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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Josephishaku59: 6:20pm On Sep 27, 2021
grin make we read and pass.
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by MARX77(m): 6:20pm On Sep 27, 2021
IgweBUIKE1:
Hmmmmmm pls protect your hustle. ..naija is hard

My brother, good advice...before mans loose job because of woman when e nor even de chyke. God forbid bad thing

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Inspiration007: 6:20pm On Sep 27, 2021
grin

Omo..


You will be fine
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Sundaypaul12345: 6:20pm On Sep 27, 2021
Heed to ur MD

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by flyingfvck: 6:20pm On Sep 27, 2021
If only d said lady can call herself to order and keep everything professional henceforth, you would be surprised at how much you've fallen for her and also want her...


Just saying...

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by ejiskolo(f): 6:22pm On Sep 27, 2021
Guy, like someone earlier said 'Protect your Hustle'. When your boss begin to complain about your work relationship, dear it doesn't worth it.

My two cents

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Dangrace01: 6:23pm On Sep 27, 2021
I sell cars thanks
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by PrinceGallant: 6:23pm On Sep 27, 2021
Let me start my advice by asking you why telling us that your MD is also a woman with a kid? I had thought you wanted to tell us she is fond of you.

Well, the truth is that if you are in need of that your job, tell that lady bluntly to stay away of you.

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by olufunmi01(m): 6:23pm On Sep 27, 2021
Please guys help what drugs can I use I feel internal heat and weight loss. I have treated typhoid and I did test for malaria which was negative. Sometimes I feel the heat at the back sometimes at the thigh sometimes my stomach
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by contactwale: 6:25pm On Sep 27, 2021
Starz825:
All this female bosses sef..
Guys, you would be so amazed to know the lady boss is just being jealous., that's all. cheesy

Not correct. Relationship in office environment can be distracting. Showing it off can be unprofessional and distasteful.

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Nobody: 6:28pm On Sep 27, 2021
Ask yourself "ME" questions
1: What value is this lady bringing to the table (Career-wise, Marriage-wise, etc)
2: If I were the one chasing her - would she risk her job based on my advances

Detach yourself from this lady emotionally - simply do not express your emotions on your face

Work no easy to come lose am over person wey no understand your precarious position

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by iampeterben(m): 6:28pm On Sep 27, 2021
SUPERPACK:
Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food, we have food and we can eat glory be to you oh lord.grin
You be cow! Person say matured advice you begin give primary school rhymes.

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by streetsoldier1(m): 6:29pm On Sep 27, 2021
ray501:


I just hope he will take this your geniue advice smiley

only legends understand what that advice means

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by BarrElChapo(m): 6:29pm On Sep 27, 2021
What's there to advice, you both should comply at least during office hours grin
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by fkj950ax(m): 6:29pm On Sep 27, 2021
Halo22:
In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.

Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.

You are not ready for matured conversations if you think you are an endangered specie that others just want to be married to

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by baralatie(m): 6:30pm On Sep 27, 2021
SUPERPACK:
Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food, we have food and we can eat glory be to you oh lord.grin
Yes!
My belle o!
grin grin
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Traplord09: 6:30pm On Sep 27, 2021
Some people in nairaland we come back for more advi
Is alright... undecided undecided undecided undecided
No one should tell you what to do..
It depend on right part u want it..... tongue
Lot of questions at Brain......
.........
What about de girl later change.......
What we be your faith....
After everythin...... ......
Loook sex come with attached of love ..
Well if you want to dance to de sound then bit d durm
undecided undecided undecided

Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by eguarojeona: 6:31pm On Sep 27, 2021
Funny thing is you can still be married and still attract ladies this way.Married or single.Seems you are a prize.I wouldn't be surprised your MD too hers the hots for you too.You said she is a lady, your MD,yes?
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by baralatie(m): 6:32pm On Sep 27, 2021
iampeterben:

You be cow! Person say matured advice you begin give primary school rhymes.
You see am nah!
Some body gave a high sounding advice!

Eh!

Can't you see the depth of the advice ni?


Na wa o!

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by oyejideogunjumo: 6:34pm On Sep 27, 2021
Halo22:
In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.

Actually I am a very focused person, though I compromise especially when a lady feels I am snubbing her when she comes close, I like giving them that sense of belonging. There's this particular lady that always like going with me after work, as in she can't go without moving out of the work premises with me. I have tried everything I could to make her let me be, but she is an adamant type.

In addition to that, she started picking up quarrels with any lady that comes close to me....as in I don't understand. When I asked her why such attitude, she said she doesn't want other ladies to make me lose focus on my job. Well, all these were happening but I never knew my MD has been observing her moves towards me as she is also a lady, though married with just a kid.

After our meeting early this week, she called me and said "hey....Smart(not real name though), I would want to have a brief meeting with you in my office. You know when u were invited for such meeting after the general meeting, your mind would scatter into thoughts. After some minutes, I then visited her office and lo and behold, I saw that same lady colleague of mine in there.

Hmmmm, I knew something was cooking, but then I gathered courage and sat down. Let me not bore you guys with long story, she just told us that our relationship in the company was becoming so distracting and as such, we should try to adjust or face sanction. She told me it was for the regard she had for me if not she would have taken drastic conclusion on us.

I tried defending myself, but she didn't want to listen further. As for my colleague, she didn't even allow her to utter a word. Like I said earlier, I have never opened up to the lady on relationship let alone to have dated her, she is just being desperate and it's offending my MD.


Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.
Most organization don't allow couple to work together. That is husband and wife not allowed.
So, take one.
Your job or your relationship.
But job is scares while ladies abounds everywhere and any time.
If you choose your relationship and you are laid off.
The lady in question will dump you too so you loose on both sides

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Karleb(m): 6:35pm On Sep 27, 2021
SUPERPACK:
Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food, we have food and we can eat glory be to you oh lord.grin

grin grin
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Starz825(m): 6:37pm On Sep 27, 2021
contactwale:


Not correct. Relationship in office environment can be distracting. Showing it off can be unprofessional and distasteful.

Guy
But there was no relationship at all...

Something like that happened to me too..but mine was a male boss..he's late now...
He handled the matter differently, even though there was no relationship with the lady then, my boss during meetings still teased us to get married..
Females are always very emotional about shit

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by chatinent: 6:37pm On Sep 27, 2021
OLDESTWARRIBOY:


WETIN BOYS DE FIND NA THIS ONE DEY RUN FROM

na dem chatinent people be this....wey girls fil tell if you no marry me...no kitty, and Dem go really gree

And e be like your boss wan taste too...if na me be you na to share am give all of Dem o.

Smiles.
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by kunle75(m): 6:39pm On Sep 27, 2021
Halo22:
In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.

Actually I am a very focused person, though I compromise especially when a lady feels I am snubbing her when she comes close, I like giving them that sense of belonging. There's this particular lady that always like going with me after work, as in she can't go without moving out of the work premises with me. I have tried everything I could to make her let me be, but she is an adamant type.

In addition to that, she started picking up quarrels with any lady that comes close to me....as in I don't understand. When I asked her why such attitude, she said she doesn't want other ladies to make me lose focus on my job. Well, all these were happening but I never knew my MD has been observing her moves towards me as she is also a lady, though married with just a kid.

After our meeting early this week, she called me and said "hey....Smart(not real name though), I would want to have a brief meeting with you in my office. You know when u were invited for such meeting after the general meeting, your mind would scatter into thoughts. After some minutes, I then visited her office and lo and behold, I saw that same lady colleague of mine in there.

Hmmmm, I knew something was cooking, but then I gathered courage and sat down. Let me not bore you guys with long story, she just told us that our relationship in the company was becoming so distracting and as such, we should try to adjust or face sanction. She told me it was for the regard she had for me if not she would have taken drastic conclusion on us.

I tried defending myself, but she didn't want to listen further. As for my colleague, she didn't even allow her to utter a word. Like I said earlier, I have never opened up to the lady on relationship let alone to have dated her, she is just being desperate and it's offending my MD.


Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.

I pray you don't loose your job before realizing how much emotion you allowed to overrule your sense of judgment.

Unless you have another job waiting for you somewhere,you both meet at work and not related in any ways,whats the point asking us on what to do.
Thats dumb to me

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by enumerica: 6:41pm On Sep 27, 2021
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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by oluplus(m): 6:41pm On Sep 27, 2021
SUPERPACK:
Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food, we have food and we can eat glory be to you oh lord.grin

This is a golden advice Op. Take it and be safe

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Blessed4sure: 6:41pm On Sep 27, 2021
You're already saying "dear" to this lady again.

It appears you're the source of your "problems".

You appear to be the type that compliment ladies upandan, calling them pet names
...

Maybe you should always keep things very professional.


Halo22:
Thanks dear

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by nelson1199(m): 6:42pm On Sep 27, 2021
grin grin grin
airsaylongcome:


It's this kind of talk that is getting you in trouble at the office. "Thanks dear" to a random "lady" on the internet.

If a faceless person you don't know is "dear", I'm sure your colleagues na "sweetheart" you dey call dem
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Burgerlomo: 6:43pm On Sep 27, 2021
The decision is yours bro, it's either you give the lady a professional wide gap or you get yourself ready for your new role as unhonorable Minister for Home Affairs to your neighbors.

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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by VULCAN(m): 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2021
If you have travelled to the UK you would know better.

But even though you haven't don't you watch British Soaps

"Dear" has no sexual overtones to the British.

airsaylongcome:


It's this kind of talk that is getting you in trouble at the office. "Thanks dear" to a random "lady" on the internet.

If a faceless person you don't know is "dear", I'm sure your colleagues na "sweetheart" you dey call dem
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by oluplus(m): 6:44pm On Sep 27, 2021
iampeterben:

You be cow! Person say matured advice you begin give primary school rhymes.

Deep calleth unto deep. Shallow minds cannot comprehend it.

1,001 lessons are there for Op to learn

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