God bless you

Dizzyish:
UPDATED LIST:
These are some possible red flags I've noticed in certain women for a while now. If you're looking for a good partner for a stable, healthy relationship filled with peace of mind or just curious, this could be worth a read:

1. Long nails
2. Fake hair (~long, bright colored)
3. Makeup (mostly heavy makeup)
4. Provocative clothing
5. Big earrings
6. Very active on social media (attention seeking content; thirst trap antics, etc.)
7. Questionable.. questions (e.g. "Babe, would you date me if I were a worm", "babe do you think I'm pretty"..)
8. Tattoos/piercings (especially in weird places)
9. Most/all of her friends are male.
10. Promiscuous or Using se>< as a proxy for feeling loved and adored (this can be especially true for people who struggle with attachment issues/daddy issues)
11. S.I.G.N language (Shaming, Insult, Guilting & Never being wrong)
12. Herd mentality/No sign of individualism (follows beauty standards, fashion trends, body ideals, bad friends or other trends without questioning or reflecting on their reason[s] for doing so) [often correlates with No. 2, 3 & 4]
13. Spoilt brat-like/elitist behaviour (e.g. people who refer to themselves as "bad b*tches" or claim to have "very high standards" ) [often correlates with No. 1, 2, 3, 4 & 5]
14. Materialistic [often correlates with No. 12 & 13]
15. Their actions don't follow their words (cognitive dissonance)
16. No sense of boundaries
17. Uses past events or personal information you gave when you 'opened up' to them, as ammunition against you during fights or quarrels.
18. Clingy, jealous or possessive (e.g. not being allowed to have any female friends)
19. Frequent quarrels over trivial things--it seems some people think toxicity makes relationships more 'fun or exciting' (or even straight up admit they enjoy toxicity in relationships)
20. Habit of lying (shouldn't be ignored [along with No. 7, 14 & 16] as it could escalate over time [snowball effect] )
21. Has a tiny, little girl/baby-like voice (possibly due to trauma or abuse at a young age [Reference: Dr. Drew Pinsky - Loveline] )
22. Expects you to 'mind-read' their thoughts and/or 'hints'-- "Some women absolutely do this. In fact, some believe that men should be able to read their minds and then use the fact that men can't read their minds as an excuse to accuse the men of not loving them enough.
Not very many women do this, however. If you are in a relationship with a woman who does this, and you don't like it, break it off. Be sure, however, that you are not contributing to her bad behavior by attempting to anticipate her needs and doing things for her to prove your love. In other words, don't attempt to appear as if you can read her mind." - Alison Bennett (Quora; Do women expect men to be mind-readers?)
*Their mentality of dependence and expectations is so high they use emotions to smoke screen this shameful behaviour. [Shouldn't be ignored. Could correlate with No. 19]
23. Sh*t Tests-- "used to 'determine your frame.' Frame is a concept which essentially means 'composure and self-control.” (shouldn't be ignored; usually continues indefinitely, may escalate over time [Often correlates with No. 11, 16 & 19. Possibly with No. 7 & 17] )
24. Ultimatums (could correlate with No. 13, 16 & 18)
25. Can't/doesn't take 'No' for an answer (Strongly correlates with No. 16, possibly with No. 11 & 18 [Shouldn't be ignored; possible sign of an abusive person, may lead to tantrums, physical assault or other 'crazy' behaviours] )
26. Comes from a broken/toxic/abusive home and/or lacks (proper) parental figure(s). (Often correlates with No. 4, 6, 8, 10, 16, 19, 20 [compulsive or pathological lying] & 21)
27. They're often passive aggressive (Could correlate with No. 22. Possibly with No. 7, 11, 19 & 25)
28. Bisexual ("They have a propensity to get bored with whichever gender they're dating and move on to the next. This is why bi-girls go through phases of dating males then phases of dating females." )
29. Exhibits 'infantile/neotenic' behaviours when in need of aid (e.g. using a childlike voice* and speech pattern, acting "cute", naive; sometimes with a 'sensual' undertone - often used to avoid accountability, responsibility or get their way) [*Not to be confused with No. 21; this one (29) is intentional while No. 21 is 'involuntary'] [Could correlate with No. 10 & 25] )
30. Frequent mood swings-- could be 'preemptively' identified with certain comments e.g. "Having someone who can handle your mood swings is such a blessing", "Need a man that can handle me (when I'm mad, act crazy..)" [Correlates with No. 19. Possibly with No. 13, 17, 18, 22, 23 & 25]
31. Really into astrology (has their personality, behaviours or actions based on zodiac signs) 32. Being "Free-spirited"; 'Hippie' or 'Gypsy-like'. (Could correlate with No. 8, 10 & 26. Possibly with No. 28)
33. Often/always play the victim-- "When you're so used to playing the victim you don't realise when you're being the villain." (Often correlates with No. 15 , 20 & 29. Possibly with No. 6, 10, 11, 16 & 17)

For those who are perplexed about No. 1-5, google search for images of Saweetie or sumn idk

These flags could be a result of insecurities, emotional and/or mental immaturity, childhood emotional neglect, attention/validation seeking, attachment issues, etc.

I think observing people's personalities, character and behaviours rather than focusing on their 'looks' or 'physical attractiveness' is a good way to overcome the halo effect.
Also, like attracts like, so make sure to be self-aware and reflect on your actions/behaviour to grow and mature as a person. And be compassionate to others as you'd be to yourself.
These are just my observations and opinions.

MJBOLT:

value your resources

Controlling their sexual urges is "importanter" and a precursor to valuing their resources.!!!

However, this is not obtainable in real life.

In fact, it is impossible!

Guess that's an ATM card he's giving to the woman lol

Kennyking1234:
An average "Nigeria girl" has at least 10 of the attributes listed.

He no won marry

Don Juan,

Let us stop worshiping beautiful women.

And make them worship us instead.

Read on...




Make Her WORK For Your Approval

by Mr. Fingers


Time to wake up from your drooling slumber, folks.

Beautiful women are nothing special.

Just lucky.

The truth is that a lot of pretty people let their looks do all the work for them in life. And beneath those great genes they are actually spoiled, under-developed children.

Don't let good genetics impress you.

Instead, make that chick WORK for your stamp of approval!

You must rewire your mental circuitry so that instead of trying to impress her, you approach to see if she meets YOUR expectations.

Your whole attitude should be that she has passed your visual test, but you are not quite convinced she is the goods yet.

Say "hi", ask her opinion, comment on the environment or even command her to "Stop!" and talk to you. It honestly does not matter how you open, as long as you approach from a position of POWER.

Frame it so that you are not entering her world, she is entering yours.

Once she steps inside, be sure to treat her with the same irreverence you treat your friends so that she can enjoy the refreshing change of being HERSELF around you, instead of what you imagine her to be.

WTF?

Why are you still drooling?

Gotta reverse this mindset!

Imagine that YOU are the gorgeous model...

And picture her as the smelly, 300-pound heifer who wants to get in your pants!


---


I'd like to thank Mr. Fingers for this great tip.

Your mindset is the most important thing when interacting with women.

If you think the right thoughts, you will naturally say the right things, you will naturally do the right things, and your body language will be tight, powerful, and friendly.

Good luck!

Allen
SoSuave

Good evening gents
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Miracood2:
Ive had this girl on my FB list for months without hitting her up.

yesterday she posted some pics of both her and another girl. and from the background of the pics, I detected she schools in my sch..

the other girl in the pic got my attention

so I sent her a DM..

You are a disgrace to this club!!!!!

Simping with pride.....tah!!

Catfishing:

You are a disgrace to this club!!!!!

Simping with pride.....tah!!

Hehehe...

This niggarr...

How do you intend to spin plates offline or online without initiating contact and Convo?

Who dm who first is not a simp move it's what follows after that concludes the judgement, simp or not simp...


Hitting women up on social media means you are starting at a huge disadvantage point..


I would rather talk to them in person...



Whatever works for you...


Ps: I like how he played her by asking for her friend

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

This niggarr...

How do you intend to spin plates offline or online without initiating contact and Convo?

Who dm who first is not a simp move it's what follows after that concludes the judgement, simp or not simp...

Hitting women up on social media you are starting at a huge disadvantage point..

I would rather talk to them in person...

Whatever works for you...

Ps: I like her he played her by asking for her friend

He is a scared mudafuçker that is why he couldn't summon up courage to talk to that gender that bend to piss offline, reason why he had to ask her friend for her contact details....that is some simping move.

He needs to grow big balls.....imagine reading stuffs from this thread and still behaving like a Simp, even a madman will read two pages and he will woo and will have 100% chance of fuçking a vaginal that same day or another day.

Confidence. Its crucial in all what you do in life weather business or relationship.

Any man without confidence is not complete.

Gay don full dis 9ja

Are there guys here that wake 5:am for road work and 6:00am for gym/workouts?
Any?

No matter how busy ur schedule will be,don't miss 5-7am every day

PacAmaru:
Are there guys here that wake 5:am for road work and 6:00am for gym/workouts?
Any?

No matter how busy ur schedule will be,don't miss 5-7am every day

You can say that again. Early morning workouts daily gives enough energy to go through each day.

PacAmaru:
Are there guys here that wake 5:am for road work and 6:00am for gym/workouts?
Any?

No matter how busy ur schedule will be,don't miss 5-7am every day

slim people fit go gym, Any benefit from it

Guys I heard that r/mgtow was banned on reddit. Is it true?

Trex4:
Guys I heard that r/mgtow was banned on reddit. Is it true?

True. It's not the first time they are doing so.

DieRich5:
slim people fit go gym, Any benefit from it

Yes bro sure u can build ur packs and muscles it will be the best gifts u'll give urself before this year runs out

Only a fool will chose to privatise a public toilet then turn around to complain about outsiders violating the privacy of his home to take a dump.





Will not expatiate.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

This niggarr...

How do you intend to spin plates offline or online without initiating contact and Convo?

Who dm who first is not a simp move it's what follows after that concludes the judgement, simp or not simp...


Hitting women up on social media means you are starting at a huge disadvantage point..


I would rather talk to them in person...



Whatever works for you...


Ps: I like how he played her by asking for her friend

Trust me that was disgusting to read

In addition, low IQ men boast of notch counts with (low IQ) women and see glory in slaying pvssys. Loool!

The double edged sword has come to stay at home. Hey y'all!

Naira Marley said "how could you trust a hoe? Never ever trust a hoe"


And I fûcking felt that....

CaveAdullam:
In addition, low IQ men boast of notch counts with (low IQ) women and see glory in slaying pvssys. Loool!

The double edged sword has come to stay at home. Hey y'all!

You are doing the Lord's work Sir

More wisdom

IM keeps churning out radical hard fact

DieRich5:
Gay don full dis 9ja

If one try shit with me, na hospital or mortuary the person go land

CaveAdullam:
In addition, low IQ men boast of notch counts with (low IQ) women and see glory in slaying pvssys. Loool!

The double edged sword has come to stay at home. Hey y'all!

Haha, we've mentioned it here several times, but unfortunately, not everyone is prepared for this.

You know you've reached a certain level of maturity when you judge people equally irrespective of the gender.

Key word: vet everybody!

low IQ men boasting of fucking several low IQ women, LOL! You will never meet this kind of attitude amongst high value men. They boasts with something of value instead.

Calibrator:
Only a fool will chose to privatise a public toilet then turn around to complain about outsiders violating the privacy of his home to take a dump.





Will not expatiate.

Words mahn.....words only the wise can understand.

Calibrator:
Martinez39s


Don't want to waste space by quoting the long post but I believe that just as I don't have to be religious to be a good person, it is not compulsory to identify as a redpiller before I can join discussions pertaining to the liberation of my gender from manipulation.


I am just disturbed by the fact that anytime I try catching up with happenings here, it is always discussions about the problems facing Men in the developed world, how so so millionaire was divorced by his wife, how so so white women wrote posts flaunting their liberal privileges over there.

Funny thing is that most people here discussing the male-female dynamics over there don't even have a first hand experience of how things are run over there, just judging people by what they read on the Internet and see in the movies.


Like I said earlier, our problems with our females are peculiar and different from what the western world are facing.




But what do I know?
Going back to the shadows.

What are the peculiar problems we in this part of the world have with females?

Martinez39s:
I have no problem with you discussing issues here or making inquiries as long the purpose of this thread isn't defied; in fact, I have discussed with you here. However, every thread have its purpose and boundaries. Before you ever came here, we have been discussing a wide range of topics and we redpillers know why we discuss them. Nothing will change this. Besides, if you refuse to identify as a redpiller, what now gives you the ground to come to a redpill thread and suggest to redpillers, in their own thread, the priority of their discussion and topics they should and shouldn't discuss? That's like trying to eat your cake and have it.

He is an attention seeking clown with a PhD.

Imagine going to a church gathering to announce that you do not identify as a Christian. Only for you to start quoting scriptures and preaching to the congregation.

See how clownish that is?

Dumb question here but is it ok for red pill guys to pay for sex? I mean in my opinion it saves time and at least you're getting value for your money...
Answers please?

Mikael0407:
Dumb question here but is it ok for red pill guys to pay for sex? I mean in my opinion it saves time and at least you're getting value for your money...
Answers please?

Until you jam one with smelling and overstretched pussy....

Well, "value for money" is a relative statement

Catfishing:

Until you jam one with smelling and overstretched pussy....

Well, "value for money" is a relative statement

DieRich5:
slim people fit go gym, Any benefit from it

I was slim when I started gyming , you need to see me now, it's even sweeter when you start as a slim person than trying to burn fat first ..