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Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 10:42am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Am not good writer please trying to make it short Everything just falling apart in my house Sometimes I hear some folks saying I will tolerate rubbish in marriage but honestly it easier say than done if it actually happen to you Where did I get it wrong sef We use to be good friends before church matter enter Now she does nothing in the house I go to work come back to go to market and cook clean the house wash the children uniforms for the younger ones All she is interested now is her own career What my fate when I grow old Is this not a red flag for me What will be the fate of my wonderful innocent children how will they feel not growing up with their mother and father together all these are pounding in my head the issues are too much I can't type it all am really depressed but sha life goes on But my children what will be their fate 80 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Sonnobax15(m): 10:46am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Na wa oh......May thunder never forget to fire anybody wey say marriage institution no hard pass normal higher institution Op,calm down first....In fact take a chili pill . It's definitely gonna be alright....... Sometimes when I come across stories like this,I begin to wonder what really compels people to change after getting so close to each other...... People who are supposed to be the better halves of each other now becoming a bone in one partner's throat....No be so e suppose be na Op,be a gentle man....Call her and sit her down.....Na you be the chairman of that family . No dey mumu around simply because say your Banny get better hustling ground pass you . Ginger up,be a man here bro . Clear her all her fvck up and if she try jump jump ,make sure say you treat her fvck up accordingly 243 Likes 13 Shares
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kestolove(m): 10:49am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Divorce and marry another, responsible girls full area no husband 186 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Ynix(m): 10:50am On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Bro chat me up on 08089456258 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Homeboiy: 10:52am On Sep 27, 2021 |
The worst of it all be say the children go first buy their mama motor if they grow Your own go be schnapps No go kill your self o 458 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by okoroemeka(m): 10:54am On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:when I told my father that I want to marry,he laughed and sat me down and asked me if I have seen him and my mother fight,I said no,he asked again if I have ever seen people come to settle dispute for them,I said no,he told me so long I have decided to get married I will be responsible for whatever happens,that I will never call him if we have problems obviously he will not come ,that it is me that will settle the dispute, asking strangers on nnairaland what you will do in your marriage is wrong,take the bull by the horns,talk to your wife,allow her to vent her anger so you might understand what went wrong,she is a woman,you can easily control her if you know how. 303 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 10:55am On Sep 27, 2021 |
To all those men wey dy go church to go look for wife hehehehe na still us dy there ooo we just change cloth hehehehe(culled from a video,no be me talk am) 179 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 10:58am On Sep 27, 2021 |
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 11:01am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Forget I love you in marriage.marriage is hard,forget being married to your best friend, marriage is hard!hard!!and hard!!! I think marriage should be scrapped completely coz it's an unending pit.... 80 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by lilvicky68(m): 11:03am On Sep 27, 2021 |
If for 15years you haven't understood your wife.. Then there's no advice that can help you.. Na you go give yourself advice.. 136 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ufotty2001: 11:05am On Sep 27, 2021 |
I have a girlfriend all what she think of is how she will collect money from me and career.. !!! She has never ask me how is business? How is life?? How are you managing... All are calls are complain that she need this or that.. 168 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 11:07am On Sep 27, 2021 |
okoroemeka: No marriage is perfect dis I know talking to her has become a ritual daily reoccurance Some are just lucky when it comes to marriage guess u one of them Just posting dis to know if other people out der are going tru what am going tru at least share opinion like you doing Thks 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ahnie: 11:27am On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by anthonyuncle(m): 11:34am On Sep 27, 2021 |
do whatever will give you peace 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Albertone(m): 11:39am On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: I had to re-read to know If OP is the wife or husband. Omooo OP na the husband oo. If she is not the breadwinner of the house and she is doing this,you have not been the man of the house.Being a man is not just by having dick o.It is by being able to control the home. 64 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by AcademicWriter: 11:43am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Bro talk me up on 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by jimmyolasun: 11:52am On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: I am not married and never been, I shaaa just wan help you reason I edited your post for easy comprehension. 42 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Inspiration007: 11:57am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Mama, your last sentence tho. ahnie: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by cooooooks(m): 12:02pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
So why is she (still) your girlfriend? ufotty2001: 54 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by suffering: 12:09pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Okay. Good for you. Amazing. Carry on. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 12:11pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Homeboiy:Swears. Na schnapps o 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 12:18pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Albertone: This is someone dat work and her pay is for her alone honestly I don't even know much she earn as salary If u are lucky to marry a good person just thank Jehovah Too much pressure to guild her and let her see reason will be consider sexual violent so am very careful it has easy has u think bro's am just heart broken right now if I can have my way Na to just relocate go another country 45 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 12:20pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
jimmyolasun: 8 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by bigpicture001: 12:34pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Everyday u see young broke guyz shouting to the top of thier voices, "focus, working class lady" them never jam. When they meet what they wish for, the would prefer not too focused quite jobless respective and supporting wife They worst is knowing ur wife have the money to rescue u from a very dangerous downfall ND refuses to ... It turns to hating her instantly 122 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 1:04pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
bigpicture001: This is why there are so many wealthy widows in Onitsha.. the men are too proud to accept support from their wives 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by siofra(f): 1:08pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Na mumu dey marry. 35 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 1:09pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: So, you want to ruin your 15-year old marriage for the sake of your ego? ■ You go to market ■ Cook ■ clean the house ■ wash the children uniform .... So you do these things in your own home and you expect what, a medal? The person that used to do them before, I am guessing your wife, she no be human being like you? So your wife is interested in her career, and you are what? Against your "friend" doing well in her career or what? And let me guess, communication has degraded between you two and probably between your egos are butting heads at this point and rather than working on that, you are instead thinking of ways to end your relationship? Look, no two marriages are created the same and no two individuals in a marriage are exact copies of themselves. You and your wife are meant to design your own marriage in a way that works for you, not go around comparing yourselves to others out there. Die to your ego if you must and learn to grow rather than destroy your marriage over petty things such as what you listed here. 53 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Emmanuel909090: 1:10pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 1:15pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:MOST WOMEN become complacent and laxed the moment they secure marriage. They forget the nitty-gritty of marriage. The only way to keep them on their toes & in check is to make them compete favourably among themselves, this you can do by getting another wife rather than divorcing her outrightly. WOMEN hate competition. They dislike competing among their peers. OUR Forefathers knew this and kept them in check by marrying many. I made sure I passed the message to my WIFE before wedlock, that any day she decides to run a parallel government in our house, I will have no choice but to make her compete among her peers 83 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 1:18pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
MALIGNANTGuest: Have thought abt dis several times but d economy situations in d country Paying schools fees alone Na die talkless of house expenditure How I wish I had walk pass day 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 1:29pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:MARRIAGE is not joke these days. For my kind of man, Any Lady that Feels she can get employment through marriage has failed. My Wife knows that. She knows what arouses me. And she knows I am hollow in terms of Feelings. Start making arrangements for a second and competent wife and see her WAKE UP. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by arthurwillia(m): 1:30pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Divorce na Abi? 1 Like |
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