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budaatum:
Yes there is!

Not in some countries.

Mr. Man go outside and Bleep

deltateam:
I can see you use sex as a bargaining tool. You think you do him a favour by allowing him to do?

It is simps you can get who are easily manipulated. Try nonsense with people like me and you go back to your mother to pick up your sense.

You must be from a very poor background , I can smell poverty from your write up

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

that woman is passing thru a lot in your hands. So sex is your own method of rendering apology? Kill your pride or you will live alone someday

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

Just apologize and let the sleeping dog lie. Marriage is all about FORGiVING especially when you are right. You don't proof any point to your partner e g "I ll show him/her that I am the head of house/the home belongs to me"

Oga,I think your Ego don reach your Head....Just apologize...

You can't wrong someone and be acting Denying me Sex story

budaatum:
Yes there is!

All these na English & dictionary, please state a reference from Nigeria criminal or penal code that criminalize or penalize rape within the context of a marriage.

Even the Holy Book in 1 Cor. 7:5 warns against couple abstinence for all reasons except briefly for religious reason…..the Bible even went on to say that… “..so that Satan will not temp you..”

So, any lady or guy denying their partner conjugal rights due to misunderstanding, are self destroying their marriage.

See as am reading this thing and smiling sheepishly

Tabernacle and paradise werey op

You've spoken well!

I wonder why a man would think that a woman will willingly open her legs for him when she's unhappy with him. If you've wronged her, and you know it, make peace.

I don't think women gets sexually excited when they're upset with their man. Treat her right and you will enjoy her!

WoundedLamb:
OP, if you're fighting with someone to the point that you guys aren't talking, it's only logical that the person wouldn't want to make love to you. I mean, how exactly do you expect the person to just open her legs for you, look the other way while you have fun? She is not a prostitute, making love to her involves body contact and also emotions, and I don't see how someone who's pissed at you can possibly enjoy it. I think it's only logical to discuss the issue before doing it if it's that serious.

I know we normally use the expression "she's denying me sex" but that doesn't apply here. If you guys are in good terms and she wouldn't let you touch her, then she's denying you sex. But if you're fighting, you're simply fighting. That means you're not talking or doing other things you used to do together. Don't isolate sex and make a deal of it as if she was meant to keep doing that even when you guys aren't talking. If you're fighting with your spouse and she's not talking to you but the thing that matters to you is that she's not opening her legs, then there's a bigger issue in the marriage.

I know you're likely to be the breadwinner of the family but you're not commercializing affection. I am just saying you should address the main issue first and everything will follow. Just an opinion. Best of luck!

What do u people take sex to be?
I'm not understanding that somebody can use sex to punish me.
But boss try so that u guys can settle with each other. Not for sex but to keep ur family going. The devil can easily strike when there is no peace in the family

Cringe
Are you giving advice or asking for advice?

Some woman sha..na children they marry theses days..oga sex is cheap..relax..u cant change a man's attitude by denying him sex.infact u are doing yourself.
In this generation give a side chick 10k u can have her for 1 week.sex is nothing and overrated.dont border urself live ur life.i nor they put hand for waiting go give me stress o..life is too short my blother.then another mentality related to men..if na your wife offend u .u will deprive yourself of food..wait o I go give my wife money go market she go cook vegetable with Bush meat I go say I nor go eat cuz u make me vex..my brother for me nor to eat if she cook finish na she nor go eat..I cant kill myself..reflex behaviour dont change attitude ...call ur wife sit her down engage her in a long talk..stop shouting i am the man of the house..man kill you there..the prob I see in most marriages na lack of communication and understanding..talk..talk..talk..discuss...ur aspirations matters two..both of u are from different background..last last if she continues like this..within 8 months disease go come still meet her for house .she is punishing herself not you..coming from a married man..and I am not a flet or cheat.everything they go well cuz I like to engage my wife in talk.oga listen to your wife..we too get ego

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

You too, stop asking....... Get your kicks outside, she would be the one, that would come begging........

You can only weaponize something, that means something to another.........

chatinent:
Baba, lol, forcefully doing it will bring more harm than good. Remember, rape does not become irrelevant in marriage! If it is not consensual, it is rape! You will be jailed and treated a rapist! Peace always wins. What's the use of having sth by force you no go enjoy las las? No bi juju?


In this eleventh hour, a simple “babe..baby..you are still angry? Stop snubbing me naw. Ok ok, about what happened the other time..yeah, I must say I was very angry and overreacted..but you know you really also made me angry sha.” (Try teasing...lol, of course, she will leave-me-alone you. Don't give up, throw some bubbles of Shakespeare's sonnets..don't just make it 14). “Babe..we are bigger than this naw. Okay, to show I value our peace than being right, I take the responsibility, I am sorry.” (Tease again...and tease...until the leave-me-alone becomes as weak as Nigerian’s economy...and it surely will). Every normal wife will welcome peace especially if the husband kills the pride and apologize. The problem is that many men would rather die than apologize!

Let's embrace peace.

Pride doesn't do it!

Stop waiting for the first person to come and make it up. What if the other person too have vowed not to? Take the initiative! It doesn't make you a loser! It makes you mature! No bi because of uncle conji you go remember rites. She has her rites too!

You are welcome.

Finally, a NL man who uses his brain for good and is ready to call out evil for what it is.

You must be (single and) a player to do this.

Fahdiga:
Baba imagine watching your wife UnCloth and sleeping beside you yet your hand no go touch the cookie jar

i guess you ain’t married. See boss if you marry you supposed to be tired of sex and think of other things. Na me dey deny my wife sex cos she is popular and anywhere she goes people go see am. But all the same it’s good a man apologize with gifts rather than saying it out. We got pride.

Sorry goes a long way in any relationship,simply go nd learn how to

chatinent:
To eat delicious poison don dey hungry you?

Lol... Chai!

Iyaebe:
When and if I get married and my husband hurts me,I will deny him sex till he finds a way to make me happy again. Why should any reasonable man get erection when his wife is hurt?So don't go close to your wife for sex if she's hurt,solve the problems first before coming for 360degrees and snake in the monkey shadow styles lol

If i offended u, bring it up. Lets resolve the issue. Dont use sèx as a weapon. It's not nice

osazsky:
Some woman sha..na children they marry theses days..oga sex is cheap..relax..u cant change a man's attitude by denying him sex.infact u are doing yourself.
In this generation give a side chick 10k u can have her for 1 week.sex is nothing and overrated.dont border urself live ur life.i nor they put hand for waiting go give me stress o..life is too short my blother.then another mentality related to men..if na your wife offend u .u will deprive yourself of food..wait o I go give my wife money go market she go cook vegetable with Bush meat I go say I nor go eat cuz u make me vex..my brother for me nor to eat if she cook finish na she nor go eat..I cant kill myself..reflex behaviour dont change attitude ...call ur wife sit her down engage her in a long talk..stop shouting i am the man of the house..man kill you there..the prob I see in most marriages na lack of communication and understanding..talk..talk..talk..discuss...ur aspirations matters two..both of u are from different background..last last if she continues like this..within 8 months disease go come still meet her for house .she is punishing herself not you..coming from a married man..and I am not a flet or cheat.everything they go well cuz I like to engage my wife in talk.oga listen to your wife..we too get ego

I dey tell people if u are not of matured mind dont marry o..one person may end up dead at night..una nor go listen

greenie77:
It is not about American laws but human emotions that is universal. If you forcefully have sex with your wife against her will to prove that you are the boss, what do you expect to be her perception of you after the act?

If she goes too far with revenge by adding a little something to your water or food with the aim of gradually depreciating your health, who do we blame?

We have read several stories from a part of Nigeria, of females who got arrested after stabbing their husbands to death because of forceful sexual encounters, feel free to Google

A women who feels sexually violated have no issues with handling a knife with intent to revenge.

If a woman feels raped, you can't convince her otherwise.

You still have time to explain to people who deliberately violate human rights because they feel it's not in the law?

The same way they are 40 and look for relationships with 16 year old girls, because according to Nigerian law they can.

Many people are bereft of sense and ethics.

Women that use sèx as a weapon are capable of killing.

Iyaebe:
When and if I get married and my husband hurts me,I will deny him sex till he finds a way to make me happy again. Why should any reasonable man get erection when his wife is hurt?So don't go close to your wife for sex if she's hurt,solve the problems first before coming for 360degrees and snake in the monkey shadow styles lol

clap for urself...wat is sex..sex is over rated..I work in a university girls go open puna for you cuz of 2k..nor go there..its a wrong mentality.na u go still go dey treat yourself last last...communicate with your spouse

Go out and fuvvvkk a hoeee she will be humble for life

Paulajeigbe:
I know this may rock the table at various point with various reasons. Yet, I want to ask the women and the wife's, who may be in this at this time or who have done this before as a get back response to pepper their man just for offending them. Did this solve the matter? And then I am asking, please what lesson or point do you want your man to get or gain, when he offends you and he is asking to be intimate with you and you are carrying the gateway to his kingdom away?

Has this pepper him approach solved any thing? I don't think so.

I wish we know that sex in marriage is a powerful tool. And so to use it againt your husband is like using a weapon against yourself. It does not end well. It will affect your whole family. Because once your man is no longer focused at work,all he now sees are ladies in the mini's and the bikini's and the spaghettis and noodles, things he has been seeing but because he has a woman who is giving it to him well and with joy, na wahala dey knock o.

So what should you do woman?
Your bobo offended you, and one way or the other he hasn't apologize yet. He is forming and shurning and not even paying attention to you. So it looks as if the both of you are doing Tom and Jerry in your home.

Then 10pm he is coming close to you bringing his key. He want to enter Into the tabernacle and just be lost there. Abeg wife, woman, this is not the time to turn , then you look at him , and then you now hissed and cover yourself with the duvet. Noooo!!!
He has only come to resolve matters. Lol! Welcome him, calm him down and then take him to paradise gradually and steadily. Don't raise the matter of what he has done yet. While he is still worshipping and doing all of the different worship styles let him. When you have taken him there and then back, this is the time to open up your heart. Tell him his offense and how hurt you have been. Pour out everything.

I know some men are insensitive. Immediately they have stood up from the place of worship, and then dash out leaving the woman just their. Yet, for a majority this is the time they just want to listen and truly listen. When a man truly know what it means for him to have been taken to the tabernacle of worship and back by his wife whom he has offended, he will apologize. For someone like me, I won't only apologize alone, I ma take her shopping, I will make feel like the woman she is. I will kindly that light again. Sabi it was the tabernacle you she took you to, Kai !!! Wait until she takes you to paradise all because you triggered the girls and the beautiful woman in her.

We men have lost our wives because we weren't sensitive. And by the time we are realizing the damage has gone too deep and things done spoil far.

So in summary, and in conclusion, denying your husband sex because of offense isn't the way. There are better ways and approaches that brings the result you desire.

Kindly leave you comments I would be reading and replying. Peace.

It's normal. Enjoy it while it lasts as you make a good effort to reconcile with her. No go 'drill' some other lady outside o. Manage the matter as a matured man. All the best.

ba2remagaji:
Brother control your self and wait for your turn she will come begging when she is tired and in need then u go show your self,e be like say u sef too like that thing.

a


Abi o.

WoundedLamb:
OP, if you're fighting with someone to the point that you guys aren't talking, it's only logical that the person wouldn't want to make love to you. I mean, how exactly do you expect the person to just open her legs for you, look the other way while you have fun? She is not a prostitute, making love to her involves body contact and also emotions, and I don't see how someone who's pissed at you can possibly enjoy it. I think it's only logical to discuss the issue before doing it if it's that serious.

I know we normally use the expression "she's denying me sex" but that doesn't apply here. If you guys are in good terms and she wouldn't let you touch her, then she's denying you sex. But if you're fighting, you're simply fighting. That means you're not talking or doing other things you used to do together. Don't isolate sex and make a deal of it as if she was meant to keep doing that even when you guys aren't talking. If you're fighting with your spouse and she's not talking to you but the thing that matters to you is that she's not opening her legs, then there's a bigger issue in the marriage.

I know you're likely to be the breadwinner of the family but you're not commercializing affection. I am just saying you should address the main issue first and everything will follow. Just an opinion. Best of luck!

So according to you, because your wife is pissed she shouldn't cook for you. You people will just be talking from your small sense. A woman must perform her duties irrespective, if not, she should be vacationing at her father's house. When her senses are back she may resume or not.

dettolgel:
I will never use sex as a tool against my partner but if my partner tried it "she go regret am ooh".

At the beginning my partner wan try that kind parole with me. I just begin knack one smallie like that wey don dey eye me since. After two months my woman come ask me say since she said no I never ask her for sex again or beg her whether me dey Bleep for outside?

I can niether confirm nor deny me come give her this proverb "if your pikin come meet you say mama give me food hungry dey worry me. Food dey house ooh but you come deny your pikin food. Wetin u think say go happen if your pikin carry empty belll go neighbour house and neighbour come offer the pikin food?

As I talk finish I just wear my clothe go gist for my guy house.

When I come back that night na she come serve me the kpekus. The next morning I just tell smallie say sorry I don turn a new man.

But we still dey yarn time to time and I dey sort out some of her money matter but no knacking.

Through out the tryst with the smallie I wear sheen guard before this small girls go spoil my blood.

See ya life outside. Little self control una no dey get. Go dey drill dirty ladies up and down. Na who tell you say your 'rubber' dey 100% safe? Next time no try that...u hear?

greenie77:
It is not about American laws but human emotions that is universal. If you forcefully have sex with your wife against her will to prove that you are the boss, what do you expect to be her perception of you after the act?

If she goes too far with revenge by adding a little something to your water or food with the aim of gradually depreciating your health, who do we blame?

We have read several stories from a part of Nigeria, of females who got arrested after stabbing their husbands to death because of forceful sexual encounters, feel free to Google

A women who feels sexually violated have no issues with handling a knife with intent to revenge.

If a woman feels raped, you can't convince her otherwise.

why rape ur wife when puna and sex full everywhere I nor they understand..these girls now dont even spare married men o..na so one put breast for my left hand yesterday..I dey tell am say I don marry she dey laff..it didn't work..I made sure she gave me full payment..she give me my full 55k cuz na work I come do for you.dont try this in benin city o..sharp girls go collect your man within 4 weeks..edo girls they vex o..just an advice from a married men..then men way nor they eat if there wife offend them.people nor really get sense I swear

linearity:
All these na English & dictionary, please state a reference from Nigeria criminal or penal code that criminalize or penalize rape within the context of a marriage.

Even the Holy Book in 1 Cor. 7:5 warns against couple abstinence for all reasons except briefly for religious reason…..the Bible even went on to say that… “..so that Satan will not temp you..”

So, any lady or guy denying their partner conjugal rights due to misunderstanding, are self destroying their marriage.

I should provide "reference from Nigeria criminal or penal code that criminalize or penalize rape within the context of a marriage" for you to not rape your wife?

Tell you what. I shall not! May you give birth to beautiful daughters.

linearity:
All these na English & dictionary, please state a reference from Nigeria criminal or penal code that criminalize or penalize rape within the context of a marriage.

Even the Holy Book in 1 Cor. 7:5 warns against couple abstinence for all reasons except briefly for religious reason…..the Bible even went on to say that… “..so that Satan will not temp you..”

So, any lady or guy denying their partner conjugal rights due to misunderstanding, are self destroying their marriage.

God bless thee richly!!!

budaatum:
Yes there is!

Stupid oyibo laws. Abeg make we stop to dey support this white people on marriage matters. They are no standard to follow.
They make difficult laws for men in marriage so that the divorce and family court will continue to make profit outta men.

You think redpill way of life was something out of the blues. The system(laws) and women caused it.

kushme:
Stupid oyibo laws. Abeg make we stop to dey support this white people on marriage matters. They are no standard to follow.
The make difficult laws for men in marriage so that the divorce and family court will continue to make profit outta men.

They make laws demanding you respect your wife because you do not respect your wife. If you respected your wife you would not rape her!