2rez:


If u knew the damages divorce dey cause, una no go dey open mouth wa, dey call that word. Go ask those who had gone through divorce whether they finding it easy or not. Na trauma one lives with for the rest of one's life. Make una dey calm down if una dey vex fah. E get plenty whys.

Richy4:



You are correct.. divorce is bad no matter how one looks at it... But you did not include the psychological effect one have with a habitual cheating spouse...
The trauma of feeling inadequate each time she was on that marriage perceiving strange perfumes that was not hers, questioning one's self on why they were not enough when she sees occasional lipstick stains...
I am guessing that women tolerate and endures a cheating spouse more than the male counterparts.. just imagine what the husband of the side chick might be thinking..

I'm guessing He might likely wants to know why he was not good enough by looking for the man whom the wife cheated him with... Make some comparisons.., go home and dwell in alcohol for a while before making a decision... It is not easy...

Even if he forgives the wife, the trust is no longer there.. if the woman says she will be coming home by 4:00pm and comes home 4:30pm due to traffic or something... U and I knows Where the mind will be going within that space of 30mins... that will be tormenting two grown adults .. That is why divorce is always the solution..

2rez:

U are equally not far from the truth but then, what if she got divorced & ended up with another habitual cheating spouse who cheats like his life depends on it? Wetin go happen again Unless of course she decides to stay away from men which go dey a bit hard make we yearn true fact. To this end bruh, i believe divorce is not always the solution oh.

Richy4:



You are correct... Divorce is not always the solution... But in this case, In my opinion,I will support both the woman and the side chick's husband to kick their spouses to the gutters buddy...

Life is a risk.. if that woman takes a second chance with love, there is a probability that she might get a better man and there are chances that she might end up with a man like her EX..
But if fortune should smile at her and she ends up with a wonderful man, Won't everyone be glad that she took such a risk?

2rez:


Yeah, if u dont take the risk, u never can tell. Like u gbamsolutely said, life na risk. kick their spouses to the gutter. U must be a maverick plus a realest niggar when no get time for nonsense. Divorce no go be our portion bruh. Help me with my reasoning, e no go kill yours, what realest niggars do. I feel u bruh! Keep keeping it real.

Amen Brother.. have a good weekend.. I believe you are having one already considering the meme

Richy4:



Amen Brother.. have a good weekend.. I believe you are having one already considering the meme

Mindlog:


The guy's confidence is scary....a married side chick?

salisuammy:
Let her kukuma marry the side chicks husband too

bukatyne:


The side chic or side hen did not want her to leave her marriage; she wanted to chop her husband on the side.

Remember the side hen was/is married and not planning to leave her husband till madam reported her.

That's why one needs common sense.

Since she had decided not to leave the marriage, common sense would have told her to look for a solution that would let everyone maintain their lane.

What was she expecting when she reported the side hen to the husband?

Even if her husband is not interested in marrying the side hen, he would make the marriage more uncomfortable than it already is (If his side hen loses her marriage).

Her village people were at work here.

Mindlog:


Do she even still have a marriage? A married man who confidently have sex with another man's wife is not worth wasting time on.......he has little time left.

mardis:



Side hen indeed she is
The whole situation is messed up, the wife acted without seeking for advice. Well, as far as am concerned it is not yet bad for the wife. Unless the wife is full time house wife with so much time to while away. As for me the game just began, i will just sit back, relax and watch all of them

Richy4:



You are correct.. divorce is bad no matter how one looks at it... But you did not include the psychological effect one have with a habitual cheating spouse...
The trauma of feeling inadequate each time she was on that marriage perceiving strange perfumes that was not hers, questioning one's self on why they were not enough when she sees occasional lipstick stains...
I am guessing that women tolerate and endures a cheating spouse more than the male counterparts.. just imagine what the husband of the side chick might be thinking..

I'm guessing He might likely wants to know why he was not good enough by looking for the man whom the wife cheated him with... Make some comparisons.., go home and dwell in alcohol for a while before making a decision... It is not easy...

Even if he forgives the wife, the trust is no longer there.. if the woman says she will be coming home by 4:00pm and comes home 4:30pm due to traffic or something... U and I knows Where the mind will be going within that space of 30mins... that will be tormenting two grown adults .. That is why divorce is always the solution..

bukatyne:


Abi?

She left her husband sleeping besides her and did investigative journalism to report his lover to her husband.

What was her expectation when she decided to report her husband's married side chic?

They should just swap husbands and live in peace o jare!

2rez:


Easy babe! With this kind reasoning, u go get problem for marriage fah. Be calming down. Don't be too hard on yourself. Aint saying the hussy did right oh k. Nobody be saint but then, when u are angry, dont let your anger becloud your sense of reasoning. Na danger e dey cause just as dey play out for the wife so. I don clear u be that.

crackhaus:

And if it was you in the woman's shoes, what would you have done?

The worst best you can do is to leave the marriage with your dignity and allow him enjoy his new wife.

You're blowing hot like you're capable of killing anyone.

bukatyne:


The side chic or side hen did not want her to leave her marriage; she wanted to chop her husband on the side.

Remember the side hen was/is married and not planning to leave her husband till madam reported her.

That's why one needs common sense.

Since she had decided not to leave the marriage, common sense would have told her to look for a solution that would let everyone maintain their lane.

What was she expecting when she reported the side hen to the husband?

Even if her husband is not interested in marrying the side hen, he would make the marriage more uncomfortable than it already is (If his side hen loses her marriage).

Her village people were at work here.

2rez:


If u knew the damages divorce dey cause, una no go dey open mouth wa, dey call that word. Go ask those who had gone through divorce whether they finding it easy or not. Na trauma one lives with for the rest of one's life. Make una dey calm down if una dey vex fah. E get plenty whys.

2rez:

U are equally not far from the truth but then, what if she got divorced & ended up with another habitual cheating spouse who cheats like his life depends on it? Wetin go happen again Unless of course she decides to stay away from men which go dey a bit hard make we yearn true fact. To this end bruh, i believe divorce is not always the solution oh.