oga, shut up there osiso; if u know don't have anything to say.

Lightorder:
i have been shouting it sir. If I have a wife who doesn’t give me trouble, how would I go to confirm the DNA of a child who has been calling me daddy. I no fit get that mind disown a child I have been bonding with since her birth

BEAUTIFUL!

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with marrying and adopting at the same time? After all marriage is primarily for companionship ... children secondary.

Great Post. I repeat- Marriage is primarily for companionship and children that come through it, is Secondary!

AmazonTopaz:
Lol abeg leave them to be making noise online how many of dem fit even afford to pay for DNA test.


Why is this intelligent man telling them the obvious please let them find out their truths if e go well for them congratulations the ones wey e nor go well for let them not be suicidal.Also they should also be subjected to DNA test too some of them are not from their fathers loins since everything wan scatter let it just scatter finish.

Even in the olden days men fathered children that were not theirs let the tracing begin everyone of them asking for a DNA test should be tested to see if they are their fathers sons.

You said nothing but the truth. Like i pointed out before, promiscuity is universal but the way guys scream dna up and down like kilode ehh! It's funny and ignorance

Magnoliaa:


Awwwnnn. Stopeet. You're going to make me start crying now.

But thank you. I hope the nl boys quoting you upandan with dumb opinions are not a part of the reasons you're feeling disoriented oh. Hope they aren't getting to you, 'cause they aren't worth it at all at all.

The other day someone said they were bringing the DNA lab to lekki at an affordable price, do you know a humanbeing like you and i said 90% of kids in nigeria are not their parent's. Since then, i gave up on some people here. A whole 90%? Its madness to go with such outrageous stats. Some people are not just worth coming to social media. Ignorance is alarming

Lightorder:
if no man drags the baby with me and I go for the test, it then means I bought my trauma with my money sir

That’s why you have to do it at the start, what trauma will that cost? That your wife cheated on you or she gave you a bastard?

MummyD2020:


The other day someone said they were bringing the DNA lab to lekki at an affordable price, do you know a humanbeing like you and i said 90% of kids in nigeria are not their parent's. Since then, i gave up on some people here. A whole 90%? Its madness to go with such outrageous stats. Some people are not just worth coming to social media. Ignorance is alarming

People can be wrong and we can make mistakes everytime but we all know Nigeria is the country with the second highest paternity fraud. Out of all the countries in the world, we are second. It shall never be well with some people. Wickedness at peak

Lightorder:
then the trauma comes after the WAR

Oh so you’ll eventually get the trauma? So what’s now the essence of waiting till the evil day?
Why do you want to devoid those children from their true fathers? You want them to live a lie? And do you know no matter how long a lie last, truth will eventually meet up.

Lightorder:
I don’t mind sir. Spit on me also . I will give you like for lambasting me. Children is my weak point

How many have you adopted? Why are other children your weak point? Are you impotent?

Hope you have up to 10 almajiris in your house, at least those one you know they are not Bastards, hope you have sha?

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

So the man no get emotions . STUPID

FutureIsFemale:
Why MUST find out? Unless someone drags the child with you. Have you concerned the trauma the child would be subjected to?

Let's always make use of our brains please.

Time without number I have seen adopted children being breadwinners of the family.

We don't give a Bleep .We don't care.DNA IS HERE TO STAY

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with marrying and adopting at the same time? After all marriage is primarily for companionship ... children secondary.

Lol. Guy, get the hell out of my mention. You're talking nonsense.

Where's the companion in a cheating and whoring wife? Be careful with how you text. I mean you should use you brain more.

Lightorder:
I don’t mind sir. Spit on me also . I will give you like for lambasting me. Children is my weak point

You are so quick to degrade yourself, we know your type.

Kobojunkie:
Save money and worry.

Also, Some Nigerian traditional laws also have provisions to protect against an outsider comibg in to drag a child with you, the one who raised your child.

In other words....some traditional laws encourages adultery wife then protect men's investment on the bastard hence you can train bastards and still have the locus standing to fight the biological father........

That is an abomination in my tribe.

Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with marrying and adopting at the same time? After all marriage is primarily for companionship ... children secondary.

Exactly!
Why not tell your husband about the bastard then since marriage is primarily for companionship?
Why are you hiding from telling your husband you brought home a bastard? What’s the reason?

Hin dey sweet you talk for here, hin suppose sweet you talk for your husband too na?

FutureIsFemale:
Oh! What a relief. Finally a man who uses his brain has been unveiled.

NB: I don't support infidelity.

My concern is the emotional breakdown of the kids and the family at large.

feminist

kazyhm:
In other words....some traditional laws encourages adultery wife then protect men's investment on the bastard hence you can train bastards and still have the locus standing to fight the biological father........

That is an abomination in my tribe.

What tribe is that?

I

maynia:


You are so quick to degrade yourself, we know your type.

thank you very much sir. You know me very well

maynia:


How many have you adopted? Why are other children your weak point? Are you impotent?

Hope you have up to 10 almajiris in your house, at least those one you know they are not Bastards, hope you have sha?

We have four already. They are very lovely

maynia:


Oh so you’ll eventually get the trauma? So what’s now the essence of waiting till the evil day?
Why do you want to devoid those children from their true fathers? You want them to live a lie? And do you know no matter how long a lie last, truth will eventually meet up.

my choice sir

Lightorder:
my choice sir

Know the truth and it will set you free.. or it doesn’t apply here?

Only watery sperm men think like dis. Pls don't mind simp quote author=TarOrfeeek post=106296348]Men that think this way are beneficiaries of women's promiscuity.

They tend to have lots of pity for women. Why? Because from their own experience women are cheerful givers who disregard all forms of control or inhibitory values when sex is on the table.

There are however other Men, those who have been shamed, denied sex and friendship due to flimsy qualifications that women themselves demand.

My question is this - If women can brutally screen who gets to fcck them.

Why can't men screen who gets to enjoy their wealth? Are women saying that men are undeserving of quality offsprings?





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maynia:


That’s why you have to do it at the start, what trauma will that cost? That your wife cheated on you or she gave you a bastard?

just move on. I won’t change, just don’t waste your time

Lightorder:
just move on. I won’t change, just don’t waste your time

Everyone deserves to know the truth, why are so satisfy in living a LIE?

Kobojunkie:
What tribe is that?

I don't understand what you're thinking but....


In implication is that; the traditional laws you're making reference to confirm the narrative we are trying to correct about women......such law if it does exist implies that
1) women cannot be trusted
2) women cannot be hold accountable
3) women are not responsible
4) women might or does not honor marriage vows
Therefore men should be protected against men and the women should not be taken serious, hence women won't fight against such biased traditional law as it seem to make women appears stupid.

kazyhm:
I don't understand what you're thinking but....
In implication is that; the traditional laws you're making reference to confirm the narrative we are trying to correct about women......such law if it those exist implies that
1) women cannot be trusted
2) women cannot be hold accountable
3) women are not responsible
4) women might or does not honor marriage vows
Therefore men should be protected against men and the women should not be taken serious, hence women won't fight against such biased traditional law as it seem to make women appears stupid.

I asked what tribe so I can specifically search and show you the related traditional law.

As for the implications of said law, you will need to consult your traditional leaders to gain more understanding, I hope.

Kobojunkie:
U asked what tribe so I can specifically search and show you the related traditional law.

Just tell the tribe with such ridiculous traditional laws, I can tell my generation unborn to stay clear

kazyhm:
Just tell the tribe with such ridiculous traditional laws, I can tell my generation unborn to stay clear

At least the major tribes have such laws.

Kobojunkie:
At least the major tribes have such laws.

I know people from the east......I understand Tonto Dike situation very well...and we're all witnessing her irresponsibility.

maynia:


Everyone deserves to know the truth, why are so satisfy in living a LIE?

I am just saying for myself

Lightorder:
I am just saying for myself

But no matter what the truth will always come out!

Any woman that supports or is perpetuating paternity fraud should be arrested , locked up and the keys thrown away .
Useless generation . And for that actor , May your genealogy be tainted with bastards and you will never see a faithful woman to call your own in your whole entire existence .