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Why do Nigerian guys always think they were rejected 'cause they're broke.
Why do you have this mentality that your brokeness is your only flaw.
Might be another reason. That's girl you think rejected you cause you're might even be dating someone broker than you.
Sometimes you're not as broke as you think, it's just low self-esteem from comparing yourself with others.

It could be your bad looks, social awkwardness, bad hygiene, shyness and many other things.

Some guys underate the power of being good looking sha. So many girls can be gotten by just being tall and handsome, being rich is just a bonus.

Before nko

Broke or no broke. I still believe that when you meet Someone that likes you, she won't really look down on you. But funny enough broke guys has the best d*ck

No lady wants to be with a broke dude but surely, some ladies will accept you if they see that you ain't lazy and you have chances of becoming successful hopefully soon (most times).

They might accept your broke ass but they'll definitely cheat on you with a rich nigga

Ikukuudo:
Broke or no broke. I still believe that when you meet Someone that likes you, she won't really look down on you. But funny enough broke guys has the best d*ck

you were making sense, only to end it with rubbish

MufasaLion:
No lady wants to be with a broke dude but surely, some ladies will accept you if they see that you ain't lazy and you have chances of becoming successful hopefully soon (most times).

confirm

SmellySperm:
They might accept your broke ass but they'll definitely cheat on you with a rich nigga

Smellysparm, has that ever happened to you

Totilopussylick:
confirm

That's it. You can't be lazy and not doing nothing and expect a lady that values her future to be wasting away with you when there are tons of men out there that might be genuinely interested in her and her dreams.

SmellySperm:
They might accept your broke ass but they'll definitely cheat on you with a rich nigga

True.

At times low self esteem is the murderer.

Such happened to me back then when I was still in school.

But I after realized i worked on it, now I bang p**sy and even get tired ..

Op, why tha fvck are you reasoning like a simp

These biiitches will dump your ass the moment your cash flow comes to a screeching halt. They just want to be useless and let you do and provide everything for them because of their entitlement mentality

Because having no funds is something some men can blame on outside circumstances (e.g. corruption, lack of jobs, etc). and therefore save their ego. It's almost impossible for some men to believe a woman does not want them because she doesn't find them physically attractive or there's little to no spark.

iRepNaija1:
Because having no funds is something some men can blame on outside circumstances (e.g. corruption, lack of jobs, etc). and therefore save their ego. It's almost impossible for some men to believe a woman does not want them because she doesn't find them physically attractive or there's little to no spark.

You said it.

Totilopussylick:
Smellysparm, has that ever happened to you

No. Na who get money dey reason love matter

SmellySperm:
No. Na who get money dey reason love matter

Lol

Totilopussylick:
At times low self esteem is the murderer.

Such happened to me back then when I was still in school.

But I after realized i worked on it, now I bang p**sy and even get tired ..

any tips on how to get rid of low self esteem abeg

Bigiyo:
any tips on how to get rid of low self esteem abeg

Growth

Realizing yourself worth.

And try to always be yourself!

Thank me later!

Omoh I'm a spec myself what fvckedd me up in my last relationship was bad breathe..I've tried different ways, nothing is working,even seen a dentist sef

Someone should come to my rescue pls

This is how bad the misogyny on nairaland is

More to your point op most people are of the opinion that a man should wait until after making money before dating but every now and then you see guys who are broke then you married or dating a lady who is beautiful than most chicks that have rejected you in the past. My advice to us men is keep hustling but still be on the lookout for that lady who has the skills, quality and intelligence to advance your goals.

Because they think everything is centred on money

Nawao0

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In our world today, love na money no allow anybody to dsiv u

The first factor of being rejected by a lady nowadays is because you are broke.

How can a lady say you are handsome, smart, and all good things, the ending sentence is but I can't date you

What is it then
Other things that can make them reject guys can be overlooked if the guy has money. Brokeness amplifies flaws

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