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MISSYTOSIN:
Pls I need Naira. Thanks

lightest:
Well u don't know me and if u must be told I work 66hrs with 6hrs unpaid break in a week and I pay what she ask me to pay as bill and apart from that I spent extra £s every month.

Anyway, thanks for the advise and the polite insult.

It's well appreciated

EngrSaks:
These hours are too much! You must make time for your kids and your wife...you might think you are making money to help out with those hours but work hours like this causes more strain on the home as it means the woman will be largely responsible with engaging the kids....


Reduce your hours and find a balance, your wife is just stressed then

tshoboy:
@justwise, @Lexusgs430 and all other visa gurus

We want my mother in law to visit us in the UK, say in six months time and we want to ensure we get the foundation of the application right from now.

Our main concern is proving she has ties with Nigeria.
She doesn’t work in employment, but runs several small businesses. None of which are registered. She doesn’t have a landed property in her name, that can be used as prove of home tie.

We randomly send money to her, so not a consistent monthly stipend.

We need advice on how to prove her home tie and also plan for the application. We would be the sponsor for the trip.

oluayebenz:
Nice conclusion

Since she kicked him out now, I guess the wife will be stress free?

Wetin person no go read for nairaland.com sef

oluayebenz:
Nice conclusion

Since she kicked him out now, I guess the wife will be stress free?

Wetin person no go read for nairaland.com sef

Lexusgs430:
Assuming she is of pensionable age, all the documentations, lays on the sponsor's door ..........

Lexusgs430:
Now go and face the wall .. ......

Tolvin:
Anyone please?

Bronzedigger:
Good day house and all the gurus.. please I need enlightenment on this issue... I am currently in Nigeria and hoping to relocate to the UK God's willing next year.. I came across a youtube channel on study and work abroad wherein I contacted the owner and the he told me its possible to take masters in SOCIAL WORK as it has lots of opportunities or the PRE REGISTRATION MASTERS in Nursing programme with specialtyin mental health and after which I can get a job very easily even when my first degree is not in nursing... I currently have a BSC in mechanical engineering... how feasible is this considering I will be switching field and I starting a new career in a country I've never had any form of experience...... what are the factors to consider, school to apply,cost of programme and building professional work experience if I intend to go through this path.. I need advice as well as suggestions... GURUS IN D HOUSE, DOCTORS, NURSES.. your inestimable response is highly very needed....
Thanks in anticipation

EngrSaks:
You have no idea what work stress added to the stress of engaging kids in the UK does to the mind...she might as well feel she could do it alone since he works such long hours...

His wife works full time, that's roughly 40 hrs per week...and our bro works over 60 hours per week...with kids in the mix, the union is under alot of stress

descarado:
I'm wondering how they manage too. All these long hours, hmm.
Me, I don't want to die young o. Have cut off from overtime. You work and work, no time for yourself or family. Before you know it, u keep relying on medication, coffee to push through.

On your days off, you are too tired to do anything.

Lexusgs430, please come and tell your sister your secret.

tshoboy:
@justwise, @Lexusgs430 and all other visa gurus

We want my mother in law to visit us in the UK, say in six months time and we want to ensure we get the foundation of the application right from now.

Our main concern is proving she has ties with Nigeria.
She doesn’t work in employment, but runs several small businesses. None of which are registered. She doesn’t have a landed property in her name, that can be used as prove of home tie.

We randomly send money to her, so not a consistent monthly stipend.

We need advice on how to prove her home tie and also plan for the application. We would be the sponsor for the trip.

Lexusgs430:
No secrets ó, my sister.....

Work flexibility, helps to balance work/life pressures........

At certain times, we put this pressures upon ourselves.... We need to exclude certain unresponsible responsibilities......

Look at the figures of those scammed in Nigeria, via one ponzi scheme or another pseudo investment plan..... It's well over ₦20,000,000,000.......

Yet this same people would heap stories of poverty on people in the diaspora, enslaving them to work much harder than usual.......

If this person in the diaspora kicks the bucket, their life in Nigeria, would continue.........

This same person in the diaspora is paying rent/mortgage in the UK, this same person is building house/houses in Nigeria, this one person supports families in Nigeria etc etc ..... This same person, is still only one person .......

Work no dey finish, bills no dey finish...... Having a balance is key!!!!

Lexusgs430:
No secrets ó, my sister.....

Work flexibility, helps to balance work/life pressures........

At certain times, we put this pressures upon ourselves.... We need to exclude certain unresponsible responsibilities......



Look at the figures of those scammed in Nigeria, via one ponzi scheme or another pseudo investment plan..... It's well over ₦20,000,000,000.......

Yet this same people would heap stories of poverty on people in the diaspora, enslaving them to work much harder than usual.......

If this person in the diaspora kicks the bucket, their life in Nigeria, would continue.........

This same person in the diaspora is paying rent/mortgage in the UK, this same person is building house/houses in Nigeria, this one person supports families in Nigeria etc etc ..... This same person, is still only one person .......

Work no dey finish, bills no dey finish...... Having a balance is key!!!!

Funky123:
Please I want to seek your opinion, we have been on Canada express entry and my husband profile expired few weeks ago as IELTS expired, we haven’t gotten Invitation to apply and age is going, now he doesn’t want to rewrite and as we are on road to becoming family of 3 it isn’t going to be easy with POF and all the needs so I suggest we try uk for January intake so we would have landed before giving birth

My husband is skeptical, but willing to start. His fear is that if we pay deposit, visa fee, flight, and some money for accommodation and feeding for the main time, can the both of us pay the tuition balance
Though I read he can work full time during break
Please, he is currently a sales Manager with FMCG here in Nigeria, is there any chances of jobs for the both of us to pay the tuition balance.
I also intend to learn Catering for African dishes so I can do as side hustle by the time I gave birth and might not be working. What can you advice please

Lexusgs430:
This several businesses that she runs, does she have any financial data tracking back and forth, to her bank account?.......

amanze54:
Brothes and sisters.
I am soliciting for advice as an Igbo business minded man, with UK Msc student visa. Before the conclusion of my 4 yrs in UK (2ys study and 2yrs Psw), I intend to be involved in exportation business.
I have some fund I put outside for used phone, laptop,electonics and bicycles. I have my contact in Alaba market Lagos.

Kindly guide me the right part to follow ahead of time or some one I can follow to be mentored.
Thanks you.

tshoboy:
Yes she does. Can that be used as a proof of ties.

gratefulme40:
Thank you ooo

My husband na my dependant
He has Been here 2 years. He is not in any of our bills, he only recently asked I transfer electricity bills to his name cos he is trying to build his credit score. I called council may be a year after being here to add him to council tax.

His name on or off our bills has never been an issue, never been raised, never been talked about.

IamE:
Good morning

Sadly my sch travel didnt work due to one or two reasons. .
Funds went into something else, i got married and now i am making plans to come over.
Though not as a student but dependent .
My Wife passed ielts and hospitals are already calling her for jobs in UK.

My question are.. .
1. do you think its possible to continue with my studying wen i come.
2. As a dependent are there jobs i can do to add up and keep the family going.
3. In ur view what's ur best advise or suggestions on areas i am not considering.
Wish i could have a phone talk

tshoboy:
@justwise, @Lexusgs430 and all other visa gurus

We want my mother in law to visit us in the UK, say in six months time and we want to ensure we get the foundation of the application right from now.

Our main concern is proving she has ties with Nigeria.
She doesn’t work in employment, but runs several small businesses. None of which are registered. She doesn’t have a landed property in her name, that can be used as prove of home tie.

We randomly send money to her, so not a consistent monthly stipend.

We need advice on how to prove her home tie and also plan for the application. We would be the sponsor for the trip.

Lexusgs430:
Your husband's concerns are genuine........ It completely depends on money, you have to fulfill this plan (cash at hand)........

Working, with a view to using wage pay tuition fees (is like a suicide mission). But, it also depends on your initial deposit paid........

Factor in childcare + other expenses......... We would not want you opening a negatively charged thread in the future........

Lexusgs430:
Have you read a few pages back........

Bronzedigger:
Good day house and all the gurus.. please I need enlightenment on this issue... I am currently in Nigeria and hoping to relocate to the UK God's willing next year.. I came across a youtube channel on study and work abroad wherein I contacted the owner and the he told me its possible to take masters in SOCIAL WORK as it has lots of opportunities or the PRE REGISTRATION MASTERS in Nursing programme with specialtyin mental health and after which I can get a job very easily even when my first degree is not in nursing... I currently have a BSC in mechanical engineering... how feasible is this considering I will be switching field and I starting a new career in a country I've never had any form of experience...... what are the factors to consider, school to apply,cost of programme and building professional work experience if I intend to go through this path.. I need advice as well as suggestions... GURUS IN D HOUSE, DOCTORS, NURSES.. your inestimable response is highly very needed...
Thanks in anticipation