maynia:


And what if a man drags the child? Who brought the trauma?

then the trauma comes after the WAR

The heartbreak and evils that attend fraud and falsehood kill faster than the temporary pains at the revelation of truth. There can be forgiveness where there's sincerely God's fear but the present generation is irredeemably promiscuous. As it was in the days of Noah so it is today. Why? Can't we just control ourselves a bit? There should be a difference between humans and beasts, even some animals maintain a cleaner mating life.

Marriage should be honourable in all ways and between couples and in every society. Stop pollution of your bed, it produces evils in humanity. Also, fornicators and adulterers will face God's fearful judgement.
Hebrews 13:4 says it this way: 'Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.'

Kobojunkie:
There are laws in Nigeria that basically give custody to the man who raised the child, in marriage,
over its biological father.

There's also the tradition in Nigeria that downgrade the man. I'll be a half man if I don't do DNA test for my kids. It will be a crime that I deny them who their real father is. Imagine not knowing your real dad? A father by genetic.

Besides, I got married to a woman to father my own children and not to raise adopted kids. I never signed up for all that at the very least. Tufia!

Magnoliaa:


Awwwnnn. Stopeet. You're going to make me start crying now.

But thank you. I hope the nl boys quoting you upandan with dumb opinions are not a part of the reasons you're feeling disoriented oh. Hope they aren't getting to you, 'cause they aren't worth it at all at all.

they aren't worth it but you want them to impregnate you or pay for your child?�����

FutureIsFemale:
Do you know what's funny about this DNA saga?

90% of those who glamour for it can't event afford a square meal.

Let's see how it goes.

yet both of you are here congratulating yourself. If you're not worried you won't be here

SirMichael1:

There's also the tradition in Nigeria that downgrade the man. I'll be a half man if I don't do DNA test for my kids. It will be a crime that I deny them who their real father is. Imagine not knowing your real dad? A father by genetic.

Besides, I got married to a woman to father my own children and not to raise adopted kids. I never signed up for all that at the very least. Tufia!

Where is this tradition defined?

Bookhub:
Simps everywhere tuehhhhh..

Na tripple simp he be! What about the wicked person d mother that brought the crime, heartbreak and confusion in d 1st place?

AmazonTopaz:
Lol abeg leave them to be making noise online how many of dem fit even afford to pay for DNA test.


Why is this intelligent man telling them the obvious please let them find out their truths if e go well for them congratulations the ones wey e nor go well for let them not be suicidal.Also they should also be subjected to DNA test too some of them are not from their fathers loins since everything wan scatter let it just scatter finish.

Even in the olden days men fathered children that were not theirs let the tracing begin everyone of them asking for a DNA test should be tested to see if they are their fathers sons.

You can see all the trash women that are in Nigeria.

Lightorder:
i have been shouting it sir. If I have a wife who doesn’t give me trouble, how would I go to confirm the DNA of a child who has been calling me daddy. I no fit get that mind disown a child I have been bonding with since her birth

I am all the way with you on that one. I raise it, it is my own. And fortunately there are traditional laws in Nigeria that give me custody right over the child. So anyone wey won drag custody for Nigeria dey waste im time.

Kobojunkie:
It is meant to keep folks from possibly kidnapping the wards of others and fleeing the country with them.

Then the DNA Test is really a very necessary something.
Because, even if you knew that the baby is not biologically yours,, how would you pass the stringent DNA measures that are out in place at the embassies?

The hypocrisy and wickedness of women is beyond my understanding.

Kobojunkie:
Where is this tradition defined?

You dare ask me this? Are you Nigerian? Go ask tell your family that your children are not yours but bastards from another father and see how they take it.

BluntCrazeMan:
Then the DNA Test is really a very necessary something.
Because, even if you knew that the baby is not biologically yours,, how would you pass the stringent DNA measures that are out in place at the embassies?

If you intention is to travel with the child, DNA test is a requirement set by the embassy in question, yes.

SirMichael1:
You dare ask me this? Are you Nigerian? Go ask tell your family that your children are not yours but bastards from another father and see how they take it.

Why would I want to tell my parents that particularly when they know of my intentions to adopt?

No mind that gender.
They think the world is made for them

who is this nitwits'?

LilMissFavvy:
Mr. Salami is right. This is exactly what I said in another thread. As long as a child bears your name and see's you as a father, you can forgive your wife and continue, especially if she has appologised and willing to turn a new leaf. It's needless scattering your home and breaking the innocent child's heart. After all in most families of today, it is husband and wife who cater for the children, so don't say you are training another man's child, you train the child with your wife, not alone.

Let me watch as the "men are polygamous in nature" crew will attack me . They can't seem to accept what they dish out. Some have fathered kids outside their marriages.

Jergons, you want a man to forgive you for having another man child under his roof while he caters for him.

You are insane

CSTRR:
Yoruba man na.
What do you expect?

They don't expect all their children to be biologically theirs.

Go to their parties and see Wives and husbands whoring themselves.

You are very stupid for your comment. Big fool.

Kobojunkie:
Why would I want to tell my parents that particularly when they know of my intentions to adopt?

So why get married? Why don't you just adopt?

SirMichael1:
So why get married? Why don't you just adopt?

What is wrong with marrying and adopting at the same time? After all marriage is primarily for companionship ... children secondary.

Kobojunkie:
There are laws in Nigeria that basically give custody to the man who raised the child, in marriage,
over its biological father.

They are very naive and sentimental.
In my place, constitutionally, any child born inside marriage belongs to the husband. Period.
You see, constitution recognised as of old that someone can't father a child, some will ask their riend or family member then to do the do for them, these days, they will tell the wife to go and where as long as they don't know.

That's why, you know as a man that Mr so so and so son is yours but you have no legal claim over that child even if you later marry and is childless.

Also, a child that is born out of wedlock in which the father refused to acknowledge by paying pride price, after that child is born, you are on your own.
The constitution backs that child as belonging to the woman's family.

Some will tell you federal law supercedes these customary laws but without them there is no federal laws. Nigeria recognises each epoples traditional laws and what work for some may not work for others.

Also, especially in igboland, women go outside to get pregnant to save face first and the husband battles whatever problem he is having if it is curable cos of pressure and the fact that she don't want to expose her husband and sometimes it's the husband who suggest this. Most of these children will come online to rant anyhow.
They should grow up first and face real life.

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with marrying and adopting at the same time? After all marriage is primarily for companionship ... children secondary.

Adoption is never easy in Nigeria.
Most adoption houses are using stolen children.

descarado:

They are very naive and sentimental.
In my place, constitutionally, any child born inside marriage belongs to the husband. Period.
You see, constitution recognised as of old that someone can't father a child, some will ask their riend or family member then to do the do for them, these days, they will tell the wife to go and where as long as they don't know.

That's why, you know as a man that Mr so so and so son is yours but you have no legal claim over that child even if you later marry and is childless.

Also, a child that is born out of wedlock in which the father refused to acknowledge by paying pride price, after that child is born, you are on your own.
The constitution backs that child as belonging to the woman's family.

Some will tell you federal law supercedes these customary laws but without them there is no federal laws. Nigeria recognises each epoples traditional laws and what work for some may not work for others.

Also, especially in igboland, women go outside to get pregnant to save face first and the husband battles whatever problem he is having if it is curable cos of pressure and the fact that she don't want to expose her husband and sometimes it's the husband who suggest this.
Most of these children will come online to rant anyhow.They should grow up first and face real life.

Abeg tell them the truth of their own land!

Gotze1:
You are very stupid for your comment. Big fool.

Truth is painful.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

Shebi if they defraud you you will sit there and be speaking English?

Na simps una go use catch cruise.

I work three jobs and have a side hustle to ensure I provide for my family.

So I should be doing these for another man's kids.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family large.

please will there be an emotional breakdown of the kids at the age of 10-16 the child knows that the man is not his/her father

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

The woman didn't think of the emotional trauma she will cause her family before playing away match? Omor, DNA text, way to go.

TundeEdnut35:
you are so daft, dumb and foolish your women commits more infidelity, fornication and adultery than any women from other tribes yoruba men are fucking and bleeping the disgusting and obnoxious pussy of your women useless bigot Tueh

If the only people fucking your yoruba women are Yoruba men only, then there is a problem with your women.

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

Rotimi Salami is not only good looking but also has a Fantastic thinking faculty. Kudos.
P.S. I don't support or encourage infidelity!

We die here. Nigerian doctor ‘threatened’ for advertising launch of discounted DNA Paternity test facility in Lagos.

Kobojunkie:
There are laws in Nigeria that basically give custody to the man who raised the child, in marriage,
over its biological father.

Yes, the love that exists between father and child begins at birth and not inside the womb because he is the one the child sees and knows. A child develops love for the parents through their care, love and affection!