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Forex, crypto trading not a career? You just messed up your right up. Good luck

Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness everything shall be added unto you ...


If you don't have money ,you can't maintain personal hygiene ..
If you don't have money , you might be always get anger easily " and hungry man is an angry man ".
If you don't have money ,to see a girl will be very hard because everything boils down to the pocket ..
Integrity will be well seen in you when there is money in your pocket ..


My own submission is pls and pls money plays a very vital rule in any healthy relationship ..

Fiscus105:
You force me to go back and read entire post when you attacked the post (not disagree o) if you are married and you re role model to ur kids and wife, you will agree in totality with Op

Op doesn't imply to keep mute of not talking, but one shouldn't to emotional and it's not everything you see you talk if you want ur marriage to last.


Let me give you one public example

El rufai has more of kidnappings than normal in Kaduna today because of the way he talks recklessly and boasts on issue that he is supposed to silent or speak less.

Get back to me when you acquire the ability to differentiate:

- outspokenness from crassness
- Expressiveness from emotionality
- Assertion from attack
- Reticence from stoicism
- Disingenuousness from diplomacy/wisdom/civility
- And when you understand that all women, vice versa, aren't of the same ethical leanings, thus how you relate with WA to get the best out of her might not be the same way you relate to WB to get the best out of her.

As for you and El-Rufai, I don't hold a brief for anyone of you - El-Rufai is a well-known hypocritically crass and opportunistic man.

Now scram!

not only these five points. there are some vital things that need to put into consideration








Many things are involved

Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness everything shall be added unto you ...


If you don't have money ,you can't maintain personal hygiene ..
If you don't have money , you might be always get anger easily " and hungry man is an angry man ".
If you don't have money ,to see a girl will be very hard because everything boils down to the pocket ..
Integrity will be well seen in you when there is money in your pocket ..

prettypraise:
Prepare yourself for marriage by doing these...

(1) Odour and Hygiene: At all cost, make sure you don't have mouth Odour and body Odour. Make sure you are simply neat also. You may not have much, but make sure you don't have nasty body Odour or mouth Odour. If you do, deal with it now before you marry. Body Odour and mouth Odour "can silence" the power of good character.

(2) Attitude: Train yourself on how to speak less, how to react wisely, and how to be nice to people. The day you start gaining self-control in reacting to ugly situations, that shows you've attained some level of maturity. Speak the truth, iron out what is wrong, correct it clearly, and be polite in the best way you can.

(3) Ex and Past: When you meet your original future partner, please close the doors to your ex and past. You need a new beginning. Sometimes people get what they probably longed for, yet may still go back to taste what they have left.

(4) Your Career Structure: You may not be earning a lot, but have a defined career before you marry. If you are an accountant, define yourself to be an accountant. If you are into supermarket and trading, define yourself into it. It doesn't make sense to be in different confusing career paths before marriage. You may have other side businesses or work, but make sure you are known for a career or job before you marry. Betting is not a career, Bitcoin is not a career, crypto is not a career, forex is not a career, online business may not be a career. Some of these may give you additional income legally, but never get a tangible career before marriage.

(5) Your Integrity: You Must begin to develop integrity. Do it consciously. When you fix an appointment, honour it or politely cancel it if you can't make it. Learn to be faithful. Don't expect people to be faithful to you alone while you cheat. You know how it hurts if you are thoroughly cheated on, so if you don't want to be cheated on, don't cheat on people... Don't devastate people and then beg for forgiveness, because may not be able to forgive if you too is devastated.

You no mention finance.
Let's no forget that honey na money for nigeria

virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .

what about a broke girl? Shouldn't she also have something tangible to do?

You clearly don't know what you are saying about forex, bitcoin not being a career. I can confidently tell you that they are careers, if you can learn those skills please do. My cousin is a forex guru, he is already building his house from forex. He sat at home during the lockdown and got a job because of how good he is. This is someone that searched for job for 6 years then gave up to focus on forex. He is already preparing to get his office space and leave the company he is working for to continue his own broker. Do you know there are so many forex companies in Lagos and Abuja? Abeg don't ever say forex is not a career.

I have tried to learn but my brain is not just carrying it. If you see a forex broker marry abeg, my cousins wife is there living lavishly thanks to his forex money and she isn't working.

He doesn't know what he is saying. God has made many millionaires through forex, bitcoin and crypto.

worldwonders:
Forex, crypto trading not a career? You just messed up your right up. Good luck

virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .

Also the girl too must also have something tangible doing because no reasonable guy should marry a broke girl!! If not suffer go wear am like Mikel Obi Jersey number 12.

MVLOX:
Nice points.... But I believe a man should work on his career first and foremost before getting married.... Love is not everything in marriage like money is not the key to marriage too but with money love becomes well established. Men abeg let your career path and what you earn be your top priority before you get married. The bills will always increase after marriage.

Career is it for me ....

Once a guy doesn't have a defined career path with short, medium and long term considerations and consequences also ability to possess tools to rumble and tumble as the economy is rumbling and tumbling your career ..... That marriage is dead!

A woman is meant to execute a man's leadership in a family ..... if not the man must be ready to be led and he must not complain !
Testosterone and estrogen differs ......

A man without clear cut career path is liable to become an aggressive man when economy slides and economy will always slide !

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Faber:
"Seek you first the kingdom of Money...all other things will fall in place"

Make money not because you want impress people. Make money to be comfortable in life and also respect will flow both from the young and old.

When people reason say nigga gats enough bucks to dump their ass in detention...they go reason am twice before they step on your toes.

On point

Vanity vanity vanity... Why you like vanity like ds����

Number one rule for a man to be in a peaceful marriage is to get money, plenty of it and make sure u get money and other things will be added onto u. E get y

Stae:
Vanity vanity vanity... Why you like vanity like ds����

Facidio:
But guys can marry broke girls right?

That's was how I dumped one parasitic girl, each time she doesn't have transport to come over.....a place that won't cost her up to N300 to get to.

Lol

Facidio:
But guys can marry broke girls right?

That's was how I dumped one parasitic girl, each time she doesn't have transport to come over.....a place that won't cost her up to N300 to get to.

Not that she don't have money o

Kabaz2:
A girl i would've dated recently liked me very much, had money but no attitude feminist thinking.Na so I Jappa before person go dominate me for house

Lol

anonymuz:
example, Jim Ovia

What's wrong with Jim?

Great points and very concise. Nice

Marv650:
Haven't you seen and heard enough stories that shows money is not the key to happy family life.

It's not the first rule, neither is it the second, or the last. More is needed for a happy marriage than money.

I've seen the rich stay happy in their marriage. I've seen the poor stay happy in their marriage.

And I can emphatically tell you it goes beyond money.

Are you sure sir

DOTian:
Don't know about the "ex and past" thing!
Will be banging them if the opportunity provides itself..
Can't come and kill myself because I'm married Biko..

Real bad boy

INSIGHTFUL !

MVLOX:
Nice points.... But I believe a man should work on his career first and foremost before getting married.... Love is not everything in marriage like money is not the key to marriage too but with money love becomes well established. Men abeg let your career path and what you earn be your top priority before you get married. The bills will always increase after marriage.

The standard is not money but every man must try and own property before they marry. At the very least, a plot of land somewhere. Not all these broke tenants in my house, having children with reckless abandon. When the man hits 50 - 55, deep depression will now set in.

missidy:
You clearly don't know what you are saying about forex, bitcoin not being a career. I can confidently tell you that they are careers, if you can learn those skills please do. My cousin is a forex guru, he is already building his house from forex. He sat at home during the lockdown and got a job because of how good he is. This is someone that searched for job for 6 years then gave up to focus on forex. He is already preparing to get his office space and leave the company he is working for to continue his own broker. Do you know there are so many forex companies in Lagos and Abuja? Abeg don't ever say forex is not a career.

I have tried to learn but my brain is not just carrying it. If you see a forex broker marry abeg, my cousins wife is there living lavishly thanks to his forex money and she isn't working.

Who is this your cousin? Name him and let us verify what you have said.

It is well

I don't need to name him to please you. Go to LinkedIn and verify. Good-bye.

MusaChukwudi:
Who is this your cousin? Name him and let us verify what you have said.

DonroxyII:
Career is it for me ....

Once a guy doesn't have a defined career path with short, medium and long term considerations and consequences also ability to possess tools to rumble and tumble as the economy is rumbling and tumbling your career ..... That marriage is dead!

A woman is meant to execute a man's leadership in a family ..... if not the man must be ready to be led and he must not complain !
Testosterone and estrogen differs ......

A man without clear cut career path is liable to become an aggressive man when economy slides and economy will always slide !

Then you clearly have no idea what life is or what marriage even means. In this life we have seen doctors, engineers, people with good careers tumble and fall into deep depression to the point of almost committing suicide, if as a partner she cannot encourage, motivate, be there for the partner to overcome the dark times then of what use is the woman?

A woman is meant to execute a man's leadership in a family? What does this jargon even mean? In a world where young men below 40 are dying of hypertension and heart attack, it would be wise for women to recognize the gray areas in life, if she carried the leadership mantle for awhile so that the husband can get back on his feet, sky won't fall o, the world won't end o......Men stop putting unecessary pressure on thyselves......Superman na fairytale o, everyone needs help once in awhile.

tunary:
guy una too much o. I'm impressed with all these money money comments. Motivation

Pover tea is a bastard!
I love all the comments I see here about $$money.

virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .

I seriously don't want to marry a broke lady either

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