Newton85:
Oga leave story, of a father proves to be utterly useless and worthless in the life of his child, he'll hear gbas gbos from the child in future.

Don't mind him. I.am sure pharmagba is a deadbeat absentee sperm donor hoping to reap where he did not sew. Dreamer.

Digmygold:


I no change my own back. So.I.should force a deliberately absent, irresponsible deadbeat's name on myself? To what end? You cannot reap where you did not sew. The father.of the boy is clearly irresponsible towards his welfare and doesn't deserve for that child to help.him carry his name on.

I know a lot of people wey don change am... If ur papa be deadbeat. Other papa no be deadbeat... Hope ur papa no be agbero? Or arm robber? I see ur pain. You are a product of a deadbeat father. Sorry, but not every father is like ur father

BeeBeeOoh:
I just dey laugh people wey dey hail Linda's stupidity.

On a very good day in years to come Jayce will ask Linda who is his father and where is he from then, she go know sey no be gra-gra dem take dey impregnant woman.

But, till then makai I dey watch LI on top this banana tree

Leave them

Cowbell521:
I know a lot of people wey don change am... If ur papa be deadbeat. Other papa no be deadbeat... Hope ur papa no be agbero? Or robber?

You know a lot of people who are deadbeat you mean. I guess because you are one as well you come join tout and conductor characteristics to your deadbeatness. Deadbeat Barawos like you always think they are smart. Na una dey lose las las.

Digmygold:


You know a lot of people who are deadbeat you mean. I guess because you are one as well you come join tout and conductor characteristics to your deadbeatness. Deadbeat Barawos like you always think they are smart. Na una dey lose las las.

I see ur pain. Sorry... Keep praying for him

ọ bụ onye ohi na -asị ka ha bịa lelee ala ya anya

Cowbell521:
I see ur pain. Sorry... Keep praying for him

ọ bụ onye ohi na -asị ka ha bịa lelee ala ya anya

If you no be deadbeat you no go dey cry. Your cry na tomorrow not today. Irresponsible lot. You will never reap where you did not sew. Na saliva that child wey you dump go take baff you.

Digmygold:


If you no be deadbeat you no go dey cry. Your cry na tomorrow not today. Irresponsible lot. You will never sew where you did not reap. Na saliva that child wey you dump go take baff you.

Sorry ehn...

Cowbell521:
Sorry ehn...

Sorry to you and your lame life. Absentee deadbeat. Are you going to force a child on a father who chooses to be irresponsibly absent? Cmon getat and borrow brain.

Was there even a baby daddy in the first place or just a sperm donor? I guess she just got tired of deceiving herself and the poor boy

Matheusmartin:
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Na her Papa get sperm?

No.
Na sperm donor get sperm.
Na the papa get the child because no one paid her bride price.
Our tribe no dey dash ordinary sperm donor pikin.

Akinblogdotcom:
Popular Celebrity blogger, Linda Ikeji has recently changed the surname of her son Jayce from her baby daddy’s name Jeremi to that of her own father Ikeji as she celebrates him on his birthday.



Linda Ikeji for some reason changed the surname of her son Jayce to Ikeji taking the identity of his father Jeremi from it and even changed it in his Instagram bio and we wonder why.

For reasons best known to her, Linda Ikeji changed the surname of her son, Jayce to Ikeji, removing the identity of his father Jeremi from it and even changed it in his Instagram bio and we wonder why.

Some possible reasons why most women give their father's surname to their kids could be when the father of their kids doesn't take responsibility and do what they are expected to do as fathers or sometimes the mothers just feel like based on privacy issues.

But in the case of Linda Ikeji, we believe something might be wrong somewhere because she was using the baby daddy's name Jeremi for her son, Jayce but then has changed it all of a sudden which means something might have gone wrong somewhere and we are yet to discover it.

Linda Ikeji hardly talks about her baby daddy and now is trying to delete his identity from the life of her son Jayce by giving him her father’s surname meaning she doesn’t want to have anything do with him again until whatever be the reason is solved.

The poor boy is going to be the one who will suffer the most in all this drama since he would have to live his life without his father now that his mother is trying to cut him off in their lives.

https://www.akinblog.com/popular-celebrity-blogger-linda-ikeji-changes-her-sons-surname-from-her-baby-daddys-name-to-her-fathers-name-see-reasons/

What has been done cant be undone . a father cant be erased..that only happens on social media

Well, majority here are calling the man deadbeat, he absconded etc. What if that's not the case. We ain't privileged to hear from the other party. What if he had tried to contribute to the boy's life, & was denied of that privilege.
I'm talking from experience, had issue with my baby mama some months ago, with annoyance, she tried blocking me from contributing to my boy's life financially. School fees etc. Had to take the matter to her parents. & it was sorted out. We are leaving happily now. Pending when we will tie the knot. "By God's Grace"
Well, in my own case, I ve been in my son's life rite from birth. If I print my statement of account, every dime I paid to my woman's account for two years would be identified. That's if shit happens, & they feed my son with lies. I ve gat some proofs to show to my boy. That I Neva abandoned him. Cos some women can be manipulative.
So in summary, let's not be quick to judge the father of the child. He might ve been denied the privilege of been supportive in whatever way.
"Shalom"

Iyaebe:
What trouble will be more than a deadbeat abandoning his own child.I don't need to be there,Linda can more than handle the trouble.

Not all the time money can cover shame.



Ask Kpokpogri Vs Tonto

If Linda is a man, will she allow such to happen?
Nevertheless, whether she likes it or not less than 20 years to this time the boy will be forced to ask who is his father.
Some ladies of nowadays are not ready to be submissive rather looking for a man who will be submissive and be worshiping them.
The earlier the better she change from the irrational attitude

She knew what she was getting herself into from the get go when she fell pregnant for a man who hadn't married her yet.

Her cross let her bear it.

Sebi I heard in ibo land if a man doesn't marry her, the child born from their relationship liaison will bear the woman's father's name?

So I'm not surprised.

No qualms the boy will grow up, have access to social media to see the story she revealed online on her son's father after she birth him and he will know who his father is. The boy's own is super easy, all his findings will be on the internet nobody will lie to him that his father is dead like some women have said over the years to their kids concerning their absentee fathers.

Iyaebe:
I support her decision, why attach a name to a boy whose father doesn't want to be part of his life?Fatherhood is far more than ejaculation,nothing bad in her decision at all.

Were you there behind the scene?
He only rented’ the guy for a ‘contract
Now ‘contract is over..
Who is she deceiving?
The ‘real owner will show up later
It’s a matter of time

Matheusmartin:
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Bros, I use god beg u, leave me abeg.

Iyaebe:
I support her decision, why attach a name to a boy whose father doesn't want to be part of his life?Fatherhood is far more than ejaculation,nothing bad in her decision at all.

Prostitutes

igbowoman:


No Igbo child abandoned by his father cared for by his mother and mother's family grows up to go find a dead beat father.
He becomes a distant discussion
It is the job of a father to be in his children's lives and if he chooses to be absent that is his choice.
Impregnating a woman doesn't make one a father. It just makes you a fertile male

that’s why men who don’t pay bride prices in igbo custom have the kids taken from them , still not because a sheepdog is named so dosent make it Half sheep half dog

Guardiola84:


And our culture is against ime okwa biko,ime okwa is an abomination in igbo culture, she's rich but without brains ,we respect women wey get money n still happily married,shameless Linda she even has d gut to show d world her product of fornication !!rubbish!!

you're right but civilization made everything seems easy and a child is a gift from God which we can't hide

The rich always goes to the rich but at the end their tears will come in premium. Imagine this boy jayce growing up knowing he is a bastard born outside wedlock by deadbeat father who doesn't care about his existence, do Linda think he will forgive him for messing up with his bio From the society the boy mother came from they see child born without father as bastard, her money can't buy him respect before his kinsmen in the future, they will always treat him like an outcast


If you tell them to leave all these yahoo boys that will break their heart they won't agree, if u are rich go for middle person, their assurance and loyalty are forever unlike the rich who will dump u and move to the next person

In igbo culture and tradition as long as u didn't pay d dowry before a child is born the child belongs to the woman's family ..na so davido and chioma go soon start thier own

Why is everyone acting as if you all, don't know how the child came, it was a stolen sperm from the condom, of her one night stand with the dad, you all should go back and check the root of the child.... i pray God Him the strength to bear the burden when the time comes, to ask for his father....... After Stealing Sperm And condom, what do you expect her to do....

bukatyne:


So with all Linda's stance on celibacy, she SLEPT with a married man?

Shior!

When feminist talk, you listen to them? Omo you get strength ah swear.

suffering:
Na she know. Anything she wants to do with the child, she should do. This reminds me of my friend who had a one night stand with an ugly fat girl because of conji. The guy went his way never to hear from her again. Two years later he received a message on Facebook saying his son was getting big. See shock on his face to discover the woman secretly bore him a child which he couldn’t deny. The son was a carbon copy of his father.

Nairalanders, in my position, what will you do?

Go and take care of your child.

Iyaebe:
I support her decision, why attach a name to a boy whose father doesn't want to be part of his life?Fatherhood is far more than ejaculation,nothing bad in her decision at all.

Did the father told you this?

pharmagba:
Thought she was smart
This one not a smart call.

One day whether she likes it or not the boy will ask for his father
You can never make a child hate or forget this parent . It will always boils down to the child decision

In this era of DNA, maybe it has been confirmed that the man is not his biological father. The is no reasonable justification for the change of name except that something is wrong with the child's paternity

igbowoman:
Yes that is good
In our Igbo culture if a man doesn't pay bride price the child belongs to the woman and her family and I love that culture.
And if he married her legitimately and then later refuses to care for the kids she can also change the children to her father's name.
A man that is not taking care of a child is not entitled to have them bear his name
QED

Can you come out from the village a little? We are in 21st century. It is very easy to sue the man to be responsible for the child's need while under Linda's roof than trying to convert the child to her father's in this 21st century.

Aunty so with all your billions, you cant get 1 man, not 100 men, just one man to take you to the alter and wed you like every other women out there?? Now you don turn to another baby mama too, that means something is really wrong with you, please check yourself well aunty, you are the problem, aunty you mean you cant find yourself one good man to put a ring on your finger even with that big house of yours in banana island?? After some idiot go say money is everything, as for that innocent handsome son of yours, if you like change his name to that of your great grand mother, i bet you when the time come the pikin go find he papa

BeeBeeOoh:
In 20-years to come if she doesn't show Jayce who his father is peacefully, she will do that forcefully.


Linda Ikeji should know this and know peace

Sorry bro. There will be no 20 years times. The world is ending soon.
Repent and give your life to Christ if you haven't done so.
If there will be any 2023 it will be by the grace of God. In the prophetic calendar of God the world have ended.

Babitee1:
This is normal in Ibo culture.
Chioma will soon do this to Davido’s son .If he refuses to pay her bride price and marry her properly.

Exactly

Did she tell you that she will deprive him of his father's access in the future or did she also tell you that she's like Tonto Dike ? There's nothing wrong in what she did! The reason can't be far-fetched, meaning the Jeremy man hasn't been part of the boy's life, therefore, it's needless and useless identifying his name with the innocent boy!

BeeBeeOoh:
In 20-years to come if she doesn't show Jayce who his father is peacefully, she will do that forcefully.


Linda Ikeji should know this and know peace