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Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Nonexisting1: 7:28pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Fucck the girl like an ashewo and she will feel like trash and leave you alone. It always work for me. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Worksunlimited: 7:35pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Halo22: Oh.. I'll advise you abort mission carefully.. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by logan2(m): 7:36pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Halo22:there's no need for this post bro.. It's simple listen to your boss or risk losing your job is that too hard to understand? 1 Like |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Pegi23(f): 7:38pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Get a lady to act like ur bae then closing time ur fake bae can come to the gate of the work outside tho and be all loved up when the lady is watching so she will know u are taken..or mr get married.. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Kayyus09(m): 7:38pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: Amen.. Bless this food, oh Lord, For Christ's Sake. Amen. Come and eat |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Optimistguy1969: 7:41pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
uthlaw:Premarital sex is bad. It's good to stick to one's husband or wife for sexual satisfaction. avoid fornication 1 Like |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Nobody: 7:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Halo22: Be honest. Have you slept with her? 2 Likes |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by sisisioge: 7:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
You mean despite the good excuse to finally cut off from the girl you're still struggling to find the right words/moves? It is well fa. 4 Likes |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by baralatie(m): 7:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
aikyg:For where! Na there the rushing from all sorts of women go many! |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Kayyus09(m): 7:43pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Halo22: Is there vacancy at your workplace? Please I need a job. For real. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by DatsAll1mSayin(m): 7:51pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: You are an idiot. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
That girl go put am for big trouble with her jealousy and Op doesn't seem to understand the boss probably wants him too if she notice he's giving that young lady green light him own don be na sack be the next thing.....I fear jealous women more than anything PrinceGallant: |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
This is the best advice so far oyejideogunjumo: |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
VULCAN: Are you in British? 1 Like |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Nobody: 8:11pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
All I see is weak advice, insult and suspicion to op. I have gotten such firsthand experience like the op...mine, I was not even informed but was posted out. Later my colleagues were like saying that my superiors were scared, that I may impregnate most of the girls in our office with the rate at which they throng me. Aswear I was super hurt and surprised! Despite the fact that, I never had any of them contacts on my phone then, don't even know them by names to an extent...one day, one of the ladies called me by 6:45pm to know if I have gotten home, I warned her seriously first on how she got my number, second on not to ever call me aside work related issues and that late again. Did that stopped anything? Nope! Rather the visit me at my new posting and...... Funny enough, when I was posted out, the ladies started getting pregnant by some male colleagues (Oga Saint them o). To Op, you can't stop being yourself. Maybe you are a good dresser, jovial and respectful towards people's feelings (humanity). No matter how you try, you can't keep the ladies off...one day, one said she never knew I was this deep principled. My superiors even my intake female colleagues (who go jokingly say make I yarnsh these girls) now see my principled life and great work delivery ethics. Your principled life is what can exonerate you. Don't be surprised Boss is also admiring you. To weaken the girls feeling of being incharge; spread the love abroad even to your madam. Don't always allow only the both of you to work out of the premise together, get another lady or male guyman...play tape give am. Don't ever hurt that lady's feeling by being blunt...You will always need her, trust me and don't thrust me. So long as you work in the same environment with her, just be careful how you will react to her. Don't tell her you need space...why are girls here being insensitive? Trust me, the lady will but don't pour the dirty water away like that when she does because you can use the water to flush shit...Rather use that opportunity to tell her the ethics of the job, your boundaries and reassure her that you will be a good friend to her outside work..codely. 3 Likes |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:12pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
You guys need to learn how to tell a girl you have nothing to offer from the moment you notice they like you enough to start telling other ladies to stay off you. It's not rude to do that. You don't allow a girl follow you about without telling her your mind. You as a man have the right to tell her you don't want anything to do with her so that she can cry and move on. You probably led her on by not saying no to her and probably showing her the kind of care she thought was out of love. If you lose your job because of her, na you know. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
OP is one of these sissy good simpy boys... No advice you'll give him will make him change his countenance toward the female gender. It's like his mumu button, his kryptonite. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by faithfull18(f): 8:23pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
airsaylongcome:Lol, be calming down. Nigerians do that a lot. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Halo22: 8:26pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
mikezuruki:Nay |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Halo22: 8:27pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kayyus09:where do u reside? |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Gabe427: 8:36pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
airsaylongcome:Oil dey your head boss More oil |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Christistruth00: 8:38pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Halo22: Write a letter to the MD thanking her and explain the Situation so it will be on record 1 Like |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by rickleye: 8:40pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Halo22: Dude - You must have sampled the forbidden fruit ! In any case.. Just have a meeting with your " lady boss with one child" and explain your side. You are not ready to marry and settle down and that the other colleague is just " a colleague" then have a meeting with the lady and record the conversation. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Kayyus09(m): 8:49pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Halo22:I'm in Ibadan, Oyo State. I can move to anywhere, except core north. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by JennyOfOldstones(f): 8:50pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
[quote author=Halo22 post=106159218[/quote] The only reason why this is happening is because you've refused to establish strong boundaries with your colleague. Remember that getting good jobs these days isn't easy so you'd better sit that girl down and tell her firmly but politely that you're not interested in a relationship with her and that she isn't worth losing your means of livelihood for. Note that your boss is using this situation to test your problem solving skills and emotional intelligence if you fail, you'll be unemployed |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by NemoDatQuod(m): 9:07pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
You think he wouldn't have done that already of he has it in him? He is simply a wimp. There is nothing wrong with being a wimp. He just needs to recognise what he is and know that those around him will always use him to wipe the floor like this lady is doing. Imagine coming on here to ask for advise when there is only one action to take, especially when his job is on the line. Except what we hear about the rate of unemployment in Naija is not true. Mtchew! Iamagoodgirll: |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by NemoDatQuod(m): 9:18pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
"Hate"! That's a rather strong word, don't you think? Justbehave: |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Iamagoodgirll: 9:18pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
NemoDatQuod:in this case no body is using him. He just need to set things straight having in mind that a woman is his boss and his job is on the line |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Justbehave(m): 9:24pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
NemoDatQuod:I'm being honest here. No pretence. These are the kind of men who easily don't care about their fellow men but once it involves anything in skirt,they start behaving like mumu and keep compromising just to make the ladies see then as realmen.I hate them. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by ozo13(m): 9:26pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Ekejoestar:i swear to God.some ladies can do anything o wn it comes to relationship matter.they can even go to the extent of printing a marriage invitation card including ones name on it jus to scare other ladies away.i fear some ladies ooo. |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by Bfss: 9:35pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
He want to smash |
Re: My MD Told Me My Relationship Is Jeopardizing My Job. by chocboi78(m): 9:40pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Halo22:only this line will discourage any potential reader |
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