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HOW TO CALM YOUR HUSBAND'S MIND

1. MAKE LOVE TO HIM

Sex has a way of relaxing a man. You will change his mood when you make love to him, especially if you are the one who seduces him and initiates it.

2. DON'T MAKE THE HOME A WARZONE

If coming home to you is coming home to yet another argument and fight where you explode and turn everything into an issue, he will dread coming home and it hurts when home is a place to run away from, not to run to.

3. ASK HIM HOW HE IS

Most women want the husband to ask them "How was your day?", "How did you sleep?" "How are you?" yet they rarely ask the husband these. If these questions make you feel cared for, your husband also wants to feel cared for.

4. ORGANIZE HIS LIFE

A lot of men can be disorganized, especially when they are going through a lot in life or have a lot on their mind. This chaos in their system, dressing, schedule or environment can lead to more unease on their mind. When you help him clear the clutter and attend to some of his needs without him asking, he will think better.

5. DON'T ATTACK HIS MAN CAVE
Most have a man cave. This is an activity they do or a place they go to perhaps a room; maybe to play a game, watch TV, meditate and think, write, read, create, work out or just be. Don't attack this, just agree with him on how he can balance his time so that he doesn't spend too many hours in his man cave.

6. PRAY FOR & WITH HIM

You are the one who knows best his potential, struggles, battles and questions; commit him to prayer. Let him hear you pray for him.

7. HELP HIM OUT FINANCIALLY

A lot of men are going through stress due to finances. Help him, by
not putting pressure on him to give the family a lifestyle he can't afford at present, by helping to pay some of the bills, by helping him manage finances better, by saving and seeking long term investments, by stepping up especially when he has been fired or going through business losses.

8. AFFIRM HIM

A man can get tired, a man can go through burn out, a man can question himself, a man can worry, a man can get discouraged; which is why it is important for you to remind him of his greatness, celebrate his achievements.

Rubbish.



Your number 7 shows you actually don't know what you're saying.

Which Nigerian girl go gree give e husband money?


Ndi His money is our money My money is my money will never give shishi to any man

Really? Noted

OP this ur post na for Western women

Sundrus:
OP this ur post na for Western women

I know but at least make our Ladies try learn

Maxfrancis:
I know but at least make our Ladies try learn

if them use that format take learn, our population go plenty pass China. Our Nigerian men sabi take advantage of gullibility.

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Alsonjecs:
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Any man that has a need for privacy should not venture into marriage or any partnership of the kind.

Married men & women can instead negotiate some form of temporary agreement that resembles privacy.