With my experience with women in general,this is one of the finest ways to treat a woman’s Bleep-ups.
This tells that the man is in control of his kingdom.
If the woman is good herself,her husband wouldn’t have had a side chic and if he mistakenly did and was caught,he will feel remorse about it.
But as the case is now,we can see the woman is not herself independent hence the braggado from her husband.
I don’t and won’t condone what the man has done but NO PITY for the woman too.
Can the woman also pass the lie detector test that she has never cheated in her marriage unbeknownst to her husband knowledge?

Anyway,still NO PITY.

Also this is why and how many African women go diabolical against their husbands/men.They think it’s because the man is doing well and that’s why he’s misbehaving like that.
I have seen wives doing to their husbands,mothers to sons and employees to their ogas.

Why is it that God give good women to bad guys as wife? Can someone answer me
.!?

Seems comprehension isn't your forte.

Where in the op does it say that the man is married to two wives?

The man is married to one wife but is considering marrying a second who is his side piece and who he has been cheating on his wife with.

You people seem to cheery pick what part of your tradition you want to keep and what part you should discard.

Your forefathers who were polygamous never had christian themed marriages and never deceived their wives into thinking they were entering monogamous marriages.

Your forefathers if and when they wanted another wife never went behind their wives to fvck other women , moreso "married women". They simply went to the woman's family, signified their interest and married her the traditional way.

Walkee:
marrying two wives is cheating? How many of our fathers married one wife? Even my half brother who is not up to 40 already has two wives. My cousin of around same age also has two wives. I wonder where you internet people come from considering the high horses you ride online

The woman made a great mistake, and her husband is doing right to get marry to the divorced woman. And I hope this serves a lesson to every woman that are looking for troubles in their husbands' phones. Even if you find trouble, how sure are you it is a fact? Even if it is a fact, you do not need to go and report that to the husband of the concubine

Having said all this, I conclude that if there had been a capital punishment for adultery and fornication (zina) as Shari'ah says, there would be few cases of this unfortunate news. So, what do we expect when married women dress nakedly?

I don tire for her sef.

Iyaebe:
Most times I don't really understand you,so you are blaming the woman and not condemning the unfaithful married sidechick and the adulterous man in question who is shamelessly forming vex.I truly don't understand you most times

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My Husband Wants To Marry His Side Chic After I Reported Her To Her Husband – Woman Laments, Seeks Advice

A woman has sought advise from the public on how to find a solution for the problem currently bedeviling her marriage.

She revealed that her husband wants to marry his side chic who was recently chased out of her home by her husband after he uncovered her infidelity.

Sharing her story with a relationship counselor on Instagram, she distraught woman revealed that she had gone through her husband’s chat and messaged his side chic, who was also married.

She then contacted the side chic’s husband and gave him proof that his wife was unfaithful. .

The narrator said that her husband then came home and said his side chic’s husband sent her packing, and if they don’t reconcile, he would have to take her as his wife.

Read her write-up


https://playloaded.com.ng/my-husband-wants-to-marry-his-side-chic-after-i-reported-her-to-her-husband/

I honestly don't understand how some men will find it cool dating a married woman. This is satanic and all shades of terrible.

Adultery is a grave sin and incase many do not know, GOD personally wrote with his hands talking about the 6th commandment if im right...''Thou shall not commit adultery'' Now wait for this...

He had to reiterate again talking about the 9th commandment ''Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife''

Adultery is a serious sin capable of destroying the life of the people involved. LET PEOPLE'S WIVES BE BIKO. Any man who wants to be unfortunate in lives should desire how much more sleep with another man's wife.

⏩ Water don pass garri...


Iyawo, you are on your own,
just prepare to have a new 'partner',
because suspect her kpekus must
be very sweet to your oga❕❗️☺️☺️


This man can decide to even send
you packing if you escalate it further
than this.❎❎❎


Take heart ♥

You people keep embarrassing yourselves on a public forum.

Please tell me, in which tradition does paying bride price give men the liscence to cheat?

Keep peddling the same bolded fallacy okay, if it makes you sleep at night.

So a phone is more private than an actual private part that it should be treated like it's sacred but a man's private part is so public that he can become a sperm donor to the entire community?

Okortor:
I keep telling married couples to stay clear their spouse's phone to avoid issue like this but they wouldn't listen. Especially women, it's disrespectful going through your hubby's phone.

No matter how a man cheats, his love for his wife would never diminish but once a woman cheats on her husband, honestly no more love for that man.

A woman whose bride price was paid by a man has no Damm right to cheat on him, if she wants to cheat in marriage, let her be the one to pay his groom price. A man's authority shouldn't be questioned by his wife because he's superior and the head.

The husband is a stupid hegoat lol


Of all the beautiful, hot, classy, sexy, sempe sempe single girls that full town, na another man's leftover (wife) him keep as side chick, honestly Musa have seen it all at the gate

See how alot of us made it seem like the woman is the Evil person here.
Her husband is a cheat
She confronted the situation.
Dear, he never respected you
Or there is more to tell than this.
I hope the Almighty sees you through.
All I pray is for your well-being and kids.
For your husband may God guide his decisions.

What did you just say ( You went thru a man's phone ) what are you expecting

Richy4:

I feel really sad for the woman, Assuming she was my younger sister that I never have, I will just ask her to leave that marriage because there is nothing to salvage ..I will help her pack her things and ask her to come and leave with me... what an insult to her dignity and sensibility...She made a mistake though by telling the other woman's husband instead of confronting her own husband..

However, If Mrs was not attached to her name, she will not die...If she doesn't wear a ring in the middle of her fingers, she will not die... If she can't have sex, she will not die as a matter of fact, having sex in that relationship might kill her faster...

It indeed feels really great wearing the bigger trouser ...

U better done have. my guy did de same thing. Now he is tired of taking care of dem

Very idiotic and unprincipled man weh dey Bleep another man's wife . Who d hell does he think he is ?

faithfull18:
Na wa oh, it's the audacity of the man for me. Zero respect for his wife and marriage.

What are you guys even talking about? So you expect the man to respect his wife and marriage by doing what exactly?

This woman failed to think before acting. Causing problem for the side chic only increased her own problems, now she has to face the consequences. It’s not about wrong or right anymore.

I don’t see how she would ever be able to live peacefully with the side chic, even if it’s in another apartment, as long as she’s within reach, there’s going to be payback and the husband will take sides with the side chic; her best option is to leave, something she should’ve done quietly if she was wise.

Back to your statement of respect, did you expect the man to ignore the other woman who had been thrown out of her house in order to respect his wife? As if he doesn’t have conscience?

And also, going to the woman’s husband is silly. Why couldn’t she deal with her own husband? For me fighting with the side chic is even too much, if you can’t work things with the husband then leave.

salisuammy:
Let her kukuma marry the side chicks husband too

Too much sense will kill u

bukatyne:


Two ge four ni yen

Lobatan

She should enjoy the problem she created for herself, no pity for her from my end.

Richy4:

I feel really sad for the woman, Assuming she was my younger sister that I never have, I will just ask her to leave that marriage because there is nothing to salvage ..I will help her pack her things and ask her to come and leave with me... what an insult to her dignity and sensibility...She made a mistake though by telling the other woman's husband instead of confronting her own husband..

However, If Mrs was not attached to her name, she will not die...If she doesn't wear a ring in the middle of her fingers, she will not die... If she can't have sex, she will not die as a matter of fact, having sex in that relationship might kill her faster...

It indeed feels really great wearing the bigger trouser ...

your sister lost her marriage the day she destroyed another peoples marriage. That's my simple take.

You don't use fuel to quell fire, since you have decided to use fuel to quench fire then you have been burnt already, prepare to live in peace with your co wife or just leave the marriage for you the side chic.

So, if you destroy, be ready to be destroyed simple. Women should learn to deal with their husbands and leave side Chics alone!


Always remember this,
This is not about sensibility, your sisters husband is not the first and last to cheat!

Men are polygamous in nature, women should deal with this fact.

You are not a man and will never understand this theorem.

But the man is mad to have been fvcking somebody's wife as side chic mehn that's bad.

Rules of engagement employs all to run away from peoples wives no matter the temptation.

On the contrary, it is only a foolish woman that would leave her marriage because her elder sister that is probably not married ask her to leave and come stay with her.

....,on top of the one she did already...,., What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.[/quote]

bukatyne:


Abi?

She left her husband sleeping besides her and did investigative journalism to report his lover to her husband.

What was her expectation when she decided to report her husband's married side chic?

They should just swap husbands and live in peace o jare!

Women truly are the problems of women.

I can't believe this statement. So nothing wrong with the tw*t of a husband behaving like an e-goat that should be slaughtered.

We men have tendencies, it is fact but doesn't mean it all of a sudden right to cheat on your woman and as if that's not enough, the public prick saw nothing wrong and goes about threatening the woman.

He deserves being castrated. Thank GOD I am not GOD, such a man I will visit it with some sickness for a while to let him realise a woman who can cheat on her husband with you doesn't really love you.

I have three daughters and when I hear pathetic stories like this I become annoying, restless and more prayerful for them.

Men we have today are mostly useless and this is coming from an 80s man.

African man entitlement mentality. Total rubbish for the man. You're caught doing the wrong thing but instead of you to apologise, you're now doing strong head and it's the woman running around to beg you. She's even seeking for advice at every corner.
That's the reason why I love hardworking women as I guess this one may not even have a job or has one that can't even cater for the family. Africa women will always settle for less in terms of job and financial responsibility when compared with that of their husband and this makes them less reliant even in the affairs of their home. Have you thought of reasons why jobless husband are always loyal to a reasonable level to their wives?.
If you have been taking up chunk of the responsibility at home, the idiot will not be bold to tell you he's bringing one stupid idiot from outside as the second wife.
RUBBISH...all they know is to read children, even when the husband says it's okay, they'll give him reasons why they need more boys or girls.

Richy4:

I feel really sad for the woman, Assuming she was my younger sister that I never have, I will just ask her to leave that marriage because there is nothing to salvage ..I will help her pack her things and ask her to come and leave with me... what an insult to her dignity and sensibility...She made a mistake though by telling the other woman's husband instead of confronting her own husband..

However, If Mrs was not attached to her name, she will not die...If she doesn't wear a ring in the middle of her fingers, she will not die... If she can't have sex, she will not die.
as a matter of fact, having sex in that relationship might kill her faster...

It indeed feels really great wearing the bigger trouser ...

She will definitely die I swear

iamyemiakins:
Trouble sleep yanga go wake am, something that you should've handled with sense you went and expose it to ur husband's side chick's husband waaaa.

This chapter of ur relationship is about to be closed, it's time to find ur square root

this is why I still prefer the old ways of marriage, when a man can marry 2 to 3 wives without trouble. This adoption of the western culture is causing more harm in our society. Let's forget the pretence, men are not designed to be with one woman for the rest of their lives..... men are adventurous, always looking for new things.

Stop trying to win spiritual battles with physical force or "sense"...
She should have gone to God with it.
Her husband will marry the woman, they will have more kids and NOTHING will happen!

Take battles to God ONLY!!! Then follow his directions.
THERE IS WISDOM IN PUTTING GOD FIRST.
Shalom...

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My Husband Wants To Marry His Side Chic After I Reported Her To Her Husband – Woman Laments, Seeks Advice

A woman has sought advise from the public on how to find a solution for the problem currently bedeviling her marriage.

She revealed that her husband wants to marry his side chic who was recently chased out of her home by her husband after he uncovered her infidelity.

Sharing her story with a relationship counselor on Instagram, she distraught woman revealed that she had gone through her husband’s chat and messaged his side chic, who was also married.

She then contacted the side chic’s husband and gave him proof that his wife was unfaithful. .

The narrator said that her husband then came home and said his side chic’s husband sent her packing, and if they don’t reconcile, he would have to take her as his wife.

Read her write-up


https://playloaded.com.ng/my-husband-wants-to-marry-his-side-chic-after-i-reported-her-to-her-husband/

PENNYSWAP:




She will definitely die I swear

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

What if de husband is a traditional man. My papa best friend married 3 wives, wen my dad met him to talk some sense into him, he said "I am a traditional man". Na so huger wan kill de man n de children

Instead of you to threaten the woman that you will report her to the husband and let it be just threat, you now go extra mile reporting her to her husband with evidence, are you expecting the husband to knee down and be begging the wife abi?
Plenty women lack wisdom, you have succeeded in sending the woman out of husband house �️� and she is working on sending you out of your husband house too, make peace with your husband, apologize for your wrong and enjoy your home, else you're a gonna. Lesson to monitoring wife's.

You caused the problem for yourself

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My Husband Wants To Marry His Side Chic After I Reported Her To Her Husband – Woman Laments, Seeks Advice

A woman has sought advise from the public on how to find a solution for the problem currently bedeviling her marriage.

She revealed that her husband wants to marry his side chic who was recently chased out of her home by her husband after he uncovered her infidelity.

Sharing her story with a relationship counselor on Instagram, she distraught woman revealed that she had gone through her husband’s chat and messaged his side chic, who was also married.

She then contacted the side chic’s husband and gave him proof that his wife was unfaithful. .

The narrator said that her husband then came home and said his side chic’s husband sent her packing, and if they don’t reconcile, he would have to take her as his wife.

Read her write-up


https://playloaded.com.ng/my-husband-wants-to-marry-his-side-chic-after-i-reported-her-to-her-husband/

ladies please marry responsible man ,and play your role and duty as a wife ,you marry or see wealth men as responsible ,but it isn't not ,when problem starts no body wants to listen to you ,

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

Its. Either you come from a distant future or just choose self-denial. Well, it's a man's world, learn to live in it.

Lol
The woman's husband is a big fool. She married a big fool.
Shey na juju be that ni?