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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Mcslize: 7:24pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I stay alone and I have never been lonely. Maybe it's because I love my own space. I really don't like that clinginess nature. That's why I find it suffocating when in a relationship. My longest relationship I have had so far lasted 1 and half years. If I marry today, this is one aspect of me I will like my partner to understand. There are times when I just love being on my own. I might adjust after I settle down though. But I will still let my partner to give me little space to meditate. Yes of course, I will spend enough time with my partner, but I will still love to have my special room met for only me where I can go to and spend time alone, even if it is 2 to 3 hours. It's just one's nature. The reason why you feeling so lonely is because you tied your happiness and good time with spending time with people. Such that, if you don't see people around you, you feel lonely. But you just have to learn how to find joy in being alone most times. With time, you will grow to get used to yourself. It's just a mindset. 48 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:25pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MikeofKd: I will try to make my space look more beautiful. Thanks. For food, I always stock up food at home. 8 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Sonnobax15(m): 7:26pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane:I understand....But it's something you'll have to live with..... Even myself, sometimes when I feel lonely,I just come online, especially here on nairaland just to while away time...Tho it's never been easy but staying on your own is better off than staying with people who doesn't love you or care about you for real.. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:26pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Nehemiahjnr: Thanks for the offer 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:28pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Whats: The only place I think of when it comes to taking my self out is to the restaurant . I guess it’s because I like food. I have decided to add going site seeing. At least to cities near to my own city. Thanks for the tip 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:31pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Vickym1: Thanks for the tip 1 Like |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:33pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Aforxzy:Nice, maybe I can try this too. Thanks |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Whats: 7:33pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
AAbuja:True but you can get a TV and a game too. It's gonna keep you calm during night 4 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:33pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
muller101: Thanks for the tip! |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Elmaaq: 7:36pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: What city you in? I do movies, music and evening strolls, random hangouts, found a group of people living around my city on Facebook and every once in a while we hangout 2 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:38pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Mcslize: You’re right. I like that feeling of someone being around. Even if we aren’t talking but just knowing that I’m sharing the space with someone and hearing sounds others makes gives me some kind of comfort. That is why I stay in the office for as long as I can because most of the time, someone is in the space with me. 5 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by gozie85(m): 7:40pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Read plenty of books. Especially spiritual books. If u dont have money to buy i can give the link to where i get all my ebooks. Dont get me wrong companionship is good, but this is the time build urself mentally and spiritually. Peace 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Alhajiemeritus: 7:40pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane:Try clubhouse app. Employ a maid. 4 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:42pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Elmaaq: I love music. It has helped me so many times to ease my boredom. Please what is the name of the facebook group maybe I could send a request to the group. 3 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:43pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Alhajiemeritus: I’m actually on clubhouse but I have not found any meeting that I like. I asked my friends to recommend some to me but I haven’t found any one that got my interest. Maybe you could recommend some please. |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:45pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
gozie85: Thanks a lot. I’ll add that to things I need to do. Please I’m interested in the link thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Bekermann(m): 7:48pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
gozie85: Senior man. Could you drop the link for me? 1 Like |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by finalboss(m): 7:48pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MikeofKd:I love this 6 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Staphylococcus: 7:53pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Beer! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by kay29000(m): 7:53pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
It's not easy. Personally, I am a loner, so me being alone is actually a choice. But, sometimes I just want someone around. Really, man/woman was not made to be alone. When I get extremely lonely, I go out to see my friend (good thing traffic isn't crazy in IB, I can reach anywhere quickly). My friend is the opposite of me...he can talk for Africa. Lol. So, the visit is always worth it. Other times, I call my female friend over. We have fought now... I really miss her, even though she has her own issues, we had great times together... but life goes on. Other times when I can't get company, I just watch a movie or TV series, or chat with friends on WhatsApp. And there are times I really need that full charge...I just take 4-5 days off and go and see my sister...she has kids I really love spending time with. No dull moment with them. Lol. I can stay charged up for weeks after that vacation. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by highbee02: 7:54pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Being a single father is not easy, thanks to oloshos, they are really helping the situation, especially when the weather is cold 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Hamiltonii: 7:54pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Go fück. 4 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by myfantasies(f): 7:54pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I am used to it to the extent that I am afraid of going into another relationship. 9 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by peacettw: 7:54pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
This is a valid question. Always wondered this as well. |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 7:55pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Well, being lonely is better than being entangled. I'm lonely with peace of mind. 10 Likes
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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by McOluOmo: 7:55pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Single life is a bae Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind 13 Likes
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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Taiwojon(m): 7:55pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
It is great. Aviod Boyfriend and girlfriend. Its kills. Wait till you are ready to marry then pray to God for a direction and your wife to be. Wait For God's time. Aviod Fornication and fleshly lust Remember whosever committed fornication sins against his body and God. Lastly Accept Jesus as your lord and savior Jesus saves 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by superlanny(m): 7:56pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I am in the same boat and it's not that easy, companionship can be a blessing and a curse, we can actually put ourselves out there more, it's a choice and mind thing. We can be friends tho, I don't bite MeghaneMorgane: |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nobody: 7:56pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
dont you have a phone with internet? dnt you have pc ? i always do video call when i fell alone |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Nonexisting1: 7:57pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
It's a heaven on earth feeling I tell you. Try it and you will never need company again. 1 Like |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by dingbang(m): 7:58pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I have a maid doing my laundry and cooking for me, so i am coping fine. 3 Likes |
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