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Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken. Is she from Pacific ocean?

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

Supreme145:
I share your sentiment reason I collected the money because I don't see how someone can alter my destiny with money I withdrew from the ATM, I never knew she would react this way. I'm just concerned about her feelings

Nikkganc08:
Here's my opinion (and experience)



Ur uncle asking u why u don't ask him for favors

Added to ur mothers statements makes me believe ur mom.

u secretly took d money.

For her to call u in a sad mood to inform u that u broke her heart means that 'spiritually' , she has been informed that something has gone wrong cos of that money u collected.

And such info can't be wrong.

Something is NOT spiritually right about that ur uncle.

Nigerian uncles with 'good heart' don't ask people why they've not been coming to them for money.

Yes..., if u ask them for money, they may give.

But they don't just ask u why you've not been calling them for money.

Do u think he is CBN governor?





If not for d above reason, I would have told u to forget all those useless rants by ur mum.

Whenever I want to scare kids , I just tell them that if they 'do this or that' , OJUJU (masquerade) will eat their head.

They'll end up avoiding that stuff I threatened them with.


Check urself well.
Ask old people in village questions.

I'm suspecting that u r d FIRST child.

d man u call UNCLE might even be ur real FATHER.

Maybe, ur mums relationship with him didnt work out.

Ur uncle got ur mum pregnant, but mum ended up marrying ur present dad and shifted the pregnancy to him


And as usual, she's claiming that he is evil in order to scare u away from him.



What am I saying?

My mum and dad divorced when we were kids.

For those 12 years of divorce, Mum raised us up telling us (and everyone else) of horrible stories of how dad is a ritualist and Occultic man, beats her all d time, wants to kill her, etc

How he tried using us for rituals.

Every one in d family had a different 'Glory be to God' story of how dad tried using us for blood money but failed.

Yes..., mum is HIGHLY SPIRITUAL and knows every ministry or prayer house.

My childhood spiritual stories/experience can fill up a 2,000 page book (no jokes).









All I'm saying here is this...

Right now, ur mom is correct and u should listen to her.

Stay away from that uncle

But in future , NEVER TRUST A WOMAN when she accuses someone of being diabolic.

headbasher96:
Go beg your mother if possible cry when she forgive you beg her to tell u who that man actually is and the coven be belongs to u see parents kind of are c.I.d in our live they start investigating on your behalf fr on the day u are born so that u will not fall into any snare and pls always heed your parent advice

Supreme145:
I know your type, just because you succeeded where others failed doesn't make you special, it might be grace or luck...be calming down, na person wey never see they say make them show am

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

Supreme145:
Good morning N'landers, I will make this post as brief and concise as possible.

Some months ago while I was home on break from school, I visited one of my in-laws that owns a school to introduce a software to him for his school. The man complained that I was too distant from him, citing how I never call him or ask him for favours whenever I'm in school. I told him I will reach out to him more often.

I told my mom about my visit and she told me without mincing words to resist collecting money from the man. My mom is the religious type and has been skeptical about the man's source of wealth.

When school resumed things were difficult at home and I couldn't resume school. I spent close to three months after resumption at home due to lack of funds.
Note that since my admission from my first year to my final year, I've never asked any relative for help no received any help from anyone aside my immediate family.

I lost my resolve not to ask for help when my project supervisor called me and scolded me over the phone for my inability to resume school. I sent the man a text soliciting for help, he sent me 5k which I added to the little I had and resumed school. I didn't tell my mom because I knew she won't be happy about it.

In school things were so hard for me, during a particular period I went almost one week living on just water, that period I'm sure I would eaten food sacrificed to a deity if I had access to one. I called the man again and he reluctantly sent me 4k after many calls and text messages.

This early morning I got a phone call from my mom, she was crying over the phone. She was hurt and said I betrayed her because I went behind her back to collected money from a man she told me to avoid. She said that singular act of mine has destroyed all her efforts and prayers to break us free from bondage. I tired to explain that the money wasnt a physical cash hence it has no effect on me but to no avail. She said I've broken her for life and she would never forgive me.

I have a very close relationship with my mom and everything she told me really hurt me and I'm confused on the action to take. I am 28 but I hardly hide anything from her, I didn't tell her about the money because I know she wouldn't approve of it and I needed it. This is the first time any relative has contributed to my education ever. I don't even know how she got to know.

Please how do I pacify her and get her to forgive me? I really love my mom and can't bear to see her this heartbroken.

Supreme145:
Thank you....I will keep begging her, because all my struggle is to put smiles on her face. I just hope she forgives me.

Nikkganc08:
Here's my opinion (and experience)



Ur uncle asking u why u don't ask him for favors

Added to ur mothers statements makes me believe ur mom.

u secretly took d money.

For her to call u in a sad mood to inform u that u broke her heart means that 'spiritually' , she has been informed that something has gone wrong cos of that money u collected.

And such info can't be wrong.

Something is NOT spiritually right about that ur uncle.

Nigerian uncles with 'good heart' don't ask people why they've not been coming to them for money.

Yes..., if u ask them for money, they may give.

But they don't just ask u why you've not been calling them for money.

Do u think he is CBN governor?





If not for d above reason, I would have told u to forget all those useless rants by ur mum.

Whenever I want to scare kids , I just tell them that if they 'do this or that' , OJUJU (masquerade) will eat their head.

They'll end up avoiding that stuff I threatened them with.


Check urself well.
Ask old people in village questions.

I'm suspecting that u r d FIRST child.

d man u call UNCLE might even be ur real FATHER.

Maybe, ur mums relationship with him didnt work out.

Ur uncle got ur mum pregnant, but mum ended up marrying ur present dad and shifted the pregnancy to him


And as usual, she's claiming that he is evil in order to scare u away from him.



What am I saying?

My mum and dad divorced when we were kids.

For those 12 years of divorce, Mum raised us up telling us (and everyone else) of horrible stories of how dad is a ritualist and Occultic man, beats her all d time, wants to kill her, etc

How he tried using us for rituals.

Every one in d family had a different 'Glory be to God' story of how dad tried using us for blood money but failed.

Yes..., mum is HIGHLY SPIRITUAL and knows every ministry or prayer house.

My childhood spiritual stories/experience can fill up a 2,000 page book (no jokes).
Just mine alone, without adding those of my brothers.

In one of those stories, we went to a place were I was bathed with water that never touched any roof for 7 days. It was collected by keeping buckets outside in an open space.

And I was not to enter any bathroom.
A pit was dug where I bathed inside for those 7 days.

After each bath, a certain leaf was pounded and d water from it collected.

Then the water was mixed with water from unripe coconut + olive oil.

I drank that for 7 days after each bath.

On the 7th day, something u won't believe happened but whatever I say is 100% unadulterated truth.

i use spectacles (even till today) .

They said my father blocked my sight with a spiritual glass. Then invoked pins into my brains. And they must be removed.

Mum PAID CASH.

a leaf was rubbed on my head, then a coconut was used to rub my head for up to 10minutes.

After about 10minutes....

The coconut was shaked and I noticed that the water-sound of d coconut has totally disappeared.

When the coconut was broken , over 130 PINS came out from it (instead of d normal coconut water).

Secondly (same time), another leaf was rubbed on my head. The prophet rubbed his head against mine. Then coughed out (from his mouth, not mine) a PERIWINKLE Shell and other stuffs I can't remember.

Finally, a new Razor blade was used to cut my forehead ( top side of d nose).

The prophet used his teeth to bite me so hard for up to 5 minutes. That was when he finally ate out a piece of GLASS from my forehead plus some of my flesh.


As for mum...

A locked padlock was eaten out of her chest (space in between d breast). They said it was used to lock her heart so that she'd die.

Some prayers where made and d padlock was opened, burnt and discarded.


In another story, I was stripped 100% naked in front of d alter during a church service.

I tried to hide my penis (cos I already had 3 strands of pubic hair coming out on my scrotum) but the woman forced me to raise up my hands.

The prayer was against d spirit of death.

I was made to turn around, roll on d floor, squat (while she spat large volumes of olive oil on me from her mouth) and other stuffs I won't like to mention here.


This is just two stories out of over 30 stories from that prayer house alone.

Now, multiply it by over 50 prayer houses we've been taken to.

I speak d truth

Funny enough, even though d glass has been removed, I still wear spectacles till today




Back to 12 years after divorce, mum and dad re-united again.

If not that we were already 5 adults, I could swear that mum would have gotten pregnant again for same occultic husband.

U dare not say that dad is occultic cos mum would get angry and SCOLD you all day for accusing dad falsely.

Dad is just a simple, easy going man (still has his own flaws but nothing 'spiritualistic about him)



When mom quarelled with our neighbors, she accused them of being witches.

Our neighbors where witches

People at her work place were witches.

As a Nigerian , You already know that all my uncles are wizards. Right?

Same as everyone in our village


When she reconciled with one of d neighbor, that one stopped being a witch.



All I'm saying here is this...

Right now, ur mom is correct and u should listen to her.

Stay away from that uncle

But in future , NEVER TRUST A WOMAN when she accuses someone of being diabolic.

falcon01:
Mcheew I'm angry at this, the fact that Parents have to Drag children into their superstitious beliefs, and personal Life choices haba!! Buddy, truth is we all need help one way or the other, what you did wasn't wrong and I want you to know Parents make mistake and because they are our parents doesn't mean they are perfect or know it all. Don't feel bad about what you did

Supreme145:
I share your sentiment reason I collected the money because I don't see how someone can alter my destiny with money I withdrew from the ATM, I never knew she would react this way. I'm just concerned about her feelings

Supreme145:
Thank you....I will keep begging her, because all my struggle is to put smiles on her face. I just hope she forgives me.

Phoenix999:
Shame no dey catch you??

For your info, that dude has called your mum and told her to tell her son to stop disturbing him for money. That's one of the reasons the woman is so embittered.

You may not fully understand her reasons, but she's your mother, she loves you and will always want the best for you. She will never mislead you.

To obey is better than sacrifice.

You done fuckup, just beg her for forgiveness and don't try to justify anything

Beedude:
If u are no longer her responsibility she shouldnt be angry at who you got help from.
To whom much is given, much is expected.
If she isnt providing for you, i see no crime in how you get money since you didnt steal it.

Just give her time. She will get over it. Dont overwork your self. Send a text, leave her for like 2 weeks without communicating with her. Na she go call you by herself if truly na she be your mama

ValCon888:
Since it wasn't a physical cash gift, find a way to retrieve the man's account number and resend the money back to him.