Supreme145: Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.
Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.
I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.
When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds. Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.
I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.
In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.
This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.
I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.
Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.
This is your mom and I will be very civil. Your mom is religiously sentimental. The solution is not to pacify her but to help her come out of such a notion. It is toxic.
For her to say she won't forgive you, you betrayed her trust just because a relative she's suspicious of gave you money, is toxic. You didn't steal, kill or any of such.
Supreme145: Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.
Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.
I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.
When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds. Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.
I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.
In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.
This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.
I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.
Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken. Is she from Pacific ocean?
Supreme145: Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.
Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.
I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.
When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds. Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.
I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.
In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.
This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.
I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.
Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.
Fine! You disobeyed your mum, but if she finds it very hard to forgive u as you said. Then sorry to say this, your mum might have done something fetish or took an oath as regards her desire not to be assisted by any relative. Nothing is too wrong about what you did na
Supreme145: Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.
Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.
I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.
When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds. Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.
I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.
In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.
This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.
I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.
Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.
Op, hear this.
If your mum is truly a woman of faith like you claim then she doesn't need to be heartbroken because she should know that nothing can be put you in bondage as the says, "even if we (as Christians) touch anything deadly, it will not harm us".
If she is well versed in the word of God, such things will no longer scare her. Christ has set us free from every curse and bondage that comes with the law.
In your part, pray and confeithe word of God I cited above and move on.
I wouldn't blame you na poverty cause am. What's your course of study and will you pass out?
Supreme145: Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.
Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.
I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.
When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds. Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.
I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.
In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.
This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.
I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.
Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.
I have been laughing hard since I read this post. Abeg don’t mind your Mum jare, na so my Mama dey do. She just wanted to have bragging rights that she singlehanded you trained you and perhaps she must be the spiritual type too. If she wanted to break any curse, why didn’t she break it since before you were even born or reach the age of 28? Since the Bible says we should honor our parents, just ask for her forgiveness but don’t allow the statement to psychologically affect you. Just work hard and pray you will definitely succeed in Jesus Name Amen
I share your sentiment reason I collected the money because I don't see how someone can alter my destiny with money I withdrew from the ATM, I never knew she would react this way. I'm just concerned about her feelings
The Important Thing is not feel bad about what you did and end up punishing yourself for nothing. Just find a way to console her even if it means pretending because she is never letting go of what she believes, You gonna be alright.
Added to ur mothers statements makes me believe ur mom.
u secretly took d money.
For her to call u in a sad mood to inform u that u broke her heart means that 'spiritually' , she has been informed that something has gone wrong cos of that money u collected.
And such info can't be wrong.
Something is NOT spiritually right about that ur uncle.
Nigerian uncles with 'good heart' don't ask people why they've not been coming to them for money.
Yes..., if u ask them for money, they may give.
But they don't just ask u why you've not been calling them for money.
Do u think he is CBN governor?
If not for d above reason, I would have told u to forget all those useless rants by ur mum.
Whenever I want to scare kids , I just tell them that if they 'do this or that' , OJUJU (masquerade) will eat their head.
They'll end up avoiding that stuff I threatened them with.
Check urself well. Ask old people in village questions.
I'm suspecting that u r d FIRST child.
d man u call UNCLE might even be ur real FATHER.
Maybe, ur mums relationship with him didnt work out.
Ur uncle got ur mum pregnant, but mum ended up marrying ur present dad and shifted the pregnancy to him
And as usual, she's claiming that he is evil in order to scare u away from him.
What am I saying?
My mum and dad divorced when we were kids.
For those 12 years of divorce, Mum raised us up telling us (and everyone else) of horrible stories of how dad is a ritualist and Occultic man, beats her all d time, wants to kill her, etc
How he tried using us for rituals.
Every one in d family had a different 'Glory be to God' story of how dad tried using us for blood money but failed.
Yes..., mum is HIGHLY SPIRITUAL and knows every ministry or prayer house.
My childhood spiritual stories/experience can fill up a 2,000 page book (no jokes).
All I'm saying here is this...
Right now, ur mom is correct and u should listen to her.
Stay away from that uncle
But in future , NEVER TRUST A WOMAN when she accuses someone of being diabolic.
It's sad to remember this I guess. As an adult, you know now that it is a scam! All those so called spiritual work or babalawo work, Scam!
In Op's case. Just beg her for forgiveness, she will. When she is calm, tell her you would return the money when you have; you will get to know more from her about your families.
Seriously some relative are too diabolical and most mothers who are spiritual try as much as possible to shield their children away from such people.
But on the contrary you went behind her and went against what she chided you for. Well, it's not about the "taking" that's the issue it is the strain and pain going through the deliverance process which may take weeks even months.
Just go and apologize to her by doing the needful, she's got a soft heart...
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Your son is badly in need of money, you don't have to give him, he got it from somebody he did not steal it, he did not sell any house belongings. What I will advise you to do is to apologize to your mother but in your heart know that you did not wrong her in anyway.
Meet momsy explain how u stayed on water for days,she will definitely forgive you.. Mom no fit keep something for mind against her child.. Mother's love for her child strong pass rock
headbasher96: Go beg your mother if possible cry when she forgive you beg her to tell u who that man actually is and the coven be belongs to u see parents kind of are c.I.d in our live they start investigating on your behalf fr on the day u are born so that u will not fall into any snare and pls always heed your parent advice
I know your type, just because you succeeded where others failed doesn't make you special, it might be grace or luck...be calming down, na person wey never see they say make them show am
I understand you but you don't know me and what I have been through. Thanks for the input by the way.
Supreme145: Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.
Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.
I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.
When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds. Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.
I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.
In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.
This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.
I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.
Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.
Dude, God bless you. Please first of, go to God in prayer, ask Him to forgive you for disobeying your mum and that He should touch your mum's heart to forgive you. The bible says "the key to a kings heart is in the hands of the Lord and He, God, turns it where so ever He wills" then go to mummy on your goddamn knees lol. you will be shocked at her come back. You can even add tell her that you will gather the money and find a way to send it back to him.
Supreme145: Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.
Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.
I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.
When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds. Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.
I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.
In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.
This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.
I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.
Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.
sorry to say this, as hard as it is to believe, YOUR MOTHER HAS PRIDE AND PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL. so she would have expected you to waste all your years in skul due to not being able to resume ur final year after 3months plus, because she is too proud to ask for help, your mother prefers her Ego to ur education ..... Guy u have not done anything wrong and u owe her no apology, rather she should be grateful to ur uncle.. Inasmuch as I don't know where ur mum is talking from, maybe spirituality, but if she has raised money for u even tru borrowing, not sure u will be home for 3months to have asked ur uncle for help... You mom should be more grateful to ur uncle and accept the fact that IT IS VERY MUCH OKAY TO ASK FOR HELP. ESPECIALLY WHEN WE CAN'T DO THINGS FOR OURSELVES... God no send us come life come do am alone.... We all need help one point or the other in life, except of cause your mother is keeping a secret from you....
Deliverance prophets are the worst thing that happened to Africa. They came to add fuel to the superstitious nature of Africans with their wicked theology.
Very funny. Is your mum educated? Does she know the meaning of the word 'never'?
Well, if you're sure she knows the meaning of the word 'never', call her, or send her a text. Tell her to package all your belongings, and keep it outside your house. She should tear all the pictures you snapped with her, delete all your pics in her phone, and package all your belongings, everything! Tell her she should not worry if rain beats them, etc... That you'll come and pick all your stuffs. That it doesn't make sense to see her... What's the use of seeing someone who is broken for life, and has resolved NEVER to forgive you because you collected money from someone to make like a bit bearable for you?
Tell her you too will not forgive her for not forgiving you, and she should block you on all social media because you don't want her to mistakenly forgive you... After all, you don't deserve forgiveness for such a flimsy offence. Anyways, momsy, if you like, take care of yourself if you like; me sha, I won't take care of myself... And by the way, I won't invite you for my wedding. What's the use? When you will probably come and swear for my wife and my unborn children?
And just to notify you, I want to start worshipping idols (name the idol in your village); I want to kuku know that when I offend my god, he will NEVER forgive me and I must pay for my offence. What's that use of praying through Jesus and he won't forgive my mistakes?
Added to ur mothers statements makes me believe ur mom.
u secretly took d money.
For her to call u in a sad mood to inform u that u broke her heart means that 'spiritually' , she has been informed that something has gone wrong cos of that money u collected.
And such info can't be wrong.
Something is NOT spiritually right about that ur uncle.
Nigerian uncles with 'good heart' don't ask people why they've not been coming to them for money.
Yes..., if u ask them for money, they may give.
But they don't just ask u why you've not been calling them for money.
Do u think he is CBN governor?
If not for d above reason, I would have told u to forget all those useless rants by ur mum.
Whenever I want to scare kids , I just tell them that if they 'do this or that' , OJUJU (masquerade) will eat their head.
They'll end up avoiding that stuff I threatened them with.
Check urself well. Ask old people in village questions.
I'm suspecting that u r d FIRST child.
d man u call UNCLE might even be ur real FATHER.
Maybe, ur mums relationship with him didnt work out.
Ur uncle got ur mum pregnant, but mum ended up marrying ur present dad and shifted the pregnancy to him
And as usual, she's claiming that he is evil in order to scare u away from him.
What am I saying?
My mum and dad divorced when we were kids.
For those 12 years of divorce, Mum raised us up telling us (and everyone else) of horrible stories of how dad is a ritualist and Occultic man, beats her all d time, wants to kill her, etc
How he tried using us for rituals.
Every one in d family had a different 'Glory be to God' story of how dad tried using us for blood money but failed.
Yes..., mum is HIGHLY SPIRITUAL and knows every ministry or prayer house.
My childhood spiritual stories/experience can fill up a 2,000 page book (no jokes). Just mine alone, without adding those of my brothers.
In one of those stories, we went to a place were I was bathed with water that never touched any roof for 7 days. It was collected by keeping buckets outside in an open space.
And I was not to enter any bathroom. A pit was dug where I bathed inside for those 7 days.
After each bath, a certain leaf was pounded and d water from it collected.
Then the water was mixed with water from unripe coconut + olive oil.
I drank that for 7 days after each bath.
On the 7th day, something u won't believe happened but whatever I say is 100% unadulterated truth.
i use spectacles (even till today) .
They said my father blocked my sight with a spiritual glass. Then invoked pins into my brains. And they must be removed.
Mum PAID CASH.
a leaf was rubbed on my head, then a coconut was used to rub my head for up to 10minutes.
After about 10minutes....
The coconut was shaked and I noticed that the water-sound of d coconut has totally disappeared.
When the coconut was broken , over 130 PINS came out from it (instead of d normal coconut water).
Secondly (same time), another leaf was rubbed on my head. The prophet rubbed his head against mine. Then coughed out (from his mouth, not mine) a PERIWINKLE Shell and other stuffs I can't remember.
Finally, a new Razor blade was used to cut my forehead ( top side of d nose).
The prophet used his teeth to bite me so hard for up to 5 minutes. That was when he finally ate out a piece of GLASS from my forehead plus some of my flesh.
As for mum...
A locked padlock was eaten out of her chest (space in between d breast). They said it was used to lock her heart so that she'd die.
Some prayers where made and d padlock was opened, burnt and discarded.
In another story, I was stripped 100% naked in front of d alter during a church service.
I tried to hide my penis (cos I already had 3 strands of pubic hair coming out on my scrotum) but the woman forced me to raise up my hands.
The prayer was against d spirit of death.
I was made to turn around, roll on d floor, squat (while she spat large volumes of olive oil on me from her mouth) and other stuffs I won't like to mention here.
This is just two stories out of over 30 stories from that prayer house alone.
Now, multiply it by over 50 prayer houses we've been taken to.
I speak d truth
Funny enough, even though d glass has been removed, I still wear spectacles till today
Back to 12 years after divorce, mum and dad re-united again.
If not that we were already 5 adults, I could swear that mum would have gotten pregnant again for same occultic husband.
U dare not say that dad is occultic cos mum would get angry and SCOLD you all day for accusing dad falsely.
Dad is just a simple, easy going man (still has his own flaws but nothing 'spiritualistic about him)
When mom quarelled with our neighbors, she accused them of being witches.
Our neighbors where witches
People at her work place were witches.
As a Nigerian , You already know that all my uncles are wizards. Right?
Same as everyone in our village
When she reconciled with one of d neighbor, that one stopped being a witch.
All I'm saying here is this...
Right now, ur mom is correct and u should listen to her.
Stay away from that uncle
But in future , NEVER TRUST A WOMAN when she accuses someone of being diabolic.
Hahahaaaaa! I swear, as I dey read your comment, I just dey laugh & shout on my bed alone.
Meeehn! Make I no talk wetin dey my mind, make our Christian brothers & sisters no come eat me for breakfast, lunch & dinner.
Most people who embark on a quest for solutions to their “non existent” or “phantom” problems usually end up jumping out from the frying pan into the fire.
The solution we “ALL” seek outside, lives inside us.
falcon01: Mcheew I'm angry at this, the fact that Parents have to Drag children into their superstitious beliefs, and personal Life choices haba!! Buddy, truth is we all need help one way or the other, what you did wasn't wrong and I want you to know Parents make mistake and because they are our parents doesn't mean they are perfect or know it all. Don't feel bad about what you did
I share your sentiment reason I collected the money because I don't see how someone can alter my destiny with money I withdrew from the ATM, I never knew she would react this way. I'm just concerned about her feelings
Shame no dey catch you??
For your info, that dude has called your mum and told her to tell her son to stop disturbing him for money. That's one of the reasons the woman is so embittered.
You may not fully understand her reasons, but she's your mother, she loves you and will always want the best for you. She will never mislead you.
To obey is better than sacrifice.
You done fuckup, just beg her for forgiveness and don't try to justify anything
Thank you....I will keep begging her, because all my struggle is to put smiles on her face. I just hope she forgives me.
How did your mom get to know, I’m sure you didn’t tell anyone about it, which means the young man you asked for money has broadcasted it around. If I’m your mama I’m gonna feel bad about it.
Even if you return the money back to him, he won’t broadcast how you returned the money back to him, It’s better you ask friends for help
For your info, that dude has called your mum and told her to tell her son to stop disturbing him for money. That's one of the reasons the woman is so embittered.
You may not fully understand her reasons, but she's your mother, she loves you and will always want the best for you. She will never mislead you.
To obey is better than sacrifice.
You done fuckup, just beg her for forgiveness and don't try to justify anything
Student wey dey hungry no Dey get shame o.
If the woman doesn't want her son begging, let her woman up and provide for his needs.
If u are no longer her responsibility she shouldnt be angry at who you got help from. To whom much is given, much is expected. If she isnt providing for you, i see no crime in how you get money since you didnt steal it.
Just give her time. She will get over it. Dont overwork your self. Send a text, leave her for like 2 weeks without communicating with her. Na she go call you by herself if truly na she be your mama
Your head dey there boss.
The woman is cleary overreacting.
In fact, he shouldn't call her until she calls him.
@OP you asked for advice, so in any form you get it, please do not take it personal.
@28 you are still an undergraduate, an undergraduate without a means of income @28.
Sadly your mom, she couldn't provide for you, yet angry you got help from a family member who gave a meagre 9k after prolly 3 months ( is this the same man your mom is worried bout his source of wealth )
Conclusively you need to take the bull by the horn and do nor mask under the guise of being a student, so much so you cannot feed a whole week without begging for alms at 28.
.... we never even talk jobs, house, wife, kids.... @28. I have nothing else to say.
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