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Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by sageb: 2:35pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis: exactly this is the truth, valid at all times. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by elmagnifico411(m): 2:35pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Sincerely, my wife really tried. It's not easy for a man to loose his job oh! I wouldn't say she was disrespectful like that... Though it came with few complains like; u don't care about your looks like u used to, your dressing has dropped, you're always expressionless and sine other kini. I think my mother in-law helped me Sha cos wifey told me her mother was on my side in those trying times.. she once complained to her mom, expecting to get some words on her side, but she scolded her. Told her to stand in for my while the time passes cos when things were rosy she didn't come with any complain. My mother in-law na better woman. 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Havesomesense(m): 2:36pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Rubbiish: True, I should accept in my heart that love is conditional. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Acidosis(m): 2:37pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Rubbiish: The last paragraph implies that merely making money cannot earn you respect as a family man. If your kids catch you cheating on their mother, just forget about respect even if you earn and provide all the money in the world. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Smile4mee01: 2:38pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Havesomesense: The idea of separating was not about love, it was to avoid hating her should I stay and she begins to disrespect me. I don't want to hate her to the point i don't want to see her again. But this is just hypothetical, I have nEver been in that position and I don't want to be. But if I have no other option, I'll take that. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Havesomesense(m): 2:43pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
elmagnifico411:I hope things are better with you financially now? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Acidosis(m): 2:48pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Havesomesense: By showing respect to the wife and kids. Be there for them when they need you; by not being a drunkard that comes home late every night with smelly shirts; have principles (e.g. kids shouldn't see you cheating on their mother or maltreating their mother), other virtues, etc. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Havesomesense(m): 2:49pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis: I don't agree. Back then in secondary school & uni, few of my friends were aware that their father was cheating and it didn't reduce their respect for their dad because their father always paid their school fees and gave them enough allowance. I even didn't mind to have their kind of father. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Havesomesense(m): 2:50pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis: Alright. |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Acidosis(m): 2:55pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Havesomesense: Lol. How do you know they respect their fathers? 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Rubbiish(m): 2:55pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis:Are u a lady? This doesn't tally with the topic under discus at all. What has cheating got to do with staying out of job? So because u are rich, u can kill your wife & the kids will be happy with u? This is not what we are saying, making money is not a license to start hurting your family. We are talking about a man losing his source of income, meaning he will be unable to provide basic necessities as feeding, health, education etc. When a man loses his job, it means the family responsibilities automatically falls on the wife that is if the wife is engaged, so in a situation where the wife is also jobless, how will they cope? How can d kids be happy under such situation? & u are talking about respect? A man shouldn't stay out of job for too long else he will gradually lose his respect in the face of his family & society. God gave Adam a garden before giving him a wife, the society expects a man to be gainfully employed before taking a wife, there is a reason for that, because in marriage, a man will be needing a job. If the unexpected happens as life is full of up & down, a man should try hard not to stay out of job for too long, else he will be referred to as a lazy man unable to cater for his family. Not even u quoting me will respect such a man! 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Acidosis(m): 3:00pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Rubbiish: The fact that many gainfully employed and well to do providing-men don't have the respect of their wives and children is enough to invalidate your assumption. Also, how come some men lose their jobs and still earn respect from their wives, children?? 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Rubbiish(m): 3:03pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis:This is funny! Lol I thought as much u are a lady This is what u call values & will earn a man respect while he is jobless & unable to provide for his family? Chai! Women... 7 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Rubbiish(m): 3:07pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis:What do u want?? A jobless man that stays at home all day & worship his wife, or a gainfully employed man that respect his wife? Are u saying a man should remain jobless just to respect his wife because u feel if he is gainfully employed, he will have a say? This is extremely shocking! What u are describing is a house boy u can control at will & not a husband! |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Acidosis(m): 3:12pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Rubbiish: You never know until you do any of those whilst providing money. Btw, I'm a man. |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Acidosis(m): 3:15pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Rubbiish: Losing one's job as depicted in the topic means remaining jobless forever? 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by MufasaLion: 4:15pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Rubbiish: Even though your moniker belongs to the trashcan but your comment is reasonable. That dude is being hypocritical. Having values and all without money is nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by MufasaLion: 4:17pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Being dependent on a woman (especially those that are married) is one of the worst things a man could experience. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by bukatyne(f): 4:18pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by EmekaBlue(m): 4:30pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Money rules the world |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by OkuFaba(m): 4:30pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
My girl stood by me when I lost my previous job during the pandemic. Main reason I'm marrying her. She's a keeper 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by ivolt: 4:30pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Matheusmartin:There is no "we" in this life we are. Make your choice and let others make theirs. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by BanZna: 4:31pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Ues |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by uthlaw: 4:31pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Obaxxx:this ur banny de give me joy! |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Nobody: 4:31pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Justbehave: Fake lie... Your mum won't love you if you are broke. Nobody will love you. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by dejiih01: 4:31pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Havesomesense: Married for 10 years, I lost my job 3 years into the wedding till now nothing on me. 1,000 looks like a million naira now but we still live happily. It's not going to be like this forever. 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by ivolt: 4:31pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Havesomesense:Being dependent on a person and respecting them are two different things. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Lugianostar(m): 4:32pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Women that are ordain by God will love and still respect you when you lost your job.....! 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by sinola(m): 4:32pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
make no mistakes...no woman will give you respect/love like she used to when you were working and putting food on the table. Argue with you biro 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by uthlaw: 4:32pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Rubbiish:which stupid love instead life! 1 Like |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Joejonah(m): 4:32pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
No one respect a broke man. You need to be up and doing. A man must be a man at all times! 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Think Your Wife Will Respect You If You Lose Your Job / Business by Daniluv1(m): 4:32pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Na with style that love go book and enter Uber leave you like crippled No money no love Even if small love come manage dey respect nor go dey So don't be deceived Even some mothers now dey choose the pikin wey get money as her favorite 2 Likes |
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