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Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Ruke1989: 1:01am On Aug 06, 2021
She has this useless middle aged man in her office she resumed 4 months back who has been toasting and threatening to seep with her at all cost. She told me two months back, I warned the man to refrain but he didn't stop

I got a call from her today that the man showed up in her apartment and forcefully penetrated her vagina with his penis. According to her she managed to hit him in the forehead with an object before he pulled out his plug. I asked her why didn't you shout? She claimed no neighbor were around that she screamed

I asked her how did he know your house given the fact I warned you to ensure he never comes to your house or be alone with you at any point? She has no response

I broke up with her. I feel pained though that I have to let her go because I was her first man and I called her a month back to come home and inform her parents about the relationship. I intended securing the marriage first before investing to support her education and I told her at least we need to do a traditional first before any such spending.

Unfortunately she had been raped by a man in Ibadan old enough to be her father. She is distraught and kept it to herself for 3 days before tells me today. She is from a poor background and only trying to work on a 30l job to save over N360k she needs to pay up before her school can let her pick her RN nursing certificate.

I feel disappointment and won't marry this girl anymore but I want this foolish man punished over this. He refuses to pick my call. His phone number is 0805 023 9636

Guys call him and if you know him let more details be exposed here.
He works in a skyline specialist hospital at Iwo road Ibadan and is a friend of the manager. The poor girl raped doesn't know how to go about this case but is an employee of that hospital from a really poor background. She is afraid police may make this harder for her by milking her money without result
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Ruke1989: 1:05am On Aug 06, 2021
The girl says she is being threatened and right now is no more picking my calls. The guy is threatening her. Thanks guys for calling him out, he is afraid. However, that girl nerds leave Ibadan because the rapist and the hospital manager are both child good friends whom she fear will twist everything.

She called me she only needs my forgiveness and doesn't want police or court after the guy called her. I told her she can have the forgiveness but not the relationship. That avoid confrontation could mean she doesn't want some truth to leak out. In essence, I found out now Mirabel centre contacted her and she turned down their request to support her. She is just more angry about our broken relationship than about getting help. She is not interested in seeking justice. She feels she is alone while blocking the channels I tried to open up to enable her get Justice

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Nobody: 1:15am On Aug 06, 2021
Ruke1989:
Booking space with your spam

Wahala.

This kind matter dey hard to put mouth. I mean rape matter.

The only thing I have to give is “kpele my dear”

And it’s just one kpele, you and your fiancé can share it.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Nobody: 1:28am On Aug 06, 2021
Ruke1989 sorry for your Loss(the girl). But i feel in times like this you ought to be a little more supportive. How do you know the was her fault? Why blame her been raped. You should be at the forefront of seeking for justice for her but if she tries to cover up the ish then you let bounce.
As for that pervert, 0805 023 9636 we will do the needful.
Modified!
Questions for her not me. Even at that, you can not blame her for been raped. She is the victim here and mind you, Most rapist are close associates who takes advantage of women loose guard]
Guys call the pervert 0805 023 9636 his name is coach KASO and tell him that he will pay for his sin. I just did.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by ford101: 1:34am On Aug 06, 2021
excellence44:
Ruke1989 sorry for your Loss(the girl). But i feel in times like this you ought to be a little more supportive. How do you know the was her fault? Why blame her been raped. You should be at the forefront of seeking for justice for her but if she tries to cover up the ish then you let bounce.
As for that pervert, 0805 023 9636 we will do the needful.
how did the man get to no her house? So why did she open her door for the man?

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Nobody: 1:41am On Aug 06, 2021
ford101:
how did the man get to no her house? So why did she open her door for the man?
Questions for her not me. Even at that, you can not blame her for been raped. She is the victim here and mind you, Most rapist are close associates who takes advantage of women loose guard.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Ruke1989: 1:46am On Aug 06, 2021
Carchoice:


Wahala.

This kind matter dey hard to put mouth. I mean rape matter.

The only thing I have to give is “kpele my dear”

And it’s just one kpele, you and your fiancé can share it.
I don breakup. She appeared honest but I can't find answer to the question of how he knew her house, knew the time there won't be neighbours and how one who has been bragging to sleep with her at all cost will be welcome indoors seeing she is the only one in the compound if true

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Ruke1989: 1:48am On Aug 06, 2021
excellence44:
Ruke1989 sorry for your Loss(the girl). But i feel in times like this you ought to be a little more supportive. How do you know the was her fault? Why blame her been raped. You should be at the forefront of seeking for justice for her but if she tries to cover up the ish then you let bounce.
As for that pervert, 0805 023 9636 we will do the needful.
Modified!
Guys call the pervert 0805 023 9636 his name is coach KASO and tell him that he will pay for his sin. I just did.
Thanks
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Ruke1989: 1:53am On Aug 06, 2021
excellence44:

Questions for her not me. Even at that, you can not blame her for been raped. She is the victim here and mind you, Most rapist are close associates who takes advantage of women loose guard.
The green light was there and I called the man earlier to warn him to refrain. He apologized but didn't change. She too stopped telling me about the Man subsequent behavior in the office except once I asked. Also, I told her squarely never to let herself be alone with the man in the office or elsewhere, never to followe him home or let him know her house. So she is unable to answer me when I asked how did he know where you stay?

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Ruke1989: 1:57am On Aug 06, 2021
That yeye man has 2 wives already and grown up kids. Why ruin the life of some young girl just because of ego of increasing your body count? Sex is not bitcoin. That man has no honor

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by ford101: 2:33am On Aug 06, 2021
excellence44:

Questions for her not me. Even at that, you can not blame her for been raped. She is the victim here and mind you, Most rapist are close associates who takes advantage of women loose guard.
most girls just want to be raped.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by lanre9ja(m): 2:38am On Aug 06, 2021
Something is fishing

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Oyiboman69: 3:21am On Aug 06, 2021
The man is in soup already....
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by punisha: 3:44am On Aug 06, 2021
If you have moved on, why is this still your battle to fight again?

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by dontrulee: 3:48am On Aug 06, 2021
Ruke1989:

The green light was there and I called the man earlier to warn him to refrain. He apologized but didn't change. She too stopped telling me about the Man subsequent behavior in the office except once I asked. Also, I told her squarely never to let herself be alone with the man in the office or elsewhere, never to followe him home or let him know her house. So she is unable to answer me when I asked how did he know where you stay?

Perhaps he got her address from her file

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Candidlady: 3:49am On Aug 06, 2021
Ww
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by rex444(m): 4:08am On Aug 06, 2021
One man old enough to be a dad, over powers one girl ,young and vibrant. From d way the strength of a woman is been talked about, what is the possibility of this?
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by austinsmat(m): 5:04am On Aug 06, 2021
Pls who carry my chair
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Coolliot: 5:19am On Aug 06, 2021
Truth some of these girls like courting danger because of little perks, the girl accepting those perks emboldens the man, when the man finally has his way, the claim rape.it's highly possible she has been accepting free rides home from the man, and occasional shawarma.
I had to block a girl, I'm the same Ibadan, for behaviour that I seemed stupid and would put her in a bad position eventually, if it hasn't already, and she would keep screaming insecure.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Odiriance4all(m): 5:21am On Aug 06, 2021
She was not raped, she was bleep, that girl not telling you the Truth, she's a small girl who just feels remorseful to cheat the only way to tell you is to bring about being raped by the man to clear her conscience

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by IceColdVeins(m): 6:17am On Aug 06, 2021
Coolliot:
Truth some of these girls like courting danger because of little perks, the girl accepting those perks emboldens the man, when the man finally has his way, the claim rape.it's highly possible she has been accepting free rides home from the man, and occasional shawarma.
I had to block a girl, I'm the same Ibadan, for behaviour that I seemed stupid and would put her in a bad position eventually, if it hasn't already, and she would keep screaming insecure.
lol see manipulation. The moment any lady uses the “insecure” word on me, she should just be prepared to hear the worst insult of her life. Ladies will act foolishly and blame your reaction on insecurities.
*spits*

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by gsmphoneseller: 6:25am On Aug 06, 2021
The girl is obviously lying to you.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Southernigbo: 6:29am On Aug 06, 2021
I really feel for her . women dont deserve to be raped or treated in anyway bad like this. they deserve love compassion n good treatment. pls accept her back, but even if are not gonna accept her, pls remain with her within this period that she is traumatized. keep her company n strong, then u can decide after some weeks if u are gonna keep or discard her.
Anyway, even if d police wont do anything, d man's name should be registred in the sex offenders register with the police, so that next time he is reported he would b in serious trouble

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Southernigbo: 6:32am On Aug 06, 2021
gsmphoneseller:
The girl is obviously lying to you.

Pls try calming things down at the ist instance. you dont even know her , but here u are adding fuel to her trouble

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by zed7: 6:37am On Aug 06, 2021
One cannot understand women. I know a girl who was always flirting with a guy and telling me how the guy was pestering her. I warned her to stay clear of the guy. Never be alone in the same place as him.

One day she came crying to me, telling me how she went to collect something from his house, he offered her a drink, probably drugged her and raped her.

I just laughed at her cock and bull story. Sometimes, some girls cheat and feel guilty, they run to you with a rape story to make it seem like it wasn't their fault. I told her to go date the guy, that they'll make a fine couple.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by GOFRONT(m): 6:52am On Aug 06, 2021
Girls and their Fish brain....

Old Papa: Folake, pls let me come over to your house, dont panic, nothing will happen

Folake: But, but

Old papa: Dont worry, I am coming along with suya and kilishi.

Folake: From the main gate, turn your second right, first left, drive down second to d last house with a black gate. Call me when your outside.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by sunshineV(f): 7:42am On Aug 06, 2021
many fools are on nl. a girl got raped and the men are indirectly blaming her. i bet it wont be so if reverse is the case. op and other commenters are all fools

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by madamthemadam: 7:51am On Aug 06, 2021
[quote author=Ruke1989 post=104475124]She has this useless middle aged man in her office she resumed 4 months back who has been toasting and threatening to seep with her at all cost.


Oga rest, if you dont want to marry her anymore, leave her to gather her life back, dont help her get any justice, your girl was raped, in pain and you broke up with her because you feel she is not being conpletely honest, then why try to get justice for her?,
she didnt tell you before because she wasnt sure how you were going to take it and true to her fears, you acted like the coward you are.... If it were the other way round, how would you feel, if she broke up with you at one of the lowest times in your life?... You never loved her, you only loved the thought of being married to a good partner..... Leave her alone, you are not her God...

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Nobody: 7:56am On Aug 06, 2021
Odiriance4all:
She was not raped, she was bleep, that girl not telling you the Truth, she's a small girl who just feels remorseful to cheat the only way to tell you is to bring about being raped by the man to clear her conscience
no mind the op, the girl never talk true, the may have been some tips from the man, posting the man/faking affairs now the man don ginger, did the man brake the door in? This is something with our girls, they want to eat their cake and still have it, they find it difficult to loyal with one guy.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by madamthemadam: 7:56am On Aug 06, 2021
ford101:
most girls just want to be raped.


you and some under nitwits commenting about how it is a cock and bull story, are the most useless sets of human beings ever, imagine the rubbish you are saying, you must be a fool, if you dont have anything to say, shut your dirty mouth.... And to the poster, you are indeed a stumbling block on your girls life.. I pray she overcomes this and move on with her life, and thank God for revealing the kind of bullet that she dogded.

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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Kondomatic(m): 8:00am On Aug 06, 2021
sunshineV:
many fools are on nl. a girl got raped and the men are indirectly blaming her. i bet it wont be so if reverse is the case. op and other commenters are all fools
OK.

The op is a fool, those commenting are also fools.

I will agree with you but insulting them doesn't change the fact that something dehumanizing has been done.

Someone has been raped, something that could have been avoided if she did what the op and the others said.

Let me tell you something, if I was the OP, I would give the girl the necessary support she needed to bring the rapist to justice and then break up with her.

Like my grandfather would say, don't use your teeth to cut the dog meat for your children if you know that you don't eat dog meat.

The reason we tell women to protect themselves isn't because we support rapist, it's because the world is full of evil.

The man swore to sleep with her at all cost. She knew this yet she invited him to the house and allowed him in when there's no one else in the compound.

Who does that?

Protect yourself nah advice, e no mean say we support rapists.

Even if they catch and kill this man, the damage has already been done. Something that could have been avoided.

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