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| Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 5:02pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I am a young lady in my mid 20s. I don’t live with my parents. I live alone because I work in another city different from where my parents live. My problem now is immediately I get back home from work, I begin to feel lonely. Because of this, I like to close late from work just to keep my mind busy. I close early only if I have other errands to run or if I am very tired. When I get home, I speak with my parents who try their best to keep me company. But there is still lots of time left before I go to bed. In the height of my boredom, I come to nairaland. Then I go to other blogs to read the news. I read all the news blogs I normally follow. I check out my chats on WhatsApp and Telegram. Usually there isn’t anyone chatting with me because everyone is busy with their lives. I go to Youtube which I have become tired of watching. And at some time I’m just bored to my mind. I don’t like to impose myself on anybody and so I only chat with people who come to chat with me including neighbours. Sometimes I just want someone around that I can talk to but I’m alone by myself. Single people, how do you cope with boredom. I mean single people who are really single not the ones cohabiting or visiting their partners. Some tips will be very helpful right now. 167 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by osasalfred4(m): 5:09pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: U can email me, so we can be chat buddies, am just like you. 68 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by AAbuja: 5:09pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
For a man it gets worse around that 8pm. You don't want to be inside alone, you'll want to stay out till 10 or 11pm. Nothing compares to companionship but take your time and get the best that suits you 331 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Authority1o1(m): 5:11pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Okay... For a person like me, I have re-conditioned my mind not to feel boredom. Since it's a thing of the mind, I suppressed the feeling of want of company. Then, I can literally live alone for years without having to get a live-in. I have friends of like minds and interest—few in number—but it's a choice. I understand that I can't stay with them all day, so I make do with the time we spend together. But that's it. My independent nature makes me to either choose to notice their absence or presence, which to me, there's no observable or identifiable difference. 148 Likes 17 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Ynix(m): 5:16pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: Get a TV, watch YouTube, watch comedies, read books, train online and practice new skills. I am 32 and that is all I do when inside. I have learned how to be alone for years now 316 Likes 26 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Sonnobax15(m): 5:16pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
 Being single gives you freedom.. And that freedom is second to none.... Imagine you being on your own without encountering any form of wahala from anybody........But trust me,the boredom may eat you up,to the extent that you may find yourself calling the phone numbers of people whom you know to care less about your well-being......But you must find an alternative to take an advantage of it... But las las cha, being single is a bae  189 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by ALLAHSHOMODFARM: 5:17pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
You can chat me on whatsapp: +2347038696003 2 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 5:18pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Pick up a very tough online project to research on. You can research on programming with python. What about studying about manufacturing process of electric cars. Some field of research totally out ofine with your core competences, you will be drawn to it and get so invested in that you won't even have time to call your family. The wonderful thing is you'd become more intelligent on a divergent field. I am mostly alone and hardly take calls except business and would even prefer wife and child being on holidays so I can have much free time after work to read and research while on boxers with a vaporizer on the desk. It's the best life. Make use of that. Who need Human friends these days 106 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by HONESTFACT101(m): 5:18pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
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| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Decolonel(m): 5:21pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Light up my weed, AZ, or SK, drink beer or vodka. Then proceed to the bathroom with my slimy cream/ lub and self-service the hell outta myself.  . Then hit the bed for sweet sleep.The orgasm you get when you are high is outta this world. My fellow niggars know exactly what I'm talking about 117 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Ballack1(m): 5:25pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I would have recommended video game.. 8 Likes |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 5:30pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
My dear God has been helping us. The boredom got worst on me when my phone got stolen. I virtually became a complete definition of boredom myself. I only overcame it by strolling around my street. I stopped by, whenever something caught my attention. Fights, exchange of words, quarrels, football matches and the likes. Thank God I overcame 126 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 5:32pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane:The same way I always have, with a lot of beer and data to troll people online and watch xvideos. My hand is stronger for the better 41 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MikeofKd(m): 5:46pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Everyone gets lonely sometimes, pple are just good at hiding theirs. So you're not alone. Firstly decorate your living room to a more fun ,jovial ,wonderful and funny kinda looking way . Whenever u come back from work ,d first tin ur mind subconsciously notices is how fun or not your home is .get u a nice flat screen tv , a.c ,nice wallpaper, fridge with lots of chocolates ,biscuits and drinks ,basically just nice interior decorations ,make ur home smell heaveanly as well. If u have u have serious kinda looking decorations in your home , omo dats boring enough ,so spice things up  .Secondly invite female colleagues from work ,male colleagues as well , at least dat way boredom wouldn't be too much. 85 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nehemiahjnr(m): 5:47pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Let’s link up then Am just like you MeghaneMorgane: |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Whats: 6:01pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
If you can afford to take yourself out, being single wouldn't bother you. To cope with being single, you have to join a physical group (either religious group, societal group, basketball or football) and make friends with alot of people 37 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 6:02pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Decolonel:oloshi 17 Likes |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Stephenmoka4(m): 6:12pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Work, work and work or schooling. It really takes someone's time and it's tiring. Also, you can compete on something (games or competition or a little challenge). Church activities or meetings keeps me busy too. 4 Likes |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Vickym1(f): 6:13pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Maybe u download books online cos that's what keeps me company 19 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Ayo2004: 6:29pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
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| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Kondomatic(m): 6:31pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
AAbuja:I can't relate to this. I come home around 7pm everyday. Before I go finish resting, taking my bath and eating, e go don be like 9pm then I will watch movies or read or browse and then crash. My problem is that I have become too comfortable with my loneliness and that will be a problem some day. 118 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by DSuperiorBrand: 6:35pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: Let's be friends. I'm 24 years old male. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Aforxzy(f): 6:51pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
It's could be boring being alone and single. I learnt how to prepare different delicacies. So my saturdays were my practical days. I invite my friends over sometimes or share the food with my good neighbor. On Sundays, I'm involved in alot of activities in the church that extends to mid afternoon. When i get back home I'm preparing for work. I love movies and watch alot when there's nothing to do or just surfing the internet for gists, gossips and updates. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by muller101(m): 6:52pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Very interesting life. No problems at all. Get lots of books read, when you are tired visit your bed. 5 Likes |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 6:52pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Those idiots telling op to be friends with them. Op say she wan make friends with anybody for this forum?? Womaniser full this forum ooo. Even the ones way no dey lonely,dey talk say them dey lonely. 115 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:08pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
osasalfred4: Thanks for offering 12 Likes |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:10pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
AAbuja: Thanks |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:16pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Ynix: I have all these things you asked me to get but i still feels very lonely. I just want to have the feeling of someone sharing the same space with me. I told my sister to come and stay with me and get a job in my city but she said she wants to stay with my parents and work in the same city as my parents. At some point I thought about changing accommodation and renting a shared space instead of a full space where it is just only me but on a second thought, I said no because I don’t want to have issues with anybody. Most Saturday I go out with some of my colleagues who are also my friends and on Sunday I go to church bit immediately I get back home, it is different. 23 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:18pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: You’re right. So much freedom. I like the freedom part in the sense that I can wake up and decided to do anything without it affecting any one. 17 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:22pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
TimeSpaceWizard: Thanks I’ll try that 1 Like |
| Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:23pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Ballack1: I’ll give it a try. Though it’s not my thing. 3 Likes |
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