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Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by obyrich(m): 11:26am On Aug 22, 2021 |
JovialJune:I am not pained at all. I made my point and have no I'll will towards you. I have also made my observation about your comment and advised you. This is a faceless forum and I expect you respond with decorum to people. Make your points without insults. I hope you don't expect me to continue haggling on this over-flogged topic? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JovialJune(f): 11:28am On Aug 22, 2021 |
obyrich: If you have nothing reasonable to type, buzz off. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by megareal: 11:32am On Aug 22, 2021 |
When I was a kid, there was a trend. Married men will cheat and abandon their wives and kids to go stay with a side chick. If they didn't, they just kept the wives as monuments while enjoying outside. They didn't hide it, they were blatant. The wives will double down, work harder, pray harder, cry harder and look older because of the heartbreak and mistreatment. They kept hope alive, remained celibate and waited for as many years as the husband will decide to return to their senses, or not. We all saw it, and I guess this must have influenced the pattern we see today. Most women don't want to be their mothers who prayed and hoped and waited while a man gallivants. I guess they have decided that two can play the game, and that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander. It's mostly not about money, it's about sexual satisfaction and emotional contentment. Just my summation from myriad conversations I've had with a lot of women. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by adexpa(m): 11:35am On Aug 22, 2021 |
JovialJune: If you take your time to read my post, you would see zero trace of war in it, but I can see that you are a warrior. Sorry for quoting you. Thank you |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by silibaba: 12:02pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
HeavenlyCherub:if you are married, please come make i fvck your punana pls nah. dont mind that your stupid boy you keep at home as a husband. i will do you fine sha 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by bepositive11: 12:08pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
GTCO: Men who cheat should go back to their father's house too. Do onto others what you want others to do onto you. This is why feminists exist 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Kevsmart88(m): 12:22pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
bepositive11:Go back to their father's house and leave the house for you? Lmao. In as much as I don't endorse infidelity of any kind either from the man or the woman, but c'mon guys let's be realistic, you female folks bear the brunt of the societal stigma if caught cheating. Be wise, all these peeps screaming women can cheat won't be there with you when you start bearing the consequences of your ill advised actions. Come to think of it, who would want to marry a female divorcee who was caught cheating? Can you say thesame for the male folk? Let's be guided. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by adeoladeola(f): 1:03pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Ladies seem to be picking up the baton of promiscuity from the guys. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 1:14pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Oksman: What is this one saying? Oga go and sit down, using big big grammar with no common sense. I am monogamous i have never cheated not even in a single relationship. You have no point and you’re going off topic. You want to dish but you can’t take it.. I’m here for you 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 1:18pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
silibaba: Just by reading your comment I can tell sometimes people can read/listen but fail to comprehend. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JovialJune(f): 1:20pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
megareal: One of the only real person here, I wonder why the bleating everywhere because women of today decided not to tolerate or endure bullshit anymore. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 1:21pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
obyrich: I just don’t understand some of these man babies we have left in society. If someone doesn’t agree with their perspective they resort to name calling or sexualizing you. So sad the society we live in today. Some men are not even mentally stable to want to be in a marriage 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by humilitypays(m): 1:26pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
JovialJune:During marriage rite, there is mothers right which the groom pay to the brides mother and her fellow women. Stop arguing what you don't know young lady. Men pay bride price, sponsor the whole wedding, foots most of the family bills, carry most of the family's burden on his head. Only in few rare cases that you see some women grudgingly sharing the family's bills with the husband or maybe bringing more and when you visit such a family you will definitely know from the hostile environment and disrespect to the man and every living thing in that household just because the woman is bringing more. But all over Nigeria and in most families, the man is footing 90% of the bills, buy cars for the wife, kids, sponsors her to vacation, and she lives her dream life out of the man's sweat without the man making a fuss of it. Any woman that does that happily can cheat. How many women are contributing to community projects and development projects; even the ones occupying top political offices, barely insignificant few, you know the truth even if you decide to argue. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by humilitypays(m): 1:29pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
megareal:Society of course saw such men as useless men. The kind of men you used as example in your narrative are the useless men which aren't even up to 2% of men because if they were up to that, I ought to have at least 3 uncles and my dad on the list but alas I can't remember knowing any man like that in my lifetime, only heard about such happening far away. There are foolish men of course but they aren't supposed to be used as yardstick to measure all men. Your opinion lack merit because it's just an insignificant sample few 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JovialJune(f): 1:47pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
[s] humilitypays:[/s] You are very funny with this your thought process, it still doesnt change the fact that bride price and list originated from you men, from your ancestors to your elders in the village, if you like give women, teenagers, toddlers, babies, the whole community out of it calling it one name or the other, it will not change these facts and known truth, or is it the women, children and kids you men will go meet with to abolish bride price? Very funny logic you have, Regarding marriage, it is very obvious you are using the basis of Igbo culture to define all marriages, step out of your enclave, in some tribe, the traditional is solely done by the bride's family, then the church is done by both families, different cultures apply for different tribes The fact that some men take care of their families doesnt mean there aren't women who do same, and we will not call their efforts "how many" to disregard their effort, so cancel that yeye 90% you spew there, some women are sole bread winners but you will never know, they allow people see the horseband as the head for peace to reign, so it is more like 50:50 Now I don't even understand this your argument cos it doesn't relate to this thread, but all in all, if the man likes, he should spend for her whole family, her village, pay bride price of trillions, no one cares, a woman abi na wife who wants to cheat will cheat, simple. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JovialJune(f): 2:03pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
[s] humilitypays:[/s] Your opinion lack merit because you used only your father and uncles as a yardstick to measure men like that, The minute few you've met cannot be used to describe men in that category, these sets of men described by the person you quoted is a well known fact that has been going on and on since the time of old till now, we have all been hearing stories upon stories of such men, so they are definitely in the majority, even here on this forum, it has been said countless times by so many guys here that they want wives like their mum and grandmothers who can endure men like that except you want to deceive yourself or try to hide these facts just to make a point. So your opinion lacks merit and very insignificant. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by bepositive11: 3:38pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Kevsmart88: Feminists exist because of this mentality. More and more women are becoming financially stable and independent. They don't have to deal with this anymore 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by silibaba: 4:32pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
am sorry I sound like that, it wasn't intentional. for a married woman cheating? mehn, is so disgusting to me. I hate indecent dressing in women/girls talk more extra-marital affair. am not taking side in men, but I abhor seeing married women doing nonsense. if I get married and find my wife in the act, I will set her ablaze, I wont bother about the law that will hang me later HeavenlyCherub: |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Jeferious: 5:05pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
It's time to abolish the bride price rule. Let both genders cheat the way they like 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 5:26pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
silibaba: If you’re caught cheating. Should you be set ablaze? Who has not fallen short of God’s glory? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by silibaba: 5:49pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
HeavenlyCherub:yeah. Moreover, am not even sex freak. The only language I understand is money and business. |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by shesawesome(f): 10:09pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Ahmed0336:stfu 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by 3plet: 11:39pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
If this was a general view trust me we would have less divorce in our society...but then religion and tradition has destroyed the ability to rationalize. HeavenlyCherub: |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Baldwretch: 11:52pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
JovialJune: You made a valid point but your misandry got the better of you, sadly. Y Yes, we can all agree that brideprice is a masculine thing, which some see as some sort of oppression. No one should argue that with you. You made a valid point there. However, on taking responsibility, in Africa here and Nigeria in particular, in 9 out of 10 marriages, men take more than 90% of the financial burden. Don't come and start saying bullshit that women do bla bla bla too. Men do most of the givings, financially. Far more so. I know and I'm talking from experience. I have met many families but I have not met one female breadwinner. Even if she was, it is wholly temporary It is never a long term thing. It is rare. The average Nigerian man deserves his wife's fidelity more than she deserves his. I am serious. Men like to win a woman's heart with money, but whose heart can't be won with money? Answer me? And if the person is gotten with money, you'd expect extreme fidelity - that's why your employee would talk to you anyhow and you would be off to work very early the next morning. Imagine that I got married to one of Bezos daughter and she brings the money, don't you think that she deserves my 2000% loyalty? Yes, absolutely she does. I mean, it's common sense. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 11:55pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
3plet: I swear love is easy, humans on the other hand are so complicated 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by HeavenlyCherub(f): 12:10am On Aug 23, 2021 |
Baldwretch: Wow.. fidelity based on who has more money. God help us 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by JovialJune(f): 12:39am On Aug 23, 2021 |
[s] Baldwretch:[/s] In 2019, one of Dangote's daughter got married, the husband cheated on her, the side chick now has a child for him, the wedding was all over the internet and the talk of the town, so drop your stupid common sense rant else where, the mumu husband that knows Dangote is the richest man in Africa and she has the money, why wasn't there extreme fidelity from him? Same way a woman will cheat on her husband whether rich or not, do not expect fidelity from anyone, especially from the wife because you spent more money or you're rich, the earlier you guys accept this reality, the better. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by DMerciful(m): 1:06am On Aug 23, 2021 |
After forming feminist online, you'd still submit to a man. That's the only way you can be happy as a woman. Nature does not allow vacuum! JovialJune: |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Emmanuel909090: 5:11am On Aug 23, 2021 |
HeavenlyCherub: I doubt you have a mother, but if you do i guess she will die soon. Because having a poison like you will definitely kill her. Now down to tbe matter, I can't exchange points with a mind on emergency. I never expected more from a slut, i didn't expected less and you didn't disappoint your clan. You will always support your trade, since your pot is itchy let men keep scratching it lol. I pity any man wifing or planning to wife you. Bastard fly. |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Fiscus105(m): 7:28am On Aug 23, 2021 |
Oksman: Oga from Genesis of ur argument, that lady says nothing but pure truth, go out and see what husbands subjected wife to, just like servant if not slave. When a husband go low by dating every girl or woman, even in neighborhood, some dating their maids even to the notice of housewife, some date another woman in church that both attended,yet you want such woman to keep adore you like king, ....just because you be foolish and useless alpha male..what about husband that will go and sleep outside several days without informing wife?....oga let me tell you truth and pure fact.... respect is earn oooo and not commanded as you believe. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Married Women Cheat These Days? by Jacuzzi55(f): 8:19am On Aug 23, 2021 |
White men impose their culture on us Polygyny is our culture in Africa Men can marry two or more women as far as he can take care of all of them and no complain Polygyny is still widely practice in Islam No wonder Christian women think they are equal to their men hence can do anything their husbands do Until we get back to the way our forefathers did We might not get it right 1 Like 1 Share |
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