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Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by ArcFresky(m): 9:45am On Sep 27, 2021 |
chatinent: I am oweing my fiancee, 500k. Some of the money was from buying say, foodstuffs. She wants to rent house now, she says I should pay because she no get money, and she is working and earning. I can actually pay at any time, but she refuses to receive it. Well, we don breakup ohhh can't live with that shit. |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by NoToPile: 10:00am On Sep 27, 2021 |
Loool prices of things are so high that everybody is lamenting, either the husband is the one that provides it or not. Me that I can call my husband from the market and start lamenting on the phone that things are too costly . Bought gas few days back still complained nooni. I can't imagine what people will say if it was me that dropped the money and I start complaining about cost of things. I feel either you bought it with your money or not things are too astronomical and some people can't help but complain about it. |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by azammi(m): 10:22am On Sep 27, 2021 |
GOCEO: |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by chatinent: 10:35am On Sep 27, 2021 |
ArcFresky: Wow |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by spice123(m): 11:29am On Sep 27, 2021 |
emmanuelewumi:You think a pension contribution of more than 7 years with interests is not a good investment? Something that will take care of your old age after retirement? hahahaha. I should be the one to lecture you on investment my brother. |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by emmanuelewumi(m): 12:43pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
spice123: Too bad you have to liquidate your Retirement Savings Account just to pay for consumption ie rent. If you don't have personal Investment that is at least twice the fund in your Retirement Savings Account, you are a learner and have not done well for yourself making money, managing money and multiplying money 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by bepositive11: 1:25pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
vickydevoka: True, it can be demoralizing to do a menial job after losing a good paying job. I'm the kind of person who's always determined to find a way -- I do whatever it takes as long as it doesn't go against my values. I put my ego and pride aside if I have to. But that's just me. I set very high standards for myself so I naturally expect it from others, but I understand that not everyone is like me. Are you jobless perhaps? |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by vickydevoka(m): 2:02pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
bepositive11:Lol. Question for the gods |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by spice123(m): 5:02pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
emmanuelewumi:People sell their house or land to either pay a debt or for education or even travel oversees. The main reason for investment is to solve problem without borrowing. I don't need to argue with you because its obvious you have no responsibility |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by emmanuelewumi(m): 6:08pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
spice123: Wrong move, what happens to solving your needs with the cash flow from the asset or investments. Selling an investment to pay for debts or for consumption is not financially savvy. Visit the Treasury Bill, mutual funds and stock market threads to read about personal finance, money management and investments 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by fortune1968: 6:28pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Bennethchiso:I'm not sure if you are in Lagos .But ,if you are ,you can look for teaching job in highbrow areas like Lekki,VI, Surulere , Ikoyi ,etc .There is always need for teachers .Just drop your CV with them .It may not matter if you read education or not .Once you are good ,they will employ you . Especially ,if you read science ,any science ,just apply as a science teacher or class teacher ( in upper primary school ) or related subject teacher in secondary school .( You can always check Tuesdays Guardian ) Also Google for secondary and primary schools in the aforementioned places and send you CV to their e mail addresses to save cost .You can also send to them through post office.( Whether they advertise for teachers or not ) As for me ,I also trade in palm oil .But the high cost of the product had reduced my capacity to buy much recently .May God help us . |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by ThisisIkemefuna(m): 9:39pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
emmanuelewumi: Please sir. How can I reach you via WhatsApp sur |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by intruder15(m): 7:16am On Sep 28, 2021 |
spice123: Emmm. This your write up eh, I want to key into it but several parts are not clear. If you only remove your transport and give your wife the rest, how do you still pay for rent? Also, since the funds you have is defined, how do you take your wife out spontaneously? How do you also cope with your parents expenses? |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Cromagnon: 4:57pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
ImaIma1: If I could answer I wouldn't ask now would I But I'll take your refusal to do same as acquiescence. But continue with your feminist agenda Let's see where it will end |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Cromagnon: 4:59pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
cococandy:men they don't respect Men that cannot provide what they want ( however delusional said wants are) Just stay alone till they meet their unicorn |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Cromagnon: 6:23pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
chatinent:apart from life and health, what is positive about being homeless at end of life by disloyal women |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by ImaIma1(f): 9:20pm On Sep 28, 2021 |
Cromagnon: Everything to you guys on this forum is feminism. No point trying to have a conversation when it seems you have your preconceived notions already. |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by drnoel: 3:10am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Ficient: Na U Sabi. Genotype changes is a lie. No medical college would even listen to such BS |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Cromagnon: 6:26pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
ImaIma1:Fox o Dog o Wolf o They all canines that eat chicken Same with cat and lion So if you display characteristics of feminist then don't be annoyed when you get called out. You were given opportunity to explain yourself But like true feminist you chose to run away We meet at Shiloh |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by ImaIma1(f): 6:51pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Cromagnon: Explain myself to who? What feminists characteristics? Any counter opinion to what you guys on this forum believe is seen as feminism. Meet yourself at Shiloh. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Cromagnon: 9:59pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
ImaIma1:Men don't go to Shiloh looking for husband after wasting fertile years going woke |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by ImaIma1(f): 11:10pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Cromagnon: They don't go looking for husbands of course. They go looking for wives Don't waste your precious time on assumptions that everyone who has a contrary opinion is a feminist. Or that everyone with a contrary opinion is unmarried. Expand your mind. Shiloh is for everyone, young and old, married and unmarried. See you there 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by NaBanga: 1:51am On Oct 17, 2021 |
One bill shouldn't be causing this. It's good that you pay 98% of the bills. However don't go beyond that. Any man that doesn't take care of his family is a fool. A woman will always insult you and sleep with a "better" man in such a case. Men who are not contributing to the family are just there as an accessory, like a handbag or makeup. |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by MIKOLOWISKA: 10:52pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
JESHAL:in black welfare subsidised community it's 80%. That 50 is for whites |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Nobody: 2:05am On Oct 20, 2021 |
MIKOLOWISKA: Wow Didn't know that |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Felixnyle: 2:11am On Oct 20, 2021 |
You are absolutely right. I give it to you. JovialJune: |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Cousin9999: 5:09am On Oct 20, 2021 |
I'm glad mental health is trending because there are a lot of broken people walking around who don't know they're broken. There are also a lot of people that don't seem to grasp that certain attitudes are not part of a progressive society. |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by Cromagnon: 8:04pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
ImaIma1:whatever helps you sleep at night ���� Shiloooooooh |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by XshegzzyeeiX: 9:20pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
chatinent: Noted. |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by XshegzzyeeiX: 9:35pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: Brilliant response. Kudos 1 Like |
Re: Men That Their Wives Are The Breadwinners; How Do You Cope? by XshegzzyeeiX: 9:36pm On Nov 11, 2021 |
Ofadaman: Chai!!! So sorry man about your predicament. |
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