oluwaseunamos33:
me, na the aroma I perceive

Halo22:
In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.

Actually I am a very focused person, though I compromise especially when a lady feels I am snubbing her when she comes close, I like giving them that sense of belonging. There's this particular lady that always like going with me after work, as in she can't go without moving out of the work premises with me. I have tried everything I could to make her let me be, but she is an adamant type.

In addition to that, she started picking up quarrels with any lady that comes close to me....as in I don't understand. When I asked her why such attitude, she said she doesn't want other ladies to make me lose focus on my job. Well, all these were happening but I never knew my MD has been observing her moves towards me as she is also a lady, though married with just a kid.

After our meeting early this week, she called me and said "hey....Smart(not real name though), I would want to have a brief meeting with you in my office. You know when u were invited for such meeting after the general meeting, your mind would scatter into thoughts. After some minutes, I then visited her office and lo and behold, I saw that same lady colleague of mine in there.

Hmmmm, I knew something was cooking, but then I gathered courage and sat down. Let me not bore you guys with long story, she just told us that our relationship in the company was becoming so distracting and as such, we should try to adjust or face sanction. She told me it was for the regard she had for me if not she would have taken drastic conclusion on us.

I tried defending myself, but she didn't want to listen further. As for my colleague, she didn't even allow her to utter a word. Like I said earlier, I have never opened up to the lady on relationship let alone to have dated her, she is just being desperate and it's offending my MD.


Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.

GreaterFuture:

So the lady in question is married right?
Why is it difficult to Say no to a Married woman

Halo22:
In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.

Actually I am a very focused person, though I compromise especially when a lady feels I am snubbing her when she comes close, I like giving them that sense of belonging. There's this particular lady that always like going with me after work, as in she can't go without moving out of the work premises with me. I have tried everything I could to make her let me be, but she is an adamant type.

In addition to that, she started picking up quarrels with any lady that comes close to me....as in I don't understand. When I asked her why such attitude, she said she doesn't want other ladies to make me lose focus on my job. Well, all these were happening but I never knew my MD has been observing her moves towards me as she is also a lady, though married with just a kid.

After our meeting early this week, she called me and said "hey....Smart(not real name though), I would want to have a brief meeting with you in my office. You know when u were invited for such meeting after the general meeting, your mind would scatter into thoughts. After some minutes, I then visited her office and lo and behold, I saw that same lady colleague of mine in there.

Hmmmm, I knew something was cooking, but then I gathered courage and sat down. Let me not bore you guys with long story, she just told us that our relationship in the company was becoming so distracting and as such, we should try to adjust or face sanction. She told me it was for the regard she had for me if not she would have taken drastic conclusion on us.

I tried defending myself, but she didn't want to listen further. As for my colleague, she didn't even allow her to utter a word. Like I said earlier, I have never opened up to the lady on relationship let alone to have dated her, she is just being desperate and it's offending my MD.


Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.

chocboi78:
Lol
U didn’t read the post.
The lady is not married but his MD(also a female) is

SUPERPACK:
Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food, we have food and we can eat glory be to you oh lord.

GreaterFuture:

So the lady in question is married right?
Why is it difficult to Say no to a Married woman

Kayyus09:
I'm in Ibadan, Oyo State. I can move to anywhere, except core north.

Bunmhi:
Your MD dey jealous

IgweBUIKE1:
Hmmmmmm pls protect your hustle. ..naija is hard

Starz825:
All this female bosses sef..
Guys, you would be so amazed to know the lady boss was just being jealous., that's all.

Optimistguy1969:

Premarital sex is bad.
It's good to stick to one's husband or wife for sexual satisfaction. avoid fornication

Beey:
If you don’t learn to speak up in this life & be firm with your decision, you’ll not have it easy. You need to tell this lady off. Tell her to leave you alone & let her know she’s not your type. As a matter of fact, tell her you have a GF & are not searching. Tell her to respect your space & stop harassing you. If it so requires ,let a lady friend meet you after work to pick you up & act like a girlfriend. If that doesn’t work, arrange some area boys to warn her. That’s obsession & having dealt with such, I know they can drive you nuts. I had to fake a police report to make one leave me alone.

Halo22:
Well there's no vacancy presently, but once it becomes available I won't hesitate to let us know ok.

SUPERPACK:
Some have food but cannot eat, some can eat but have no food, we have food and we can eat glory be to you oh lord.

Halo22:
In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.

Actually I am a very focused person, though I compromise especially when a lady feels I am snubbing her when she comes close, I like giving them that sense of belonging. There's this particular lady that always like going with me after work, as in she can't go without moving out of the work premises with me. I have tried everything I could to make her let me be, but she is an adamant type.

In addition to that, she started picking up quarrels with any lady that comes close to me....as in I don't understand. When I asked her why such attitude, she said she doesn't want other ladies to make me lose focus on my job. Well, all these were happening but I never knew my MD has been observing her moves towards me as she is also a lady, though married with just a kid.

After our meeting early this week, she called me and said "hey....Smart(not real name though), I would want to have a brief meeting with you in my office. You know when u were invited for such meeting after the general meeting, your mind would scatter into thoughts. After some minutes, I then visited her office and lo and behold, I saw that same lady colleague of mine in there.

Hmmmm, I knew something was cooking, but then I gathered courage and sat down. Let me not bore you guys with long story, she just told us that our relationship in the company was becoming so distracting and as such, we should try to adjust or face sanction. She told me it was for the regard she had for me if not she would have taken drastic conclusion on us.

I tried defending myself, but she didn't want to listen further. As for my colleague, she didn't even allow her to utter a word. Like I said earlier, I have never opened up to the lady on relationship let alone to have dated her, she is just being desperate and it's offending my MD.


Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.

boyjo:

Why are you using a prayer said unto a holy GOD to represent evil? Kindly stop this your evil misrepresentation and fear The LORD GOD.
Make una learn to fear and reverence GOD o.

Cc
Nicerazor,
DatsAll1mSayin,
Thunderbabs, lasenior, kayyus09
baralatie, karleb, oluplus,

boyjo:

Why are you using a prayer said unto a holy GOD to represent evil? Kindly stop this your evil misrepresentation and fear The LORD GOD.
Make una learn to fear and reverence GOD o.

Cc
Nicerazor,
DatsAll1mSayin,
Thunderbabs, lasenior, kayyus09
baralatie, karleb, oluplus,

Pegi23:
Get a lady to act like ur bae then closing time ur fake bae can come to the gate of the work outside tho and be all loved up when the lady is watching so she will know u are taken..or mr get married..

so u adviseing people to commit fraud by telling them to make there wife sexxx a gateman Pretending to be babe to watch naaaaked women..correct?....SHAME ON U AGAIN Pegi23 for comiting fraud again on nairaland!!( sad)