neonly:
Am not good writer pls trying
to make it short
Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to u
We did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends be4 church matter enter
Now she does nothing in d house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean d house wash d children uniforms for d younger ones
All she is interested now is her own carer
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flank for me
What we be d fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with der mother and father together all dis are pounding in my head
D issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but she life goes on
But my children what will be der fate

neonly:
Am not good writer pls trying
to make it short
Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to u
We did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends be4 church matter enter
Now she does nothing in d house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean d house wash d children uniforms for d younger ones
All she is interested now is her own carer
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flank for me
What we be d fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with der mother and father together all dis are pounding in my head
D issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but she life goes on
But my children what will be der fate

okoroemeka:
when I told my father that I want to marry,he laughed and sat me down and asked me if I have seen him and my mother fight,I said no,he asked again if I have ever seen people come to settle dispute for them,I said no,he told me so long I have decided to get married I will be responsible for whatever happens,that I will never call him if we have problems obviously he will not come ,that it is me that will settle the dispute, asking strangers on nnairaland what you will do in your marriage is wrong,take the bull by the horns,talk to your wife,allow her to vent her anger so you might understand what went wrong,she is a woman,you can easily control her if you know how.

neonly:



No marriage is perfect dis I
know talking to her has become a ritual daily reoccurance
Some are just lucky when it comes to marriage guess u one of them
Just posting dis to know if other people out der are going tru what am going tru at least share opinion like you doing
Thks
Don't be decieved,no one is lucky when it comes to marriage.your ability to tolerate,forgive and over look is what makes marriage enjoyable.

neonly:
Am not good writer pls trying
to make it short
Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to u
We did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends be4 church matter enter
Now she does nothing in d house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean d house wash d children uniforms for d younger ones
All she is interested now is her own carer
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flank for me
What we be d fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with der mother and father together all dis are pounding in my head
D issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but she life goes on
But my children what will be der fate

neonly:
I'm not a good writer,pls I'm trying
to make it short.
Everything is just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks say "I will tolerate rubbish in marriage" but honestly it's easier said than done if it actually happen to u.
Where did I get it wrong sef?
We use to be good friends be4 church matter enter
Now she does nothing in d house
I go to work, come back to go to the market and cook. clean d house wash d children's uniforms for d younger ones.
All she is interested now is her own career
What will be my fate when I grow old?
Is this not a red flag for me?
What will be d fate of my wonderful and innocent children, how will they feel not growing up with der mother and father together? all dis are pounding in my head.
D issues are just too much and I can't type it all. Am really depressed but shaaa, life goes on
But my children what will be der fate??

ahnie:
Forget I love you in marriage.marriage is hard,forget being married to your best friend, marriage is hard!hard!!and hard!!!

I think marriage should be scrapped completely coz it's an unending pit....

ufotty2001:
I have a girlfriend all what she think of is how she will collect money from me and career.. !!! She has never ask me how is business? How is life?? How are you managing... All are calls are complain that she need this or that..

Homeboiy:
The worst of it all be say the children go first buy their mama motor if they grow

Your own go be schnapps

No go kill your self o

Albertone:


I had to re-read to know If OP is the wife or husband.
Omooo OP na the husband oo.

If she is not the breadwinner of the house and she is doing this,you have not been the man of the house.Being a man is not just by having dick o.It is by being able to control the home.

jimmyolasun:



I am not married and never been, I shaaa just wan help you reason I edited your post for easy comprehension.

bigpicture001:
Everyday u see young broke guyz shouting to the top of thier voices, "focus, working class lady" them never jam. When they meet what they wish for, the would prefer not too focused quite jobless respective and supporting wife

They worst is knowing ur wife have the money to rescue u from a very dangerous downfall ND refuses to ... It turns to hating her instantly

neonly:
Am not good writer pls trying
to make it short
Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to u
We did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends be4 church matter enter
Now she does nothing in d house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean d house wash d children uniforms for d younger ones
All she is interested now is her own carer
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flank for me
What we be d fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with der mother and father together all dis are pounding in my head
D issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but she life goes on
But my children what will be der fate

Kestolove:
Divorce and marry another, responsible girls full area no husband

neonly:
Am not good writer pls trying
to make it short
Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to u
We did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends be4 church matter enter
Now she does nothing in d house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean d house wash d children uniforms for d younger ones
All she is interested now is her own carer
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flank for me
What we be d fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with der mother and father together all dis are pounding in my head
D issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but she life goes on
But my children what will be der fate

MALIGNANTGuest:

MOST WOMEN become complacent and laxed the moment they secure marriage.
They forget the nitty-gritty of marriage.
The only way to keep them in check is to make them compete favourable among themselves, this you can do by getting another wife rather than divorcing her outrightly.
WOMEN hate competition.
They dislike competing among their peers.
OUR Forefathers knew this and kept them in check by marrying many.

neonly:

Have thought abt dis several times but d economy situations in d country
Paying schools fees alone Na die talkless of house expenditure
How I wish I had walk pass day

neonly:
Am not good writer pls trying
to make it short
Everything just falling apart in my house
Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to u
We did I get it wrong sef
We use to be good friends be4 church matter enter
Now she does nothing in d house
I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean d house wash d children uniforms for d younger ones
All she is interested now is her own carer
What my fate when I grow old
Is this not a red flank for me
What we be d fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with der mother and father together all dis are pounding in my head
D issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but she life goes on
But my children what will be der fate