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I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by heendrix(m): 8:41pm On Oct 11, 2021
I and her have always been this close buddy since my first day in secondary school and along the line, one thing led to another that she had to leave the school cuz the family relocated to another state. this broke me and I felt sad cuz she was this good gentle girl that always care so much bout me.

After some years, we reconnected on FB and just like a dream how we felt for each other never change. she wasn't forming, we still chat till late night. we later loosed contact and some way life still connected us after a while and we just couldn't hide our feelings for each other that we opened up on how we've always felt Since those JSS 1 days so we got dating and tbh she's just that damsel. never giving trouble, understanding and still her gentle self and now my sis is bout ruining it for us both as her elder brother is actually my sister's fiancee who are expecting to get married next year.

tbh folks I can't cut short this relationship cuz of this. what will happen if two siblings marry from same families?? is it really a taboo?? aswear it's just doing me like a movie anytime I get to think of it. I'm just kinda sad atm what do i do??

PS; We're both final year students of a 5years course in two different uni

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Sonnobax15(m): 8:42pm On Oct 11, 2021
grin
Them wor burn the op cable cheesy

Well, op, there's nothing really bad about it.....At least I don see twin brothers wey marry twin sisters before....

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by DaddyRochie1642: 8:46pm On Oct 11, 2021
If you Know what you want and you're certain of what you want, go for it, if you like, care about what society will say and be miserable.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by heendrix(m): 8:46pm On Oct 11, 2021
Sonnobax15:
grin
Them wor burn the op cable cheesy

Well, op, there's nothing really bad about it.....At least I don see twin brothers wey marry twin sisters before....

Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by dig64: 8:47pm On Oct 11, 2021
There's nothing wrong with it. You're not even related or anything

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Sonnobax15(m): 8:48pm On Oct 11, 2021
heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening at all
grin grin. Op, you're even wicked to even think and had the courage to tell her to look for another guy undecided. For this life wey both husband and wife Material don dey hard to find undecided. Why you wicked? undecided

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by heendrix(m): 8:50pm On Oct 11, 2021
Sonnobax15:
grin grin. Op, you're even wicked to even think and had the courage to tell her to look for another guy undecided. For this life wey both husband and wife Material don dey hard to find undecided. Why you wicked? undecided

Judging with the fact that I knew her first bfr my sis ever dreamt of meeting him. I even regret helping him to talk to my sister then when he used to beg n bribe me

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by arthurwillia(m): 8:54pm On Oct 11, 2021
Don’t worry
Wetin go pursue you go soon come

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by lomprico(m): 8:54pm On Oct 11, 2021
heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

pesin whey u never even dey 50% sure say u go marry naim u tell your sister whey don set to leave her fiancee. you are not a good person at all.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by virginprincess(f): 9:10pm On Oct 11, 2021
Dude you better live that girl alone and face your studies, and allow your sister get married to her brother, it not right for two siblings to marry from the same family.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Palazee(m): 9:16pm On Oct 11, 2021
What the fūck is op trying to say

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Starz825(m): 9:19pm On Oct 11, 2021
heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me
cheesy..how can I stop laughing...you told your sis to find herself another man cheesy cheesy
Can't stop laughing...
..guy..are you related to Mr macaroni ...cos you funny die

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by kingphilip(m): 9:33pm On Oct 11, 2021
heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me
you are very selfish sha.

If she can look for another, you too can. Na the same love wey you love na im she self love.

But I've had twins marrying twins now, what's with the taboo thing?

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by kingphilip(m): 9:35pm On Oct 11, 2021
heendrix:


Judging with the fact that I knew her first bfr my sis ever dreamt of meeting him. I even regret helping him to talk to my sister then when he used to beg n bribe me
so after selling your sister for peanuts then, now you want to spoil everything for her?

If this is not pure wickedness, then it is the undiluted one

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by kingphilip(m): 9:36pm On Oct 11, 2021
virginprincess:
Dude you better live that girl alone and face your studies, and allow your sister get married to her brother, it not right for two siblings to marry from the same family.
I'm in support of the former, him facing his studies but about the later, why do you say so?
Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Fakbrown: 10:01pm On Oct 11, 2021
Op your sister children and your children go resemble sotey you sef go Dae confuse for your own pukin

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Ocholu: 10:08pm On Oct 11, 2021
heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

You be mumu oh! Your sister don hustle, find person wey go marry her and you're telling her to leave it and look for another person?

E be like say you just finished smoking unripe indian hemp.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Ocholu: 10:10pm On Oct 11, 2021
OP let me be real with you;

I feel like giving you wan better nodding. You babe way another person de shine her congo na him you wan stress Nairalanders with irrelevant thread like this?

My advice.
Finish school, hustle well, get the chips. Then go and marry your girl.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by baralatie(m): 10:11pm On Oct 11, 2021
dig64:
There's nothing wrong with it. You're not even related or anything
Abi

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by bodybuilder: 10:33pm On Oct 11, 2021
I no know o
Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by greatfucker: 10:37pm On Oct 11, 2021
My brother u better fulfill yr heart desires girls like yr gf are few ooo
Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by emorse(m): 12:07am On Oct 12, 2021
heendrix:
I and her have always been this close buddy since my first day in secondary school and along the line, one thing led to another that she had to leave the school cuz the family relocated to another state. this broke me and I felt sad cuz she was this good gentle girl that always care so much bout me.

After some years, we reconnected on FB and just like a dream how we felt for each other never change. she wasn't forming, we still chat till late night. we later loosed contact and some way life still connected us after a while and we just couldn't hide our feelings for each other that we opened up on how we've always felt Since those JSS 1 days so we got dating and tbh she's just that damsel. never giving trouble, understanding and still her gentle self and now my sis is bout ruining it for us both as her elder brother is actually my sister's fiancee who are expecting to get married next year.

tbh folks I can't cut short this relationship cuz of this. what will happen if two siblings marry from same families?? is it really a taboo?? aswear it's just doing me like a movie anytime I get to think of it. I'm just kinda sad atm what do i do??

PS; We're both final year students of a 5years course in two different uni

mynd44
lalasticlala
Rocktation
Give am belle!

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Nobody: 12:13am On Oct 12, 2021
This is a dilemma, but I really don't think any of you has to let go of his/her partner. Such event is no longer new, so none should become a victim of circumstance.

I would just advise your people to do well in terms of bride price, so that dem no go open shop for your head, too.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by AfroKnight: 12:13am On Oct 12, 2021
Give her belle fast!

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by AfroKnight: 12:14am On Oct 12, 2021
emorse:

Give am belle!

Damn! You beat me to it. I typed that and scrolled up only to see this comment grin

OP needs to act fast. His sister won’t forgive him though. grin

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Anobella: 12:42am On Oct 12, 2021
heendrix:
I and her have always been this close buddy since my first day in secondary school and along the line, one thing led to another that she had to leave the school cuz the family relocated to another state. this broke me and I felt sad cuz she was this good gentle girl that always care so much bout me.

After some years, we reconnected on FB and just like a dream how we felt for each other never change. she wasn't forming, we still chat till late night. we later loosed contact and some way life still connected us after a while and we just couldn't hide our feelings for each other that we opened up on how we've always felt Since those JSS 1 days so we got dating and tbh she's just that damsel. never giving trouble, understanding and still her gentle self and now my sis is bout ruining it for us both as her elder brother is actually my sister's fiancee who are expecting to get married next year.

tbh folks I can't cut short this relationship cuz of this. what will happen if two siblings marry from same families?? is it really a taboo?? aswear it's just doing me like a movie anytime I get to think of it. I'm just kinda sad atm what do i do??

PS; We're both final year students of a 5years course in two different uni

mynd44
lalasticlala
Rocktation





First why do we always support and pity women.
See how everyone is saying he should leave her for the sister though they might just start running things together as boyfriend and girlfriend but he had know her before the sister met him ...they might be destined together...

If it's a lady in his shoes do you think she will let the bf go especially when he is ok na that time u go know say women mad and wicked....
Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Nobody: 12:50am On Oct 12, 2021
virginprincess:
Dude you better live that girl alone and face your studies, and allow your sister get married to her brother, it's not right for two siblings to marry from the same family.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Nobody: 12:52am On Oct 12, 2021
Ocholu:

I feel like giving you wan better nodding. You babe way another person de shine her congo na him you wan stress Nairalanders with irrelevant thread like this?

How you take know? Besides, OP didn't mention that he's a saint.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by CaveAdullam: 6:52am On Oct 12, 2021
Remove archaic traditional belief system out of your brain. Marrying your sister in law is neither a crime nor taboo. And in as much as the genetic relationship is very far off, you'll give birth to healthy kids if both of you eventually decide to get married in the future. But as for now, free your mind, continue your relationship and don't bother your sister any longer.

By the way, life is unpredictable, the girlfriend whom as a result want you to become an obstacle to your sister's relationship may end up not desiring you any longer in future. How sure are you about her loyalty? Will she cling to you through thick and thin? You need to start refurbishing your brain because it seems you will go extra miles in order to verify your love for this so called girlfriend, and perhaps, end up doing stupid things, after all "love is blind". I know you love her, but be on guard and let not wisdom depart thee.

Thanks.

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Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by heendrix(m): 9:17am On Oct 12, 2021
emorse:
Give am belle!
Same thing I've been thinking but yet we are at our finals atm
Re: I Just Found Out My Girlfriend Is About Becoming My Sister In-law by Lamanii22(f): 9:21am On Oct 12, 2021
heendrix:


Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

Maddo... You even told your sis to look for another guy... Wow.. you truly love this girl ooo... I don't see anything wrong with marrying from the same family though ... She'd be your wife and as well a sister-in-law.. so perfect! I'd love for you to not give up on your love!

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