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ProphetJeroboam:
I’ll check out that movie.

ProphetJeroboam:
If you observe the way he handled the whole Grace matter, personally I was impressed. He seduced the sh!t out of her and she lost concentration. I’ll check out Vikings too.

Raalsalghul:
True, experience is not necessarily the best teacher. I prefer learning from observation, inference and feedback.

MJBOLT:

observation is the best for me,you learn from the experience of others but sometimes personal experience can be vital.

Kevincal144444:
I actually thank God for the experience because it helped me to become who I am today.

On a serious note, I would recommend that every guy should go through this experience because it's the best teacher.

Karlifate:
Not everyone learns from personal experience, some learn very well from observation & hindsight.

DieRich5:
If woman is one of ur problems Dem ur simping

SOZINN:
No lies. But you know men are problem solvers and when there is nothing to do. That urge inside of us makes us to create a problem.

The condition of the society is so deplorable that bullshît lines like "suffering maketh a man" are actually wise quotes that young men subscribe to.

SOZINN:
Do you know that there are some men who have been through similar or worse situation and were lucky to escape with their lives and sanity. But they still believe in love and they are one manipulative bîtch away from simping twice as hard.
Some things just tire me.

Kevincal144444:
Some things are actually not ordinary. Some people feel that they are in charge of their lives buy trust me, they are not.

Some people also are naturally mugu. Their case is different. They were born to be mumu and mumu they shall be till they die.

MJBOLT:

observation is the best for me,you learn from the experience of others but sometimes personal experience can be vital.

Lightway:
You can never how it feels unless you feel it

Experience is the best teacher

MJBOLT:

I don't need to feel anything, my observation skills have prevented me from getting 'burnt' badly.

Martinez39s:
DonaldKiñg10's story (I copied and pasted his post from QuiñModah's thread. He has deleted his post):

Make una help me reason this matter.
I'm actually typing this with a deep heart.
Back then in skul, i met this 100 level virgin girl i loved so much, & who also loved me in return.
the relationship lasted 6 years, & i literally did everything for this chick. Got her a new phone, paid lodge-rent for 3 years, her feeding, hairs, nails & everything was on me. I literally converted this babe from a local-chick, to a slay-queen.I didn't allow her stress herself or do anything, at a point we even started living together as couples.
the babe too was nice to me & helped me out in other aspects like cooking, cleaning & washing.

Fast-forward 5 years later after graduation as she was about going for service in ogun-state, she cried & told me how she couldn't imagine staying for a month without seeing me, that's she's gotten so used to me & addicted to my díck, that she can't imagine staying for a week without fųcking me. to the point she even pressurised me into engaging her, & out of the love i had for her i did that.

Problem started 3 months into service, she started acting strange, picking my calls now became a problem for her, she started complaining how she's too busy with work & how my calls disturb her most times, & she even refused to re-deploy to my state like we initially agreed on. Before then i usually sent her money to come see me every weekend, but suddenly coming to see me now became a problem. most times she stayed for more than 2 months before reluctantly coming to see me.

Immediately i started suspecting another guy don de shine her congo. I pressurised her into telling me the truth, but she kept insisting there was no one else apart from me. Fortunately, I had some contacts over there in Ogun-state, so i immediately sent them to run investigations for me, & i later got to find-out she was even living with the boy. I swear, you people can't imagine the kinda pain I felt. At a point i was even contemplating suicide because i sacrificed a lot for that babe. I was a medical student, but because of that babe i had to lie to my parents & delay my clinicals for 1 year, just so we could spend our graduation year together.

I was so pained, I spent weeks crying & begging her to come back to me, but to no avail. All she did was just come over, told me that was the last time i would ever be seeing her in life, returned my engagement-ring, & asked me to move-on with life. Omoh i was so pained at how easy it was for her to open her mouth & say all those despite the number of years we spent together plus despite all we shared. I cried & begged to no avail. She only fvcked me for the last time, & the next morning she entered bus back to ogun-state.

Most times when I call, she would give the new guy the phone to pick, & they would be kissing & laughing at me at the background. That was when the love in me turned to hatred, & I swore to deal with her.
this was the same babe that promised me she would rather die than leave me. Same babe that cheated on me, & when I caught her, she almost killed herself because she didn't want me to break-up with her. Well, I had some of her nude-pictures on my phone, so I used a different number to send them to her parents & her church group-chat. NOTE: She is a Reedem Pastors Daughter.

She was so ashamed & devastated, she cried for weeks. Her parents almost disowned her. They had to cut her service short, asked her to return back home, & the relationship with the guy was ended after I also let them know she was living with a guy. I ended-up achieving my aim of ending the relationship with the guy & I felt so satisfied, & I never regretted my actions till today.

What even annoyed me further was weeks later when she called & told me she had no future with the guy because they were both A.S. That she was just using him to fill the space I wasn't around always to occupy when she needed me. But my question now is, Was my actions towards her right??

RavagedHeart:
I wish there's a way we can save a lot of men from this kind of agony. Turning a local girl to a classy chick never ends well. She will betray and insult you till you run mad.

This just reminded me of my experience. I just wished I turned red enough to punish that girl when I had the chance.

it saddens me to know that most naive men will keep making this same mistake. And a lot never gets to recover afterwards. I'm still battling with mine.

SOZINN:
You seriously believe @bolded.

SOZINN:
Classic reply from a chick who knows what this game is all about. Your finances are your concern and that "love" is all in your head.
#spinplates
#beredpilled

Martinez39s:
Men are the ideal lovers. Women love opportunistically. Men change their treatment and view of women when certain red pill truths dawn on them.

dhiqson:
I was liking all you wrote because your story is similar to mine most especially that churchy girl blah blah
But as I clicked on your profile so as to follow you
You only followed girls






Am I missing something fam?

dhiqson:
I was liking all you wrote because your story is similar to mine most especially that churchy girl blah blah
But as I clicked on your profile so as to follow you
You only followed girls






Am I missing something fam?

RavagedHeart:
Yes. But this is bad for kind hearted men. They spend all their lives loving their way to permanent damage.
We only learn after we become tremendously damaged and weakened, and recovery ratio is way below 30%.

I wish there's a way the redpill could get to every male child as early as 7yrs until he's 30. It will help save more men from grief and create a generation of better men.

Carchoice:
I am silent reader too. I was and still guilty of what the posters on the thread are preaching against. My conscience don’t let me comment.

I will talk about sexual desire and self control


The sex I had last year and some parts of this year could hold me for the next 10 years no cap. I’m always ashamed to say it. There was a day I had sex with 4 different ladies. One at 5am because She slept over and left in the morning. Another lady came at around 3pm and stayed till 7pm thereabout. I saw her off to the estate gate and saw two ladies going to a nearby hotel. I signaled one and collected her contact. Got home and got bored all of a sudden. I called her to come to my place, She told me her condition and we had an agreement. Few minutes later She called back that She can’t leave her cousin alone . She asked to bring her along. We had a new bargain. Both ladies came and I had sex with them. Sorry I had to post all this but just to give insight on where I am coming from. This is one of the many sexcapades I have had. And more of it happened this year.


I started asking myself questions as to how I get the energy to partake in all these endless and fruitless sex parties. I called it endless because you will never get permanent satisfaction from it. Few days later the urge comes back, what to do and to what end? You get trapped in a loop trying to satisfy what you didn’t create nor understand;.


I started doing research and reading online. What I saw made me realized I had been wasting something very vital to human and especially Man(male) because man is a creator(created in God’s image).

Sexual energy when rightly used is what makes a man to thrive, create and aim for success, it can make you godly too. This energy is like a fuel you put in a car to take you to a preferred destination. Where the wastage occurs is when you lack the knowledge to rightly use it or when the means to exercise this energy is readily and cheaply available(sex and masturbation). This then turn into a habit because that is what you can see as the only means to suppress this energy force which you don’t understand.

I have a friend I met through my brother. This young man is well to do. Different kinds of women visits him almost every day and night. But you know the surprising thing? He hardly have sex with them. Sometimes months you see him with different ladies but no sex. He tried explaining something to me but I couldn’t comprehend it because of my love for pvssy.

Fast forward this year during my research was when I got to understood what this young man was really doing. He was like me too. He liked sex so much but he found a way to hold on to the energy and put it to use.


Here’s what he did; He found out frequent ejaculation is a problem, he knew he had gotten used to having sex always, he couldn’t just do away with women completely but continued inviting them over just to be around him. I’m going to explain something I think many people here will not understand. Do you know that you can feel sexually fullfilled just by having a lady around you? On your bed, a lady you can just gist with, play with, even at the sight of seeing her buubs, you get satisfied without having actual sex. Some men even go as far as pre-intimacy, suck buubs and they are okay. He doesn’t go far more than the above mention because he had already conditioned his mind that, that 2 to 5min pleasure of sex is a disaster to his success and spiritual journey.


if you are very much into meeting with hook up ladies, they will tell you stories of high caliber men they met and spent some time with and they gave lots of cash but didn’t have sex with them. You and I will think they are impotent or ritualist.


Few days ago, I was relaxing and I sensed the energy was coming, it comes in form of energy waves, at first an overwhelming feeling but not specified. Reason why i said not specified is, this feeling is an energy, it is not just a sexual energy, your feedback to this energy is what it holds on to. It’s like the universe knocking on your door telling you it’s time to create something. What is it you are going to create? You have no idea. There are two major creations that takes place, the creation of life, which is having sex, getting a lady pregnant and giving birth thereby adding to the life circle. The second creation is the creating of the environment for the life you created to thrive. Your life was created this way too.



Back to the energy waves, This makes most people get irrational and irritated because they don’t understand what is happening to them. The females get this too. For a man, the moment you see an erotic photo of a lady or you unfortunately let your mind wander to how Sandra rode your dlck the last time. The energy automatically hold onto that thought and expresses it sexually. We have a choice to make at this stage but we mostly end up with no choice than to call Sandra or a new catch to express this energy in the form of sex or masturbation.


And immediately you finish having this sex or masturbation, there comes a feeling of “fulfillment”, whereas feeling of fulfillment is supposed to come when you achieve a success feat. Success doesn’t have to be becoming a millionaire, any work you successfully completes is success. But instead you get fulfilled just from releasing semen. Most times the zeal to do other things dies immediately.

If you feel guilty after sex or masturbation, your subconscious mind is actually talking to you but you have no idea how to communicate with it and understand what it’s saying. Religious people calls this sin.


I have come to realize that Bible and Quran teachings on fornication and abstinence is nature’s law and not some religious jargons.


I’m not telling anyone to stop having sex, I’m just telling my observations as to why do I keep having sex, unfulfilled and endless sex, trying to understand what this sexual urge really is.


Being a redpiller is deeper than anyone thinks. Women are never the problem and will never be. I have started to see women as women and not the problem but as an agent that depletes my energy, but this only happens when you allow it, because you are unknowingly using your energy against your desire to create feats for sexual pleasure.

I have also started looking to make friends with women that are on no sex friendship, ladies that you can’t discuss sexual topics with and they will also know you are a hard nut to crack. A woman will only manipulate you and turn you into a simp when She notices you express your energy on sexual related stuffs. She can notice this just from mere interaction. A simple YES or NO to some of their questions can give you away.


About paying for sex, I’m guilty as charge I can be sentenced to life imprisonment. No CAP. A man that has made up his mind to pay for sex is vulnerable to manipulation. He is Vulnerable to all the women he finds attractive and wanting to lay. Paying for sex is bowing to the pressure of your sexual desire. You are already manipulated.


As a redpiller, if you don’t remove sex from the equation and learn to make platonic friends with women, you are not a redpiller and you will never fully understand what it means to be a redpiller. And even if you maintain a platonic relationship with a lady and one day you see a crack or a vulnerability in the friendship and sex is readily available, can you reject it and be the one to end the relationship by telling her she’s trying to take advantage of you just as the way women do men?



Sorry for the long post. Na everyday I Dey learn from the thread, I just thought I should contribute today.

Carchoice:
It all starts from when the kids are more attached to their mother more than their father. The male child grows up and unconsciously trying to find that same emotional attachment in every female they meet. This is majorly one of the many ways a Simpson is birthed.

Rillycool:
https://www.nairaland.com/6781162/fiancee-betrayed-me-what


We must raise our sons not be like this man.

Senior uncle..