igbowoman:


Why was he checking her phone
This is why men should never check their wife's phone.Busy body husband.
That he saw sex chats doesn't mean anything happened.
It is a woman's world, please tell him to be a good husband and never to check her phone again.
Infact he needs to go apologize to her for invading her privacy

(I just gave the response we hear when the cheating spouse is the man.Now let me read responses)

I pity who go marry u.

Mood11:
While we wait for the elders to arrive let me quickly update the list of titles we should beware of ;

Daddy's friend
Uncle
Course mate
Former neighbor
Church unit leader
Colleague
Pastor
Bestie


Quote me with anyone I missed out and I'll update the list speedily

choir master bro.

Carchoice:



How could you forget “Bestie”

The most used and abused title.

Second Daddy

eyinjuege:


Forgiveness is divine
Why are you against people preaching forgiveness of marital infidelity?
Why do you like seeing broken marriages about?
Will you give the OP your own sister/wife/girlfriend to marry?
Let them sort their issues out as a family and be prayerful.

Forgiveness okay...but not everyone can trust...u think is easy...even Jesus gave infidelity aa condition for divorce...

Even Paul said if the unbelievimg husband wants to leave they should leave...don't tell me a serial adulteree or adultress is not an umbeliever

eyinjuege:


Forgiveness is divine
Why are you against people preaching forgiveness of marital infidelity?
Why do you like seeing broken marriages about?
Will you give the OP your own sister/wife/girlfriend to marry?
Let them sort their issues out as a family and be prayerful.

Lol
Sometimes, forgiveness is stupîdity.
Some crimes or sins should never be forgiven.
Even God doesn't forgive all sins or he'll forgive you but still take vengeance.
Vengeance is divine if properly and fairly executed.

God is still punishing us for unknown sins since, na me be Adam and Eve wey chop Apple?

God created hell.

God refused to forgive Satan till date etc...

oshorstan:
You see that daddy's friend, he was the one that disvirgined her. She cannot do without him. Most women are disgustingly shameless. God please I don't want to be in this condition, because I go kill person. Pls Lord, give me a gift called Good wife. I don't want anyone that will give me wahala. I beg you Lord

Are you a lesbian?

PerfectlyPerfect:

he should just quietly see reasons to why the wife would go infidel
maybe he is not romantic on bed with her.

She cheated and you're giving reasons why she cheated. No one needs a reason to cheat. You're also asking that he forgives her.
Bro let me give you an advise, never forgive a woman who cheats. When most women, especially married women, cheat they usually start having feelings for the man they're cheating with. A man may cheat and still come back to his wife and kids at the end of every day but as soon as a married woman starts cheating she can abandon the husband and kids for the new man. I know 2 cases where married woman ended up killing their husbands so they can be with the new man.

This is not true.

I have married women as girlfeiends and they are still living with their husbands while I bang them regularly

ahnie:

It's not indiscipline that makes people cheat.

I know naaa ..it's because the husband is not caring and doesn't satisfy the wife...so it's never the woman's fault

While the husband cheats because he's not contended...u know men naaa...very wicked people and their pen!s

igbowoman:


If he can pay rent and feed without her income

And this is an igbo girl typing alm these , men am ashamed of u

advanceDNA:


I know naaa ..it's because the husband is not caring and doesn't satisfy the wife...so it's never the woman's fault

While the husband cheats because he's not contended...u know men naaa...very wicked people and their pen!s

Now we're at equilibrium

ahnie:

Now we're in equilibrium

No wonder the devil didn't negotiate with Adam....

He is even lucky to have discovered this on time. Run DNA test, if the child is his then they should proceed to court for the child's custody. If the child is not his, then he should start all over again. No sweat.

First and foremost, he should do a test n find out d paternity of d child, if it is his , without the knowledge of d wife. If d child is his he can separate from the wife n take care of his child, but if it is not his, he can comfortably wash his hands off her, as for d cheating wife, make she go marry her Papa friend, since she wants him so much.

less than a yr, she don probably been fking d man into her marriage life

advanceDNA:


No wonder the devil didn't negotiate with Adam....

Have a splendid day sir bye!

This's despecable & the man needs to secretly do a DNA test

If one is not ready for marriage let him or her stay away instead of this foolishness

chris51:
I hate infidelity in marriages with passion. How can a married woman send her private part pictures to a man? NO, NO.

1st thing is for your brother to privately do the DNA of their child.

2nd thing is to call the meeting of both families and lay down the evidence and end the marriage.
No sentiments at all. He needs his peace of mind. His life is in danger. Marriage is based on trust.

If the child belongs to your brother, fine, he can accept the child, if not, he should send the wife and the child out of his life.

A woman that has zero tolerance for nonsense....there are only two of you on nairaland .....you and you....

ahnie:

Have a splendid day sir bye!

Lol...have a nice day

Why did she even married in the first place for a marriage that's not even up to a year or so ... Bro see your guy no get any other option than to conduct a DNA test either secretly or openly and send the bitch out. For an this type of woman hen no forgiveness in the grave someone like this can't. She might even have another guy also who knows.

I for like hear the part two of this story ..

Remember, you can take a slut out of the street,but you can never take the street out of a slut. Let him walk out of the marriage jejeje,never trust woman, my mum told me that since I was 19 years of age.

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

Wait oo... you caught your wife with another man and you are crying? Come oo...who is raising these simps of men in this modern society? That's what's you get from being a single mother.

The paternity of the child is obviously questionable. Do a DNA and afterwards know that there is no marriage.

tenry:

Pls what's the cost of DNA test in Lagos, also the process.

I don't really knw but i guess it should be up to 100k.

Go to a hospital, u will be asked to bring a physiological part of the child (hair, nails, even cloth).

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


This is not true.

I have married women as girlfeiends a d they are still living with their husbands while I bang them regularly

That's not a good thing though, you shouldn't sleep with married women

Paternity test is the answer then her faith will then he decided

A cheating woman will always cheat, be wise.

tenry:
Please don't mind my grammatical blunders .My brother in law called my wife and I tonight sobbing profusely and confused about what to do.

He caught his wife cheating on a man erroneously believe to be her daddy's friend.

It all started when his wife's phone was bad and he gave him to repair it for him while coming from work. Engineer repaired the phone and on his way home, he curiously checked his wife's phone and discovered sex chat his wife had with the man she called her daddy's friend.

His wife snapped her private parts and sent to the man. They exchanged so many dirty videos including pornography . All the wife's family members (mother, sisters) all knew the man introduced to the husband as dad's friend.

Her dad is late. Their wedding is one year this month with a three month old girl child.

He is worried about the father of the child cos according to him, his wife had visited the man shortly after their wedding.

My wife and I have been disturbed seriously on this matter. The husband called for advice on the step to take.

Please I need your advice cos we are in shock as we didn't expect that from the lady.

explain the brother in law relationship. is he married to your sister or he is your wife's brother, which?

igbowoman:


Why was he checking her phone
This is why men should never check their wife's phone.Busy body husband.
That he saw sex chats doesn't mean anything happened.
It is a woman's world, please tell him to be a good husband and never to check her phone again.
Infact he needs to go apologize to her for invading her privacy

(I just gave the response we hear when the cheating spouse is the man.Now let me read responses)

See them!!

PraisesPblaze:
Screenshot evidences and conduct dna test secretly b4 questioning her.

I see breakfast being served. Your life needs peace, not a cheating wife

He has said it all, go for DNA test to confirm the paternity of the child, before divorcing her.


We rise by lifting others

Mariangeles:
First things first, he needs to be away from his so-called wife to prevent him from doing something (in anger) he might later regret, and also some time off to himself to get himself together and process his thoughts on what next to do.
Whatever decision he decides to make, he should be supported because it is not going to be easy in any way.

What a world shattering situation.

In all these, you didn't even condemn the adulterous Jezebel. Mariah, you can do better.

PerfectlyPerfect:

That's not a good thing though, you shouldn't sleep with married women

He would never end his life well.youthful exuberances still dey shack ham.

When you date women with their fine faces working in well-paying organizations, the first thing to do is to rate their IQ, the courses they did at school, the GP they graduated with and their family backgrounds. If they don't score high in these categories, they most
likely nyashed their way into those organizations. That nyash will always never be for you only.