence laws and child support system you are seeing today, men paid no attention thinking it's nothing serious and it won't be allowed for whatever reason. Well, how did that go?

Despite that, western men are still marrying. Each thinks his case will be different; when you point out these laws to them to make them reconsider not getting married, they will tell you all sorts of nonsense like "My fiancee/gf will never do such to me, I trust her." Most men are just idiòts when it comes to women. Rather than western men coming together and rallying behind each other to change unfavourable legal and social situations, they keep pedestalizing pussý, playing the hope strategy of finding a nawalt and live the blue pill happily-ever-after dream, and looking to continue family names that no one cares about in the real world. This will be the same thing that will happen when gynocentrism grows in full force in Africa. Most men even think that gynocentrism cannot find its way into Africa.

Do you know that in the past in Europe and America, and all over the world, when a marriage crashes, children stayed with fathers and were recognized as the father's own. Men were the primary care takers and society recognized the influence and importance of fathers in children's lives; women were to feed and cook for the children, men were to raise them, install their morals in them, and discipline them. How did it change? A woman, Caroline Norton, after society became comfortable, started pushing what is now called Tender Years Doctrine. Women rallied behind her and they cunningly elicited sympathy from men by playing tricks in the book (victimhood and the like) and women gradually became seen as the primary caretakers of children and more important parent. The Diluth Model of domestic violence was accommodated into the legal system of many countries thanks to the persistent and collective efforts of feminists. If women can work so hard to change social situations to favour them, why can men control their diçks and do the same? Later they will think they are smart than women.

Emotionss:
[color=#006600][/color]Men are hoping that culture,traditions and Religion will help them fight toxic feminism if only the know how useless this organization's are.

Women are constantly upgrading themselves while men are stock in the good old days mentality.

Martinez39s:
America and Europe used to have strong cultural values, traditions and religions. There was a time in Europe when The Church and clergymen were rulers in effect and you dear not be blasphemous. There was a time America and Europe were traditional; what changed? Redpillers and men in general need to focus on intersexual dynamics and how eras (easy times and hard times) influence it and dictate social situations; there are a lot to learn there, including many red pill truths. Don't underestimate this. Complacency, unawareness and the attitude of basking in past glory are two of the many things hindering the modern man in the game of life when it comes to women.

Emotionss:
[color=#006600][/color]What happened in America and Europe will happen in Africa because we love copying bad things from the white man, and also we're to rigidly proud to upgrade our Frame.

Martinez39s:
I wouldn't say gynocentrism is already here in Nigeria, though there are elements of it here. However, we can safely say that it looms on the horizon given the following:
(1) Massive simp culture,
(2) Mother worship,
(3) The vilification and abandonment of patriarchy and automatic male leadership,
(4) The increasing participation of women in key positions, especially law making.
(5) the scarcity of manly fathers/strong masculine figures who will raise little boys to be masculine and redpilled.
(6) Influence of social media and the subsequent open hoè culture among Nigerian girls. Social media also fortifies and flairs up the feminist disposition of our females, and it acquaints them with the latest feminist and gynocentric trends around the globe. Thanks to "women liberation and empowerment", women are not required by society to improve in character and fitness or to bring anything to the table even though men are still required to maintain their disposability and meet their traditional burden of performance (which is even increasing and getting stricter). For the females, just being a female is enough.

While from my view gynocentrism isn't fully here, these six problems are what is currently plaguing our society. These problems will likely prove to be the foundation of full-blown gynocentrism in upcoming decades.

Gynocentrism and the six problems I listed are not something few redpillers can fight and prevent. A few redpillers are not bigger than the society; few people can't fight the government, politicians, legal institutions, police & military, and the masses who are deep in the matrix. Even hundred Ubunjas can't change the system; even a thousand DEMZÈE (Dapcity) with all his signature braggadocio, uncultured aggression, and patriarchal zeal can't fight these even if he becomes rich, marries ten wives, and lives the patriarchal lifestyle; the influence of society and these things will burst into the home of a modern-day patriarch and other few like-minded individuals through their wives (especially series of bait and switch, her female friends, social media, and subtle parental alienation) and their children (especially the daughters). To combat these, there need to be a serious cultural revolution. For this to happen, the overwhelming majority of men must be red-pilled and understood gynocentrism and they must be on the same page on how to abolish the six vices I listed and gynocentrism (if it exists); a city divided against itself will not stand. It will take generations, years, and persistent efforts. Even the gynocentric structure in the West took years, careful planning, hardwork, media influence and persistent efforts from feminists, and such is still happening; they even had support from men (simps) and the government (with time). How much more redpill revolutionaries who will face stiff opposition from women (who will never agree with us, or they would try to infiltrate us) and simps and the government and constitution (along the line, we will try to infiltrate these two, but it will be hard.)

Martinez39s:
I remember when this matter was discussed and I argued why gynocentrism is only a matter of time in Nigeria. Here is a post of mine from that discussion.

Emotionss:
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At this age and time, having alternative way of procreation is a necessity. Especially since the female entities are trying to use their womb to blackmail men.

Artificial womb is necessary since toxic feminism is gradually encouraging the Abortion of Male fetuses so as to reduce the world population of men to 10%.

And guess what ?
If they decide to go through with such, there's nothing the LAW OR MEN can do about it. Their bodies their choice.

So in other not to be at their mercy, we need that Artificial womb.

Martinez39s:
Let's stop this mindset of implying that any redpiller who chooses to walk away from marriage, committed relationships, sex and women is somehow someone who can't handle women properly. Some like you even imply or outrightly say that men who do any of these are cowards who are weak and incapable.

Women are not the all in all and the beginning and end of life; not every man is interested in anything serious with a woman or having children, and that is alright. It's not a must one must deal with women. If a man prefers artificial womb, there is no problem in that. A man can be redpilled and still decide to spend his entire life and energy outside women as long as he pleases.

If you want to marry and/or impregnate a woman because redpillers shouldn't "run away" from women, that's also fine. Other redpillers are not obligated to join you. Some redpillers (like me) here know what to expect in committed relationships and marriage and they know how to act right, but they still choose to spend their energy and the only lives they will live on other things that they deem worthy of all their time and energy, and that's fine. It doesn't mean each one is less of a redpiller. Btw, personally, if I was FORCED to choose between artificial womb and marriage/ baby mama to have my own kids, I would choose artificial womb over and over again. I don't want children anyway.

Fiscus105:
The way you guy posted here, atimes I think are we not in same society/environment? You talk as if wen we see woman we should fly. As if women are monsters .Up til now we have good women outnumbered bad one.

The way you are as a man says alot how and what ur woman will be, quote me anywhere.

Everyday guy/man keeps loosing his stand , but keeps putting it on women, in as much I know we have reckless and wayward ladies yet good one still outnumbered bad

You ask urself, are man enough to lead the girl in question?

Martinez39s:
This three-minute video will turn out to be one of the most ridiculous things you will ever hear.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JRVfB5Aa0x8

Savagethe21st:
N*gga happy that his wife's breast was sucked during a truth or dare.

Calibrator:
I believe that matters should be addressed in order of priority.

Most of the issues dissected here ain't any of the average African man immediate concerns or headache.
Don't cry more than the bereaved.
Whites' problems are different from ours.

Artificial womb is a luxury the average African can't afford in the next 20 years even if the technology is made available today.

Even feminism is a joke in this part of the world because our society is structured in a way that a female must submit to men in order to succeed at anything.

Discuss African tailored problems and let the dead bury the dead in the West.

Rant over!

Emotionss:
Dear Redpillers has it occurred to you guys that Adam might actually not be the biological father of Cain ?

What exactly is This forbidden fruit the serpent offered to Eve before Eve now offers it to Adam ?

How come after EATING the forbidden fruit, the first thing Adam noticed Was his unclothedness ?

Knowing and understanding what actually happened in the garden of Eden will help us understand this vagina people better.

Martinez39s:
The feminist wet dream.

Martinez39s:
Let's stop this mindset of implying that any redpiller who chooses to walk away from marriage, committed relationships, sex and women is somehow someone who can't handle women properly. Some like you even imply or outrightly say that men who do any of these are cowards who are weak and incapable.

Women are not the all in all and the beginning and end of life; not every man is interested in anything serious with a woman or having children, and that is alright. It's not a must one must deal with women. If a man prefers artificial womb, there is no problem in that. A man can be redpilled and still decide to spend his entire life and energy outside women as long as he pleases.

If you want to marry and/or impregnate a woman because redpillers shouldn't "run away" from women, that's also fine. Other redpillers are not obligated to join you. Some redpillers (like me) here know what to expect in committed relationships and marriage and they know how to act right, but they still choose to spend their energy and the only lives they will live on other things that they deem worthy of all their time and energy, and that's fine. It doesn't mean each one is less of a redpiller. Btw, personally, if I was FORCED to choose between artificial womb and marriage/ baby mama to have my own kids, I would choose artificial womb over and over again. I don't want children anyway.

Uptheante:
No wonder!

While I was in school I noticed that most female students prefer seeking favours from the male staff.

According to them, the female staff don't listen to them even if they shed tears while narrating their stories in order to seek undeserved favours.

So it'll be safe to conclude that a man is easily moved by a woman's tears or seductive moves than a woman can be moved by a fellow woman's tears.

This could probably be the reason why most women prefer working under men (since they know they can manipulate a man through tears or seduction/sex) than working under a fellow woman (whom they know they can't manipulate).

Most daughters can also easily manipulate their dads with crocodile tears than their moms.

Unfortunately, only few men can resist a woman's manipulative tendencies even if she's shedding tears or acting seductively.

Calibrator:
Martinez39s

Don't want to waste space by quoting the long post but I believe that just as I don't have to be religious to be a good person, it is not compulsory to identify as a redpiller before I can join discussions pertaining to the liberation of my gender from manipulation.

I am just disturbed by the fact that anytime I try catching up with happenings here, it is always discussions about the problems facing Men in the developed world, how so so millionaire was divorced by his wife, how so so white women wrote posts flaunting their liberal privileges over there.

Funny thing is that most people here discussing the male-female dynamics over there don't even have a first hand experience of how things are run over there, just judging people by what they read on the Internet and see in the movies.

Like I said earlier, our problems with our females are peculiar and different from what the western world are facing.

But what do I know?
Going back to the shadows.

Miracood2:
Ive had this girl on my FB list for months without hitting her up.

yesterday she posted some pics of both her and another girl. and from the background of the pics, I detected she schools in my sch..

the other girl in the pic got my attention

so I sent her a DM..

MetalJigsaw:
Since I've passed the rage phase of TRP I've come to realize a few things:

Do not make your being red pilled obvious to women, at least in your initial stage of meeting/interacting with them as this will help you evaluate them easily.

Never hide it from others (men) for them to see the beauty and effectiveness of it. Set an example.

If you outrightly show you're red pilled when meeting them, women will avoid you like mosquitoes avoid the smell of mosquito coils. They're not comfortable with it and that's not a good omen.
You've got to conceal it a bit so that you can be approachable.

Don't make it glaring.

Note: This is for those in the final stages of TRP. If you're not, their whims and manipulations might overpower the little pills you've taken and drag you back to square one- Blue pill.

God bless TRP, God bless us all

Emotionss:
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What happened in America and Europe will happen in Africa because we love copying bad things from the white man, and also we're to rigidly proud to upgrade our Frame.

lusid:
vote White Money

Big Brother Naija Shine Ya Eye housemate, Whitemoney, has revealed that he doesn’t chase women, stating that they come to him instead.

Whitemoney stated this while talking to Yousef on Monday, day nine of the show, as the duo discussed the girls in the house.

“I don’t have to chase women, I like them coming to me. Let them warm up to me and flow with me. The things I do will definitely bring them around,” said Whitemoney.

He stated that he doesn’t chase women but leave them to do what they want but he’s sure that at the end, they’ll “come back to daddy.”

Referring to girls, Whitemoney said, “When you’ll have a real man, you’ll come back home. When you’ve finished running around six-pack guys, clean your infatuations, enjoy yourself but when you want a man and you’re done playing with boys, you’ll come.”

He also revealed that he came into the show without any game plan for having the girls, which according to him, are distractions.

“It’s for my own good. If I had come in here with a game plan and said I want this or that girl, wahala go dey. So make everybody carry their own wahala.” [quote]https://www.nairaland.com/6682129/bbnaija-s6-dont-chase-women

Dizzyish:
UPDATED LIST:
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read:

1. Long nails
2. Fake hair (~long, bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Provocative clothing
5. Big earrings
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.)
7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a worm", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues)
11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Never being wrong)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 4]
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches" or claim to have "very high standards" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5]
14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13]
15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance)
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends)
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships)
20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [snowball effect] )
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] )
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'-- "Some women absolutely do this. In fact, some believe that men should be able to read their minds and then use the fact that men can't read their minds as an excuse to accuse the men of not loving them enough.
Not very many women do this, however. If you are in a relationship with a woman who does this, and you don't like it, break it off. Be sure, however, that you are not contributing to her bad behavior by attempting to anticipate her needs and doing things for her to prove your love. In other words, don't attempt to appear as if you can read her mind." - Alison Bennett (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?)
*Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19]
23. Sh*t Tests-- "used to 'determine your frame.' Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] )
24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18)
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21)
27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25)
28. Bisexual ("They have a propensity to get bored with whichever gender they're dating and move on to the next. This is why bi-girls go through phases of dating males then phases of dating females." )
29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25] )
30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25]
31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28)
33. Often/always play the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15 , 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17)

For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or sumn idk

These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc.

I think observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'looks' or 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect.
Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.
These are just my observations and opinions.