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Many Christians Are Bearing The Names Of Murderers / “you Are Irresponsible If You Are Not Married At 35” — G.O / Bola Ajibola: 'After Fasting For 7 Days, All My 35 Students Scored A1 In Maths' (2) (3) (4)

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 4:57am On Aug 20, 2021
Someone7:
Look for a better story to attack the church. This one is almost as dumb as the mind that conjured it up
Get a life! He spoke his truth.... na the same church doctrines and traditions wey dey cause you wan throw am under Bus na him him dey talk about. undecided
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Collins4u1(m): 5:07am On Aug 20, 2021
Na you do yourself, na you tie yourself..
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by NeoWanZaeed(m): 5:13am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

A graduate and some people are still controlling your mind.

Was Jesus Christ a deeper life member or founder? Abi it's peter and mark or Luke that's deeper life G O

You are worshipping your church NOT your creator

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Peaceadebu: 5:15am On Aug 20, 2021
I hope you have sense Sha bkos I have seen many of deeper life brothers that doesn't have sense Sha
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Omookunnimi(m): 5:20am On Aug 20, 2021
From your statement its show you are not born again. In your district I believe that those that are not of your age are getting married. Please pray and let God chose for you. Those that are saying you should leave Church are deceiving you. Deeper Life Couples are still the best couples I have ever seen. Please how many of them did you see divorce or separated or have side chic? How many of them did you see in and out of court? The reason is that they allowed God to choose for them. If I may ask, are you working? Are you staying with your parents or live alone? If you are working and stay alone and you have seen a sister you believe if your wife go to MC and start a process that will lead to marriage not coming to Social Media to ridicule your Church. For those that said Deeperlifer don't marry outsider, please do your research very well. Also marriage committee don't chose who to marry for you neither did the church do matchmaking. God bless you.
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Omookunnimi(m): 5:23am On Aug 20, 2021
From your statement its show you are not born again. In your district I believe that those that are not of your age are getting married. Please pray and let God chose for you. Those that are saying you should leave Church are deceiving you. Deeper Life Couples are still the best couples I have ever seen. Please how many of them did you see divorce or separated or have side chic? How many of them did you see in and out of court? The reason is that they allowed God to choose for them. If I may ask, are you working? Are you staying with your parents or live alone? If you are working and stay alone and you have seen a sister you believe is your wife go to MC and start a process that will lead to marriage not coming to Social Media to ridicule your Church. For those that said Deeperlifer don't marry outsider, please do your research very well. Also marriage committee don't chose who to marry for you neither did the church do matchmaking. God bless you.

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by zedegit: 5:31am On Aug 20, 2021
festacman:
This is one big downside of being an obedient church boy. But the truth is that the Bible said "who findeth a wife" and NOT "who committee recommendeth a wife". So, you may need to go Talibanistic and take over your KABUL boldly and apologize to 'whom it may concern' later.

God bless you brother.

He already found a wife and needs everyone to help him mark her out. I think it's good in the sense that it prevents many brothers from wooing the same person at the same time and randy brothers from going on a frenzy from one girl to another within the same church which can breed enemity etc
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by itsme9jaG(f): 5:32am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

As one believer to another. Where is it written than church has to sanction a relationship. Typically when you find a spouse you go for marriage counseling before marriage to be guided.

Pls note we are on our way to heaven and Jesus is the captain. While we belong to various denominations we must focus on what the Bible says and Jesus. I am a winner but recently I have taken time to listen to Apostle Joshua Selman which has illuminated my Christian journey listen to link below

[url]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zwbshwp0xmg[/url]

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by otokx(m): 5:42am On Aug 20, 2021
Interesting, interesting.

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by OtemAtum: 5:45am On Aug 20, 2021
Tutu19:
In terms of marriage, deeperlife church is one of the churches that have Failed woefully. I was there and I know what this man is talking about. They behave like Jehovah's witnesses. They Bleep outside but insist on marrying their church members. I'm sure some bad guys outside have been fucking the person u are eyeing and in the end, u will be the loser because of that stupid Deeper life doctrine of not seeing ur intended spouse in private before marrying.
How can u not know the house of someone u intend to Marry? Religion is just fucking shit. That was how Papa Jeremiah married mama jeremiah in those days and found out she didn't have hair on her head. Because she was always wrapping the head in the deeperlife style. It became clear after they got married. Although they are still together I guess because both were very dirty together.. Lol. I remember another brother Samson too, he went to marry a woman he had not met one on one to test her Mic, they remained childless for many years before we left that area, I don't know whether they have children now tho. Deeper life of those days won't even let u go for medical checkup all in the name of faith.. The delusion that goes on in that church speaks volume. I like the preaching of the pastor though, e dey try well. But where they got those their nonsense doctrine of marriage committee doing what a man should do is what I don't understand. They force u to look holy on the face whereas u are dying inside with rottenness and sin.
I had a deeper life colleague who used to masturbate and watch mojo in the office (a grown man of 45 years then). If u are coming he would close the movie.
One day he was watching mojo and as soon as a colleague was coming, he deleted it and went to the recycle bin and deleted it. unfortunately for him, the colleague is a computer wizard, he knew the guy deleted something, when he couldn't see it in the bin, he used a software and restored it to the bin and brought the movie out.. He presented it to bro... , bro was shocked and asked "how did u get it"? Lol
It is not their fault, they are forced to fake holiness, no partying, no socializing etc. U think say body na firewood abi? Even Kumuyi himself could not wait for one year when he lost his first wife mama kumuyi. If u notice these days, kumuyi himself has started loosening up and fraternizing with other men of God and even gospel artists like Don Moen. I believe it is the influence of this his new wife because she was foreign based before they married, the woman don see beta life than the movie them dey act for naija.. Young people in deeper life recently celebrated papa kumuyi @80 by blowing the trumpet in the church, u won't believe that their zonal leaders suspended all the young ones from the offices they occupied from choir to ushers and youth leaders. It took serious warning from (I believe other big MOGs outside deeper life) to make Kumuyi himself use wisdom to restore the young people back to their positions in the church and warned the leaders to allow the young ones serve God the way they feel is best for them as long as they don't commit sin. That wax what saved the church if not by now, u would not see any young man remaining I. that church. When Kumuyi eventually goes, I hope they hand the church to a younger person to bring them back to limelight. The old people there are too rigid with their anyhow doctrine that is not in the bible .. I so submit.
I have given nairaland content.. Lol
Apt. I pity deeperlife members. They're always on the streets looking out-of-fashion. What a pity!
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 5:51am On Aug 20, 2021
itsme9jaG:


As one believer to another. Where is it written than church has to sanction a relationship. Typically when you find a spouse you go for marriage counseling before marriage to be guided.

Pls note we are on our way to heaven and Jesus is the captain. While we belong to various denominations we must focus on what the Bible says and Jesus. I am a winner but recently I have taken time to listen to Apostle Joshua Selman which has illuminated my Christian journey listen to link below
God didn't ask anyone to go for marriage counseling before getting married. That too is foolishness where God's word is concerned. undecided

Anyone who submits himself to church doctrines and traditions ,that which Jesus Christ declared are all lies where the Truth of God is concerned, is a sinner and sinners have no place in God's Heaven - their pastors own kingdom maybe, but not God's own Heaven. undecided
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by georgecso(m): 5:53am On Aug 20, 2021
The Church has posed more obstacles to marriages than the devil himself.. May God help us..
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by ogawisdom(m): 6:03am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

It remains 5 years then u will be a fool forever. Time still dey to make amends
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by kenlinzo(m): 6:07am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL
Wisdom is profitable to direct my brother. I believe d Bible is our number 1 guide when it comes to any issues of life. I don't think a church doctrine can prevent u from marriage, u are d one preventing urself. I have seen a lot of deeperlifer getting married even inspite of d supposed doctrine that is preventing u.
I pray God gives us wisdom beyond human understanding to run dis race.
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by AlphaStorm: 6:09am On Aug 20, 2021
Regex:


Bible said, if you go to Rome, behave like the Romans. And also if you don't like the doctrine of a place, leave that place.


Damage has been done by not letting you have a social life, however it can be corrected by waiting for the marriage committee to sanction the relationship for you. Honestly it's taking a load off of ya the way I see it. You don't have to go through the stress toasting and impressing her. She knows your intentions and you know hers. For her to reach to the end of the sanction of the relationship means she is very much interested.

Chill brother, work done = 100%

Pls quote the exact passage that says if you are in rome , behave like a roman

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Biggcake: 6:09am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

Living in Bondage
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by payosehtor(m): 6:09am On Aug 20, 2021
Kandeed:


Well ion want it to seem as tho I'm talking against the Church but if at this age and time ur still following Deeper life's marriage committee doctrine then ur making a big mistake. as far as I'm concerned the committee has been giving lotta members problem and Pst Kumuyi said he'll scrap it if it continues to cause problem and division in the church but the truth is, their system can't change. well to me the marriage committee makes you understand ur wife after the marriage which normally you're supposed to know ur partner very well bfr the marriage which is why a deeper life 2months wedding will sometimes look like a 20years old marriage
if I had the time on my side this morning, I would have told you why I left that church. it's exactly on this very issue.

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 6:12am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL
Church or God?
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by payosehtor(m): 6:22am On Aug 20, 2021
That's exactly what I went through while with that church. I never knew how to approach a lady up to 30. even when I tried that marriage committee, they delayed me till I become 35. until I took a bold step and left the church. . I wouldn't want to narrate all of that now.

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Lovine: 6:23am On Aug 20, 2021
Which marriage committee approved Kumuyi's marriage less than 6 months his wife died. He was in love with his Secretary in UK even before the death of his wife...smh
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Naanlong01: 6:38am On Aug 20, 2021
DeeperLife been responsible for late marriage among their members since time imemorial. That's how I ended my one year old relationship with one of their Sisters when we have started meeting families and one Pastor from the pit of wherever told Sister we had to stop communicating, sharing gifts and all those things until further notice,
meanwhile we live in separate States, infact North and South though we are same tribe. I reluctantly accepted hoping it will be over soon, men and women... It went on till four months before I called it quit, those four months were hellish, i tell you... This is someone we communicate effectively because of the privilege of cug sim, we could talk for 24 hrs, and suddenly we had to stop, it wasnt easy. Well, when I finally took that action, even the said Pastor, (chairman marriage comittee) collected my number, called me and was trying to say we can move on and calm me down, for where? Me that I don't take hasty decisions because am meticulous and when I take decision, it will take Divine intervention to change my mind.Sister herself called later shedding crocodile tears trying to play the victim card on me, saying I caused her humiliation in the Church blablabla... Wetin concern me, go look for your will of God elsewhere.

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by favy19(f): 6:52am On Aug 20, 2021
Bro me am ur fellow deeper lifer but am really surprised at u, for how long will you continue waiting for mc? Y not hold the bull by the horn and move ahead unless you don't want to marry, bringing this issue here doesn't worth it by now or before now you should have been man enough ���.may God help you.
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by brainhgeek(m): 6:53am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

Church rule didn't affect you. You affected yourself! Even God will never tamper with the will of men except you willingly hand over your will to Him.
Jara e!
The end!!
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Darkmode64: 6:57am On Aug 20, 2021
illicit:
Wake up brother
From thy slumber grin

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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Darkmode64: 6:59am On Aug 20, 2021
descarado:

Chai shocked cheesy
U get bad mouth walai
I'm telling you guy. Laughed so hard grin cheesy cheesy grin
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by 2theoptimist: 7:01am On Aug 20, 2021
By the time you are 50 you will marry. Just be patient.
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Virusvetty: 7:05am On Aug 20, 2021
I don't see the fault of the marriage committee here because u can't tell me you approached the committee long time ago about a lady and they refuse to approve. Abi u want them to hv emergency meeting for ur sake?
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Virusvetty: 7:10am On Aug 20, 2021
Most times some leaders in deeper life behave like they misunderstood the messages and doctrine instituted by pastor kumuyi
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Virusvetty: 7:11am On Aug 20, 2021
Lovine:
Which marriage committee approved Kumuyi's marriage less than 6 months his wife died. He was in love with his Secretary in UK even before the death of his wife...smh
Oga calm down
Who told u he was in love with secretary
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by olmoRoc: 7:14am On Aug 20, 2021
sijibomi33:
Brought up by Deeperlifer, graduated as a biochemist, with the indoctrination of the church, waiting for the marriage committee to sanction a relationship even when am yet to speak to the lady in question understandably because I dont wanna go against church rules... my fear is, its unheard of!! No relationship at 35 and isn't this ABNORMAL

That's the main reason I'm not raising my kids the way I was brought up. I don't want them to become a dummy.
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Juoflife1(f): 7:17am On Aug 20, 2021
It's abnormal
You are abnormal
Your church is abnormal
Free yourself from religious slavery.

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