Your sister?

Abi you relative?


You sabi wetin you dey talk?

What is shocking you people? The man should go and do a DNA test on the 3-month-old baby to start with. I heard fee days ago DNA test cost 70k, so he should do it fast and know his fate whether to carry on with life with a cheerful donor to outsiders.

The choice as to what to do rests on him as a man of the home.

igbowoman:


Why was he checking her phone
This is why men should never check their wife's phone.Busy body husband.
That he saw sex chats doesn't mean anything happened.
It is a woman's world, please tell him to be a good husband and never to check her phone again.
Infact he needs to go apologize to her for invading her privacy

(I just gave the response we hear when the cheating spouse is the man.Now let me read responses)

Lol
Ọr deh

You go soon meet your match...
Una dey always think say Una get sense...
Your day of reckoning sha come and it'll be very painful and devastating...

advanceDNA:


Well the stranger or banger as you put it has not yet been caught on this scenario.
It's the wife at home that has been exposed....his time is coming if he doesn't change...of she had changed before being caught or it's the banger's wife outside that found out.....this woman we talking about would probably go he like nothing happened..

Advise to MEN.always have time For your wives treat her nicely.show her love and care.stop looking down on her.improve on your sexual performances.
I think these are the reasons why women cheat and careless about the consequences.

Make them end the yeye marriage, this same story happened in our family last week, we don end the marriage, she dey her mother house dey gist with her fellow olosho no time. They didn't contribute anything to the marriage ordinary loyalty that we keep them happy throughout the marriage they failed. Don't advice that young man not to run for his life, because cheating wife will not change her attitude, moreover DNA is very important at this movement. Thanks.

Cousin

He needs to do a DNA test on their child and if the child isn't his, let the father of the child know.
I would implore him to forgive his wife though, because the next woman may not be any better.
Even Jesus forgave the woman caught doing adultery, and asked those without sin to throw the first stone.
This is the first and only person he has caught her with, so I believe she can actually stop any communication with him.
He needs to also be very prayerful because the devil is roaming about trying to destroy marriages. Marriage is for better for worse and since there is no case of violence here, they can still work out things.
Also, get to the bottom of why she is still seeing this man after marriage, and if there's something he needs to work on, he should.
Is it money related? Is it fitness related or is her husband's bedroom game not so good? Any of these things can be worked on from his own part.
There is no marriage without it's ups and downs.
God will show you the next step to take, if you seek his face.

Mood11:
While we wait for the elders to arrive let me quickly update the list of titles we should beware of ;

Daddy's friend
Uncle
Course mate
Former neighbor
Church unit leader
Colleague
Pastor
Bestie


Quote me with anyone I missed out and I'll update the list speedily

Daddy GO
Boss at work
Film producer
Benefactor
Family friend
Neighbour
Facebook friend
Tweeter friend
IPOB brother
Palm wine club gyrating friend.
Endless list.

PerfectlyPerfect:

And now you're subtly trying to shift the blame on the man. SMH

bros what are u saying

UncleKoboko:

Lol
Ọr deh

You go soon meet your match...
Una dey always think say Una get sense...
Your day of reckoning sha come and it'll be very painful and devastating...

Forgiveness is divine
Why are you against people preaching forgiveness of marital infidelity?
Why do you like seeing broken marriages about?
Will you give the OP your own sister/wife/girlfriend to marry?
Let them sort their issues out as a family and be prayerful.

A marriage of one year. Op, there is no gainsaying that the baby is 70 percent not his. The lady obviously doesn't respect him or the institution of marriage. She is not yet ready for marriage.

If there is money,go for a DNA. Whether the child is his or not, divorce her!

psalmz:
bros what are u saying

he should just quietly see reasons to why the wife would go infidel
maybe he is not romantic on bed with her.

She cheated and you're giving reasons why she cheated. No one needs a reason to cheat. You're also asking that he forgives her.
Bro let me give you an advise, never forgive a woman who cheats. When most women, especially married women, cheat they usually start having feelings for the man they're cheating with. A man may cheat and still come back to his wife and kids at the end of every day but as soon as a married woman starts cheating she can abandon the husband and kids for the new man. I know 2 cases where married woman ended up killing their husbands so they can be with the new man.

Like a Father to me.

Kajaard:


You forgot PASTOR

Mood11:
While we wait for the elders to arrive let me quickly update the list of titles we should beware of ;

Daddy's friend
Uncle
Course mate
Former neighbor
Church unit leader
Colleague
Pastor
Bestie


Quote me with anyone I missed out and I'll update the list speedily

For our Side if your hear Cousin, just run with the speed of light.

pickatyoubackup:


My own be say no be young guy sef , na her papa friend, probably are husband isn't doing to well financially. And it could have been happening for a long time

most times it is not because of the money that makes women cheat,a cheater will do so if she sees someone she likes and the opportunity is there,and a cheater never changes,many couples cheat but the major crime is getting caught.

To be sincere,I can tolerate every other thing in marriage but not in the case of infidelity.

End of the road for the marriage. No fight no insult just part ways gently irrespective of the outcome of the DNA test.

Divorce is inevitable in this case. It's obvious your brother in-law married a harlot.
The increasing rate of infidelity in marriage especially amongst married women gets many bachelors scared of marrying.

Koolyarn:


I am also wary on the story subject line that drew my attention
YOUR BROTHER INLAW WIFE IS ALSO YOUR SISTER ABI

His wife's brother is also his brother in-law

Damn!!!

PerfectlyPerfect:

he should just quietly see reasons to why the wife would go infidel
maybe he is not romantic on bed with her.

She cheated and you're giving reasons why she cheated. No one needs a reason to cheat. You're also asking that he forgives her.
Bro let me give you an advise, never forgive a woman who cheats. When most women, especially married women, cheat they usually start having feelings for the man they're cheating with. A man may cheat and still come back to his wife and kids at the end of every day but as soon as a married woman starts cheating she can abandon the husband and kids for the new man. I know 2 cases where married woman ended up killing their husbands so they can be with the new man.

bros that’s why I said let him just quietly let her go,cos a woman that cheats like this will always cheat,she is only repentant cos she was caught

Yankee101:
Your sister?

Abi you relative?


You sabi wetin you dey talk?

His wife's brother

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

Pls tell us how it ends so we can all learn.
I'm interested.

So sorry but that marriage is over

Mood11:
While we wait for the elders to arrive let me quickly update the list of titles we should beware of ;

Daddy's friend
Uncle
Course mate
Former neighbor
Church unit leader
Colleague
Pastor
Bestie



Quote me with anyone I missed out and I'll update the list speedily

A friend

ahnie:

Advise to MEN.always have time For your wives treat her nicely.show her love and care.stop looking down on her.improve on your sexual performances.
I think these are the reasons why women cheat and careless about the consequences.

Lol..women never fail to play victims and blame men for doing wrong

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you are totally wrong...but no one should cheat on their partners and blame the partner for it...

What happened to communicating and or having a divorce....but no peolle choose to remain with their spouse and deceive them continually lbcos we like to eat our cake and still keep it ..

Indiscipline is what makes people cheat..
We are already used to having swx with many people before marriage...

a ring on the finger and a saturday cwrwmony doesn't just magically change the the appetite....big d!ck, medium, small, small b00bs, large ones, big AZZ, many men nd women have as high as 15 to 20 body count before marriage...too many comparisons to be every truly settled down...

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

Which other advise does he need than to end that dead on arrival marriage, l. The so called dad's friend have been giving her doggy style even b4 she got married she is nothing but a SLT. and that child should go 4 a DNA. And make sure u support ur brother in-law to end that marriage. Ingredients and Nonsense

Open marriage should be practiced in naija it would save us the stress of cheating.
Funny enough most of these people shouting **send her away*go for DNA test** are fucking people's wives and or people's husbands are fucking them.

Most of their kids does not even belongs to their house-bands.

The only ground I would advise the man to divorce his wife is...if their child does not belong to the man.but aside that...they should trash this infidelity issues out and settle their lacuna.

advanceDNA:



Lol..women never fail to play victims and blame men for doing wrong

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you are totally wrong...but no one should cheat on their partners and blame the partner for it...

What happened to communicating and or having a divorce....but no peolle choose to remain with their spouse and deceive them continually lbcos we like to eat our cake and still keep it ..

Indiscipline is what makes people cheat..
We are already used to having swx with many people before marriage...

a ring on the finger and a saturday cwrwmony doesn't just magically change the the appetite....big d!ck, medium, small, small b00bs, large ones, big AZZ, many men nd women have as high as 15 to 20 body count before marriage...too many comparisons to be every truly settled down...

It's not indiscipline that makes people cheat.

The hoes ain’t loyal- chris brown