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virginprincess:
Yes Attitude is very important,and also the guy must have something tangible doing, because no girl wants to marry a broke guy .

no Mann wants to marry a liability

prettypraise:
Prepare yourself for marriage by doing these...

(1) Odour and Hygiene: At all cost, make sure you don't have mouth Odour and body Odour. Make sure you are simply neat also. You may not have much, but make sure you don't have nasty body Odour or mouth Odour. If you do, deal with it now before you marry. Body Odour and mouth Odour "can silence" the power of good character.

(2) Attitude: Train yourself on how to speak less, how to react wisely, and how to be nice to people. The day you start gaining self-control in reacting to ugly situations, that shows you've attained some level of maturity. Speak the truth, iron out what is wrong, correct it clearly, and be polite in the best way you can.

(3) Ex and Past: When you meet your original future partner, please close the doors to your ex and past. You need a new beginning. Sometimes people get what they probably longed for, yet may still go back to taste what they have left.

(4) Your Career Structure: You may not be earning a lot, but have a defined career before you marry. If you are an accountant, define yourself to be an accountant. If you are into supermarket and trading, define yourself into it. It doesn't make sense to be in different confusing career paths before marriage. You may have other side businesses or work, but make sure you are known for a career or job before you marry. Betting is not a career, Bitcoin is not a career, crypto is not a career, forex is not a career, online business may not be a career. Some of these may give you additional income legally, but never get a tangible career before marriage.

(5) Your Integrity: You Must begin to develop integrity. Do it consciously. When you fix an appointment, honour it or politely cancel it if you can't make it. Learn to be faithful. Don't expect people to be faithful to you alone while you cheat. You know how it hurts if you are thoroughly cheated on, so if you don't want to be cheated on, don't cheat on people... Don't devastate people and then beg for forgiveness, because may not be able to forgive if you too is devastated.

ALMIGHTY NO4....

abbey621:
Then you clearly have no idea what life is or what marriage even means. In this life we have seen doctors, engineers, people with good careers tumble and fall into deep depression to the point of almost committing suicide, if as a partner she cannot encourage, motivate, be there for the partner to overcome the dark times then of what use is the woman?

A woman is meant to execute a man's leadership in a family? What does this jargon even mean? In a world where young men below 40 are dying of hypertension and heart attack, it would be wise for women to recognize the gray areas in life, if she carried the leadership mantle for awhile so that the husband can get back on his feet, sky won't fall o, the world won't end o......Men stop putting unecessary pressure on thyselves......Superman na fairytale o, everyone needs help once in awhile.

That's why more Testosterone flows in men.... it's not just a sex hormone .... it's meant to respond to Earth turbulence all things being equal ..... Your wife is meant to help you and help you ..... if you fail to provide leadership then she will lead you ..... Don't complain if she does !

Only an irresponsible man will see living to the responsibility of being a man "Unnecessary Pressure" or being a Super man .....

Providing food, shelter, security and growth for your own wife and children is being a Super man , fairytale and Unnecessary pressure ..... kpele!

missidy:
I don't need to name him to please you. Go to LinkedIn and verify. Good-bye.

LIAR

Suite yourself troll while I collect my monthly allowance. If you like no go learn.

MusaChukwudi:
LIAR

DonroxyII:
That's why more Testosterone flows in men.... it's not just a sex hormone .... it's meant to respond to Earth turbulence all things being equal ..... Your wife is meant to help you and help you ..... if you fail to provide leadership then she will lead you ..... Don't complain if she does !

Only an irresponsible man will see living to the responsibility of being a man "Unnecessary Pressure" or being a Super man .....

Providing food, shelter, security and growth for your own wife and children is being a Super man , fairytale and Unnecessary pressure ..... kpele!

Only someone with a myopic mindset and little understanding of life will reason the way you do. People fall on hard times, people develop deep level depression and other mental abnormalities, speak on what you know and keep shut on matters beyond your comprehension!

Clickguy44:
What's wrong with Jim?

he got married to a simple woman