Ok

Pacify her by using a shovel to hit her ...Eminem way

Apologize to her.
Pray and fast.

Why will the man tell you to always ask for help in the first place? No genuine hustler will like to have parasites.

Supreme145:

At my age I am no longer her responsibility but her reaction was just over the roof. I'm still shocked.

Its becomes her responsibility if she doesn't want you to beg people. Except where you have available opportunities to work and you refuse to work or where she provides you alternatives and you refuse it. That is where you will completely be at fault.

Supreme145:

She knows my struggles but she didn't have, I only called the man because I had exhausted other options

So wetin she want make u do naa...

Make you go do yahoo or steal? Na beg u beg u nor kill person.

Bro. Rest your mind.

Tell her how you need the money badly, she will understand, meanwhile collecting money from someone won’t do you any harm.

Kuriosmynd:
Give her orgasm

There is no hope for you.

Ask for forgiveness

Kredolou:
Give her grand children

Works every time..

You first need to rescue your mom from that pastor that have held her mind and reasoning ability in captivity.

I know it is one useless pastor that is feeding her with all the rubbish she is telling you.

She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage.

African mentality
If her prayers couldn't provide for your needs or stop you from asking the man for financial help, then your act has nothing to do with her prayers.

The only offense here is betraying her. The problem is that our over-religious mothers are not easy to pacify. May God help you out.

yomi007k:
Fantabulous....


This must be some African magic stuff.


You self no try. If things are hard for you then you should have called your mum.

If she don't want any help from outsiders then I guess it's becos she believes she is capable.

You need to ask her the way forward.

...is she lightskin sir?

Omo e fit be spiritual battle between the man and your mum. ...by collecting money from the man, the man dey win 1-0 against ur mom. Probably she saw the scoreboard reason she called you

Supreme145:
Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

But, she has told you that she cannot forgive you again.

So why disturbing yourself?

Go beg your mother if possible cry when she forgive you beg her to tell u who that man actually is and the coven be belongs to u see parents kind of are c.I.d in our live they start investigating on your behalf fr on the day u are born so that u will not fall into any snare and pls always heed your parent advice

I honestly don't know what bondage your mom is talking about. But it sounds like your mom is over-spiritual. If it's financial bondage and all that, help me tell your mom that it's absolutely not by prayers. If you have the right knowledge, information, capital, resolve, and all, you'll break free from any perceived spiritual bondage without any 'spiritual' help at all.
Everyone needs help every now and then. As long as it's not stolen or sourced illegally, I'd rather take money than starve myself to death over such fears.

Someone asked you to be calling him and it took repeated calls and sms before he could send you 4k. The man is really wicked. I will advise that if you are physically fit, engage in

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

You know Mummy's fear comes from the fact that, At this point God is powerless and He can not deliver or undone anything... Let know that we serve a limitless GOD. That there is nothing impossible for God to do, absolutely nothing... And next time, please don't disobey a spiritual mother instructions...
I understand school life is sometimes challenging... But don't cross the boundaries for anything please

First, how did she get to know
Second, did the 5k really make this huge difference? Was it actually the only reason why you didn't resume?
Thirdly, I don't believe in booodmoney whatsoever.

Your susceptibility to venality is legendary; strive to conquer greed.

Just call her later and tell her you're sorry... Though I don't call relatives for money too cause my mom made a firm resolution about it. But we also disagree on things and we patch it up after few days.

It's very clear you are operating from a different dimension (carnal) while your Mom is operating from a spiritual dimension.
Go close to God.
See things from your mom's perspective and breakthrough with prayers and supplications.

How about your software?
To show you that the man was after something in you, you never talked about your software again but concentrated on free cash.

Just hope you have not sold your destiny for 5 and 4k.
The lord will help you if you believe in him.

Richy4:
Abeg make una educate meoo... What is this physical cash gift and online cash gift u people were emphasizing on? What is the difference ?... That online cash Juju and physical cash Juju are different?

Maybe, she wants some bragging rights unto singlehandedly training a graduate.. not knowing what u were passing through... To think that u destroyed that right gave her a sleepless night... How can she now share those right? Just give her a week to process and digest the whole scenario.. she will be fine

Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

Your mama no get,yet she no want who get to help your life. Would she prefer you have an extra year because you asked for help. Nawa no be only who de fly be witch sha

With all due respect if your mom can't provide food for you and you have to starve for a whole week and you had to skip school for 3 whole months, you have every right to beg for help from a relative or friend even if he's a criminal. No apology!!

I've seen parents allow kids to starve and suffer for no sensible reason. If the reason is genuine then I'd understand.

Parents should stop this level of emotional blackmail and punishing their kids unnecessarily. Imagine her telling you she won't forgive you for life for such a little understandable forgivable matter. That easily proves her Christianity is not genuine.

If she doesn't want you to beg others let her provide for you period. Its her responsibility.
1 Like. Exactly my thought. The guy tried tbh.

Pumpumking:


...is she lightskin sir?

I don't know. Ask the son.

Here's my opinion (and experience)



Ur uncle asking u why u don't ask him for favors

Added to ur mothers statements makes me believe ur mom.

u secretly took d money.

For her to call u in a sad mood to inform u that u broke her heart means that 'spiritually' , she has been informed that something has gone wrong cos of that money u collected.

And such info can't be wrong.

Something is NOT spiritually right about that ur uncle.

Nigerian uncles with 'good heart' don't ask people why they've not been coming to them for money.

Yes..., if u ask them for money, they may give.

But they don't just ask u why you've not been calling them for money.

Do u think he is CBN governor?





If not for d above reason, I would have told u to forget all those useless rants by ur mum.

Whenever I want to scare kids , I just tell them that if they 'do this or that' , OJUJU (masquerade) will eat their head.

They'll end up avoiding that stuff I threatened them with.


Check urself well.
Ask old people in village questions.

I'm suspecting that u r d FIRST child.

d man u call UNCLE might even be ur real FATHER.

Maybe, ur mums relationship with him didnt work out.

Ur uncle got ur mum pregnant, but mum ended up marrying ur present dad and shifted the pregnancy to him


And as usual, she's claiming that he is evil in order to scare u away from him.



What am I saying?

My mum and dad divorced when we were kids.

For those 12 years of divorce, Mum raised us up telling us (and everyone else) of horrible stories of how dad is a ritualist and Occultic man, beats her all d time, wants to kill her, etc

How he tried using us for rituals.

Every one in d family had a different 'Glory be to God' story of how dad tried using us for blood money but failed.

Yes..., mum is HIGHLY SPIRITUAL and knows every ministry or prayer house.

My childhood spiritual stories/experience can fill up a 2,000 page book (no jokes).
Just mine alone, without adding those of my brothers.

In one of those stories, we went to a place were I was bathed with water that never touched any roof for 7 days. It was collected by keeping buckets outside in an open space.

And I was not to enter any bathroom.
A pit was dug where I bathed inside for those 7 days.

After each bath, a certain leaf was pounded and d water from it collected.

Then the water was mixed with water from unripe coconut + olive oil.

I drank that for 7 days after each bath.

On the 7th day, something u won't believe happened but whatever I say is 100% unadulterated truth.

i use spectacles (even till today) .

They said my father blocked my sight with a spiritual glass. Then invoked pins into my brains. And they must be removed.

Mum PAID CASH.

a leaf was rubbed on my head, then a coconut was used to rub my head for up to 10minutes.

After about 10minutes....

The coconut was shaked and I noticed that the water-sound of d coconut has totally disappeared.

When the coconut was broken , over 130 PINS came out from it (instead of d normal coconut water).

Secondly (same time), another leaf was rubbed on my head. The prophet rubbed his head against mine. Then coughed out (from his mouth, not mine) a PERIWINKLE Shell and other stuffs I can't remember.

Finally, a new Razor blade was used to cut my forehead ( top side of d nose).

The prophet used his teeth to bite me so hard for up to 5 minutes. That was when he finally ate out a piece of GLASS from my forehead plus some of my flesh.


As for mum...

A locked padlock was eaten out of her chest (space in between d breast). They said it was used to lock her heart so that she'd die.

Some prayers where made and d padlock was opened, burnt and discarded.


In another story, I was stripped 100% naked in front of d alter during a church service.

I tried to hide my penis (cos I already had 3 strands of pubic hair coming out on my scrotum) but the woman forced me to raise up my hands.

The prayer was against d spirit of death.

I was made to turn around, roll on d floor, squat (while she spat large volumes of olive oil on me from her mouth) and other stuffs I won't like to mention here.


This is just two stories out of over 30 stories from that prayer house alone.

Now, multiply it by over 50 prayer houses we've been taken to.

I speak d truth

Funny enough, even though d glass has been removed, I still wear spectacles till today




Back to 12 years after divorce, mum and dad re-united again.

If not that we were already 5 adults, I could swear that mum would have gotten pregnant again for same occultic husband.

U dare not say that dad is occultic cos mum would get angry and SCOLD you all day for accusing dad falsely.

Dad is just a simple, easy going man (still has his own flaws but nothing 'spiritualistic about him)



When mom quarelled with our neighbors, she accused them of being witches.

Our neighbors where witches

People at her work place were witches.

As a Nigerian , You already know that all my uncles are wizards. Right?

Same as everyone in our village


When she reconciled with one of d neighbor, that one stopped being a witch.



All I'm saying here is this...

Right now, ur mom is correct and u should listen to her.

Stay away from that uncle

But in future , NEVER TRUST A WOMAN when she accuses someone of being diabolic.

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

My dear, it was because you were stranded, that made you to seek for help outside

Summon courage go home, meet her, just the two of you alone, let her hear from you and let her know that it's not physical cash but transfer

That you needed that help that time and this is the first time you are doing such


Assure her that you remain her son who loves her mother any thing in the whole world and she means you living and happiness

That since she reacted on that money issue, you have never been yourself

That she should forgive so that both of you will continue the good relationship that you ha e with each other

If she refuses, report to your siblings and start crying

That tears alone will move her

After this avoid anything that will trigger her emotions

Some women are very sensitive

There is no hurt that a simple but genuine “I am sorry” cannot heal. Especially as it concerns a mother’s love. Make her understand that you’re truly sorry and make sure you never repeat the same mistake again.