Breeze111:
I done Come again, this guy confuse need our help.
Omo today eehh, me and my dad exchanged real blow of which I burst his mouth. See eeh my dad they mess up die. The up-keeping of our house is being done by our mum alone right from when we were kids. All my dad those is to drink and womanise. (I wonder how those girls they even green for am with he koboles pocket) .
So this afternoon I was inside my room with my headset on my ear watching movie but still I was hearing some shout so I just conclude maybe is my parent usual wahala not on till I began to notice that my door is being bang so I decide to open and I saw my elder sister shouting Daddy has done the worst today, so I said to her is there anything new that Man has not done and she say they caught him having sex with madam saloon inside mummy room. Jesus my head won burst I rush to my mum room, I saw my mum crying while madam saloon knelt down saying na devil work with her fallen breast and my dad just sat there with his boxer saying and so, his my house I can marry more than one wife. Kai I no fit hold myself again, that was how I rush him, We exchange some blows and he started bleeding. So he has being calling all our relatives that I beat him. they say, they going to have meeting in our house tomorrow that I must apologise.
To God I can never apologise to that big for nothing man that called himself my dad. Just confuse and depressed, only son my head choke and am so afraid not to end up like him.

godliman:
You beat your dad and ran here to testify expecting us to clap for you? Two wrongs don't make a right. If your mother was smart she should have called you to order and not allowed you go overboard.

I swear I was surprised at his effrontery in as much as his father was a royal douchebag, that does not justify his actions...

Just imagine strangers, neighbors or even young teenagers on the street who are looking for an elder to insult witnessing that....
His father may become a public football very soon that people might kick at will and shamed when they were looking for entertainment ....
After all, if the son can do it and was exceptionally happy with zero remorse, why can't a total stranger....

Breeze111:
I done Come again, this guy confuse need our help.
Omo today eehh, me and my dad exchanged real blow of which I burst his mouth. See eeh my dad they mess up die. The up-keeping of our house is being done by our mum alone right from when we were kids. All my dad those is to drink and womanise. (I wonder how those girls they even green for am with he koboles pocket) .
So this afternoon I was inside my room with my headset on my ear watching movie but still I was hearing some shout so I just conclude maybe is my parent usual wahala not on till I began to notice that my door is being bang so I decide to open and I saw my elder sister shouting Daddy has done the worst today, so I said to her is there anything new that Man has not done and she say they caught him having sex with madam saloon inside mummy room. Jesus my head won burst I rush to my mum room, I saw my mum crying while madam saloon knelt down saying na devil work with her fallen breast and my dad just sat there with his boxer saying and so, his my house I can marry more than one wife. Kai I no fit hold myself again, that was how I rush him, We exchange some blows and he started bleeding. So he has being calling all our relatives that I beat him. they say, they going to have meeting in our house tomorrow that I must apologise.
To God I can never apologise to that big for nothing man that called himself my dad. Just confuse and depressed, only son my head choke and am so afraid not to end up like him.

Ammishaddai:
Bro, you need to take it easy . And secondly, you need Godly counsel right now , so I'll give you the little that I know of .

Number 1. Polygamy has always been a part and parcel of the African culture and the best way of dealing with it is through prayers and patience with God .

Number 2. Fighting your father is not the right way to handle the issue and it can invoke curses on you . If you don't know this , let me tell you now: in this life , it is only your father that is capable of blessing or cursing you. This means an utterance (positive or negative) from his lips can alter your life now and in the future, and trust me , it won't do you any good if he speaks a curse against you (...just believe what I'm saying because I'm speaking from experience) .

Number 3 . It is best to settle with him now because biblically , it is the right thing to do and it is written " do not let the sun set upon your anger "(Ephesians 4:6)
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Do this and remain blessed
Peace

VTJN:
I heard it's the mother who can prophecy (positive or negative) into one's life and it will definitely come to pass and not the father

The mother carried you for good nine months and beyond, risk her life to birth you, breast feed you for years, nurtured you, sleepless night, cared for you and many more. Some mothers forfeited their career, their purpose in life, their goals et al just because of their kids. Please tell me which man or father on earth can do that?

A father doesn't play all these roles. Even islam confirmed it that your mother is the channel in making heaven.

A man can abandoned, forsake or even denied you and your mother. A man can denied impregnating a woman. But a woman can never denied her foetus. She can never denied the child she risk her life for

Our mothers pay the ultimate price not fathers

Btw, I'm not justifying what the guy did. But your claim that his father is the ultimate source to his eternal life is what i found wrong

Shokoloko:
The moment the family meeting is called apologise to your dad. Tell them you were overwhelmed and it won't happen again.

Talk to your mum. Tell her she can stay and endure, but since she can provide for herself and she is the one financially responsible for the family it is okay to leave and let go of your dad.
Being single, divorced or separated is cheaper than treating STDs or HIV or HBP.

You are not cursed. All the curses of 50million Nigerians did not affect Buhari. Curses only work if you believe in them. You'll be fine. Just apologize to the old man

mysticwarrior:
advising your own mother to leave the marriage you were born into is a very foolish act

Breeze111:
I done Come again, this guy confuse need our help.
Omo today eehh, me and my dad exchanged real blow of which I burst his mouth. See eeh my dad they mess up die. The up-keeping of our house is being done by our mum alone right from when we were kids. All my dad those is to drink and womanise. (I wonder how those girls they even green for am with he koboles pocket) .
So this afternoon I was inside my room with my headset on my ear watching movie but still I was hearing some shout so I just conclude maybe is my parent usual wahala not on till I began to notice that my door is being bang so I decide to open and I saw my elder sister shouting Daddy has done the worst today, so I said to her is there anything new that Man has not done and she say they caught him having sex with madam saloon inside mummy room. Jesus my head won burst I rush to my mum room, I saw my mum crying while madam saloon knelt down saying na devil work with her fallen breast and my dad just sat there with his boxer saying and so, his my house I can marry more than one wife. Kai I no fit hold myself again, that was how I rush him, We exchange some blows and he started bleeding. So he has being calling all our relatives that I beat him. they say, they going to have meeting in our house tomorrow that I must apologise.
To God I can never apologise to that big for nothing man that called himself my dad. Just confuse and depressed, only son my head choke and am so afraid not to end up like him.

want to believe you are not just insulting your father or beating him. You hate your father because he did not have money and your mother has poisoned your mind against your father He did not have happiness at home. He found ur mother's friend as someone that always console him. Maybe ur mother deprived him of sex.
There are lot to all these ur story. Your Dad is wrong, your mother caused it. And you yourself committed an abomination. It's sacrilege. You have already pray for urself that ur son will do the same to u.
You better go and call the family to beg ur father on your behalf. Omo ale

Ammishaddai:
I understand , but in christianity it's the father's blessings that are regarded ; a mother's blessing is rarely considered and is often believed not to have any effect .

Secondly, you also need to drop that notion that your father is irrelevant. Because he is ,and he probably loves you more. Have you ever thought of the pains he goes through just to provide for your and your mother ? Just because your mother is always there doesn't mean she loves you unconditionally. A father's love is strange, but it can be just as fierce as a mother's

VTJN:
I still don't know which Christianity regards fathers blessings and disregards that of the mothers

I never said fathers doesn't love their children. But you can't compare that to the love of the mothers. It's uncomparable.

The only true love ever in existence is that of the christ who gave his life for mankind

The only person who will ever truly love you unconditionally is your mother. Have you ever wondered why most children bent on loving their mother more than their father?

Take religious aside, hope you know that alot of women went through and are still going through hell in some men's hand all in the name of marriage? Do you know the nonsense our mothers went through from the hand of our fathers? Our customary law isn't solid enough. Marriage doesn't favour women in Africa. Particularly, in Nigeria. Why? because of the calibre of men they breeds. Men claimed they are polygamous in nature and have the right to sleep around.

Some mothers are even contributing financially to the upkeep of the family. Gone are the days that it was solely the men. Even though biblically, the women are not supposed to work but to look after the home. The irresponsibility of some men had made alot of women took it upon themselves to look out for ends meet. Some women are even the breadwinner of their family

No where in the Bible nor Quoran disregard the mothers blessing in favour of the fathers. Go and meet a Muslim scholar and pastors they will affirmed it to you. Women are the pillar of the home, salt of the nation, mothers to all men out there.

Respect every woman. Young or old, big or small.

Nevertheless, that doesn't give a child the liberty to disrespect or hit his father. That's totally wrong.

I'm only addressing your supposed claim about fathers. A father that can elope with another woman, a father that can abandoned his wife and kids for another woman. A father that can claimed to be polygamous in nature and automatically began sleeping around.

The same Men who travelled to the developed countries upon arrival dropped their naija mentality.

Guy forget am o. Na this naija we follow dey o. We know how men behaves.

Take it to the bank, Mothers are uncomparable to fathers.