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Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys.

I met this girl few months ago and we started talking, ended up asking her out, we started dating, at that time she told me she was single, honestly me too I was.

Fast forward to somedays back, she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, I was worried, kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack. I was beyond surprised till now I am yet to recover from the shock.

When I asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me, and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now the guy wants them to come back. I saw her chat with the guy, telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she has decided to stick with me because I've shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000%. I treat her like a queen.

Right now i am confused, i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her, i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me. I can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it, i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy.

Guys please constructive criticism are welcomed, please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused.

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys, i met this girl few months ago and we started talking , ended up asking her out, we started dating , at that time she told me she was single , honestly me too i was , fast forward to somedays back , she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, i was worried kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack, i was beyond surprised till now i am yet to recover from the shock, when i asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me , and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now they guy wants them to come back , i saw her chat with the guy , telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she have decided to stick with me because ive shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000% i treat her like a queen , right now i am confused , i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her , i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me i can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it , i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy . guys please constructive criticism are welcomed , please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused . lalasticlala i would be grateful if this gets more audience thanks

I'm sorry I feel no compassion for you.
Woe unto all simps!!!

Keep scrolling, you'll see my advice below.

U see ... This thing called ego and emotional attachment U need to get eliminate it... Now imagine person way no get 5k for account they make U craze ... Bros U dey mad

You aren't his husband yet, all of you are sinners and fornicators, enjoy your sinfulness

That moment when your boo gets a boo.
Mumu be loving upandan.
Redpillers are coming for your head.

No Not this one, keep scrolling!!

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys, i met this girl few months ago and we started talking , ended up asking her out, we started dating , at that time she told me she was single , honestly me too i was , fast forward to somedays back , she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, i was worried kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack, i was beyond surprised till now i am yet to recover from the shock, when i asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me , and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now they guy wants them to come back , i saw her chat with the guy , telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she have decided to stick with me because ive shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000% i treat her like a queen , right now i am confused , i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her , i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me i can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it , i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy . guys please constructive criticism are welcomed , please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused . lalasticlala i would be grateful if this gets more audience thanks

A Simp will always be a Simp despite numerous advices....
OGa fix your mess.................

I go dey hold Cain come this romance section because some boys/men need divine flogging to get sense, see as girls take make this one secound fiddle without stress. Congratulations you are officially a backup boyfriend.

Lol! Your eyes go soon clear.
I no de advise people like this o! Him go still do wetin him want do

What is the opposite of side chick?

So your boo has a boo, so what, you too you are a boo so get a boo too

GoldenJAT:
Lol! Your eyes go soon clear.
I no de advise people like this o! Him go still do wetin him want do

no chief if i wanted to do what i want i wouldn’t come here to seek advice

Tell her to call off her relationship with every other man, tell her you will give her time to do that. Then hold on, watch, with time you will know if you are the chosen one.

*Even your boo getti boo
*Now you no know wetin you go do
*For your mind you go think say na only you be boo
.....Oxlade don madd...
Listen to that jam ..ojuju by Oxlade... download am you go understand wella

Guy...love is complicated..its masked and you can't know what it entails...

Personally, I'm fed up of falling falling and falling in love ..

All dis new generation, underage and immature boys claiming 'grown' have indeed been a huge disgrace to men in this era...

Please forgive her,to hell is yuman,to forget is divine.please buy her lots of gift,show her extra love,if you're still scared of the other guy snatching her from you,pls make plans and move to the state she is.

I would also suggest your giving her monthly allowances say like 60k.And if by any chance she needs upgrading pls buy her a G-wagon.

Wen dem say stay toxic till marriage una no hear

Jobportng that bae belongs to all of us (dude


Don’t be stingy mate

Abeg, na who dey born & train all dis stupid guys?

Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Op you Don cast.. You dey another place the girl dey close to the guy. Op you suppose use your sense take calculate say them dey bleep each other all the time.. She dey use your money dey give the other guy.

If you be my guy I for slap nonsense comot from your head....

jobportng:
Good afternoon guys, so straight to the point guys, i met this girl few months ago and we started talking , ended up asking her out, we started dating , at that time she told me she was single , honestly me too i was , fast forward to somedays back , she came to visit and we were cool and all suddenly she started having mood swings and all, i was worried kept asking what is wrong and she always said nothing, surprisingly someone texted me on whatsapp and was telling me that she was dating her and many other talks, that night i almost had an heart attack, i was beyond surprised till now i am yet to recover from the shock, when i asked her about the guy she first said that she doesn’t have any other person, when she knew it was very serious she then opened up to me , and told me she and the guy had issues and he broke up with her and that now they guy wants them to come back , i saw her chat with the guy , telling the guy she loves him and will never stop loving him bla bla and telling another person that she misses him but she have decided to stick with me because ive shown her so much love that no one has ever done, and honestly i love 10000% i treat her like a queen , right now i am confused , i asked her now what do you want and she said she wants me, but then she still keeps communicating with the guy and the guy is in same state with her while me i'm far away from her , i don’t even know what do i'm so depressed i have never loved like this before and this is what is getting to me i can’t even eat or sleep when i remember all of it , i confused if she wants me really or she’s just considering the fact that i'm wealthy . guys please constructive criticism are welcomed , please i need advice on what to do I’m madly confused . lalasticlala i would be grateful if this gets more audience thanks

bro dont wooorry...I will giv u Pegi23 or that IbrahimSkiba babe for free from nairaland sir... they date anytin...U WANT?? ((THAnk ME LATER))).

Wahala
Immediately I saw she is in another state I know say na better wako you be

Chances are She's not that into you, bruh... could be just for the money, cos you in your words "treat her like a queen"

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

LilMissFavvy:
Tell her to call off her relationship with every other man, tell her you will give her time to do that. Then hold on, watch, with time you will know if you are the chosen one.

omg ,are you for real.those kinda girls can never ,i repeat "can never" ever change.it has been designed in her DNA for her to be a hoe.A hoe will always be a hoe no matter how much you got.

ahnie:
Please forgive her,to hell is yuman,to forget is divine.please buy her lots of gift,show her extra love,if you're still scared of the other guy snatching her from you,pls make plans and move to the state she is.

Either you are his girlfriend or you're into the gold digging business.
your comment wreaks of it

You do not know her, so don't conclude. She might not be having anything intimate with the other man. It's obvious she's still very young and just carried away with the attention men are giving her. Or you want the OP to leave her?

Meek127:
omg ,are you for real.those kinda girls can never ,i repeat "can never" ever change.it has been designed in her DNA for her to be a hoe.A hoe will always be a hoe no matter how much you got.

LilMissFavvy:
Tell her to call off her relationship with every other man, tell her you will give her time to do that. Then hold on, watch, with time you will know if you are the chosen one.

I think love needs to thrive on personal decision for it to stay real, telling her what to do is like compelling/influencing her decision .... its best the guy just tell her he can't be with her if she is double dating, let her know he is redrawing to allow her to make her own decision, after if she comes back to him that clarify the chosen one.
favy remember eric didnt force you to pick him

LilMissFavvy:
You do not know her, so don't conclude. She might not be having anything intimate with the other man. It's obvious she's still very young and just carried away with the attention men are giving her. Or you want the OP to leave her?

I love the way you think and see the good in an already compromised situation.
its a no-brainer really,he should move on

Girls no need soft handling. You will see you as a weakling. The babe will sure hook up with her ex that is in the same state with her. End the relationship with her quietly. Don’t tell her it over, stop spending on her. Look for another babe

CC NwamAipke

Focus on yourself king